Harry Berdan Tokanos obituary, 66, Little Silver

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Harry Berdan Tokanos

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Bill Weber

October 14, 2025

A great guy, co-worker and friend!

Nancy Edwards

October 14, 2019

So many wonderful happy memories of Harry! Know that he is at peace in heaven. ❤

Pat O`Shea

October 28, 2010

Dear Mary, Tracey, and Andrea,
I just learned of your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathies. Everyone who knew Harry shares your grief. He added something to the lives of everyone he knew through his warmth and sense of humor. I recall the many times I spent with your family at RBY swim meets or being a welcomed guest at "Tokeyville." My prayers are with you.

Kevin Burkhardt

October 25, 2010

Hello Mary,
This is Kevin "Byrdy" Burkhardt. Harry came on all my golf trips to PA. Unfortunately, I was away in FL on a golf trip with other firemen, otherwise I would have been there for Harry. My sincere heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
Kevin
ps No one ever had a bad word for Harry. He was liked by everyone.

Chiara Lore

October 21, 2010

My deepest sympathy Mary. Harry was a very kind and gentle man. I know you will miss him dearly. I will always remember his laughter. I will keep you and your family in my prayers and thoughts. With Love, Chiara

Al Mauriello

October 21, 2010

Mary, sorry to hear of Harry"s passing.We were Captains together in Vailsburg. I met you once at my 50th birthday party.Harry was a great guy and a true gentleman.My deepest condolences to you and your family. AL MAURIELLO

October 21, 2010

Our condolences to Mary and the family on their loss! God Bless Harry! Diane and Joel Bloom

October 20, 2010

I am so sorry for the loss of Harry,he was my captain for two years when i was at 12 truck in vailsburg,newark

Sal Longobardo

Tom Hennessey

October 20, 2010

God Bless You Harry. I'm going to miss you at our Sunday morning coffee club but you are in a better place now with a new body that works. You gave it a heck of a fight. Until we meet again.

Nancy Edwards

October 20, 2010

Mary, i am so sorry for your loss. Yours and Harry's was such a beautiful marriage and i know how much you loved each other. Please know he is in a wonderful place and may that thought help bring you peace. You and your family will be in my prayers.

October 20, 2010

Mary and Family; I am very sorry about the loss of Harry. God bless him and all of you.

John Bucciero

Jeff Godwin

October 20, 2010

My condolences to the Tokanos family. I went up to Billy's Petrone's cabin in NY with Harry, Billy, and a few other guys last year. Harry did all the cooking. He was a great guy, a real gentleman. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Jeff Godwin

October 20, 2010

I regret I will not be able to attend and pay my respects as I will be out of the country. God Bless !!!

Bill Weber NFD Retired..

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