Gary A. Desfosses

Gary A. Desfosses obituary, Bedford, NH

Gary A. Desfosses

Gary Desfosses Obituary

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Gary Alan Desfosses, 69, of Bedford, NH passed away on March 21, 2021 at home after a long illness. Born in Manchester on May 24, 1951, he was the son of Raymond and Dorothy (Henderson) Desfosses. He graduated from Goffstown High School in 1969 and was a veteran who served in the US Army from 1970 to 1973. He worked for many years at Jordan Marsh Company, Dead River Company (Gosselin Heating) and NE Freightways. He retired in 2014. Gary liked the outdoors and he was not fond of today's technology. He was a handyman who would fix what was broken instead of buying new. He enjoyed being with his sons, telling stories by the campfire, and cooking on the grill. One of his favorite places to go to was the lake house where he enjoyed fishing and boating. Making people laugh is something many will remember him for. Gary is survived by his wife, Patricia (Stone) Desfosses of 36 years; sons, Peter Desfosses and his companion Drew Oliver of Dover and son David Desfosses of Bedford. He is also survived by his brother Daniel Desfosses and his partner Debbie Michael of Fogelsville, PA and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his parents, sister Celeste Matras and brother Leslie Desfosses. A memorial service will be celebrated at The Life Forest, 200 Beard Road, Hillsborough, NH on Saturday, May 22nd at 12 noon. Memorial Donations can be made to the American Cancer Society, VA Medical Center, or the NH Audubon Society. Lambert Funeral Home & Crematory, Manchester, is assisting with arrangements. To send an online message of condolence, please go to www.lambertfuneralhome.com.

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April 1, 2021

Diane Stone posted to the memorial.

March 30, 2021

Laura Sisk posted to the memorial.

March 30, 2021

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Diane Stone

April 1, 2021

I am saddened about Gary's passing and my thoughts are with Pat, Peter and David. Although I did not see Gary much in recent years, I remember him being a down- to- earth, laid back and easy going person. He loved the outdoors and was very funny, especially when around a campfire. I am sure his family has many wonderful memories to cherish.
My deepest sympathies to Pat and all of Gary's family.

Laura Sisk

March 30, 2021

Pat, I am so sorry to hear of Gary's passing. I never met him, but have heard you talk about him may times and always with a smile on your face. The memory video of him was wonderful, you were truly blessed having him in all your lives. My heart is deeply sadden for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time!

Maureen & Guy Camire

March 30, 2021

Dear Pat & boys,
We were very sad to hear of Gary's passing. Guy always spoke fondly of him and always would laugh over all the great memories they had together. We remember many fire pit chats and parties together. Raising our families & working made those cherished times more difficult. Here's to you Gary, we love you and will see you on the other side!!!

Cindy Gagne

March 30, 2021

My sincerest sympathies go out to Pat, Peter and David. Gary loved his family and had a generous spirit. He was one of a kind. His fondness for the obscure and controversial often led to many very entertaining and spirited campfire conversations. I will fondly remember his fun loving nature, unique sense of humor, great taste in music and the baffling ability to drink Moxie and like it. Rest In Peace Uncle Gary. May God grant all your loved ones peace and comfort.

Frederick Matuszewski

March 29, 2021

Pat, Linda and I are so sorry to receive the news of Gary's passing. Our condolences to you and your family.

Jean Chagnon

March 29, 2021

Our Heart and prayers go out to all of Gary's family and friends. Sorry for your lost but remember all your times together. You now have a guardian angel watching out for all his love ones.

Gloria Binette

March 29, 2021

Pat and sons, I'm so very sorry for your loss. Keeping you all close in my thoughts.

Claire Thomas

March 28, 2021

Pat, saddened to hear of Gary's passing. My condolence to you and your sons.
Aunt Claire

Alice Rattigan

March 28, 2021

Pat & sons, My deepest sympathies. I haven't seen you for many years and didn't know that Gary had Cancer. My son has had Cancer for a few years and just retired early at the end of January. I wish you the very best to recover from such a loss. You are a strong person and I know with the Grace of God, you will be OK. It took me 2 Support groups, the last with the VNA was good for me. I will be 87 in May and thank God that I'm still living but I thank God every day I wake up. I only had 1 vaccine so far and not going out except a 30 minute walk. God Bless you Pat and hope to see you after this pandemic is over.

March 28, 2021

Mr.Desfosses, Thank you for your service RDM Windham NH

Chanti

March 27, 2021

Adept at a remarkable Moe scowl and hiding he was a softy. Uncle Gary was a good man taken too soon.
Big love, I'm going to miss you.

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