Gordon Noel Kohnke

Gordon Noel Kohnke obituary, Wayne, IL

Gordon Noel Kohnke

Gordon Kohnke Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 24, 2025.
In Loving Memory of Dad

It is only fitting that Gordon Noel Kohnke entered this world on Christmas Day, born to Edna Louise and Joseph Edward Kohnke. Just as the holiday embodies joy, love, and togetherness, Gordon lived his life reflecting those very qualities. His warmth, kindness, and generous spirit made every room brighter, and his laughter had a way of lifting those around him. To know Gordon was to feel valued, cared for, and loved.

Affectionately known as "Gordie," he was a man who brought people together, much like his favorite film character, George Bailey from It's a Wonderful Life. He devoted his life to others-offering a helping hand, giving selflessly, and expecting nothing in return. His strength and devotion to his family echoed the resilience of another of his heroes, John Wayne. Gordon faced life's challenges with courage and determination, including his brave battle with stage 4 colon cancer. Through chemotherapy, surgeries, a clinical trial, and ultimately pneumonia, he fought with unwavering willpower and dignity.

Gordon loved life's adventures. Before his illness, he delighted in traveling. He traveled to Canada and Alaska with his own father, Joe. He went to the Pro Bowl in Hawaii with his children and was even mistaken for Joe Montana a few times! He loved trips to Florida and his last big trip was to England where his daughter Jennifer presented her research at Oxford University. He dedicated a significant portion of his career to Delta Airlines, where his connection to airplanes and flying was cultivated.

Yet, his heart was most at home in Williams Bay, Wisconsin, at the family cottage. There, he found peace and joy-fishing at sunrise with his brother Warren, boating on the lake, and gathering for barbeques with his sisters Sharon and Debbie "Doober," especially meaningful when joined by his brother Wayne. These simple moments of laughter, stories, and love were treasures he held close.

At Sunrise Chevrolet, Gordon built another family. His colleagues remember him for his kind words, uplifting humming of songs, and genuine concern for others. Whether offering advice or simply sharing a smile, Gordon left a lasting mark on everyone he met.

Above all, family was Gordon's greatest pride and joy. He was deeply proud of his son Joseph (Joey) and often gifted him books on leadership to encourage his journey. He stood proudly by his daughter Jennifer's side as she earned her doctorate, celebrating her every accomplishment. Nothing brought Gordon more happiness than being "Papa" to his grandchildren, Benjamin and Samantha, who were his heart. Though he will no longer walk beside them, he will forever guide them in spirit-especially when they cast a line into the water, remembering their beloved Papa.

Gordon's love extended to animals as well. His beloved cats Moon and Tiger, grandcat Molly Maisie, and granddog Violet were constant companions, and in his honor, donations to local animal shelters are welcomed.

For 54 years, Gordon shared an unshakable bond with his beloved wife, Terry. Gordon leaves behind Terry, his daughter Jennifer, his son Joseph (Katie), and his cherished grandchildren Benjamin and Samantha.

Though there will be no formal service, the family invites all who knew and loved Gordon to share their memories. Each story, each reflection, will keep alive the legacy of a man whose love and kindness touched so many lives.

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Deb

Earlier today

My whole life you were there for me. Being my big brother, taking care of me, teasing me and making me laugh! Not pink or blue....
Christmas was the best sharing our birthdays I can't imagine not calling you on the 25th snd getting a call from you on the 26th. The firsts will be hard.
I have so many good memories as far back as I can remember. I miss everything about you and am so mad that cancer took you away. I know you are watching us from heaven shaking your head saying "What a Beauty" until we meet again Love you Gordo.
Deb

Jim Heun

Yesterday

I was fortunate to have known Gordon. He was so special to many. He was a loving caring and such a generous person in so many ways. My heart goes out to his family and know he will be missed by everyone.

Jennifer Kohnke

Yesterday

Dad, there are so many things I want to say and to celebrate about you. You were and will always be my hero. You always saw so much potential in me and gave me the encouragement to follow all my dreams. Whenever I´ve been sick, it didn´t take long for my garage door to open and for you to be here dropping off medicine or whatever I needed. Or hearing the garage open because you were dropping off packages from the post office, or something you picked up for me. I miss hearing, "Helllooooo Jen Jen." Your voice had the ability to make me smile, take away any pain, and fill my heart with joy. I loved how you always got excited to find a bargain. Going to garage sales and estate sales was "our thing." And we had so many inside jokes between the two of us. The best is when we´d start laughing so hard that we couldn´t stop. You were also the master carpenter. There was nothing you couldn´t fix. Even if there was no "traditional" way to fix something, you´d come up with your own special way. I remember crying as a little kid when you would be at work. I´ve never liked being away from you. We´ve always had the closest father-daughter bond and I´m beyond grateful for that. I look at Molly and she wouldn´t be here today if you didn´t help save her. You were always doing for others and had the biggest heart of anyone I know. We had so much fun up at the cottage and those will always be some of the best memories. This past year the visions of you crying and telling me that you didn´t want to die are burned into my mind and heart. I promised you that you wouldn´t and I wish I could have saved you. You loved life and you fought so very hard. You are and will always be the best Dad I could have ever asked for. Thank you for being you. I love you, Daddy. Love, Jen Jen.

Michael Lamczyk

September 24, 2025

I didn't know Gordon personally, but his daughter Jennifer is a cherished friend who has given me insight into what kind of man and father he was. My condolences to the entire family.

Samantha Klausing

September 24, 2025

Thank you so much Gordon for teaching me so much at Sunrise. Always a kind person. We worked together for 14 years and you always tried to guide me. I'll truly miss you!

Warren Kohnke

September 24, 2025

Great times!!

Chuck Bibbiano

September 24, 2025

I remember when we heard Joe and Katie were having a baby. Gordon and I talked about how exciting it was going to be grandfathers . It was always fun talking to Gordon at family parties .

Warren Kohnke

September 24, 2025

Rest in peace dear brother. You will be missed more than you will ever know and will be forever fondly remembered for the joy you spread everywhere you traveled. Fishing will never be the same but I am thankful for the fun we had looking for the big ones! I hope you and dad have hooked up and will find some good spots so when I get there we can continue to enjoy early mornings on the water! I will miss your generosity, your smile, cussing the Chicago Bears every Sunday and sharing a cool one on your deck!

Laurie Szwast

September 24, 2025

May God bless you Gordon with all the riches of Heaven.
You are a beautiful soul.
You will always be in my heart
Love you bunches
Laurie

Tammy Williams

September 24, 2025

Gordon, I miss you and I love you, always. You and Terry were there for my girls and I no matter what and I will be forever grateful. Rest in heaven sweet Angel, such a good, good man with a beautiful heart and smile.

Sharon Yanz

September 24, 2025

I miss you so much little brother! I find solace in all the great memories you left behind. You always had a way of sharing life's cherished moments that showed how much you cared!

Sean Donato

September 24, 2025

I´ve had the pleasure to work with Gordon for 22 years at Sunrise Chevrolet. Gordon and I had a special love for stocks. I actually purchased my first stock with Gordon. I´ll never forget one day after we bought GM I got this call from Gordon while I was at home and he told me "Sell GM"!! lol. He always looked out for other people. Such a great heart. I know he loved his family and the lake. I was so happy for him to get his spot on the lake. I knew that was his happy place. He will be forever missed here by me and the dealership.

Sean Donato

Debbie Kohnke Swenson

September 24, 2025

Miss you so much Gord! Love you always Doober

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