Frieda L. Miller

Frieda L. Miller

Frieda Miller Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 2, 2009.
BANGOR - Frieda L. Miller, wife of the late Abe H. Miller, lifelong resident of Bangor, passed away March 1, 2009, at a local health care facility. She started their business on State Street during the 1930s, then known as Frieda Miller Variety, now known as Miller Drug. The Miller store was a hallmark in the Bangor area while Frieda and Abe became a local institution. She was a tireless volunteer for the following area charities: Bangor Nursing & Rehab Center, United Cerebral Palsy, Camp CaPella, Patawa Club and Phillips-Strickland House; she was a Lionette and a member of Congregation Beth Israel. She is survived by her children, Bernard William (Gloria) of Bangor, A. Sybil Michelson (Gerald) of New York City, Stephen (Ellen) of Canton, Ohio; grandchildren, Howard Miller (Jan) of Hawaii, Randi Smuckler (William) of Canton, Ohio, Lori Prescott (George) of Scarborough, Deborah Solomon (Doug) of Canton, Mass., Gregory Miller (Breyna) of Cincinnati, Daniel Miller (Anne) of Chagrin Falls, Ohio, Richard Miller (Hardy) of Irving, Texas, Charles Miller (Amy) of Plano, Texas, and Seth Miller (Carrie) of Orlando, Fla.; 16 great-grandchildren, Megan, Meredith and Hillary Smuckler, Sam, Eric and Jacob Solomon, Ben and Tucker Miller, Sarah and Cory Prescott, Matthew and Samantha Miller, Ava Miller, Zoe Miller, Michaela and Elijah Miller; several nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews. She was predeceased by her parents; her husband, Abe; her son, Max "Mickey" Miller and his wife, Ellen; three sisters and two brothers. Funeral services will be held 1 p.m. Tuesday, March 3, at Congregation Beth Israel, 144 York St., Bangor, with Rabbi Steven Schwartzman officiating. Interment will be afterward at Beth Israel Cemetery. After the interment the Meal of Consolation will be held in the Epstein Room at Beth Israel. Shiva will be observed 4-8 p.m. Wednesday, March 4, and Thursday, March 5, at 106 Dewitt Ave., Bangor. Gifts in her memory may be sent to Bangor Nursing & Rehab Center Endowment Fund, 103 Texas Ave., Bangor, ME 04401; United Cerebral Palsy for the benefit of Camp CaPella, 700 Mt. Hope Ave., Suite 320, Bangor, ME 04401; or Congregation Beth Israel, 144 York St., Bangor, ME 04401. A service of Brookings-Smith, 133 Center St., Bangor.

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March 16, 2009

iris Black posted to the memorial.

March 5, 2009

Anne Marie Vickers Quin posted to the memorial.

March 4, 2009

Gary Warner posted to the memorial.

iris Black

March 16, 2009

MY condolences are extended to the family in your loss. Miller Drug has been by choice for years,, Many kind folk follow in Mrs. Miller's footsteps.,,I appreciate you. Iris V Black

Anne Marie Vickers Quin

March 5, 2009

Dear Billy and Gloria,

Heartfelt sympathy and sincere affection are extended to your family.

Gary Warner

March 4, 2009

I had the pleasure of getting to know Frieda and her wonderful husband, Abe, on their many visits to New York City to spend time with their daughter, Sybil. I always looked forward to seeing the Millers in NYC, because they brought with them an infectious zest for life. And was I ever lucky because Frieda never failed to bring along a generous supply of her delicious rugalach that she always shared with my parents, Pat and Bill Taylor, and me!
Frieda and Abe looked at New York with a wide-eyed enthusiasm that made me appreciate the big city even more than I already did. It was only when I made my first trip to Bangor that I got to see them in the environment that brought them such joy and contentment. It all made sense to me. How blessed for them to have lived in such an idyllic place, and how fortunate for Bangor to have had such angels in their midst. And how lucky for me to have shared in the very special small-town values they brought with them to the Big Apple.

Robyn (Miller) Shaw

March 4, 2009

I sure will miss my great Aunt Frieda.
She was a big inspiration to me. I'm glad I had a chance to tell her. We had some incredible "heart to heart" conversations after our cardiac events.

Myles Striar

March 4, 2009

People who wondered about the friendship of my mother, Doris Striar, with Frieda, assuming they were so different from each other, simply did not know them. They enjoyed each other’s company immensely and had great respect for each other. Among the many qualities they shared was that neither of them suffered fools gladly.

Your mother called my mother every day from the day my father died until my mother died herself, except when my mother was with us.

But it was not for that alone that my family loved and admired Frieda Miller. Many of her admirable and unique qualities will be testified to today at her funeral. Stories about Frieda will be told this week and for decades to come. We can only hope that people will be inspired by who she was and try to emulate her.

