Ford Lee

Ford Lee obituary, San Francisco, CA

Ford Lee

Ford Lee Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 3, 2024.
Ford Lee was born on December 3, 1931, at the Chinese Hospital in Chinatown in San Francisco. He passed away peacefully on Monday, April 29th, 2024. He left a lasting legacy.

Ford was the fourth of six children of Lim Guey Him and Wong May Lin, and he grew up in Chinatown, attending Commerce High and the University of California at Berkeley. He met Patricia Leong while attending youth group and choir at the True Sunshine Episcopal Church, and they married in 1954. Ford and Pat would be lifelong partners. This year would have been their 70th anniversary. They had four boys over the first eight years: Gary, Keith, Mark and Brant.

Ford had an optimistic outlook on life, and an adventuresome spirit. After college he worked as an electrical engineer for the U.S. Navy, and In 1965, with four young boys in tow, the family moved to Madrid, Spain, where they stayed for three years. Their fifth child, Karina, was born in Spain on Three Kings Day. During the summers they would travel by car throughout Europe, often bringing along friends and relatives who would join them.

The Chinatown YMCA was a lifelong cause for Ford. In 1950, as a graduating member of the Atlas high school club, he joined with others from two other Y high school clubs to form a young men's service group, Alpha RAM Omega, or the AROs. The AROs were the backbone of community support for the Y for many decades. They raised funds, they volunteered to organize and staff events, they brought their young children to family swim nights and later sent them to the Chinatown Y's unique volunteer-run summer camp; the same camp that he attended in 1946. Ford joined the Y's Board of Managers in 1977 and stepped off 45 years later, in 2022. He started cooking at Res Camp in 1988, and continued as Camp Cook for 30 years, until 2018. In 1996 he was named the Humanitarian of the Year, the broader San Francisco YMCA's designation for their top community volunteer. His daughter Kari started working for the YMCA in 1996, and became Executive Director in 2005.

After retiring from the Navy in 1987, Ford went to San Francisco State University to earn his teaching credential in math. In 1988 he began teaching at Francisco Middle School-from which he had graduated in 1947-and he said it was the toughest job he ever had, and very rewarding.

In 1990, he left teaching to support the Y's building project full-time. Over the next two decades he served as Project Committee Chair, among other roles. After many stalls and twists and turns, the community eventually raised $12.5 million. The newly renovated Chinatown YMCA building opened in 2010. It was his crowning achievement. In 2011, on the occasion of the Chinatown Y's 100-year anniversary, Ford co-wrote and edited a book detailing Chinatown Y's history.

Together with Pat, Ford loved to travel. With various friends and relatives, they ventured to many far-flung destinations, including Russia, Turkey, Hungary, Egypt, Vietnam, and Tibet. Even into his eighties, he was still bringing grandchildren along on international trips to see new things.

Ford enjoyed playing cards. For many years, Ford was a regular at the bridge club. Later, he was a Liverpool Rummy champion, and it was not unusual for him to win four out of the seven rounds in that game, with five or six other players trying their best.

Ford was also a beloved brother, father, grandfather, and uncle. He was a reliable resource if you wanted a compassionate response and a truly generous heart. He loved playing with and caring for babies, children, and grandchildren and poured his heart and soul into cooking for youth and families at the Y for every occasion.

Ford is survived by his wife Pat, his sister Flora, his children Gary, Keith, Mark, Brant, and Kari, his grandchildren Matthew, Darren, Shea, Kerry, Taran, Keana, and Kailer, and many in-laws, nieces, nephews, cousins, and dear friends who remember him well.

A Celebration of Life will be held at the Chinatown Y, 855 Sacramento Street in San Francisco, on Friday June 7, 2024, at 1:00-3:00 pm. Casual Dress. Please wear your favorite Warriors, Cal, or YMCA attire.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Chinatown YMCA in Ford Lee's honor: https://www.ymcasf.org/memory-ford-lee

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April 29, 2025

Albert Lee posted to the memorial.

June 7, 2024

Andrew Yee planted trees.

