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Harry Yockey Obituary
LOUISVILLE, Ky. Captain Harry Merwin Yockey (USN, Ret.), 70, died peacefully at home Wednesday, June 16, surrounded by family.
Christian service Wednesday, June 30, at Calvary Cha pel, San Diego, Calif., fol lowed by a military ceremony at Ft. Rosecrans National Ceme tery.
Born Nov. 3, 1933, in Can ton; raised in Dover by late parents, Harry and Martine Yockey; member of Dover Church of Christ (Christian Church); scholarship student, Western Reserve University; 1957 graduate of the United States Naval Academy; mas ter's degree, U.S. Naval Post Graduate School.
Capt. Yockey's Naval officer duties: Destroyer USS Saufley; submarines USS Salmon (commander), USS Sirago, USS Runner; carrier battle group out of Subic Bay, Philippines, during which he was a participant in rescue of USS Mayaguez and Saigon evacuation. As project manager, Capt. Yockey was instrumental in development/suc cess of the Tomahawk sea- launched cruise missile pro gram. He's left a legacy for our nation's security.
Capt. Yockey's service deco rations include: Meritorious Service Medal, Navy Achieve ment Medal, Armed Forces Ex peditionary Medal, Navy Expeditionary Medal, National Defense Service Ribbon and Vietnam Service Medal.
In 1989, Capt. Yockey recommitted his life to the Lord and married Jackie Mitchum. He worked with her at 700 Club TV, Virginia Beach, and at High Adventure Ministries/Voice of Hope, Louisville, broadcasting live from Jerusalem. He often co-hosted Jackie's World of Life TV program, and participated in a prison ministry and the Lord's Kitchen for the Homeless. In their homes, the Yockeys host ed many Christian leaders.
A bridge player, Capt. Yockey attained ACBL Gold Life Master status, and enjoyed playing the piano, golfing, cooking, and be ing with family.
He is beloved by wife and children, US Army Major H. Mark Yockey, Iraq (wife Julie, children, grandson); Pastor Jef frey Mitchum, San Diego (wife Carolyn, daughter); daughter, Cheryl Keck, Tampa (Al, children); son, George "Brian" Yockey, San Diego, (son). He's also cherished by sister, Nancy Yockey Bonar, Medina (son Timothy Bonar, Bath, daughter Julie B. Baughman, West Palm Beach (John, children, grandson); mother-in-law, Genevieve McCartney and other relatives. He leaves a legion of friends.
I have fought the good fight. I have finished the course. I have kept the faith. II Timothy 4:7, 8. And, behold, God himself is with us for our captainII Chron icles 13:12.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Voice of Hope, P.O. Box 197569, Louisville, KY 40259.
Bayview Cremation and Burial, 7510 Clairemont Mesa Blvd., Suite 109, San Diego, CA 92111 (858) 277-7820.
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nancy yockey bonar
April 17, 2019
Captain and brother: You are being inducted April 28, 2019. into the Hall of Distinction in your Dover, Ohio, hometown. Mark, Tim, and I will be there for you. Bravo for this achievement
Harry Merwin Yockey, circa 1935
nancy yockey bonar
May 25, 2017
Donald J. Couture
July 5, 2006
I first met Harry during "Plebe Summer" at USNA in 1953. He was a great help to me that summer in my transition from high school into Navy life. In the next four years at USNA we were in numerous classes together but our paths diverged in 1957 when I went into the Air Force and Harry remained in the Navy.
Our paths crossed again in 1981 when I was assigned as the Air Force Program Manager for the Ground Launched Cruise Missile in the Joint Cruise Missle Project. Once again Harry helped me transition into a Navy team. It was a pleasure to work with Harry to jointly develop the Tomahawk Cruise Missile. Our teamwork was instrumental in our success.
The successful uses of Tomahawk have demonstrated that Harry is a true "American Hero".
Don
Capt Robert F. Fox USN (Ret)
July 4, 2006
Harry and I were Classmates at the Naval Academy. However, like many other classmates, I did not get to know Harry until we teamed up to introduce Tomahawk Cruise Missiles into the Nuclear Attack Submarine Fleet. Our first objective was the torpedo tube launch or horizontal launch. This objective was accomplished in USS ATLANTA (SSN-712). During our association to launch Tomahawk from torpedo tubes we came up with the notion to launch Tomahawks from vertical launch tubes to be installed in the front end of SSN 688 Class Submarines. This notion was an entirely new concept which was totally successful. The most significant fact is that the weapons load of a 688 Class Submarine was increased by 46% by the additional Vertical Launch System (VLS).
Harry drove one of the "big" trucks for the VLS trucking company.
Best regards to all
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Ken Holtel
July 1, 2006
Fair winds and following seas shipmate.
