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Caroline Cervone McVitty
December 12, 2024
A brilliant director and teacher who brought beautiful music into the lives of students and audiences alike.
Anne Goll Shapiro
May 27, 2024
Mr. Mulder was a great inspiration to me when I sang in the THS chorus (1956-1959) and a community chorus he invited me to join. I later studied to be a solo singer and have performed and taught voice until now. He told us high school students that whatever else was going on in our lives when we grew up, we would always have music to give us meaning and joy, and that has definitely been true for me. He was a wonderful person and teacher.
Mulder Legacy Lives on in Hilton Head Shore Notes
Caroline McVitty
May 28, 2015
Cecy Milner Grabowski
January 2, 2012
Thank you Mr. Mulder for the gift of vocal music (TCHS Class of 1959). The high school choir, special group, community chorus, First Pres. Senior choir (and junior choir with Mrs. Mulder) were a great foundation for singing throughout my life. Where ever we moved, I always had a choir or singing group to enjoy. My deepest sympathy to Mrs. Mulder and the Mulder family.
Cecy Milner Grabowski
St.Paul, Minnesota and Bradenton, Florida
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Warren Rue
December 31, 2011
There aren't enough words nor the manner in which to speak them to convey how much this man, Harry "Bud" Mulder meant to my life. I was on an entirely different track in school when I came upon him through my parents and church and his influence completely changed my life. He demanded much from all of his students and birthed a product of excellence in their lives. May God truly bless this man, his wonderful wife "Dusty" and all the younger Mulders that still carry his message.
December 31, 2011
I will always love you Mr. Mulder and thank you for the years!!! Class of 1983, the last largest graduating class from Trenton Central High School.
December 30, 2011
Bud was my wonderful father in law and a a wonderful grandfather to my children: Johanna, John and Connor. God bless you Bud. We love you!
Carol
December 26, 2011
For hundreds and hundreds of TCHS students, church choir and chorus members, Harry Mulder was the musician and teacher of a lifetime. He leaves the richest of legacies to all of us - a lifetime of sharing his extraordinary talents, time, kindness, and encouragement.
Bud - your presence in my life was one of my greatest blessings. I know your life on earth is now honored in God's kingdom.
Peggy Brown
December 25, 2011
Mr. Mulder helped me so much musically. He inspired me. He will be missed. I pray that God will continue to bless his wife Martha (Dusty) and family.
Stan Phillips
December 22, 2011
The obituary from the Times was forwarded to me in CT. I am proud to say that I was lucky to be a student at TCHS in 1947 and was a "charter member" of many of the choirs,male chorus,and quartettes directed by "BUD". We became friends and colleagues. I sang in several of his church choirs. Lessons learned from his leadership and direction have stayed with me all these years. Kathy and I send our condolences to Dusty and the family.
Henry Lee
December 21, 2011
mr mulder was a great inspiration to me as a student at ths and with the mercer community chorus. he nurtured my love of choral music. Class of 1963.
Harry A. "Bud" Mulder
Stan Mulder, Jr.
December 21, 2011
Serge Goldstein
December 20, 2011
I started taking piano lessons from Harry some years ago. I had always wanted to play the piano, and thought I needed just a few lessons to get me going in the right direction. Five years later, I was still taking lessons with Harry, because he taught so much more than just how to play the notes. Harry taught you to feel and understand the music you were playing. He insisted, from the beginning, that you not just play a piece, but rather that you try to say something with music. That something could be what the composer intended, or it could be what the player intended, but it had to be something more than just notes (one of his favorite sayings was "look, you can play this Mozart piece as you like; after all, he's not going to object").
The room in which he taught was filled to the rafters with the music he had composed specifically for his students (many of his works are named for his students), each work carefully designed to convey a technical and a musical point. His knowledge of music was encyclopedic, and his love of music was profound and infectious. I was privileged to have him play for me some recordings of his choral groups and, most wonderfully, a recording of himself playing the trumpet (truly awesome!).
But as much as Harry loved and revered and cherished music, I think he loved and cared about people even more, and that is why I kept coming back. He was that rarest of teachers, someone who did not want his students to learn any specific set of pre-established skills, but rather who wanted his students to accomplish all that they could, and above all, to derive joy from the making of music.
He was a gentleman and a gentle man, a kind and considerate man, a superbly gifted musician, and the finest teacher I have ever known. The last thing he said to me as I left his house after our last lesson was, "keep practicing." I can think of no better way to honor his memory. Harry, I'll keep practicing.
Sharon Britt-Foreman
December 20, 2011
Hark,The Herald Angels are singing for truly Mr. Harry Mulder brought great joy to our world of music and vocal training. Thank you Mr. Mulder for sharing your Love and gift of Music helping me along with many others develop our Love For Music and Song. Until we meet again one of you many favorite students who will truly miss the teacher and friend you were Mrs. Sharon Denise Britt-Foreman
Sandra Jenkins
December 19, 2011
Mr Mulder was one of the best teachers I ever had. I was his student (TCHS class of '73) and a member of several choirs under his direction. May God be gracious to you family members and give you peace!
Harry A. Mulder Coast Guard Photo circa 1944.
Stan Mulder, Jr.
December 19, 2011
I am proud of the life my Uncle Bud (Harry A. Mulder) lived. He was an accomplished musician and taught many students privately and in schools and churches. He was a great father and husband. And to me he was a great uncle. He was an honorable person always. He grew tomatoes in his back yard and he and my Dad sent the same birthday card back and forth between New Jersey to Florida for... about 20 years I think. It is gratifying to see that so many people were affected positively though his musical talents. He was a good older brother and mentor to my Dad too growing up.