June 7, 2024

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Albert Lee

April 29, 2025

Re-reading Ford Lee's biography reminds us of how important the great social institutions are which survive through the times such as the one we are currently experiencing. Long live Mr. Lee's legacy and his wonderful love for the things that mattered to him.
Belinda+Albert April 29, 2025

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Andrew Yee

June 7, 2024

Uncle Ford as he was know to many of the campference folks . He left a lasting impression of selfless service and responsibility to the community. A guiding hand whose legacy and influence is seen and echoed through the actions of the people and kids he´s help through the decades .

belinda+albert

June 4, 2024

We never met him, but reading and learning about Mister Ford Lee moves us deeply. May his lasting memory continue to inspire the society he served so devotedly and passionately. God bless his loving family. belinda+albert

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Arnold Pon

May 14, 2024

Sorry for the loss, I fondly remember Ford and I getting our White Rags together at Y-Camp. I was 21 and he was retired I believe, he took a break from working in kitchen to be there.

Jeff Kan Lee

May 9, 2024

Jeff Kan Lee

May 9, 2024

Jeff Kan Lee

May 9, 2024

Thankful for the opportunity to work and learn from him in the Chinese Whispers oral history project.

Raymond Ong

May 7, 2024

Enjoyed listening to his life's experiences.

Corinne Fong Venit

May 7, 2024

My first memory of Ford is that he would carry me piggy back up the hills of San Francisco from True Sunshine Church to Pat's house on Leavenworth St. Years later as a teen, I baby sat for Ford and Pat. As they were family friends, I wasn't allowed to take money but Ford insisted, even having to once chase me to pay me the dollar or so for babysitting Gary and Keith. In 1966, on my first trip to Europe, my friend and I stayed with Ford and Pat in Madrid. Ford is remembered as a generous, loving, unselfish and kind person.with a sometimes wry sense of humor. We lost contact with Pat and Ford but he is definitely remembered for his infectious smile and positive approach to life.

Nancy Morais

May 6, 2024

I joined the Chinatown YMCA in 1989. I knew Peter Chong because I worked with his wife Sally. I quickly became a member of the Health & Fitness Committee, headed by Richard Pon. I met Ford at this time. He was always willing to advise, help and be the best reference. He's also a person that I admired and appreciated. People like Ford Lee are what makes the world a beautiful place. My sincere sympathies to The Lee family and everyone who was lucky enough to know him.

Sandy Lee

May 6, 2024

Ford is genuine, sincere, kind, generous, selfless and caring. There are not that many Fords in this world. If there were this world would be a much better place. I am very lucky to have met someone like Ford. He has a heart of gold, a magnificent gentleman! Thank you for everything you've done for so many! Ford will truly, truly be missed! Love and Peace to Pat and the entire family with my deepest condolences. Sandy Lee

Courtney Wheelock

May 6, 2024

My first memory of Ford was around the Chinatown YMCA's swim team. I was a new director there at the time and was trying to start a swim team. Ford had a love for swimming & immediately wanted to help make that happen. He helped with donations, fundraising, cooking team meals, volunteering time for swim-a-thons, and overall creating the community that team ended up having. I am forever grateful for Ford and his involvement/love for that team & branch.

Larry Pang

May 6, 2024

"Uncle" Ford always treated us as family whenever we were with him, at Tahoe or in the City.
Our condolences to Auntie Pat, Gary, Keith, Mark, Brant, and Kari.

Gary Lee

May 5, 2024

Getting to travel to different countries at age 10

Brian Johe

May 5, 2024

The years I spent under the guidance of Ford while serving on the Board of Managers will always be cherished, for it was he who encouraged me to join and bring whatever energy and love I could muster (that were instilled in me while growing up through the Chinatown Y youth clubs and residence camp programs,) to the Board.

I remember the year I drove down from Alaska to help out in the kitchen at Y-Camp. The moment he saw my infant son he just took him and hugged him and sat down in the shade and said to me "Okay I got him, you go work in the kitchen..." He was clearly Grandpa Ford to a lot of kids!

I pulled one of my photos that I hope he and the family would appreciate. The Deception Pass Bridge taken at sunset very near my son´s current base at Naval Air Station Whidbey Island, where ironically, he serves as an electrician. So ironic how things come full circle.

RIP Ford, and my deepest condolences and love to the entire family.

Rhonda Toy

May 4, 2024

Having Uncle Ford walk me down at my wedding.

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