Frank Anthony Valesh

Frank Anthony Valesh obituary, Scottsdale, AZ

Frank Anthony Valesh

Frank Valesh Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 2, 2024.
Scottsdale - Frank Anthony Valesh, affectionately known as "Bud" or "Buddy" to his friends, was born on May 21st, 1932, in Chicago, Illinois. Frank and his soon-to-be bride, Inez, met at a wedding shortly before Frank was drafted into the Army. Trading multiple football scholarships for fatigues and a footlocker, Frank was stationed in Germany and France. Inez wrote to him the whole time he was away, showering him with love and pepperoni care packages. The distance only made their bond stronger, and they married in 1956, embarking on a 70-year love story.

Though his athletic career was sidelined, Frank's thirst for knowledge wasn't. He enrolled at Arizona State University at 28, graduating five years later with a degree in mechanical engineering. He then began a successful career at Motorola Aerospace, later leveraging his talents to become a licensed professional engineer (PE).

In 1970, Frank wasn't just keeping pace with technology; he was shaping it. He launched Frank A. Valesh & Associates, where he created "Fortran," a groundbreaking software program for the first generation of personal computers. A decade later, he pioneered the first Computer-Aided Design and Drafting System (CADD).

Frank officially retired at the impressive age of 85, but his zest for life never dimmed. In his later years, he could be found on the dance floor with Inez or regaling everyone with his signature humor, a delightful mix of classic jokes and "dirty grandpa" wit.

Frank is survived by his wife, Inez Valesh; his daughter Christy and her husband, Frederic; and his two grandchildren, Alex and Maxim. He was so beloved that five family and friends chose him to be the godfather of their children.

He now joins his much loved, departed daughter Theresa.

When asked what he would want his departing words to be he declared,

"Saying goodbye is such sweet sorrow,".

While his passing marks a goodbye for now, Frank's legacy of love, laughter, and innovation lives on.

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May 22, 2024

Monika Holub posted to the memorial.

May 14, 2024

Janine Flanders posted to the memorial.

May 14, 2024

Shyma Al-Mizrakchi posted to the memorial.

Monika Holub

May 22, 2024

Thank you for sharing your dad's beautiful memorial video, so powerful and incredibly moving, my deepest condolences to you and your family, sent from the well of my deepest love
Monika Holub

Janine Flanders

May 14, 2024

My deepest condolences to you and your family, Christy, for the loss of your dad. What a beautiful memorial of his life and your time together in the physical world. May you all experience peace, love, comfort, and support during this time. Sending you all much love and light.

Shyma Al-Mizrakchi

May 14, 2024

Dear Christy and Family,

My deepest sympathy and so sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace. Sending you and your family Light and love in this time of grief.

georgina sudron

May 11, 2024

my deepest sympathy so sorry for your loss christy sending love a light to you and your family

Patricia

May 10, 2024

Dear Christy & family,
I am so sorry for your loss. May you each cherish your good memories and with grateful hearts and mutual support may mourning be made gentle.

Zahra D

May 10, 2024

May you and your family experience much peace, love, warmth, support and comfort during this time. In the famous words of The Council - Know that you are infinitely loved!

Jackie Joy Holmes

May 9, 2024

Such a Fabulous tribute to your dad and a Wonderful send off! You done him proud!
May God shine perpetual light on his amazing soul! Go rest high on that mountain!

Oona Cardozo

May 9, 2024

Condolences to you and the family. May he Rest in Peace.
Sending prayers and love.

tehan carey

May 9, 2024

Grat condolences Christie to you and your family and may your heaet be light with the new connection you are finding with your beloved father on the other side. May your heart find peace and fulness in this time of loss.
Sincerely Tehan Carey
A grateful student of your generous wisdom

Kirk Hanson

May 9, 2024

The loss is always ours on the physical level, but the soul simply transitions and lives on. My prayers to you and your family as you make peace with him leaving a physical body, that no longer served him. Much love to all...

Maria Grace

May 9, 2024

I am very sorry for your loss and wish you and your family deep peace.
Lovingly, Maria Grace

Marg Yoon

May 9, 2024

Sending you much love and prayers during this very sad and difficult time Christy! Marg Y

H

May 9, 2024

Your heart soon will be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Virginia Burke

May 9, 2024

You are so blessed to have been with him so he was not alone. Feel a very special hug. God bless.

Diane Thivierge

May 9, 2024

What a beautiful tribute to your dad. I did not know him, but he seemed like a wonderful human being. My heart goes out to you and your family. After shedding tears to let go of your emotions, you will make beautiful memories of another kind with him, and will laugh with him.

Jurate Grin.

