Felix Abutal Valde

1937 - 2012

Felix Abutal Valde obituary, 1937-2012, Oxnard, CA

Felix Abutal Valde

1937 - 2012

BORN

1937

DIED

2012

Felix Valde Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Mar. 29 to Apr. 1, 2012.

It is with sadness that we announce the passing of a loving and devoted husband, father and grandfather and our hero and inspiration, Felix A. Valde Sr on March 19, 2012 in Sinait, llocos Sur, Philippines where he lived his retirement dream.

Dr. Felix Valde was born on January 14, 1937 in Lucban, Quezon, Philippines son of Lorenzo and Simeona Valde. Felix worked his way through high school and dental school earning a DMD degree from Phillippine Dental College. He married his dental school classmate and sweetheart, Gloria Dayoan in 1963 and raised three children.

Dr. Valde immigrated to the United States in 1968 first settling in Chicago, Ill. His young family followed in 1969. The California sun and the chance to practice dentistry lured the family to move to Los Angeles, CA in 1971. Dr. Valde maintained a dental practice in Oxnard, CA but also practices with his wife in Hollywood, CA before retiring in 2001.

Dr. Valde was active in numerous philanthropic organizations as Optimist International, the Rotary Club and held numerous leadership roles in several Filipino dental organizations. After retirement Dr. Valde could not relax and live a retirees' life, so with his wife built Dayvee Resort and Hotel in Sinait, llocos Sur, Philippines. Although Sinait is not his hometown, Dr. Felix managed to learn the dialect of the province and was respected by many of the town's political officers and citizens. Sinait took him in as one of her own sons.

Always with a smile on his face he loved life. Considering the impoverished childhood he was born into he achieved many goals and eared many accomplishments. A dentist by profession, his hobbies included photography and remodeling. What made him the life of any party were his jokes and his singing. He definitely enjoyed the blessings bestowed upon him.

Dr. Felix Valde will be interred at Holy Cross Cemetery in Culver City, CA. The funeral mass will be held on Wednesday, April 4, 2012 at 11 a.m.

Dr. Felix Valde is survived by his wife, Gloria, children, Jane, Julia Ann, and Felix, son-in-law Alex, daughter-in-law Florezel, grandchildren Zachary and Joshua, sisters, Amada Santos and Ching Valde.

In lieu of flowers please donate to the Norberto Doyoan Memorial Scholastic Merit Award and Dr. Felix A. Valde Teacher of Merit Award. These awards are given to outstanding students and teachers at the Sinait National High School, Sinait, llocos Sur, Philippines. You can mail your donations to 1640 Wildwood Dr., Los Angeles, CA 90041.

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April 2, 2012

Robert Santos posted to the memorial.

April 1, 2012

Becky Arrocena Schneider posted to the memorial.

April 1, 2012

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Robert Santos

April 2, 2012

to auntie gloria and family,

"Words cannot describe who Uncle totoy was. And so words also cannot describe the loss we are all feeling now." "My condolences"

Becky Arrocena Schneider

April 1, 2012

Dear Auntie Gloria and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God's love comfort you during this difficult time. I had wonderful memories with Uncle Totoy while he was here in Oxnard.

Sherijo Perdomo

April 1, 2012

Dr. Julie and family,
Sorry for you loss.

maria victoria santos

March 30, 2012

to auntie gloria and family,
It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth -- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up, we will then begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had. condolence.

maria victoria santos

March 30, 2012

to auntie gloria and family,
It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth -- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up, we will then begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had.

DAYVEE SHOOTERS CLUB, INC.

March 30, 2012

Farewell Doc thank you for all the things that you've done for us for being friend and father to us too. You will always be remembered

Levy Dayoan Yere

March 30, 2012

To Auntie Gloria and family...my deepest symphathy along with my sons, Brandon and Josh.

Jeanne Zherluck Zapata

March 29, 2012

my prayers...

Jo Ann Banaria- Cruz

March 29, 2012

Sinait has lost an unselfish adopted son. Lucban has lost an honorable son. Altogether, his wife, children and grandchildren has lost a loving and caring man. Uncle Totoy will truly be missed. Our deepest condolences to the family and our prayers go out to you. We love you - The Banaria and Cruz family.

colleen hart

March 29, 2012

Forever Bright-C&P

Art/Edna Yere Orpilla

March 28, 2012

Our deepest sympathy to the family. May the Lord give you courage and peace. RIP uncle.

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