Evelyn Grace Stewart

Evelyn Grace Stewart obituary, Gloucester, MA

Evelyn Grace Stewart

Evelyn Stewart Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 26, 2024.
Evelyn "Evy" Grace Stewart (Stockton), 81, died unexpectedly at her home on July 17, 2024. Evy was a longtime resident of Annisquam, Massachusetts. She very much loved the community and the home she made there. Evy was born September 30, 1942, the eldest daughter of Elizabeth Farley Stockton and Charles Head Stockton. The family eventually grew to include four other siblings, elder brother Phillip and three younger sisters, Elizabeth, Nina, and Mary. Her childhood home was a beautiful apple farm in Sherborn, Massachusetts, where she grew up surrounded by nature, family, friends, and animals. Her family spent many summers on Martha's Vineyard, a place her parents eventually moved. The Vineyard became, and has remained, a special place both for her and her siblings. As their families grew it was the same delightful island for the next generation. Evy's childhood with her brother and three sisters can only be described as a bit naughty and frequently exciting, to which a string of babysitters and nannies could attest. There are many stories of the Stockton children's exploits. These stories have been told and retold around the table until they've become family legend. Evy was a great curator of both the family history and of the many stories that inform it. When these tales are told, there is always laughter and a new detail revealed. Evy's laughter often interrupted a good family yarn and preceded a detail she was recalling. It was sort of a funny foreshadowing and the mark of a good story.

Evy attended the Charles River School in her early years, followed by The Winsor School, then on to the Madeira School in Virginia. In 1965 she graduated from Wheaton College in Norton, Massachusetts. At all these schools she made bonds of friendship and love that lasted throughout her years. After graduating from college, she began work with the Theatre Company of Boston, and later with the Rockport Playhouse. Evy enjoyed, supported, and participated in theatre and the arts her entire life. She was introduced to both Cape Ann and to her future husband, Geoffrey H. Richon, while working with the Theatre Company of Boston. After their marriage in 1966, the young couple moved to Essex, Massachusetts, where they began a family. They had two sons, Nicholas and a few years later, Tobias. Their home in Essex was surrounded by woods, fields, ponds, and of course, filled with many animals they all adored. There were other children too, with many nieces and nephews frequently running about. Evy's family remained closely connected, all lived nearby, and had children of their own. A pack of these cousins was common and keenly attuned to the family tradition of naughtiness and mischief.

During this time, while her boys grew, Evy was also busy developing her abundant creativity and artistic talent. She worked in ceramics, with paints, and created sculpture using both. She spent years actively involved with the Radcliffe Pottery Studio in Cambridge all the while building a studio of her own at home. Both of her boys remember trips to the busy city of Cambridge, tagging along with their mom. She remained connected to Radcliffe long after her own space at home was completed, as, like at school and in life, she had made bonds and friendships that endure.

Evy loved her family immensely and maybe equally her friends and her community. She was almost always the host of gatherings whether for holidays or for the ones that happened for no reason at all. They were wonderful times and there was often room made to seat eighteen even though the table only sat twelve and had been set just for eight. There was always room at Evy's table. The most traditional gathering was on Christmas Eve which was attended and eagerly anticipated by a whole generation of cousins and friends. Santa himself made it a regular stop on his travels for many years, at least until the children were all college aged. His attendance speaks volumes to the warmth and the quality of those nights.

In 1995 Evy moved from Essex to Gloucester. The village of Annisquam welcomed her, and she quickly made her home there. She brought her creativity, her pottery, all her art, and most importantly, her true generosity of spirit and laughter. She was an active member of the Annisquam Village Church, sang in the church choir, and for many years performed with the Annisquam Village Players. Evy was also a longtime member of Chorus North Shore. She made deep connections with and within all these communities. She loved them deeply and contributed much with her time, her artistic talents, her song, and with her friendship. Evy had many dear friends and will be missed acutely by them all.

Evy was pre-deceased by both her parents, her brother Philip Stockton, sister Nina Stockton, granddaughter Anna G. Jelmberg and many much-loved pets. Evy is survived by her sisters Elizabeth Otis and Mary Mosley, former husband Geoffrey H. Richon, son Nicholas H. Richon and his wife Carol Hong Richon, their children Jaita, Navjeet, and Otto, son Tobias S. Richon and his partner Toshi J. Jelmberg, numerous nieces and nephews, and, of course, her dog Teo. Evy also leaves behind numerous friends and her community. All are saddened by her passing and will mourn this loss but also celebrate her life and the love she offered. Evy's long standing practice of meditation weaves together many of the threads of her time here. Those moments she took for herself, for calm, are the moments she would most want to share with us now.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating in Evelyn's name to The Annisquam Village Church, The Annisquam Village Players, or The Cape Ann Animal Aid.

Details for a service and celebration of Evy's life to follow.

