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Harry James Henderson Jr. went to be with his Lord and Savior on Sunday, April 24, 2011.
He was born in Charlottesville, Virginia, on January 27, 1960, to the late Harry James Henderson Sr. and his surviving mother, Ethel Lee Henderson of Charlottesville, Virginia.
He graduated from Charlottesville High School in 1978 and continued his education at Indiana University of Pennsylvania. He was a part of various organizations; to name a few, Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity Inc. and also a member of the Pride of Virginia Masonic Lodge #122. Harry was employed GE Fanuc. He held multiple positions in the Masonic Lodge, including past Worship Master, Grand Tyler of the State of Virginia, Deputy Grand High Priest for Sharon Royal Arch, and Grand Oriental Guide for the Shriners. He also founded three Phi Beta Sigma chapters and the dean of four. He was a coach for the Waynesboro High School Step Team for many years and volunteered his services at the Salvation Army and other community groups. He was an active member of the Democratic Party, hosting many important events.
In addition to his mother, he leaves to cherish his memory, his two daughters, Chiquay Burton and Sheanell Burton of Charlottesville, Virginia. His sister, Margaret Henderson-Anderson and her husband, Dan Anderson, of Charlottesville, Virginia; his two brothers, Michael Johnson and his wife, Sandra Johnson, of Schuyler, Virginia; and Samuel Henderson and his fiancee, Sandra Hicks of Charlottesville and Richmond, Virginia; one nephew, Christopher Henderson of Waynesboro, Virginia; and a number of cousins, other relatives, and close friends.
Funeral services will be held 12 p.m. Saturday, April 30, 2011, at First Baptist Church, 632 West Main Street with Pastor Hodari K. Hamilton officiating. Interment will follow at Riverview Cemetery.
The family will receive friends at the church one hour prior to the service.
J.F. Bell Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements www.jfbellfuneralhome.com.
This obituary was originally published in the Daily Progress.
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Joe Teague
April 22, 2024
Fond Memories of Harry and the Henderson Family came to mind at Lorraine Williams Funeral. Services were held at Jefferson School where Sam and I kept the "Johnson School Thing" going. Tributes to Lorraine and husband Eugene brought to mind Harrys work for the Charlottesville Community for many years until his death. May Harrys Memory bring comfort to the Family and inspiration to all. REST IN PEACE Joe Teague
Joe Teague
April 20, 2020
A Blessing to us while alive and a Blessed Memory for Eternity.
Jeff Moore
November 3, 2011
We were classmates decades ago at CHS. I remember Harry fondly. God speed, Harry.
Pamela Kidd Hall
August 24, 2011
I just found this through another link on Facebook; I remember Harry very fondly...He was a great guy!
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May 24, 2011
Harry was a very special person.Blessings to the family.
Deborah Ayres-Harding,Newark,Delaware
melissa moore
May 16, 2011
The Harry family my family and I send our condolences. Our brother will truly be missed.
Tom Vandever
May 9, 2011
My deepest condolences to Harry's family and friends. Harry was a very special person who seemed to dedicate himself to making life better for everyone, and he definitely made Charlottesville a better place. He certainly made my life brighter and happier, and I will miss him greatly.
May 8, 2011
May God Be with Harry's Family Forever.
Just know of what a gentleman he was. Class of 78.--Ruby Brown--Texas
J. Coles
May 3, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Harry was a very thoughtful and dependable person. I will miss him.
Clifton & Rhonda Wood
May 1, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jim Salmon
May 1, 2011
To the Henderson Family, my deepest condolences to all of you in Harry's passing. I worked with him at GE Fanuc. A good man gone.
Stephen Quinn
May 1, 2011
I knew Harry well. He was a friend and loved by all--truly a great guy. My sympathies to his family.
Darrell Howard
April 30, 2011
I worked with Harry years ago at NBC29. He was a helpful co-worker and solid friend well liked by all on the production staff in those days. May he rest in peace.
April 30, 2011
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.
2 Corinthians 1:3,4
To the Henderson family: May the peace and comfort of God be with you today and always.
