Frank M. Costa Jr.

1931 - 2023

Frank M. Costa Jr. obituary, 1931-2023, Groton, CT

Frank M. Costa Jr.

1931 - 2023

BORN

1931

DIED

2023

Frank Costa Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 5, 2023.
Groton - Frank M. Costa Jr., 91, of Groton, formerly of North Stonington, passed away peacefully with family by his side Feb. 26, 2023. Frank was born Dec. 7, 1931, to Frank M. and Ada (Westgate) Costa in Marion, Mass. He was the husband of Dorothy D. (Smith) Costa. They recently celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary.

He was a U.S. Navy veteran, serving two years in the Navy Honor Guard in Washington, D.C. and aboard APB, USS Benewah during the Korean War and the fleet tug Nipmuck. He worked for 34 years at General Dynamics Electric Boat, Groton.

You may have recognized him in his 1954 Ford truck "Ruby." Frank graduated from Bryant College in 1952, and was a member of Groton Toastmasters. He also taught AARP safe driving courses for 16 years. He and his wife Dotty were members of many square dancing clubs including Surf Side 8; and traveled all over the world together. Frank was a master carpenter and woodcarver and also truly enjoyed his time boating and fishing out on the water.

Frank is survived by his loving wife Dorothy; his sister Eleanor Mello of South Dartmouth, Mass.; granddaughters, Koren (Joel) Jopson of Pawcatuck, and Shelley (Ben) Steendam of Gales Ferry; and six great-grandchildren: Zachary (Sara) Moran, Morgan Steendam, Alyssa Steendam, Renae Allen, Kaylei Allen and Joshua Jopson. Frank was predeceased by his beloved only child, Linda J. Tirrell in 2010.

To honor Frank's wishes, there will not be any services held. Frank's ashes will be spread at a later date on the Long Island Sound, as he wished to spend eternity at a place he loved - The Sea. d010

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February 29, 2024

Thomas Village posted to the memorial.

April 9, 2023

Nancy & Jonathan Gibson posted to the memorial.

March 8, 2023

Bill McDonald posted to the memorial.

Thomas Village

February 29, 2024

My sincere condolences on the loss of your Grandfather, Koren.

Nancy & Jonathan Gibson

April 9, 2023

We were sad to hear of Frank´s
passing. We looked forward to Monday nights for many a year square dancing. Others in Surf Side Eight knew him longer than we did. He and Dotty were wonderful "angels". Our sincere sympathies to Dotty and family

Bill McDonald

March 8, 2023

My condolences to the Costa Family. I worked with Frank for a number of years. He had a great sense of dry humor. He was a fun guy to be around and a good supervisor.

Thomas S. Village

March 7, 2023

Sending sincere condolences to my friend Koren on the loss of her dear Grandfather.

Bob Sullivan

March 6, 2023

Sad to hear the news. My condolences to you Dot and family.

Suzanne (Sullivan) Wheeler

March 6, 2023

I am so sorry for your loss, Dot. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Kelly Daigle

March 5, 2023

My heartfelt sympathies for your family. May his legacy live through his memories and grandchildren. God gained an Angel for sure.

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