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Eddie Ratcliffe
May 11, 2025
This is my second post to Gen. Wickham, as I didn't mention something very important in the first one.
I was the Pathfinder Team Sgt on L.Z. Colt during the attack on the night of Oct 10, 1967, when then LTC Wickham was wounded, as was I. We were fortunate to have had a Command Chopper pilot by the name of Jim Rassmutin who came in to get the LTC Wickham when the Medevacs would not. It was that act of heroism that saved his life, as he had been shot multiple times.
I was medevaced with head wounds, on the first ship out to 15th Med, where LTC Wickham had been taken. Upon seeing his wounds, he was given his last rites and left alone as they thought he had bled out, and the operating room was filling up with wounded from the L.Z. Colt attack.
As I was getting my head wound stitched up, LTC Wickham raised up and said, "It's cold in here, I need a blanket". Needless to say, things started moving very fast after that.
That was the last time I saw him in my three tours in Vietnam.
I visited him in Tucson on October 27, 2021. His mind was as sharp as a tack, and he remembered me.
A truly great man and leader. I pray for him every night.
Karen Rowley
August 30, 2024
My husband, Air Force Lt. Col William Rowley Jr. was stationed in Seoul, S. Korea with Gen. Wickham from 1797-1981. Fortunately our 15 month old daughter and myself were able to accompany my husband.
I had the privilege of meeting the Gen. and Mrs Wickham on several occasions. I was always impressed how kind they both were to the soldiers visiting them at the various posts and inviting them to dinner.
On one occasion Mrs Wickham asked me if I knew some families who lived off post that would share what their needs were and how they could help.
I have to say I was deeply moved by how much she and Gen. Wickham genuinely cared. He was a man of integrity. I was also very excited when Mrs Wickham invited me to ride in the general’s car
I just recently lost my husband who served in the Air Force 23 years and we both looked back fondly at the time we were stationed at Yong San.
God bless General Wickham and his family.
May he RIP
Shannon Barnes
July 10, 2024
I had the privilege of caring for John, as he insisted I call him, in his later years. We had some of the most interesting conversations and I will cherish them forever. A more humble, kind, gentle, intelligent man, you couldn't find. My love to Annie and the family.
Michael Smith
June 13, 2024
Well I was in one of the light infantry divisions he created and read his white paper which led to that creation. He was a visionary and cared about the soldiers and their family as well as winning. You are the father of the light infantry. RIP
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Randal C. Lees
June 4, 2024
I served as General Wickham´s driver for part of the time he was at Fort Campbell. That was such an honor for myself. During the past couple of years I was able to visit him twice. It was so interesting. I told him, if I knew then what I know today he would of fire me the first day driving for him (continually asking questions). He was such a joy to visit with. General, you were an inspiration to my life. Rest in Peace, God be with you. Randal Lees SP/4 1975
John Stevenson
May 30, 2024
I am from Scotland, I am very interested in us military leaders, I wrote to general Wickham in 1986, while he was cos/USA, he sent me coloured signed photo, which I still have,I treasure it to this day, because he was the FIRST of my collection, general John Wickham, thanks for your time,R I P,
Kenn Riordan Jr.
May 28, 2024
GEN John Wickham is recognized as one of the Army's finest Chief of Staff. He survived miraculously his overrun position in Vietnam despite all odds. He was the strategist behind the Light Infantry Division, and for years appeared on McNeil/Lehrer News Hour as an expert on foreign affairs and national strategy. When I would call my friend, he would pick up the conversation from the last call a year prior, and always had time for me as a fellow West Point grad. His son served as my legal counsel. There are few like this, that rare combination of intelligence, physical toughness, and decency. God Bless you Sir, we will miss you! You earned your place in Heaven. Duty, honor, country!
Kenn Riordan '73 Proud and Free
Bill Nettling
May 27, 2024
Our world has lost a tremendous man and great leader. I first met General Wickham several years ago when asked by then Amphi School Superintendent, Dr Vicki Balentine, to be part of the Amphi Schools Advisory Committee. It was an honor just to be in the same room with this former Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff. He mesmerized all of us with his knowledge and leadership yet was always willing to listen openly to the ideas and thoughts of everyone. Never quick to judge, despite having far more knowledge and experience than anyone in the room. I found myself looking forward to those many after hours meetings just to listen to this incredible man. His wisdom, knowledge, and leadership was simply incredible.
My deepest sympathies to his family and loved ones. Thanks for sharing him with us. I´m a better person for having known him and I´ll never forget him.