I was a classmate of Harry's and I hope that you find comfort in the cherished memories of his life and good works. Ricky Howard
Carla Daniels
April 29, 2011
My prayers are with the Henderson Family! I too will never forget all the Stepp Team moments with Coach Henderson! Gone but never forgotten.Carla Daniels(Assistant Coach and Videographer)
Carla Miles Woods
April 29, 2011
To the Henderson Family: I am saddened by the news of Harry's passing. I had the opportunity to meet Harry when I was a Sigma Sweetheart for the Zeta Eta Chapter at UVA. No matter what fraternity activity the brothers or sweethearts were doing, Harry was always there helping. I will fondly remember his spirit of generosity and I will continually lift your family in prayer.
Donna Dempsey
April 29, 2011
I went to high school with Harry and will always remember his big smile and wonderful gift of making people feel special. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Gloria Beard
April 29, 2011
Sorry to hear of your loss.Harry is in the hands of God now and someday you will see him again.God bless you all. I will continue to keep you in mt prayers Sister Gloria Beard- First Baptist Church
Min Carol Johnson
April 29, 2011
We may mourn but not like those without hope. May you rest with the Lord.
Your cousin
Carol
Bessie Jones James
April 29, 2011
I am expressing my deepest sympathy to the family. Harry will truly be missed. May God be your comforter in this time of grief.
Kay Johnson
April 29, 2011
To the Henderson family! My prayers are with you.
KK.Johnson
Betty Randolph
April 29, 2011
My Deepest Condolences to the Henderson Family ! I will cherish our Stepp team moments ! Ms. Betty (Waynesboro Stepp Team Bus Driver )
Bro. Clark Jefferson
April 29, 2011
Bro. Sam and Family. I am going miss Bro Harry. I am sorry for your loss. Harry was a wonderful friend and Fraternity Brother. I will miss laugh and joking with him about everything. Bro. Clark Jefferson
Lisa & Rosemarie Johnson
April 29, 2011
To the Henderson Family:
May god bless each and everyone of you during this time of Bereavement.
Sherrika Nowell-Greene
April 29, 2011
To Chiquay & Sheanell, My Prayers are with you both. May God comfort your during your time of grief. I love you both!!
DeTeasa Brown
April 29, 2011
Harry's warm greetings and smile will forever be remembered. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Joel and Faye Bruce
April 29, 2011
To the Henderson family: Harry touched both our lives. His lifelong commitment to helping others and love of life willl not be forgotten. Sigma eternal.
Horace Riddick
April 28, 2011
T o Sam and the family ,God gives us gifts that we never forget and gave me a good friend i will never forget. GOD BLESS THE HENDERSON FAMILY .
Paige Gough
April 28, 2011
Sam and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Harry was a wonderful guy, and will be missed by all that knew him. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Please give your Mother my love.
April 28, 2011
To Sam and family! expressing my sympathy
and keeping you in my prayers.
Bro. William Watt
April 28, 2011
To the Henderson family! My prayers are with you.
Sis. Mary Martin
E'Beth Lambert-Watts
April 28, 2011
Dear Henderson family, I am sorry for your earthly loss of Harry. I too knew Harry in high school and so fondly remember his brilliant smile and happy disposition. He often made others smile with his kind and friendly words. May you find comfort in the peace that passes all understanding from our Heavenly Father.
george steppe
April 28, 2011
to the HENDERSON family sorry to hear of HARRY PASSING may god bring comfort in time of sorrow R.I.P. brother.
Juanita Mitchell
April 28, 2011
My heart truly hurts with the lost of my friend Harry.I will forever carry him in my heart.My sympathy to the family.He will be always be missed.
April 28, 2011
Sam and Henderson Family,
To God be the glory on this sad occasion may you find comfort from God to carry you throught.
Dee Braxton
Linda Woodfolk Felton
April 28, 2011
To the Henderson/Burton Families
May God bless you and be with you during your time of sorrow. Harry will be truly missed be everyone. He always had a kind word to say and a warm smile. The CHS class of 1978 will never forget a true friend and classmate. My prayes are with you.
Patti Binard
April 28, 2011
I am so sorry to hear of Harry's passing. I was fortunate to have gone to high school with Harry. He made many positive changes to this world . His memories will live forever in our hearts.