She will be very much missed.

Sincerely,

Myles Striar

Norman Carlisle Jr

March 4, 2009

When as a young boy I visited my grandparents on Forest Avenue, my grandmother, Frances Campbell, would invariably mention "Frieda" as one of the best people in the neighborhood. When I was sent around the corner on an errand to get something at the store, I was told to be sure to ask for and say hello to Frieda. I did so, and from then on, I was treated like a prince when I entered that store. She was such a pleasure.

Marlene Chason Milunsky

March 3, 2009

Dear Billy and Family,

I was sorry to learn that "Aunt Frieda" passed away this week. Growing up in Bangor, in and out of Emy's house nearly as often as my own, she felt like my Aunt Frieda, too, and I remember her (and her macaroons) with fondness.

May her memory be for a blessing,
.

Linda Nickerson

March 3, 2009

To the Family & Friends of Mrs. Miller

My thoughts & prayers are with you all right now! I have many fond memories of Frieda from when I worked at Bangor City Hospital, now known as Bangor Nursing & Rehab Center. Frieda was my guidance as I learned my new job way back then. I had my two girls when I worked there and Frieda just adored them! I now work at Phillips-Strickland House and this past summer I did visit with Frieda, she asked all about my little girls who are now all grown up & in college. Frieda will always hold a special place in my heart.

~thinking of you~

Marjorie Heller

March 3, 2009

Dear Ellen, Steve, & family,
My thoughts are with you at this difficult time. My sincere sympathy,

Anne Fleischmann

March 2, 2009

Dear Bill & Gloria,
My deepest condolences on your loss. I know that she was one of the people who made Bangor the wonderful town it is.

charles miller

March 2, 2009

Hi everyone sorry couldn't be there , I will miss talking to you all the time on the phone but now will think of you all the time in my dreams like pappa, mom and dad yourgrandson Charles

Lee Fessler Gatewood

March 2, 2009

I have fond memories of Frieda and Abe from my childhood at the counter of Miller Drug. Frieda was the first one to introduce me to homemade blintzes! I wish you my deepest condolensces. She gave so much to the Bangor community and will be deeply missed.

Emily Audra Fleisher

March 2, 2009

Dear Steve, Ellen & Family,

Although I never had the pleasure of meeting your wonderful mother, I know that she profoundly touched many, many lives.

Please know that I am thinking of all of the Miller family in your time of sadness and loss.

My deepest sympathies and condolences,

Shannon & Luke Sands

March 2, 2009

sorry for your loss. You have our deepest condolences and your in our prayer.;

Nancy Pickelhaupt

March 2, 2009

Billy and family, Frieda was the heart of our family. Without her and your Dad, my parents would not have met, married and had their business stay afloat during hard times. My brothers and I also had some hand-me-downs from your Mom. I have such warm. wonderful memories of sitting at the bar at the drugstore. My Dad had coffee everyday about 4:30. I would join him. Your Mom always made sure I had some "NABS" to eat along side Dad. Your parents were there for my Mom when my Dad died and were always such a comfort to our family. Frieda was definitely a part of our lives and we will miss her greatly every day. Much love Nancy(Miller)Pickelhaupt, Ginny Miller, Ron, and Ricky Miller

Lois-Ann Wentworth Holmes

March 2, 2009

Bill and family ~ My sincere condolensces on the loss of Freida. I remember her from my childhood when my Mom and I would go into the store. Then over the years as we all grew older together more fond memories. She always had a smile and something fun to say. It is a shame the values and work ethic she taught and lived by are not more prolific today. I am honored to have know this wonderful woman and your family. My heart goes out to you in your loss. She was a wonderful lady, a gem of Bangor and her legecy will long be remembered.

Evelyn and Warren Silver

March 2, 2009

We offer our heartfelt condolences to all family and friends of this remarkable woman. We will never forget our sons' smiles when Frieda gave them lollipops! The Bangor community has lost a very special lady.

Ken Jordan

March 2, 2009

Bill and Family,
Your mother was a true original and will be sorely missed by the community and her family and friends. I always enjoyed seeing her in the store and out. I remember being directed to meet with her when I ran for City Council in the early 80's and how important her support and counsel were for me during my term in city government. My condolences to the family, but take comfort in the fact of a full life, well lived. Ken

Irving Emple

March 2, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Harry Tabenken

March 2, 2009

She was a great woman and will be missed by all.

Melissa Ouellette

March 2, 2009

Mrs. Miller was a wonderful lady. It was a privledge to know her and care for her.She always had a big smile for everyone, and I couldn't walk by her with out her saying "Where's my kiss"? My thoughts and prayers are with her family at this time

Carrie Miller

March 2, 2009

I was lucky to have known Nana for the short time I did. She is someone we should all aspire to be like in our community.

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