Gerald Thomas Hayes

1936 - 2020

Gerald Thomas Hayes obituary, 1936-2020, Gridley, IL

Gerald Thomas Hayes

1936 - 2020

BORN

1936

DIED

2020

Gerald Hayes Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Sep. 12 to Sep. 13, 2020.
Gerald Thomas Hayes, 84, of Gridley, passed away at 9:00 a.m. Friday (September 11, 2020) at his home.

He was born on January 8, 1936 in Peoria, Illinois to Francis and Marie Connors Hayes. He married Judith A. Haxel on May 19, 1973, she survives.

He is survived by one brother Joseph (Rose), Silvis, Illinois and many nieces and nephews whom he loved very much and best friend Ralph (Marge) Kuntz, Gridley, Illinois.

Jerry was preceded in death by his parents, one brother, William, two sisters, Mary Gilligan and Jane Merna and four nephews.
Jerry was a lifelong Gridley resident graduating from Gridley High School in 1954.

He began his career at Hart Carter, moving to McKey and Rogge Grain Company, Garvey Grain and finally Stoller International for eighteen years. After retirement he worked for Kiefer Brothers and Brandt Fertilizer during planting and harvesting in addition to the various organizations his wife volunteered him for. Jerry also volunteered for the American Red Cross – Heartland Division and assisted at disasters in California, Illinois and Tennessee. Jerry was honored by the Gridley Emergency Medical Service (GEMS) for his dedication and service beginning with the organizations inception. He was a lifelong member of St. Mary's Catholic Church of El Paso, the Knights of Columbus and of the Gridley Community Club.

Jerry enjoyed spending winters in Florida, traveling with his friends, coffee at the restaurant and gas station, riding his tricycle around the town and getting into trouble with his best friend Ralph Kuntz.

Jerry was a good friend to all and will be missed greatly.

Funeral Mass will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Monday, September 14, 2020 at St. Mary's Catholic Church in El Paso. Father Robert Rayson will officiate. Visitation will be held from 4-7 p.m. on Sunday, September 13, 2020 at St. Mary's Catholic Church in El Paso and also from 9:30-10:00a.m. on Monday at the church. Rosary will held at 3:45 p.m. on Sunday, September 13, 2020 at the church. Burial will be held at St. Mary's Catholic Cemetery in El Paso. Social distancing guidelines will be observed during the visitation and funeral service and masks are required. Ruestman-Harris Funeral Home in El Paso is handling arrangements for the family.

Memorials can be made to the Gridley Emergency Medical Service (GEMS), 105 E. Third St., Gridley, Illinois, 61744 and St. Mary's Catholic Church, P.O.Box 197, El Paso, Illinois, 61738. Online condolences may be made to the family at www.ruestmanharrisfuneralhome.com.

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Jay Pfister

September 6, 2022

Sure glad to have known Jerry. He is definitely missed!

Isabel Parrott

September 14, 2020

Dear Cousin Judy-may your many wonderful and joyful memories of sweet Jerry carry you through this unfathomable time of loss and grief. His was a life well lived and you could always tell he adored you deeply. My heart embraces you dear Judy. He was such a joyful member of the Parrott and Stayton families. Truly grieving for your loss of your dear sweet and kind husband. He will be truly missed. Love and God Bless, Cousin Isabel Marie

Kim Kapraun

September 13, 2020

Judy I am so sorry for your loss. I will be thinking about you in the coming days and if I can do anything for you please reach out. Thoughts and prayers for you.

Fred Gilman

September 13, 2020

I worked with Jerry. He was a good friend and an example of an all around kind person.

Virginia Akins

September 12, 2020

Jerry was married to my cousin Judy and he was a great addition to our family. I always enjoyed any time spent with them and I know they were always together. Jerry was a great guy with a smile on his face. We will miss you Jerry.

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