Felice Boling-Key
April 28, 2011
Harry has blessed us with his presence. He and I love a good debate. He wll be missed but I know he will enjoy heaven more. Absent from the body present with the Lord. Our prayers are with you family.
Very Truly Yours
Felice, Charles and Emonnie Boling-Key
LaDonna Lewis Ripberger
April 28, 2011
To the Henderson/Burton family -- Harry and I were in high school together and I'll always remember the way he could make everyone laugh. He has a wonderful spirit both inside and out and I know will be one of God's special angels. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.
Angela Estes
April 28, 2011
To the Henderson/Burton Families:
I too went to high school with Harry and have many, many happy memories to always keep happy in my heart. I know that your many, many happy memories will always keep you in peace and love with Harry.
You all are in my prayers during this time in your lives. May GOD be with each and everyone of you and "peace be still".
Sandra Wooten
April 28, 2011
To the Henderson/Burton family, this world has lost a treasure! I don't know anyone who gave as much of himself to others as Harry did. I pray you find comfort in the number of lives he touched in his time here, which in our eyes was all too short. But Jesus said, "Now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice, and no one will take away your joy." John 16:22
April 28, 2011
Henderson Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. Harry you will be missed! Jeffrey Harris (Coach of Louisa County Step Team)
Jim Bartelt
April 28, 2011
I did not know Harry well at CHS, as I was much more acquainted with his brother, Sam, in the Band program. However, I remember Harry's warmth and friendliness, and how universally liked he was throughout the school. Deep condolences and sympathy.
Jessica Cannon
April 28, 2011
My heart goes out to all of the Henderson family. I feel as though I've lost a family member myself. Harry was more than a Masonic brother, he was a good friend with a big smile !
May God continue to Bless you during this difficulty time.
Jessica,Joe
and the Delapp/Cannon Family
Rosemary Stovall
April 28, 2011
Deepest Condolences to the Family, Mom, Daughters, Brothers, and Sister as well as to all who were blessed to be touched by such a strong presence of Harry Henderson. I know my life was forever changed by knowing and working with him at GE. I am so deeply sorry for your loss and will continue to lift the family up in prayer. We will never be the same because of the strong and compassionate example of "living life to its fullest" Harry displayed. Thank you for sharing him with all of us. His presence, his vibrancy, and his enthusiasm touched us deeply. Harry was a go-getter, never a quitter in everything he set his heart and mind to accomplish. I admire him for showing us how to be so consistent and determined in whatever the object or the goal, never look for the negative. never accept failure, and in doing so Harry accomplished so much. He was so proud of his musical aspirations, his services, and all the affiliations in which he partook. What a great example and such huge footsteps he leaves for us to follow in. God Bless You All.
Rosemary
Robin Harmon Elliott
April 28, 2011
Sam - Your brother had an amazing smile! Praying for you and your family.
Hunter Hughes
April 28, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with the Henderson family during this time. I remember Harry from high school and that with his charming personality and bright outlook he made friends quickly with everyone he met.
April 28, 2011
There is comming a day when no heartaches shall come , No more clouds in the sky, no more tears to dim the eye. All is peace forevermore on that happy golden shore, What a day a glorius day that will be.There'll be no SORROW there no more BURDENS to bear,no more SICKNESS, no more PAIN no more parting over there; AND FOREVER HE WILL BE WITH THE ONE WHO DIED FOR US ALL, WHAT A DAY A GLORIOUS DAY THAT WILL BE.
To the Henderson family, Harry will be missed.
GE. Friend, Dora Estes
April 27, 2011
To the Henderson Family:
Sorry for your loss.Harry will be missed!
Davina Jackson
Lena Steppe-Jones
April 27, 2011
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Vicki Martin
April 27, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Pamela Person
April 27, 2011
To the Henderson Family: My deepest condolences to you for the loss of a wonderful human being. I met Harry in my freshman year at IUP. We were very tight then. I lost touch with him over the years but was blessed to reconnect with him on FaceBook in 2009. It was as if time stood still as we picked up where we left off. He was like my brother from another mother. I will miss all of the talks we had. To the family I say: Weeping my endure for a night but joy comes in the morning. Know that Harry is resting in the arms of God and will be with you in spirit daily. Keep the memories of him close in your heart and they will keep you. Skee-Blue my MIAKA Brother and Brother in every sense of the word. You have fought the fight now take your rest.
