Frederick Milton Tautenhahn

Frederick Milton Tautenhahn obituary, San Mateo, CA

Frederick Milton Tautenhahn

Frederick Tautenhahn Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 15, 2024.
Frederick Milton Tautenhahn, aged 88, passed away on September 3, 2024, in San Mateo, CA. Born on May 5, 1936 in Los Angeles CA, Fred lived a full and accomplished life marked by his service in the US Marine Corps, his entrepreneurial spirit, and his love for high-speed hobbies and for his dedication to family.

Fred left high school to serve his country in the Korean War, dedicating five years to the Marine Corps and attaining the rank of Staff Sergeant. After his military service, Fred owned and operated various businesses, including gas stations, auto repair shop, and car washes. Fred also owned Mr. T's Limousines and was a franchisee of Rent-a-Wreck. Additionally, Woahink Lake Suites Resort in Oregon and was a former spokesperson and member of The Pacific Rod and Gun Club at Lake Merced in CA.

He loved anything FAST from motorcycles and boats to his favorite hobby dune buggies which he did till his late 60's and 70's. He enjoyed water skiing in his earlier years, riding WaveRunners, and even raced stock cars belonging to SSCA and going through the Bondurant Racing School program.

Fred is survived by his children, son Dean Tautenhahn of San Mateo, CA, son Guy Tautenhahn of Redwood City, CA, and daughter Pam Keathley of Houston, Texas. He also leaves behind his brother, Richard Tautenhahn from Southern CA, several grandchildren, godchildren, nieces, and nephews. Fred was also preceded in death by his parents. Alice was his mother. His sister Marlene, his son Allen Curtis and his third wife, Joan Tautenhahn.

Services to honor Fred's life will be held at Golden Gate Cemetery in San Bruno, CA, on Tuesday, September 24, 2024, at 12:00 PM. His life was a testament to his roles as a Marine, a successful businessman, and patriarch. Fred will be remembered for his dynamic presence and generous spirit.

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February 3, 2025

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Dianna

February 3, 2025

it´s been 4 mths and I miss you so muchYou were my best friend

Dianna Butterfield

February 2, 2025

You will truly be miss Fred happy holidays

Dianna Butterfield

November 10, 2024

you will truly be missed Fred you have touch so many of us we love you

Guy F Tautenhahn

October 15, 2024

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Britney Saito

September 25, 2024

My mother Marlene ( Fred´s) sister often mentioned how much her older brother protected and loved her along with their brother Rich.
The Tautenhan Family men are gems!

Guy Tautenhahn

September 24, 2024

Just wanted to thank everyone that was able to make it to our dad´s funeral who could come. Also would like to thank The Patriot Guard Riders for the escort to Golden Gate National Cemetery. And also to the Sneider & Sullivan & O´Connell´s Funeral Home for taking good of our dad transporting him to his final resting place. Guy

Debora Tautenhahn

September 20, 2024

I met Fred in 1995 when my future husband and I flew out to visit! He definitely changed my life in so many good ways! He always had advice and listened to me! He was a straight to the point guy and I loved that about him! I am so proud to call him my father in law! Rest in peace Fred! I love you see you on the other side!

Lynda Borg

September 19, 2024

Well, 42 years ago I met Fred at the San Francisco Airport while he was scouting for a place to park his Limousines, a few months later he learned the parking lot was closing and asked me if I wanted to work for him. That was the beginning of one of the best choices I have ever made. He changed my life. Fred became my boss, my Mentor, my friend, a person I could talk to about almost anything and always gave good advice. He became my children's Godfather and a member of my Family. (He always told me that a family member is someone you can trust and believe in whether they are blood related or not). I have so many memories of him and they are to numerous to mention. I will always think of him when I see an American Flag, a Marine symbol, a person being kind to someone and tough at the same time, when the stock market has a great day and a good Dog ( He loved them). I wish everyone could have a " Fred " he was the best. How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.

Happy trails Mr T.

Lynda Borg

Dianna Butterfield

September 16, 2024

Words can express the love fred had for everyone he touch he was kind smart and loving. I will miss my best friend ex husband . The love he had was amazing he had a gift of giving great advice and the truth. I love you Fred you truly going to be missed.

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September 16, 2024

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September 16, 2024

My godfather fred will be miss I had some great times with him as a child he will be miss last time I saw him was 2008 I was so glad I seen him when I visit I will miss you Freddie bear

Lisa Neef

September 16, 2024

Fred married my cousin Dianna who always remained friends even after their marriage had ended. I know Dianna was a comfort to him over these last few years as he became more and more housebound. Especially these last few weeks as he peacefully transitioned at home where he wanted to be.

Fred was a larger than life character who loved everything life had to offer. His many experiences, business ventures, and the people he was lucky to meet were woven into his many stories.

I will always remember his kind and gentle soul as he supported and continued to give advice to Dianna about life, children, and business. He was "Popa" to her son Zac and was a beautiful grandfather figure to him growing up. Dianna and Fred were a perfect example of how to love someone and still maintain a friendship after their marriage ended. He always took care of the people around him.

I respected our great disagreements over politics and people. He could debate with confidence with the best and always respected your opinion. He was the original "pick yourself up by the boot straps", no nonsense kind of guy. And you always wanted him in your corner.

I will never forget hanging out at his house when our son Justin was just born. He loved having babies around and you got to see a rare side of him. That was 34 years ago.

I will always be grateful to Fred for being in Dianna's life and treasure the thought she comforted him in his final days. May you fly with the angels and rest in peace, Fred.

Dianna Butterfield

September 15, 2024

Such a amazing man who help manyMy first husband who was amazing.

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