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July 28, 2024

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Shankari Shapiro

July 28, 2024

Remembering & honoring a dear Friend and fellow traveler.

The news of a dear friend´s passing is never easy to bear. Last week, I heard that my cherished friend and fellow spiritual traveler, Evelyn Stewart, had completed her journey on this earth.

The moment I read the news, it wasn´t tears that first came to me. As strange as this might sound to some, a smile appeared on my face and joy filled my heart. This is the feeling I would get every time I spent time with Evy or heard her name in a circle of friends.

Evy and I shared the love and passion for the great teachings and practices of yoga. We shared the same teacher from India and had a deep connection on this sacred path. Evy was not only a beautiful friend but also a great support and strong presence at Ananda Shanti Yoga Studio & Wellness Center, which I owned for over 25years. Evy was a big part of the community and would often play the harmonium in the Ananda Shanti Kirtan Band, where we would hold monthly chants and meditation sessions for many. I loved when she would play because she put her whole heart and deep devotion into the music.

Evy was a pillar of strength and comfort to me, especially during times when I felt overwhelmed and perhaps misjudged while holding the sacred space for so many over the years, wearing many hats. There were so many precious moments I had with her, but one day sticks out for me. I shared my heavy heart that I was experiencing at the studio. She sat there so attentive to my situation and then looked at me with that gleeful smile and said, "Shankari, just chant... share the bliss of the mantra. You are stirring things up for people, and that´s what they need. Let the power of the chant do the work!" Then she would laugh with such joy, it was infectious and would clear anyone´s heart. She taught me the lesson of detachment. Her wisdom and love were endless.

I considered her a true friend and deep soul sister. I am so grateful she was in my path for so many years. She will be missed by so many but will remain in the hearts of all those she touched.

As Evelyn embarks on her journey into the Light of God, I send her my love, respect, and gratitude. I also send her beautiful family and friends love during this time.

As Ram Das so lovingly said, " We are all just walking each other home."

And I´m sure those tears will come soon.

Om NAMAH SHIVAYA

Love, Shankari

Roberta Wilmore

July 27, 2024

Evy reminded me every time I saw her of a dinner we had together at the Azorian in Gloucester where for sone reason I tried to eat my shrimp with the shell still on . She laughed for a full 15 minutes through out the meal, and for years after. "Remember when..." she would say! She was and will always be one of my favorite women in the whole wide world. Generous, kind, playful, creative, curious, fun loving, bossy, gentle and loving are the words that come to me when I think of her. There are important things I learned from Evy that I might not have cared about any where else. Love to you Evy.
Roberta

Melissa Abbott ( Smith)

July 27, 2024

I have known her since I was 15 years old when she came to Rockport and was working at the Rockport Playhouse. This was before she married Jeff. She was a family friend in the 1960´s milieu of Cape Ann Bohemia which included lots of Folk Music annd Dancing, plays and parties. later in the 1980´s she became a close spiritual friend, confidant, and fellow spiritual seeker when she had a weekly meditation group at her home. . She was an incredibly supportive friend in my spiritual path which was Siddha Yoga Meditation. Since circa 1987 when I got introduced to Gurumayi Chidvilasananda. In 1988, I went for a month to the South Fallsburg Meditation Ashram in NY to do meditation and service, and while I was there, Evy sent me a card and a $20 bill (for the Coffee Shop). She was the kind of friend you could discuss anything with, and she had this beautiful outlook. My children took summer pottery lessons from her in her Essex studio and I still have a bowl they made and I also treasure a beautiful Mermaid and Metman Blue bowl made by Evy which I purchased from her when she had a show on Rocky Neck. When I got married in 2005, she came and helped me set up the venue and gave me a funny bride cap with a veil.
She loved that I wrote a book last year called "Tara Illuminated The Mandala of the 21 Tara´s "and was doing the Buddhist Tara practices, and she was so interested and loving and came to every one of the 9 Study Groups I had for the book in the last year. It was wonderful to have this time with her. I am sad that she didn´t come to the #10 Tara group because she would have loved it and connected with the laughing Tara. We sure did a lot of laughing over the years together. We laughed so hard when I chanted the a certain ancient Hindu Chant called the Rudram into the Tomato soup (in her Essex Kitchen) at a Ram Butler Meditation Workshop, and the energy got crazy. Even though the inner processes were burning, Evy could always see the funny side.
I was glad I got to go to lunch with her and Margaret when Margaret visited in April 2024. Here is a photo from then.
. I wish her the best in her journey , and she is swirling in my heart. I ask you, please think of Evy and Wish her safe passage and love. She was and is the best of the best. A dear friend for over 55 years. Much love, Melissa ( Smith ) Abbott East Gloucester, MA
Photo Melissa Abbott, Evy Stewart, Margaret Peloquin April 2024 Back Shore Gloucester, Ma

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