Lt. Col. Gary A. Kilgore

1945 - 2017

Lt. Col. Gary A. Kilgore obituary, 1945-2017, Erie, PA

Lt. Col. Gary A. Kilgore

1945 - 2017

BORN

1945

DIED

2017

Gary Kilgore Obituary

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Lt. Col. Gary A. Kilgore, USA, (Ret.), age 71, of Erie, passed away on Monday, March 6th, at the VA Medical Center (Erie), following a lengthy illness.

Gary was born in Napa, Calif. on November 6, 1945, son of the late Ira and Margaret Paterson Kilgore.

He graduated from Napa High School, had many graduate degrees, a Master's Degree and a Ph.D. in Communications from Washington State University.

Gary retired from the U.S. Army attaining the rank of Lt. Col., serving in Vietnam, the Gulf War and as a Military Intelligence Specialist.

Gary was a man of many interests, including theatre and photography. He enjoyed Harley Davidson motorcycles, was an avid rider and was also a great storyteller. Gary was an active contributor and supporter of many Catholic Charities and a lifetime member of the American Legion, the VFW and the NRA.

Gary's greatest joy and love were his family and especially his six grandchildren.

Along with his parents, Gary was preceded in death by his younger brother Richard.

He is survived by his wife Kristine Scholtz Kilgore, daughters Heatheranne Amari (Lee) and Nicole Michelle Kilgore, both of California and three step-children Joshua Curtze of Erie, Jessica Curtze of Erie and Rachel Curtze Szalay (Greg) of California. He is further survived by six grandchildren, Christopher and Anthony Amari, Tristen, Raegan and Austen Curtze and Frank Szalay.

Friends may attend a Memorial Service on Sunday at 1:00 p.m. in the VA Medical Center Chapel, 135 East 38th Street, Erie, PA 16504.

Arrangements are entrusted to Burton Westlake Funeral Home, 3801 West 26th Street, Erie PA 16506.

Memorials may be made to the VA Medical Center or to the family in care of the Burton Westlake Funeral Home.

To send condolences, please visit www.Burtonfuneralhome.com.

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May 8, 2025

JSanders posted to the memorial.

April 30, 2025

Nicole Kilgore posted to the memorial.

April 16, 2024

J Sanders posted to the memorial.

JSanders

May 8, 2025

Hey Gary- We have a new pope! Of course, you already knew this. Cardinal Robert Francis Prevost born in Chicago, IL- the first American Pope and the 267th pope. He chose the Papal name Leo XIV, a strong name. Are you dancing and celebrating in heaven as we are on earth?! Glorious day. Every day is a gift- you are a gift to so many, Gary, military comrades, your parents and brother, Rick, and especially your precious daughters and grandsons, who brought so much joy to your life, and you cherished and loved so much- do still and always will. Loving thoughts, please pray for us, Gary. ~Miss J & family

Nicole Kilgore

April 30, 2025

I just want you to know I still miss you so very much Daddo.
I wonder where you are and how you are doing now in the great beyond.

J Sanders

April 16, 2024

Hey Gary- Always in our hearts, precious memories and prayers. Forever grateful for your wise, selfless, brave service to our great country. Please pray for us.

paddy callahan MSG (USAR) ret

December 6, 2021

The LTC will be missed, like other 6ITAAS alums, SGM Charles Pazlar and too many more. We would have had fun on the same H2O polo team! RIP, we'll all meet again!

Janet Sanders

March 8, 2021

Hey Gary- Thinking of you. Rush joined you on Ash Wednesday, 17 February 2021- our sad loss on earth is your gain in heaven. Please pray for me, family, all of us. You are missed, Gary- sending sweet memories, love, thoughts and blessings your way....

Janet Sanders

March 7, 2020

Happy Birthday, Gary! Dance to the music- Heavenly! Know you are! Love and prayers- please pray for us. ~janet

janet sanders

November 11, 2019

Happy Veterans Day, Gary! Thank you and all our brave vets- heroes all. Pray for us.

Janet Sanders

November 11, 2019

Happy Veterans Day, Gary! Remembering you and all brave vets- heroes all. Thank you for serving our great country so admirably, humbly, courageously. We owe our veterans a debt of gratitude... thank you, God bless you. Please pray for me, for us. ~janet

Janet Sanders

February 17, 2019

Happy Presidents Day, veteran and patriot! Pray for us as we pray to you, good friend. God be with you, Gary. Prayers.

Janet Sanders

November 11, 2018

Hey Gary- always praying to you, to pray for us, all of us. Smile every time I get in the car and hear that seatbelt beeping.... Buckle up, we're in for a bumpy ride. Loving, prayerful thoughts, dear friend and brave veteran, especially this Veterans Day. God bless and protect all our Veterans. We love, honor, appreciate, remember and thank YOU.... thank you. God be with you. ~janet

January 17, 2018

I served many summers with Gary at the 6th Army Intelligence Training Army Area School (6th ITAAS). Gary was a good friend who is missed by those who served with him.
May God grant him eternal rest, and may His perpetual light shine upon him.
God Bless you.
CW4 Roger V. Borecky, US Army Retired

Janet Sanders

July 3, 2017

Candle lit for you, Gary- from all at St. Joseph Church, Cotati, CA. ~Janet

Janet Sanders

July 3, 2017

Heartfelt condolences to the Kilgore and Amari families. Your father and grandfather was crazy about you- so proud of you, such love for you. Gary, an amazing, complex, interesting, fascinating, intelligent man. I am blessed to have known you and call you friend, you will always have a special place in my heart, Gary. Good man. Thank you for serving our country- you gave much. God be with you. Please pray for me, for my family. ~Janet

Fran Clemens Andres

March 10, 2017

Tina,

I'm so sorry to hear about Gary! My thoughts & prayers are with you at this difficult moment.
I know he was very special to you.

Love & prayers,
Frannie

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