December 19, 2011
My sympathies and prayers to the Mulder Family...Thank you of sharing such a wonderful person with so many of us. I had the great opportunity to study with him from 1975-1978. My life is most certainly much richer for the experience. I will carry many songs and wonderful memories in my heart always.
Sandra D. Cannon, Lawrenceville, NJ
December 19, 2011
My sympathy and prayer are with the Mulder Family. I would like to say "Thank you for sharing a wonderful person with me" I was a student of his from 74-77, and he inspired me so very much with his love and compassion for music. I often recall and sing many of the songs he has taught me. He will be greatly missed. Sheila J. Holman, Greensboro, NC
December 19, 2011
My deepest sympathy to the Mulder Family in the loss of your loved one. I was a student of Mr. Mulder and was fortunate to got to Italy in 1971. I remember Mr. Mulder as a dedicated and passionate teacher. I will never forget him. Theresa Flowers-Copeland Baltimore, MD
Karen Jones
December 19, 2011
I graduated from TCHS in 1975 and was a loyal choir member of the school choir as well as the Mercer County Comm. Choir. I have very fond memories of my choral experience singing under the direction of Mr. Mulder where I learned so much about music and life. To this day , Iam thankful that I was blessed to be a student of Mr. Mulders.
May God bless and keep you in your time of sorrow.
LOVE YOU KAREN JONES
Rich Cloward
December 19, 2011
I graduated from TCHS in 1969 and was a member of the Choir and the Mercer County Choir. Because of Mr. Mulder's direction I'm still active in Choir's today. He was a great music tracher.
Gerri Wever-Apostolos
December 19, 2011
I graduated TCHS in 1967 and Mr Mulder was one of the shining stars in my memories. He always demanded your best and showed you places within yourself that you never knew were there. He will be greatly missed and remembered by so many.
Well done Mr. Mulder! dc al fine
Sara Wittekind
December 19, 2011
I graduated in 1950 from THS and remenber Harry very well. He was a very good director and I loved talking to him. I have gien three Organ Recitals in my life time and love music very much. He will always be remenber in my mind. I throughts go out to the familly and what menories they have of a wonderful man. Sara L. Wittekind
Ann Cantwell-Sweeney
December 18, 2011
Mr. Mulder welcomed three Villa Victoria Academy high schoolers into The Mercer County Chorus in the mid-1970s, and treated us (and challenged us!) as if we were adults. I, one of those lucky three, learned from Mr. Mulder the professionalism and passion of choral singing, and have sung in one choir or another ever since. I am one of many who am grateful for his guidance and kindness. Deepest condolences to his family. A real Trenton visionary.
Nancy Blatchford-Krause
December 18, 2011
What a great teacher and friend he was to all of us. I sang in the Sophomore Chorus, Senior Choir, Special Group and several smaller groups at school and also Mercer County Chorus. I thought of him often after graduation in 1961 and love remembering the times we spent with him.
December 18, 2011
My deepest condolences on the passing of Mr. Mulder. I had the privilege of singing in the THS chorus with Mr. Mulder and was one of the very fortunate students to go to Italy in 1971 to sing at the Vatican on Easter Sunday -- what a thrill that trip was! I also sang with Mr. Mulder as a member of the Mercer County Chorus and was a member of its gospel choir. He is remembered as a delightful and talented man -- I liked him very much. I hope you will celebrate all the goodness he has brought to this world! Best regards, Diane Silverstein
Paul & Charlotte Nelson
December 18, 2011
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
December 18, 2011
Dear Family of Mr. Mulder: You will never know how influential your husband/ father/grandfather was in so many lives over the years. I sang in the 1955-57 choir at TCHS - and he has been my inspiration throughout my life. The greatest gift is the gift of song. Caroline Cervone McVitty - TCHS 1957
Carlo Altomare
December 18, 2011
I have always been filled with love and gratitude to Mr. Harry Mulder. He changed and profoundly shaped the direction of my life. Not only did he teach me more than most teachers I have ever had. But his shining spirit of love, dedication and service gave me a deep sense of purpose in all my artistic work to this day. I loved him dearly and will never forget him.
Carlo Altomare, Class of '69, Trenton High
Bryna Weis-Vener
December 18, 2011
Dear Mulder Family,
THS graduate in 1966 and a memeber of Dr. Giamarrio's incredible orchstra. I still get thrills when I think of Dr. Mulder's Chorus and Dr. "G"' orchestra doing the Battle Hymn of the Republic together.
My prayers are sent to you in loving of a wonderful musician and friend.
In Sympathy,
Bryna Weis Vener - class of 1966
December 18, 2011
My sincere sympathies to the family of Harry A. Mulder....the single most musical and life path influence in my life. My gratefulness to him and Mrs. Mulder cannot be uttered in words. Jimmie Earl Perry
ROBIN DURAND
December 18, 2011
Oh how many lives he more than influence I cannot count.Just reading this now I thin of 1 friend who wrote an entire musical production ,ananother who lives in S.Afica who's life includes singing and directing a musical performance dedicated to ending the Aids epidemic there. And then there is my close friend in NYC who's entire life is spreading knowledge of theatre and music.This is only to name a few. If Harry were only to know how he has changed the world with his love of the art of music. He will be missed greatly by me and many.
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