Harry R Elia

Harry R Elia obituary, Emerson, NJ

Harry R Elia

Harry Elia Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 22, 2024.
Harry R. Elia, 71, of Emerson, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on May 19, 2024. He was born on May 11, 1953, in Brooklyn, NY. Harry was a proud, lifelong resident of Emerson. He graduated from Emerson High School in 1971, earning varsity letters in football and baseball. Harry was captain of the wrestling team and the first Emerson wrestler to compete in the NJ state tournament. Harry had a deep passion for sports and found great fulfillment in coaching young athletes. He coached football and wrestling at Emerson High School from 1975 to 1980, founded the Emerson junior wrestling program, and coached junior baseball, softball, wrestling and football in Hillsdale. He earned his undergraduate degree from Trenton State College where he was a letterman on the football and wrestling teams and was a proud member of the Sigma Tau Chi fraternity. He later went on to graduate from New York Chiropractic College in 1983, after which he served his community as a chiropractor and healer, dedicating his life to helping others. One of Harry's proudest achievements was publishing his book, 7 Element Lifeforce Healing, which was the culmination of a lifetime of medical and spiritual study and practice.

Harry was known for his compassionate nature and was a loving father to his children, Cherilyn and John Elia. He is also survived by his dear friend, Michele Gioffre, his grandchildren, Lily and Logan, and daughter-in-law, Samantha. He was preceded in death by his father, John R. Elia, mother, Anna Elia (née Tavernia), and sister, Camille Conrad. Harry deeply cherished his personal and family relationships, including his brother John, sister-in-law Andi, brother-in-law Gordon, and his nieces, nephews, friends, and patients.

A memorial service will be held on Friday, May 24th, from 3-7pm at Becker Funeral Home in Westwood, NJ.

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May 24, 2024

Joyce Post posted to the memorial.

May 23, 2024

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May 22, 2024

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Joyce Post

May 24, 2024

I met Harry through my husband Vernon and Harry was quick to become my friend and helped heal me in many ways. A dear soul. He will be missed. I´m so sorry for your loss.

Steve Natoli

May 23, 2024

Harry and I shared some great times coaching youth football. He impacted each one of the boys he coached with his enthusiasm and football knowledge. He was a great guy that will be sorely missed.

Jaime Shanahan

May 22, 2024

Around 20 years ago my dear friend said to me I found the best chiropractor in the area and he´s a great person! Then a client said to me he found the best chiropractor helping his son through hard times, then still I ran into my friend Cherilyn I had known for so many years and realized Harry was her father! I called Harry telling him how the universe was clearly trying to connect us and we just laughed. Right from that first call he felt like family. He´s known me through two weddings, 2 children, has helped me countless times through healing and was the most amazing, selfless person I have ever known. The laughs, the cries and all that was shared over the years will forever be appreciated and you will always be thought of and missed. Sending love to your family and loved ones.

Gail Finney

May 22, 2024

Playing wiffleball in backyard. I was always on his team. He was the best. Always putting himself before everyone else. Youvwill be missed Harry. Rest peacefully cuz.

John LaSpina

May 22, 2024

Growing up, i had countless memories of Harry: Playing wiffle ball in his back yard (Pirates vs Yankees) stratomatic football (Packers vs Chargers), lifting weights in his garage, golf, Emerson Football, eating at Friendlys and many more. Harry was the only person i ever knew who had a monkey as a pet. Harry was a good friend and person. He will be missed.

John T Smith

May 22, 2024

Playing wiffle ball in his backyard growing up as he imitated the Pittsburgh Pirate players as he batted will stick in my head forever.It was great, hilarious .We also looked forward to spending time with him in the summer in the backyard pool ,the trips to Dairy Queen.He was such a admirable guy and liked by everyone.He will always be remembered as a kind hearted person and will never be forgotten in our hearts

Janet Buckles

May 22, 2024

Dr. Elia was a kind, compassionate man who truly tried to help others. He took care of my mom for many years. Condolences to his family.

Janice & Pascal Denis

May 22, 2024

We will never forget how he had us laughing for hours with his rendition of "I´m a Barbie Girl ". He will remain always in our hearts.

Bill "Bear" Hays

May 22, 2024

Harry and I were wrestling teammates and workout partners at TSC. We pledged ETX fraternity together and shared an apartment our junior year. He was a great wrestler but an even better person. He was one of the nicest, most upbeat people I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. I never heard Harry say a bad word about anyone. He will be missed but always remembered with love and fondness. Rest in peace "Harry the Hat".

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