Gunnar Martin Melder

Gunnar Martin Melder obituary, Midlothian, VA

Gunnar Martin Melder

Gunnar Melder Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 30, 2024.
Gunnar Martin Melder, age 68, of Midlothian, VA, passed away on March 29, 2024. He was born on April 6, 1955, in Rochester, New York.

Gunnar is survived by his son, Nikolaus Melder, daughter-in-law Lauren Melder, granddaughter Remi Melder, grandson Harrison Melder, brothers Hans Melder and Eric Melder.

He was preceded in death by his father, Edward Melder, and mother, Charlotte Melder (Fuhljahn).

Gunnar attended Rockland High School and later pursued higher education at the University of Southern Maine.

A dedicated member of Mt. Pisgah United Methodist Church in Midlothian, VA, Gunnar found solace and community in his faith.

In his leisure time, Gunnar enjoyed rowing with the Richmond Community Rowing group.

A service to celebrate Gunnar's life will be held on April 11, 2024, at 10:30 AM ET at Mt. Pisgah United Methodist Church in Midlothian, VA.

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April 12, 2024

Chip Rinker posted to the memorial.

April 10, 2024

Ken Kuliga posted to the memorial.

April 6, 2024

Steve Church posted to the memorial.

Chip Rinker

April 12, 2024

On behalf of the Rinker family, we wish to express our deepest sympathies to Nikolaus and his family. Gunnar kept in contact with his brothers-in-law and we appreciated him reaching out to us. May he rest in peace.

Ken Kuliga

April 10, 2024

Our condolences go out to Gunnar´s son and family, his brothers and his church family and all of those that loved him! Gunnar was brave, tough and inspiring as he battled cancer over the past year and a half! He never complained, was always positive, secure in his faith and after a phone conversation with him you felt encouraged and blessed! Not sure how he did it, yes I do, it was his relationship with Christ! I am so thankful for our trip down to see him last year,( Mal, Mark, Pix, Greg, Jimmy), we went hoping to encourage Gunnar and instead he blessed us with his strength, determination and love. Gunnar was a true friend, classmate, fraternity brother and most of all a brother in Christ! Ken and Cheryl Kuliga

Steve Church

April 6, 2024

Nik, our prayers are with you and your family. I hope that the memories of you as a young boy at your Dad´s side and his pride in your accomplishments and growth of your family give comfort to you. Rest in peace, Gunnar.

David Monday

March 31, 2024

Gunnar was a good man and a true inspiration.

dave moody

March 30, 2024

Gunnar was a true friend, no BS with that man.

David Hilt

March 30, 2024

Gunnar was a beloved member of the Phi Mu Delta Fraternity at the University of Southern Maine in Gorham, he pledged membership in the Spring of 1974. He was liked and respected by ever member and was a valued member of our Alumni Association for many, many years. Our entire Alumni Association, all 535 members, send their deepest condolences to his son and family members, and our prayers, thoughts and love go with Gunnar. Dave Hilt F'73, President; PMD - NU XI Alum Assoc.

Susan Curtis

March 30, 2024

It was great to reconnect with Gunner these last several years. So many fond, fun memories from our high school years. I loved getting an occasional call and hearing about his latest crewing adventure. He cherished his family, fraternity, neighbors and church friends. Condolences to his family. He will always hold a special place in my heart. RIP Gunner.

Bill Harjula

March 30, 2024

Gunnar and I were classmates at RDHS. Many memories of classes shared, hanging out together and always, always , remember the grey Saab!!

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