Joe Teague
April 27, 2011
To Sam and Momma Henderson,
Although I mourn with you, I also am thankful that I could count Harry as well as Sam as friends from way back in the day. We all will miss a good man who tried to do his best and care for others as he lived his life. God grant his peace that passeth all understanding.
Rev.kenneth jones
April 27, 2011
with the power and might of GOD i do hereby give my condolences to the family, Harry will be greatly missed. Rev Kenneth L Jones
Jackie Houchens
April 27, 2011
To the Henderson Family:
I am so sorry for your loss of Harry. I knew Harry from working at GE, and he enjoyed talking with people while encouraging them. I pray that the Lord will bring you all comfort in the difficult days ahead.
April 27, 2011
Mother, Sam, and Margaret
My heart is heavy over Harry's passing. I have such great memories. You all where my extended family when I moved to Charlottesville. Harry was always the "big" brother. He took care of every body. He will be missed.
My prayers go out to you and if you need anything. Don't hesistate to call!
Deanna Reed
Marie Woodfolk
April 27, 2011
To the Henderson Family, God Bless you all and I am sorry for your lost of a dear loved one. Harry may you always continue to smile and be at peace with our Lord and Savior. Marie M.Woodfolk
April 27, 2011
To the Henderson family, may God look over you durring this time, I went to CHS with Harry long time friend and he will be greatly missed, but knowing Harry he is in a better place and he is looking down upon us and smillin that big smile
April 27, 2011
I am very sorry to hear of Harry's passing. He was such a great person and I enjoyed his conversations and the love he showed his fellowman. We worked together some years back but he was one of the ones I never forgot.
Kitty Dickerson
Larry Hodges
April 27, 2011
Harry and I met at IUP and recently reunited again on FB! We often talked about getting together with our old friends from campus. His untimely death,truly saddens me! It also let's me know that life is short and not to be taken for granted! Condolences to The Henderson Family!
Willis Winslow
April 27, 2011
My deepest and most heart felt condolences go out to the Henderson family. My Big Brother Harry was an exceptional human being and all around righteous brother. I will cherish his memory. Willis R Winslow, Jr. Pi Nu Chapter, JMU 1991.
Curley Anderson-Haliburton
April 27, 2011
To the Henderson Family:
I am so sorry for the passing of your love one Harry. He was a great guy and I will forever remember how pleasant he was. May god look over all of you through this time of sadness. Keep your heads high and know that he is being taken care of.
Marvin Jones
April 26, 2011
I am deeply sadden to learn of Harry's sudden passing. Harry and I went to IUP and we were in fact roommates for a period of time. Harry also was a Fellow Brother of the Mighty Mighty Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity Inc. May we see each other on that "Great Yard" in the sky....dressed in Royal Blue and White..... Blue Phi....my brother, Blue Phi....Marvin Jones, Lamba Mu Chapter, Charter Line , 1979
April 26, 2011
To the Henderson Family,I'm sorry to hear of Harry's passing. I worked with Harry at G.E. and one of the things I'll always remember him for is (Let no one still your joy)He's with our Lord and savior now.God bless you all!
Mildred Dunnivan Barboursville Va
Jesse Blakey
April 26, 2011
Godbless you and your Family Ms Ethel
Bonnie Frazier
April 26, 2011
The Henderson Family,
I had the pleasure of working with Harry at GE. He always looked for the best in everyone and everything. Harry is now with the one who meant the world to him - Jesus. Look to God for comfort and strength during this difficult time. I'll never forget the last thing Harry said to me - "Don't ever let anyone steal your Joy! So just remember - Joy does come in the morning. May God bless each of you who loved this man who was such an inspiration to others and so full of "Joy".
Mario Williams
April 26, 2011
My Condolences to the Family for the loss of my Frat Bro. Harry J. I went to school with Harry at IUP and re connected again in VA. You will trully be missed...Blue Phi Forever....
