Evan Simon Cooper

Evan Simon Cooper obituary, Emerson, NJ

Evan Simon Cooper

Evan Cooper Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Dec. 29, 2022 to Jan. 1, 2023.
Evan S. Cooper, 74, passed of natural causes on November 25, 2022. Evan was born in Bridgeport, CT, the eldest of 4 sons of the late Edward and Margaret Cooper. Growing up in NJ, he developed an affinity for music and teaching early on, and earned his bachelor's and master's degrees in music education from Indiana University. Evan met his wife, Claudia, while directing a community production of Oliver! during his tenure as the Band Director at Monroe-Central High School in Farmland, Indiana. Upon completing his formal education in 1975, they moved to New Jersey so that he could accept a job as the Director of Instrumental Music at his former high school, Northern Valley Regional High School at Demarest, a position he held until his retirement in 1997.

Evan excelled at nearly everything he tried ... except retirement. During "retirement," he became the Supervisor of Related Arts at NVRHS Demarest and NVRHS Old Tappan from 1997-2008, the Conductor and Music Director of the Teaneck Community Band from 1998-2022, the Festival Coordinator of the North Jersey Band Festival Association from 2004-2022, and the Administrator of the Bergen County Teen Arts Festival from 2010-2019. In 2011, he was awarded the New Jersey Music Educators Association Distinguished Leadership and Service Award, and in 2013, he was honored to have been chosen to conduct the All Bergen County Band at their 50th Anniversary Concert. Most recently, in 2020, he became an Adjunct Professor of Music Education at New Jersey City University, passing on a lifetime of experience, expertise, and wisdom to young adults who will be tasked with educating the next generation. The common thread throughout his illustrious career was Evan's passion for teaching young people, his love of music, and his belief that music could and should be transformative.

Evan's love of music was rivaled only by his love for his wife, Claudia. She was an integral part of his decades-long career, and in their free time they enjoyed visiting with family, working on their "Dream House" in Emerson, and traveling. Evan was predeceased by his beloved Claudia, who passed in 2017, as well as by his mother and father. He is survived by his daughter, Racquel Cooper, son Trevor (Kasey) Cooper, brothers Rawley (Cathy), Topher (Beth) and Corey (Samantha) Cooper, and 4 grandchildren.

A Celebration of Life will take place in Spring 2023, at a time and place to be determined by the family. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Evan and Claudia Cooper Memorial Award for Service. Checks should be made out to Northern Valley Regional High School, with a notation of "Cooper Memorial Award" in the memo field, and can be mailed to: Mr. Jonathan Harris, In care of Northern Valley Regional HS, 150 Knickerbocker Road, Demarest, NJ 07627.

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Thank you Mr. Cooper for the wonderful memories!

Yuri

July 23, 2025

My sincere condolences to the Cooper family. Mr. Cooper was a wonderful music instructor. I have fond memories of my years performing on the football field in the marching band, performing in the Jazz ensemble and going to concert band competition in Montreal. Thank you Mr. Cooper may you rest in peace.

Manuel "Manny" Valencia

October 18, 2024

Wow! This is a real surprise to me of his and his wife's passing. I was in his marching and concert band from 1986-87. My first thoughts of him were a bit scary and intimidating at first. However, as I got to know him, I knew him as fair and dedicated to his work and students. I liked him towards the end, and I saw him again around 2001-2002, during a visit to NVD with a friend and one of his band members from NVD. At that time, I vaguely remembered me because at that time, I was obviously older with glasses. He seemed a bit more quiet, but was still friendly. I also found out that he was on the administrative side. Thank you very much Mr. Cooper for the memeries and your lessons.

Manuel "Manny" Valencia

October 18, 2024

I think that photo was one of his younger photos. The Mr. Cooper (Band Director) I knew had glasses (definitely no disrespect to him). He was a strict, but fair teacher. I was kind of scared of him, but I learned many lessons from him, including keeping focused on detail and playing and working with a dedicated team. I was a 2nd year high school student at the time, but looking back, I would have wanted him as my music instruction and mentor again. Thank you Mr. Cooper for the memeories. Manny!

John

May 28, 2024

It's 2024, and I'm just finding out about this. And I didn't know that his wife passed in 2017. Damn. I was a member of his band from 1982-1986. I hope he remembered me as fondly as I remember him.

John

May 28, 2024

Well, it's 2024, and I'm just finding out about this. Damn. And I didn't know about his wife passing away in 2017. I was a member of his band from 1982-1986. I hope he remembered me as fondly as I remember him.

Tracy Miceli

January 3, 2023

My thoughts and prayers to the Cooper Family. Over the course of his career and retirement Evan taught the joy of music and the arts to thousands of Bergen County youth. We started as colleagues who became friends along the way. No doubt he is enjoying heaven's music with his beloved Claudia.
God Speed Evan. You will be missed.

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