JOHN GIFFORD
May 22, 2024
My deepest condolences to the family, I first met the General on the DMZ at Camp Greaves, ROK while his son John was assigned to our Battalion. He was a concerned leader who deeply cared for the Soldiers. I felt extremely fortunate to have such a man to lead us in the ROK. I will never forget the time I had to share some M&Ms from my ammo pouch when he reentered my Jeep to return to Greaves from the JSA. He had a quick smile and a soft laugh then. RIP, General, and Thank You for those kind words that day.
Satish Hiremath
May 21, 2024
I first met General Wickham during my campaign for Mayor for the Town of Oro Valley. His public support for my election was bewildering to me given the status of whom he was. John said that he saw something in me that was very special and for that I can never thank him enough. Together with Patricia Linder, Sandy and Jim Briney, and myself, we created the Oro Valley Veteran's Support Initiative. It was an initiative designed to help former and current service members and their families in four distinct areas in order for them to reengage with society after having served. These four areas were: Health, Employment, Education, and Discounts (from local retailers). The Oro Valley Town Council, with me presiding as Mayor, unanimously passed a proclamation supporting the Oro Valley Veteran's Support Initiative town wide. Well after retirement from the US Army, John was still very concerned about the well being of soldiers. I will forever remember his compassion, kindness, respect and humility he exhibited to everyone who came across his path. General John Wickham was a giant among men. Rest in peace John. Your rest is well deserved.
Dr. Satish I. Hiremath
Town of Oro Valley Mayor (2010-2018)
Samuel Bradley
May 21, 2024
An outstanding Soldier has breathed his last. We will see you on the Objective, sir!
SFC (Ret.) Bradley
Michael Geddis
May 20, 2024
I did not know the General, but I know his son Matt, and it seems like the apple did not fall far from the tree. A good measure of a man; I can only image (reading above) what this spectacular family has accomplished, individually and collectively. God Bless the General and his family.
Jane Q. Peterson
May 19, 2024
John came to the Oro Valley library at my invitation to talk about his experiences in Korea. We had a standing room only crowd. After his talk, John sold his book about Korea and gave all the proceeds to the library.
I got to know John & Ann personally when we walked our dogs in the same neighborhood. We shared a few meals together and I was always so impressed with his intellect and his humility. He took a lot of heat when he opposed the Iraq war. He hated what it was doing to our troops and their marriages.
He was a gentleman, a scholar and a true patriot. May he rest in a well deserved peace.
Jane Q Peterson
James Henry Leighton
May 19, 2024
Had the opportunity to serve with General John while in the UNC Honor Guard from 1979-80. Very much a gentleman and a great leader.
Joe R. Downs Jr.
May 19, 2024
"Ad astra per aspera" GEN. Wickham. May God provide peace to your family with the certain knowledge that this is not goodbye, only farewell till we rejoice in the Heavens. You pinned my wings on me in 1977 as I stood awestruck and somewhat frightened in your presence. Your leadership and guidance are a part of the 101st Legacy. I am proud to have known you, served alongside you, and Honor your life. Your indomitable will and personality are now imbedded in the lives of your children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. Ya'll can be proud, for he is a soldier's soldier. Heaven is secure with you and CSM Joe Bossi and all those others holding a place marker for us to follow on....... "Air Assault, Sir!"
Ronald Valentine
May 18, 2024
Dear General Wickham's Family,
I am deeply saddened to hear of the passing of General Wickham. He was a great American hero, one whom I admired deeply and had the honor of serving under in Korea. He spent a day with me in Korea and I learned about him and his vision for the Army.
His leadership, dedication, and unwavering commitment to his country left an indelible mark on all soldiers.
May you find solace in knowing that General Wickham's legacy will continue to inspire countless others. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
God bless General Wickham's family.
With deepest sympathy,
Ronald Valentine
Eddie Ratcliffe
May 18, 2024
The first time I ever met LTC. Wickham was at Camp Evans in Vietnam as the 5/7 Battalion of the 1st Cavalry was preparing to secure the Que Son Valley and ready our move North for the 1968 TET Offensive. I was called into his Command Center and asked how we, the 229th Pathfinder team would help with the operation. He was very receptive to what I explained and said "Thank you, Sergeant." He was very easy to work with and received suggestions very well. Frankly, I was initially afraid of him, but he put me at ease right away.
Alan Wilenken
May 18, 2024
I was in Charlie company when the NVA attacked LZ Colt. Gen Whickham told the Battalion commander not to let the wounded women from the village see all that was there. The doctor over ruled him. Look up Battle of LZ Colt. Whole story told. SGT Alan Wilenken C5/7. March 67-March 68. Rest in peace General.
Craig Nedball
May 18, 2024
LZ Colt, the Army downgraded this hero's true award, he continued to command the 5/7 supported by Bravo company. RIP General Wickham.
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