Grace Kathleen Shillinglaw

Grace Kathleen Shillinglaw obituary, Albany, NY

Grace Kathleen Shillinglaw

Grace Shillinglaw Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 22, 2025.
Shillinglaw, Grace K.

ALBANY - Grace Kathleen Shillinglaw, 83, passed away peacefully on June 19th, 2025 after a long illness. Born in Albany NY, Grace was the daughter of the late Bernard DiPace and Catherine Igo DiPace, and the wife of the late Perry Shillinglaw for 37 years. Employed as a Purchasing Agent with the New York State Department of Corrections prior to her retirement in 2004, Grace was an avid gardener, a long-time New York State Rose Society judge, and enjoyed a good round of golf. Most of all, Grace was our heart and home and she truly loved taking care of her family, along with her many dogs and cats.

Grace was the beloved mother of Ralph, John, Kevin, Kim (Dawn Oliver) and the late Mark Bellanger, step-mother to Christopher Shillinglaw (Janna) and Heather Shillinglaw Johnson (Matthew); grandmother of Nicole, Jennifer, Bridget, Morgan, Margaret and Shaun Bellanger, Evelyn and Daniel Shillinglaw, and the late Rebecca Bellanger Halasz; great-grandmother of Grace Betzweiser, Damie and Cara DeCan, Kailee Bellanger and Christopher Sherrod; sister of Robert DiPace (Christine), Bernard DiPace (Carol), Patricia Briggs (Dean), Peter DiPace, Leonard Dipace (Ruth), Paula Dipace (Dale), Debra DiPace (Matt), the late Kathleen Newcomb (David), and the late Daniel DiPace (Lori). She is also survived by an incredibly large number of nieces, nephews and extended family.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Sunday, July 27th, 2025 from 1pm - 4pm at VFW Post 8692, 140 VFW Dr, Colonie, NY 12205.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Animal Protective Foundation https://www.animalprotective.org/give or a charity of your choice.

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June 24, 2025

Dianne Shearer Poteat Sochor posted to the memorial.

June 23, 2025

Carol Shearer Lettko posted to the memorial.

June 23, 2025

Kevin Moon posted to the memorial.

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Dianne Shearer Poteat Sochor

June 24, 2025

I am so sorry to hear of Gracie's passing. So many memories of my cousin.
Gracie and Cathy stayed at the 516 Third St house while their mother was recovering one year. My regrets to all of the DiPace family. Much Love to all.
Dianne Shearer Sochor (daughter of Mary Igo Shearer & Harry Shearer)

Carol Shearer Lettko

June 23, 2025

With my deepest condolences on the passing of dear Grace. My mother so enjoyed her visits and the laughter they shared together. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Carol Shearer (Lettko) and family.

Kevin Moon

June 23, 2025

Always enjoyed our trips to the casinos.
Sending love to all the family.

Lana Porter

June 23, 2025

So sorry about the loss of your dear sister, mother, aunt and loved one. Thoughts and prayers for you all.

Cindy DeBrocky

June 23, 2025

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

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