May 9, 2024

Hello, I didn't Frank but I know what an amazing daughter he brought into this life, my QSCA teacher Christy W. I am grateful for this always. Student Jurate

L M Sharma

May 9, 2024

Really very perturbed to know the sad demise of your loving father. Big loss to you and your family. May God keep the departed soul in peace!

Fionnuala Barrett

May 9, 2024

Muck love and peace to you and your mum, Fredrick and the boys. Wrapping you all in a blanket of love. Fionnuala xx

Moinul Haq

May 9, 2024

Christy, at this time of grief, I offer my sincerest condolences for your beloved father Frank Valesh. May he be blessed with heavenly life eternally!

S. Sarfaty

May 9, 2024

May peace be upon him. May peace be with you.

Jessicca Jude

May 8, 2024

That was a beautiful video. Light and love to you and your family at this time of grieving. It looks like Frank lived a long and loving life.

Daphne Cuizon

May 8, 2024

My condolences Christy, to you and your family. May you find comfort in knowing that life is everlasting. The video was such a wonderful tribute to your father.

Leda Arias

May 8, 2024

Blessings for the passing of your father. No doubt he was meant to shine brightly in his own light while he was in this world and he is glowing even brighter as a free soul. My sincere condolences to you and yours.

Christine Uomini

May 8, 2024

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Lee Ann Oliverio

May 8, 2024

Sending Love and Light to you and your family Christy. What an amazing full life of love and laughter. Thank you for sharing this tribute to your incredible father. His essence and love for life and his family comes through beautifully.

Love,
Lee Ann

M.C.

May 8, 2024

What a beautiful tribute to your father. My heartfelt condolences to you and your entire family.

Colleen Thill

May 8, 2024

Sending my loving condolences to you and your family Christy.

Teresa Hegyi

May 8, 2024

Christy and family, What a heartfelt tribute! You also share your Dad's smile Christy! We are never ready for this, and yet I understand what you say about the now, my own father passed from this life in 2020 and I frequently experience God bumps when I think of him and feel he is near. We also had some wonderful time to say goodbye and express our love and I recorded video of my Dad too! It's a beautiful life and Stevie Wonder made this so special. Blessings to you and your Mom, husband and two beautiful sons!
Teresa Hegyi

Tiff Gadison

May 8, 2024

My condolences to you and your family. Loss gives us the great opportunity to honor, forgive, accept and send love to those we have held close to our hearts.

R.I.P. Frank

Tiffany

Chris Gryniewicz

May 8, 2024

So very sorry for the loss of your Dad. Such a beautiful memory video, Kristy.
Love his smile and wit.

Marylu Finnegan

May 8, 2024

Dearest Christie & family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Your father was a beautiful man. How fortunate you all were to have him in your lives for so long & to guide you as you move forward. xo Marylu

Autre

May 8, 2024

Dear Christy Whitman ! My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.Take Care, sending Love,Autre

Erika Devine

May 8, 2024

So sorry for your loss. You have such beautiful memories.

Elaine Cat

May 8, 2024

Dear Christie,
Thank you for sharing this lovely tribute of your father's life. A window into a life well lived and well loved. Mr. Valesh comes across with robust vivaciousness, vitality and humor. I remember you sharing a story a few years ago about going to a restaurant with your parents and serendipity: live music playing and your parents danced, a sweet joyful time for all. My heart goes out to you, your mother and family. "Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation"
Khalil Gibran from the Prophet

Shainey

May 8, 2024

Dear Christy,

My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Beautiful Video.

Jorosalem Gebremichael

May 8, 2024

Hello Christy and family,
May the Divine pour an abundance of peace and love as you embrace all the joyful memories of Mr. Frank.

With Love,
Jorosalem

Kathi Ogawa

May 8, 2024

Such a beautiful tribute with so many wonderful memories to hold in your hearts. My deepest condolences to all your family.
With much love,
Kathi O

Tina Birkhoff

May 8, 2024

May the light of these memories live forever in your hearts and soul!
Much love,
Tins Birlhoff

Lorraine Langro

May 8, 2024

I am so deeply sorry to hear of the passing of your beloved father. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Isaaca Thorpe

May 8, 2024

Just giving condolences to Christy and her family during this challenging time.

May M.

May 8, 2024

Dear Christy and family,

I am so sorry for your loss. You're in my prayers.

Francesca Cellina

May 8, 2024

Dear Christy, thank you for sharing this precious moment of your Life with us... Love and Light to you, your Dad and all your Family.

Leigh

May 8, 2024

Thank you for sharing the pictures. Our hearts are full of love and respect.

Clarence

May 8, 2024

Where ever you are ,may your light and love continue to radiate from your spiritual heart.Clarence

Marion Tomlinson

May 8, 2024

Thank you Christy for sharing this beautiful inspiring tribute. Please accept my sincere condoléances for you and your family. What a beautiful life!