Lambda MU
James & Cathie Alston
April 26, 2011
Henderson Family,
Although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear, just know that you are very close in every thought and prayer
Cheryl G. Robinson
April 26, 2011
Sam,
Our thoughts & prayers are with you & your family @ this time. Harry was a frat of My Brother Lawrence aka Larry . We are deeply sadden by Harry's passing,but know he is safe in The arms of Jesus. May God give you & your family during days to come. The Gross-Robinson family
Judith Thompson-Garland
April 26, 2011
RIP, Harry. You fought a good fight. I pray you are resting in the arms of our Saviour Jesus Christ.
JJ
April 26, 2011
My condolences to the Henderson Family. I worked with Harry at G.E. a fun loving person, talked many times about life, Christ and everything in between. I know he loved Christ, HE'S IN HIS CARE!!! Rest my Brother!! YOU WILL BE MISSED!!
Paul Davis
April 26, 2011
I also went to school with Harry and will always remember his laughter and great sense of humor.He always had that smile with him and once Harry knew you , he never forgot you.
Veronica Davis
April 26, 2011
Our hearts are deeply sadden as we learn of our friend and colleague's passing. Harry served as Coach of the Waynesboro High School STEPP Team for more than 12 years. His dedication and leadership with our program was truly admired and greatly appreciated. We send prayers and our condolences to his family and friends.
Debbie, Burnard, Vince, Stephanie, Evan & Devin
April 26, 2011
To Aunt Ethel and the Family. Harry was a dear cousin and friend. He will be greatly missed. We love you all~
April 26, 2011
WHS Step Team Class of 98'
Sallie and Donna Adams
April 26, 2011
Dear Mike, Sandy, Sam and family,
We are so sorry for your loss of this precious and wonderful man. We will miss his smile, laugh, love and hugs.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bill Hamrick
April 26, 2011
Harry and I went to High School together. We were buddies and I credit part of my sense of humor to Harry. Always smiling, always laughing, and always there for all his friends. God must have him nearby as I am sure he too needs a good laugh at times. My prayers are with his family, as I am sure he is in a good place.
Earl Morton
April 26, 2011
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Ricky Washington
April 26, 2011
My Frat Brother, My Masonic Brother and Friend, you will be Greatly Missed by this World. Harry your service to the community will be hard to beat on any level. Take your Rest and Reward My Brother.
I Said Blu!! Blu!! Blu Fi
Bro. Washington
El'Carlos Coles
April 26, 2011
I have lost a good friend whom was like a brother to me. He will be sorely missed and never forgotten. My prayers and sympathy go out to the Henderson family. Rest in peace my friend.
Keith@Pamela Thomas
April 26, 2011
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Carolyn Harris
April 26, 2011
Words can't express the love that Harry had for everyone, he was a great person and will be truly miss.He was one in a million. I Say to the Henderson Family just be strong god will take care of you.
April 26, 2011
As Brothers and Sisters, we have all lost one of the good guys. Harry was a special person.
Having known him as a schoolmate, it is wonderful to see how he continued to make and sustain meaningful friendships.
Peace and love...Todd Williams Fairhope AL
Angie Dempsey Brannock
April 26, 2011
I went to high school with Harry and he has helped with a good number of our reunions. We will miss his easy laugh and sense of humor. My prayers are with Harry, his family, and friends.
Sylvia Hawkins Scott
April 26, 2011
I have lost a great Masonic Brother and a best friend that was closer than a brother. I will miss him tremendously. Ms Ethel, Sam, Margaret and girls, Our hearts are heavy but God will give you strength to go on. He was a great person. Our love and prayers are with you.
Sylvia, Daney, Amanda and Eboni
Iota Sigma
April 26, 2011
The Brothers of Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity, Iota Sigma Chapter would like to express our condolences to the family for the loss of our Bro. Harry. May God give you strength in this difficult time.
El'Carlos Coles
April 26, 2011
We have lost a very special human being in Harry. He was my best friend and the godfather to my son. My prayers go out to the Henderson family.
Dawn Good
April 26, 2011
So sorry for your loss. I worked with Harry and enjoyed talking with him, he was always ready to carry on a conversation. God Bless his entire family!
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