F. ROBERT "BOB" DAX

F. ROBERT "BOB" DAX obituary, Pittsburgh, PA

F. ROBERT "BOB" DAX

F. DAX Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from May 9 to May 11, 2017.
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F. ROBERT "BOB"
Age 67, of Pittsburgh, formerly of Sewickley, died at home on Friday, May 5, 2017. Growing up in Sewickley, Bob had an early aptitude for math, earning a BS in Metallurgical Engineering and ME in Materials Science from Carnegie Mellon, then completing all classwork toward a Ph.D. in Mechanical and Aerospace Engineering at West Virginia University. While a student at CMU, Bob developed his volleyball skills as a 3-time MVP in club volleyball, later traveling for semi-pro volleyball teams and competing in beach volleyball tournaments. Bob ran two marathons, including the 1st Pittsburgh Marathon in 1985. In future years he formed a passion for long-distance cycling, Sudoku puzzles and cerebral computer games. He also enjoyed yearly Myrtle Beach golf trips with fraternity brothers, and bonding with his Corgi, Toby. Bob's career took him to positions with US Steel Corp., ESM, Inc., Value Engineering Laboratory (Alexandria, VA), Caterpillar Tractor Corp. (Peoria, IL), Colt Industries/Crucible Research Center, and Cytemp Specialty Steel. While at Crucible, his team was awarded a patent for a cobalt-free high-speed steel, later selected as an IR-100 award winner for 1981. In 1992, Bob joined Concurrent Technologies Corporation (CTC), spending the next 20 years in management and project development. Many of his projects involved applications for military and industry. Bob contributed to more than 50 articles and gave numerous technical talks, including a presentation at the World Conference on Titanium in Kyoto, Japan. With Pittsburgh as the hub for metal production, Bob was on the executive committee of the Golden Triangle Chapter of the American Society for Metals (ASM), served as chapter president in 1991, and was elected an ASM International Fellow in 2009. For 35 years, Bob spent weekends renovating and managing rental properties, becoming quite a handyman. During the 1980's, he served Pittsburgh Realty Operators and Proprietors (PROPS) as president and mastered the challenges of being a landlord. Bob was the son of the late Frank Andrew Dax and Dorothy Goffus Dax; husband to Kathy Sabec Dax; father to Frank Ryan (Eunice) and Stephanie (Sara); and brother to Barbara Schmidt, Brian Dax and Patricia Schauble. At CMU Bob began a lifetime of involvement in the Sigma Alpha Epsilon (SAE) fraternity. From 2008-2015, as Alumni Advisor to the CMU chapter, he mentored countless "True Gentlemen." Bob's efforts were recognized by SAE fraternity's national headquarters (Order of Minerva award), and by Carnegie Mellon with an Alumni Distinguished Service Award in 2014. After Bob was diagnosed with Lou Gehrig's disease (ALS) in January 2014, SAE dedicated their annual Donut Dash fundraiser to raise money for LiveLikeLou, a fund of the Pittsburgh Foundation which helps Western PA families affected by the disease and supports local ALS research. For the past three years, Donut Dash has set fundraising records for any single fraternity event, uniting administrators from both Carnegie Mellon and Pitt. Bob will be fondly remembered on Oct. 1, 2017, at the upcoming SAE/CMU Donut Dash in Oakland's Schenley Plaza. And, his legacy lives on at the LiveLikeLou Center for ALS Research, where a recently acquired Nikon Confocal A1R Microscope was named in Bob's honor-"the DAX". Friends will be received at the JOHN F. SLATER FUNERAL HOME, INC., 412-881-4100, 4201 Brownsville Road, Brentwood 15227, Wednesday, May 10, 2017, from 5-8 p.m. and Thursday, May 11, 2017, from 2-4 and 6-8 p.m. Mass of Christian Burial in St. Mary of the Mount Church on Friday, May 12, 2017, at 10:00 a.m. Everyone please meet at church. Memorial contributions may be made for ALS research at www.LiveLikeLou.org/donate, or checks payable to University of Pittsburgh (memo: "Live Like Lou ALS Research in Memory of Bob Dax"): Medical & Health Sciences Foundation, University of Pittsburgh, 3600 Forbes Avenue, Ste. 8084, Pittsburgh, PA 15213. Also, memorial contributions may be directed to the ALS Western PA Chapter, at 416 Lincoln Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA 15209. Please send condolences to www.johnfslater.com.