Jean Johnston

May 8, 2024

What a beautiful and heartfelt tribute to your father. I'm sending you and your family all my love and deepest condolences.

Aileen McKenna

May 8, 2024

Christie..I´m always aware of how much you cared about father, how much your parents loved each other, and how much you were interested in ensuring that he had what he needed day to day at this time in his life...Take care Christie, your mom, your sons and Frederic at this time.. I hold you all in love and deep daring...

Alla Kaluzhny

May 8, 2024

Dear Christy and Family,
May cherished memories of your Dad and his gentle and genuine smile always be with you and illuminate your life on Earth.

Andrea Hinkel

May 8, 2024

Your heart soon will be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

David Lester

May 8, 2024

Hi Christy and family,
It's nice to know that your father's spirit has transitioned and evolved. Always look for him where he is now, not where he was. It's time for a celebration.

Jamie DiSalvatore

May 8, 2024

My Deepest sympathy to you and all the family. Beautiful memories.

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Pat Fondrin

May 8, 2024

Peace and comfort to you and your family, Christy.

Eliza

May 8, 2024

What a Beautiful Beautiful Video - so touching. I sending you my Biggest Condolences, Love and Light.

Fran

May 8, 2024

My deepest condolences to you and the family. This is the most beautiful heart felt memorial video I have ever seen. Truly a blessed and loving family.

Nancy Goettling

May 8, 2024

Christy, I met your Dad while on the Disney Cruise you hosted. Sending you and your family love and healing energy. Nancy Goettling

Ray Farmilo

May 8, 2024

Dear Christy I understand how hard it is to lose our parents especially your Dad. My Divine Mother Father bless you and family and usher your Dad into heaven Ray Farmilo

Kim and Barb

May 8, 2024

Dear Christy,
We are deeply sorry for the loss of your father on earth. We know he will be watching over you and helping to guide you along your path. Thanks for sharing his memorial video, it touched our hearts. Biggest Hugs!!!
Kim and Barb - Daughters of the Moon

Jeanny

May 8, 2024

Dear Christy,
My deepest condolences to you and your family. May your father continue to rest in peace.

Genevieve Rupley

May 8, 2024

Dear Christy, Inez and all the family members and friends who are mourning Frank's passing, I never knew Frank, but I feel like I did from hearing Christy's stories over the years. He was truly a remarkable man! I send you blessings of love, light and peace. May all of your fond memories of Frank help to bring you solace at this difficult time.

Wendy Wenger

May 8, 2024

Dear Christy and all who loved your father. I am so sorry for your father's transition. It is such a difficult time when our parent physically leaves our life. The memorial story and pictures were so meaningful and, I feel as if I better know your father and your family. You put together a beautiful memorial service for him, thank you for sharing your life with us. I am sending loving support and hugs for you all. Wendy Wenger

Mo

May 8, 2024

I am sorry.

Barb Miller

May 8, 2024

Sweet and loving blessings to you all .

Donna Campbell

May 8, 2024

My condolences Christy to you and your family on the loss of your Father. All of you are in my prayers and thoughts.

Anthony Goring

May 8, 2024

Dear Christy,

I am deeply sorry for the loss of your father, and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. It sounds like your father was exceptional, and I can only imagine how much he meant to you. Please know that I am here for you if you need someone to talk to or if there is anything that I can do to help. I am sending you my sincerest condolences and warmest hugs.

Manisha

May 8, 2024

Dear Christy, Condolences to you and your family. May the Almighty God rest your Father's soul in eternal peace and give you and your family the strength to bear this terrible loss. Om Shanti.

Eileen Danko

May 5, 2024

Frank was an amazing man, can't believe all he has done in his life including serve our country! Incredible that you had 70 wonderful years of marriage. Praying so much for all of you, that you feel God's love and comfort during your healing process. Much love, Eileen

Jeanne Leverence Waliczek

May 4, 2024

I'm sorry for your loss. I didn't know a lot about Buddy, but I do know that in 1953 he introduced his cousin Jeanne VanValkenburgh to his buddy Bob Leverence at a family party at Aunt Theresa's. They married two years later. So, we're very grateful to Buddy because if it wasn't for him, my siblings and I wouldn't be here!
Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen

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Adaire Palmer

May 2, 2024

Condolences to you and your family, Christy. Your Dad sounds much like mine in the cheekiness of his jokes and everyone loved him.

Ron Pacioni

May 2, 2024

My Brother in law Buddy, aka, "Cheech" was a wonderful man and someone that will forever be remembered with love. He was always quick with a corny joke and was my sister's love for and husband for 67 years. It saddens me to say good-bye, but I know that he is no longer in any pain. Much love, "Cheech!"

Lesley Anderson

May 2, 2024

Beautifully written, Frank will be missed. Pic of Frank, Christy and Inez at my wedding 30 years ago.

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