Gary Smith

Gary Smith obituary

Gary Smith

Gary Smith Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jan. 20 to Jan. 21, 2023.
Gary Smith

March 28, 1958-January 16, 2023

Man of Music and Builder of Communities

Gary Smith was set on his life's path during a matinee showing of "The Sound of Music" at the Starcase Cinema in Middletown, RI. He was seven years old. "I learned that music could beat Nazis. That's when I knew," Gary said several weeks before his death, at age 64, at his home in Walpole, NH.

Music, art, beauty, and community as bulwarks against the darker forces of the world and the human condition - this was the indelible thread that ran through Gary's life.

Born to the late Michael and Marie Pinto Smith in Newport, RI, Gary honed his musical chops in high school rock bands and sharpened his fine mind as a student of philosophy at Colby College, where he built his first recording studio, a pair of four-track machines set up in a glorified broom closet.

Following his Wanderjahre in France, Gary moved to Boston, MA, determined to work for the celebrated architect Moshe Safdie, whose ideals of timelessness, connection to nature, and creating meaningful spaces for community resonated deeply. Gary arrived at Safdie's Faneuil Hall office each morning for weeks until the office manager finally hired him to run errands.

Walking the streets, absorbing the rhythms of the city, he wrote songs in his head. Before long, he formed the band Lifeboat, which toured the country and received accolades in the national press.

While Gary was an accomplished guitarist and songwriter, he found his calling outside the spotlight at Fort Apache, a scrappy recording studio that he built into a clubhouse for young musicians and a global force in alternative rock. Gary's ears were impeccable. His work ethic, matchless. His deal-making was the stuff of major-label dreams. As a producer and manager, Gary shepherded the careers of some of the era's most influential artists, among them Pixies, Throwing Muses, Tanya Donelly, Juliana Hatfield, and Natalie Merchant. But his impact transcended the realm of records and contracts. Gary brought people together, cultivating a sense of family that sustained him and the many outsiders, misfits, and dreamers fortunate enough to travel in his orbit.

In 2001, Gary moved into an antique farmhouse at the end of a country road in New Hampshire. Inspired by a profound affinity with the Shakers - their dedication to hard work and craftsmanship, their embrace of song as a spiritual gift - he filled his home with simple, sturdy furniture and musical instruments. He built a swimming pond, planted a garden, and lovingly tended his sheep and donkey. The farm was heaven. For Gary, a near-constant stream of friends and musicians, who often stayed for days, made the place yet more heavenly. Whether entertaining a field full of revelers or laying a perfect table for an intimate meal, Gary was the consummate host. His parties were nothing short of legendary.

Leaving the fast-paced city life slowed neither the flow of Gary's ideas nor his boundless energy for making things happen. He relocated Fort Apache from Massachusetts to Bellows Falls, VT, just across the border from his new home in Walpole, opening the recording studio and a new live performance venue in the former Hotel Windham. Over the next two decades Gary's local imprint grew. He was a founder of WOOL-FM, a community radio station, launched a regional events magazine, and with investment support from friends near and far he opened Popolo, an Italian-inspired, farm-to-table restaurant.

When Gary received a cancer diagnosis in September of 2022, his chief concern was how to get done everything he wanted to accomplish. The list, as ever, was long. He worked, quite literally, to his dying day. Gary leaves behind a hole that cannot be filled. But his vision and integrity, prodigious intelligence and marvelous sense of humor, his steadfast care for people and community will continue to inspire the legion of comrades mourning the loss of our dear friend.

According to his wishes, Gary's body was cremated and there will be no funeral service. Plans are being made for a gathering to celebrate his life.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to WOOL-FM, http://blacksheepradio.org/WOOL/support/donate/.

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G.Brownell

September 17, 2024

Gary was one of the pioneers of our music culture on Aquidneck Island. Vivid memories of my first live local band gig around 1974-76 with Gary playing in a band at one of the local community churches at night in Middletown RI. Dream On

January 16, 2024

susan miller

January 12, 2024

We miss you G. xo

Dorothy Grover-Read

January 12, 2024

One of the things I'll remember about you the most, in addition to your kindness, is your genuine gratitude. Now and then, out of no where it seemed, I'd find a little note in my mail telling me how much you appreciated some little thing I did or said, even the invisible stuff. It is a good lesson, that feeling that you can give someone just by taking the time to offer a nod. Sometimes, it's the biggest thing in the world.

Tom Weiss

January 11, 2024

There was no one I looked forward to talking to more than Gary, it´s been a rough year without you my friend.

Christopher Principe

January 11, 2024

You invited me into your world as a timid young 20 something. First as my boss and as the years passed, friend. I´m so grateful that you did. I´ll never stop thinking of you. I remember it all, The Fort, the Farm, the tomfoolery. Smile on my face and a pinch in the heart. Glad to know ya.

Andrew Dey

January 11, 2024

Remembering Gary, and Shotgun.

Lisa

April 16, 2023

Loved walking in the fields, talking about books, raptly listening to music, or dancing through the house. Love you much Gary.

Susan

March 14, 2023

Gary, you were a good friend to me. The world is a little bit darker now that you´ve gone.

Black Francis

February 12, 2023

He gave me my first big break, for which I´ll be forever grateful

Andy goode

February 11, 2023

Such a wonderful person. My room mate sophmore year at Colby. Listened endlessly to Linda Ronstadt albums. He spent a lot of time practicing Lou Reed songs on the guitar in the shower for I guess the better acoustics. Always remember his laugh, cynicism, and kindness. May his soul live on.

Colby

February 6, 2023

Gary was an outstanding student at Colby, more because of the probing questions he asked than the textbook answers he already knew. Gary's curiosity knew no bounds. His almost childlike innocence about human misdeeds made Gary lovable but also explains his refusal to spend a minute occupying the trenches of human misery.
Gary was all about human joy and I count myself fortunate that he shared moments of joy with me.
Roger Bowen

<3

February 3, 2023

no one is gone until they're forgotten
and I'll never forget you, G

Carla Fogg

January 25, 2023

He really dug buying cool postage stamps from me when I worked at the Bellows Falls Post Office. Was also his roommate in Allston with Mary G. in the 80's -- Hello Larry!

Barbara Dunn

January 24, 2023

Gary - a dear friend from my school days. Always a class act. May you Rest In Peace.

Paul Norris

January 24, 2023

I worked with Gary at Moshe Safdie´s office. I had just moved to Boston from LA. I was walking through Harvard Square and Gary drove by and honked his horn to say hello. He made me feel like I really lived here! Rest in peace Gary.

Annie Guyon

January 23, 2023

He brought yet more creative energy to an already creative Vermont community, and brought people together around top notch music, conversation, and cuisine. I´m very sad for his loss.

Gay Sheldon

January 21, 2023

A kind friend you were from way back. God speed. G. Sheldon

Nicola Schultz

January 21, 2023

Nicola Schultz

January 21, 2023

Nicola Schultz

January 21, 2023

Very sad to hear of Gary's passing. I took these polaroid shots in November 1993 at Fort Apache Studios.

Sophie B.

January 21, 2023

Rest in peace Gary. Your kind heart and contribution to the arts of my generation will never be forgotten.

Owen Burkett

January 21, 2023

Thanks for the memories Gary. 21 Cheers! Love you buddy.

Charlie

January 20, 2023

Very very well done! Thank you, Mark. Huzzah, Smith!

Kiel

January 20, 2023

Thanks for literally everything. You will always be an inspiration.

Brian Sullivan

January 20, 2023

Gary my classmate & friend! You always did things your way with your own style! You have left behind an impressive legacy

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