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July 3, 2017

David Noroski posted to the memorial.

May 15, 2017

Stephen Fyfitch posted to the memorial.

May 13, 2017

Walter Helfrecht posted to the memorial.

David Noroski

July 3, 2017

Dear Kathy, Ryan and Stephanie,

A former classmate at Munhall High School ('71) informed me of Bob's passing, and i am very sorry to hear this news.

The reading of his obituary is quite extraordinary; he lived an impressive and fulfilling life.
God rest his soul.

Stephen Fyfitch

May 15, 2017

To Bob's Family,

I am a member of the local ASM International Chapter and knew Bob from both the Executive Committee (where he served as the long-standing Secretary) and also as one of the Chapter Chair's that Bob helped to guide. He was always very supportive and friendly with everyone on the committee. His knowledge and years with ASM have certainly been missed. I will always remember the last time I met Bob and his wife a few years ago at the Pittsburgh Airport, when they were leaving for a world-wide tour. They both seemed quite happy to making the trip. I am sure they really enjoyed it. I am sorry to hear that he has passed and my best wishes to his family.

Steve Fyfitch

Walter Helfrecht

May 13, 2017

Dear Kathy, Ryan, and Stephanie,

I only met Bob once just after this past Thanksgiving. Bill Mayo had made some goodies and we visited for an afternoon. While most of the conversation was with Kathy, I know that Bob appreciated having a couple of other folks stop in if all they could do was just "be there."

In times such as these, I find that music is the best expression of feelings and emotions.

Being one with an aptitude for math, I'm sure that Bob would have appreciated that both it and music are allied in a big way. Not only that, but both then lend to poetry, such as found in the selection below:

https://youtu.be/9Pd87P7rN08
The Lost Chord
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Music by Sir Arthur Sullivan;
words by Adelaide Anne Proctor
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Seated one day at the organ, I was weary and ill at ease,
And my fingers wander'd idly over the noisy keys;
I knew not what I was playing, or what I was dreaming then,
But I struck one chord of music like the sound of a great Amen.

It flooded the crimson twilight like the close of an Angel's Psalm,
And it lay on my fever'd spirit with a touch of infinite calm.
It quieted pain and sorrow like love overcoming strife,
It seem'd the harmonious echo from our discordant life.

It link'd all perplexed meanings into one perfect peace
And trembled away into silence as if it were loath to cease;
I have sought, but I seek it vainly, that one lost chord divine,
Which came from the soul of the organ and enter'd into mine.

It may be that Death's bright Angel will speak in that chord again;
It may be that only in Heav'n I shall hear that grand Amen!

And now, "The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make His face to shine upon you and be gracious unto you; the Lord lift His countenance upon you and give you His peace." Amen.

Rhonda Shaffer

May 12, 2017

Dear Kathy, Ryan and Stephanie,
It is with great sadness that I learned of your husband and father's passing. He left quite a legacy to his family and friends. I still remember the beautiful wedding as if it were yesterday. God Bless and remember all of the good things as you grieve your loss.

May 11, 2017

Bob was supremely loyal to everybody with whom he worked. I had the good fortune to have his help in running the local chapter of ASM International, i.e. the metallurgists club in Pittsburgh. For the longest time he was our collective memory as Secretary while the rest of us served our 1 year terms! As others have commented, he was very agreeable and I'm really sorry that he's no longer with us. Best wishes to his family.
Tony Rollett
Carnegie Mellon Univ.

Bill Glenn

May 11, 2017

My sympathy to you and your family Kathy, I wish I could have known Bob longer, he was such a kind and gentle man, we had much in common...besides ALS.

Bill Jansen

May 10, 2017

Dear Kathy.
Our sympathy to you and your family on the death of your husband.
May he rest in the peace of Christ.
Bill and Mary Alice Jansen
Matthews International

Vijay Chandhok

May 10, 2017

Very Sad to hear about Bob Dax we worked together at Crucible Research for many years, Condolences to the family

c t

May 10, 2017

Please find comfort from God's word during this time. Psalms 145:18,19

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