1945 - 2022
1945 - 2022
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Jack Hylton
October 17, 2025
Many happy memories of times together when we were young, I shall never forget the kindness shown to me by Val, Aileen and mostly Graham on the death of my Dad. I frequently looked for Graham online but in the wrong places. I am saddened that I found him when it was too late.
Jack Hylton
September 19, 2025
So long ago but so many memories. Condolences to all his family
Jack Hylton
September 18, 2025
So many happy memories and some sadness. Jack Hylton
Peter Arcuri
September 11, 2024
He was a great guy, made wine together at the SRJC he taught me a lot. I´m so sorry. Peter Arcuri
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Pam
June 15, 2023

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Pam
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Pam
June 15, 2023
One of the greatest loves of my life. Forever grateful for all the years of friendship, love and memories you gave. I´ll always remember you and Aileen with so much joy you brought to my life. Rest in peace my sweetie pie.
Catherine Dillue
December 17, 2022
I feel deeply saddened by hearing of my cousin Grahams passing,he will be deeply missed, he was my mother´s nephew and she was very upset to hear of his passing.
Jean Schere
December 17, 2022
Graham was one of my oldest friends. We met over 50 years ago when we were both at UPenn. We were indeed so close that I am godfather to his son Val whom I have not seen, to my utmost regret, for a very long time. It is indeed my fault but he did not try either to get in touch with me. Perhaps the passing of his dad will bring us together. We share a passion for rugby. That is a good start. My daughter Connie´s mate is a semi-pro in Northern Ireland and I am sure the two of them would benefit from knowing each other. Val, I am here for you. You can get in touch with me at [email protected]. You are welcome to visit us in Brittany whenever you feel like it. Is your grand mom still alive? If she is, give her my love. I really loved your dad. We had many wonderful times together whether in the US or in France. He chose to live in California because of his love of wines while I elected to stay on the East Coast to pursue an academic career. I was never fond of California.Too liberal for an old Tory like me. I wish he had chosen to pursue his love for viticulture in France, South Africa or New Zealand. I guess his choice was guided by his need to be near you.
Graham was the very epitome of the English gentleman. I loved him for it. He was always there for a friend in need and very generous with his time and money. I got my first car thanks to him: a green beetle. I could never ride his 750 Honda. Scared the dickens of out of me. I have very fond memories of our drinking together with his old pal Lord Rudy Russell. Hope to hear from you soon. Allez les Bleus for the next World Cup.
Rosalind Frederiksen
December 16, 2022
We were shocked to see that our cousin Graham Parnell had passed away, our deepest sympathy to his family in Santa Rosa CA. We had been trying to contact relatives for months after our anty Aileen passed away earlier this year.
ARMELLE INIZAN
December 13, 2022
I just learned through the internet this morning that Graham has left us. Graham and Aileen have been very good friends to me and my children after my husband's death, inviting us to Barbadoes. I can never thank them enough. I am deeply sorry for your loss. I will light a candle for Graham in the Church in La Clarté, Perros-Guirec, France. Graham was a very funny and generous person. My very sincere condolances to you Valentine and your mum Pascaline. Armelle Inizan (ex Schéré).
Jean schere
December 13, 2022
I am stunned to read that one of my oldest friends has passed. I wish my godson Val would get in touch with me at [email protected]
Graham will be sorely missed. Dr.Jean Schéré
Kathy F. Buskirk
October 23, 2022
Very sorry to read about the passing of Graham. I enjoyed his extensive knowledge of all wines.
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