Gretchen Grauer Vanderhoof

Gretchen Grauer Vanderhoof obituary, Trinity, FL

Gretchen Grauer Vanderhoof

Gretchen Vanderhoof Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 3, 2022.
Gretchen Grauer Vanderhoof, age 91, of Trinity Fl., formerly of Cleveland, OH, died peacefully July 27, 2022. Dear mother of Heidi (Glenn) Spurlock of Land O' Lakes, FL, Melanie (Dennis) McGauran of Viera, FL, loving grandmother of Addison (Kimiko) Cavanaugh of Ocoee, FL, and William (Allison) McGauran of Medford, MA.

Gretchen was a lifelong enthusiast of the arts. She was born August 9th, 1930 in Cleveland, Ohio, to artists and teachers William C. Grauer and Natalie Eynon Grauer. A newspaper interview from the 1950's shared a glimpse into her childhood.

""Her memories of a bohemian childhood are some of her fondest. There was the Fine Arts Studio where a young Gretchen rode her tricycle up and down aisles of artists practicing their craft. And there were glorious summers at the Greenbrier Hotel near Charleston, where her father taught art classes while painting murals at the legendary hotel. ""He would allow me to paint small spots on those murals,"" she shared. She would continue to paint and draw at her leisure for many years.

She attended Laurel School in Shaker Hts., Ohio and entered Briarcliff College in New York, where she studied art and design before returning to Cleveland to study at Western Reserve University (which would later become Case Western Reserve University.) She graduated with a Bachelor of Science degree in 1952. Her first job after graduating was working for the Newspaper Enterprise Association (NEA) adding color to their comic strips.

Gretchen always had a sophisticated eye for design and, in the mid-1970's, accepted a managerial position at a new store in Cleveland Heights. Design Corner opened up new trends in design, including the Finnish Marimekko line of fabrics. That same eye extended to fashion, where she excelled at selling in upscale boutique clothing stores. Gretchen always dressed in a chic, classic style.

After Bill Grauer's death in 1985, she worked on his behalf, keeping local newspapers up-to-date on any posthumous awards given to her father. She wanted to keep his artwork and legacy in the public eye. It elated her when the Smithsonian Museum of American Art accepted his 1929 painting ""Brick Kilns."" Later, she sent her father's awards, letters, photographs, etc. to the Smithsonian Institution's Archives of American Art, which became the ""Letters of William C. Grauer"" collection.

In 2000, she traveled with her family to the Greenbriar Hotel in West Virginia to see her dad's famed murals in both the Virginia Room and the President's Cottage Museum.

She moved to Florida that same year and joined The Fine Arts Society, whose volunteer fund-raising helped support the Gulf Coast Museum of Art in Clearwater.

Living independently after her husband's death (Charles David (Dave) Vanderhoof) in 1978, she showed endless strength, which is the legacy she has passed onto both her surviving daughters. She is predeceased by her half-sister, Blanche ""Beam"" Barloon, who died in 1999.

Gretchen had an exceptional laugh and a great sense of humor. She enjoyed looking out at the night sky; a ritual that perhaps dates back to her early teen years when she spent many summers with her dear cousin, Gwen Stoughton, and family at the Indiana Dunes. She was an avid reader who still enjoyed walking down book aisles at her local library at age 89. Fond memories include her magical talent in transforming a white linen napkin at a restaurant or holiday dinner into bunny ears with a bunny nose. Her daughters could be heard saying, ""do it again!""

Her invincible spirit will always be remembered; as well as her love for ice cream.

A Celebration of Life boat ceremony will be scheduled at a later date to scatter her ashes near the Neptune Memorial Reef in south Florida.

For those who wish to make a contribution in Gretchen's name, please send donations to:

Friends of the Seminole Library
c/o Seminole Community Library
9200 113th St.
Seminole, FL 33772

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Heidi

July 27, 2024

Mom, it´s been 2 years now since you left for the great beyond. The first year you left us, felt like it went at a snail´s pace and this year, seems to have flown by. I miss you and think of you often and sometimes you come visit me in a bizarre dream!
Travel on mom, I love you
Heidi

Melanie & Dennis

July 27, 2023

Hi Mom. I guess this is your first "Remembrance Day" or anniversary since you passed. I remember random moments like all of us attending Will´s wedding in Boston. Boy, you had the best time. I remember that you "escaped" us to walk over to the drugstore by yourself! You were so pleased that you had a chance to be independent again. Unquestionably, you were independent to the core.

I also remember our discussion about where you wanted to go after you died. You wanted Heidi and I to carry your ashes on a boat, and travel out to sea with Dixieland jazz music playing along the way. We didn´t talk about details. It was so gratifying when Heidi found a 2010 article you saved talking about the Neptune Memorial Reef because that is exactly where your plaque rests.

When we scattered your ashes, two large pink, Moon jellyfish rose to receive you. That was unbelievable. I like to think that these pink jellyfish carried you north just a few hundred miles to mix with the famous pink sands of Bermuda. You had the fondest memories of Bermuda after your visit to see a school friend all those years ago.

If not though, you are free to explore the world. We may have even gotten close to you on our own adventures on the seas. We know you are at peace. We feel it. Our love to you on your Remembrance Day.

Heidi

August 9, 2022

I love this photo from your 90th birthday. Not even glass could keep you from having a special day! I love and miss you mom.

Melanie

August 9, 2022

This is my favorite birthday photo of you. They didn't bring out a plate of dessert, they brought out a tray! Happy birthday mom.

Addison Cavanaugh

August 6, 2022

She always laughed at the quirky things I did, without questioning any of it. She never forgot a birthday. She relentlessly supported the pursuit of my dream career even when it seemed completely hopeless. She gave all of us our sense of pride in whatever art we chose to pursue.

She was Gram and she will be missed.

George Moseley

August 6, 2022

I knew Gretchen as Mrs Vanderhoof. She has a penchant for keeping life informal, relaxed and funny! Rather than being caught up in the stiff Shaker Heights social life, she sought intellectual pursuits and related to me and Melanie's other friends with genuine interest, compassion and understanding. This was unusual for that era (the 1970s) when most parents regarded us teenagers with skepticism, suspicion and doubt. She was a renaissance woman by all accounts, and I am privileged to have known her.

Hayes F.

August 4, 2022

Dear Melanie, What a wonderful and interesting life your mother led -- and what a great legacy she leaves in you and your sister and your children. If I ever make it to the Greenbrier, I will think of you all! Please accept my sincere condolences on this loss.

Bob Conte

August 4, 2022

I met Gretchen on her 2000 trip to The Greenbrier and we stayed in touch for years afterward. It was always a delight to hear her voice on the phone and keep up with her family stories.

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