Ken Holtel
nancy yockey bonar
June 27, 2006
Our beloved Cheryl Yockey Keck, 47, born in New London, CN, to Harry Yockey and Marna Lynch Yockey, died May 27, 2006, in Florida.
Among those who participated in Cheryl's church service were: Brothers Harry "Mark" Yockey and George "Brian" Yockey; children Meagan and Kyle Keck and their father; and stepmother, Jackie Yockey.
Cheryl is with her Heavenly Father and with her mother and father. In San Diego, her ashes where placed on her father's grave at Ft. Rosecrans National Cemetery and at sea with her late mother.
We treasure our memories of Cheryl --mother, daughter, sister, step-daughter, aunt, niece, god-daughter and so much more.
Gary Yockey
June 20, 2006
From an unknown relative. Glad to have known about a brave soul as you. rest in peace.
Bart Bacon
June 12, 2006
It was an honor serving as
Harry's Executive Officer
when he was Commanding Officer
of USS Salmon. I will always
miss him.
David Yates
May 19, 2006
Harry was absolutely a true Christian gentleman, and he and Jackie were a shining example to me of God’s love shed abroad in two hearts. Hearts are heavy, but not for long. We love you Jackie……
Sheila Walsh
March 22, 2006
Harry brought great joy into Jackie's life. I watched her work so hard at CBN and then there was this new skip in her step and sparkle in her eyes. Harry made Jackie feel like a little girl again. I thought him to be the most charming and kind man. Only with Jackie and Harry would I have smuggled meatball sandwiches into a movie theater!
I am so glad I got to know him this side of heaven!
Dan Davis
March 11, 2006
I wish to extend my condolance to the family and friends of Captain Harry M. Yockey. He was a excellent submarine commander. I had a great deal of respect, admiration and faith in his ability. I served with Capt. Yockey for approximately 6 to 8 months. In that period of time I gained trust in his ability to operate the Salmon in a safe mannor and create a atmosphere of unity with the crew. He was always ready to give credit to the crew and to recognize individuals who made significant contrabutions to the Salmon. My last communication with him was on May 4,2004. I received a email from him. He didn't mention that he was ill at that time, and I was surprised and sorrowed to hear of his passing. He was a tremendous Navy man and I am sure he will always be sorely missed by all who had the pleasure in knowing this fine man.
Dan Davis EMC (SS)
EM2 on the Salmon
john cornette
March 2, 2006
Harry Yockey was Deputy Director of Sea Launched Tomahawk Cruise
Missiles, and an incredibly busy persona when I checked into JCMPO in April 1978 to serve as Deputy Platform Integration Engineer. We each had a NAVORDSYSCOM background (mine was Trident, as was CDR Les Stoessl‘s, my boss).
Later, in the fall of 1981, I worked directly for Harry, now Tomahawk Weapons System Program Manager with a focus on submarine-launched Tomahawks. He held this position until retiring from active duty in 1983.
Harry was a most unusual individual, very bright, thorough and persistent, with broadly ranging interests. He met the challenges of some of the most daunting tasks that I witnessed in 34 years of civil service. And he never lost his droll sense of humor.
Let me focus briefly on a lesser-known side of Harry -- his association with children. Even in the midst of his busy workday, he always took time to talk with children of his associates and invariably drew them into some weighty discussions and explorations of their personalities. And on subsequent visits, remembered and continued those discussions, bridging into new topics. (He seems to have had that effect on some of their mothers as well. . .)
And a much abbreviated sea story. During Tomahawk developmental flight testing, the submarine launch platform took several months out for overhaul, only to return for testing in the press for progress from the Secretary of Defense and the Secretary of the Navy. Naturally, the first scheduled launch fizzled and the search for the culprits went very late into the evening, even for Harry’s evenings. Eventually, the cause was found to be a block in the torpedo tube, SOP for overhaul, but also SOP for removal of the block on return to service (it’s good to be able to defend oneself).
I should add that any number of subordinates were much relieved at this outcome, some even reporting for work the next day (even if in a belated manner). And a lot of folks developed a keener understanding of launch operations than they’d previously cared to possess.
Smooth sailing and winning card hands, Harry.
Gary Blakeley
January 24, 2006
It was a pleasure servicing and knowing Harry or Capt. Yockey on Salmon. He was a fun skipper. The radiomen put out Yockey"s Yacht newpapers weekly while we we underway. I was a EM2(SS) at the time and got know know Harry pretty well on the golf course. He was going through a rough period of his life and we enjoyed talking with each other as shipmates on the golf course. My Chief and the Eng. Off. didn't like it when they HAD to let me go play golf with the CO and the XO B. Bacon. We had a deal that he would teach me to golf and I would show him some "moves" on the dance floor. It good to have a celebration of life and am so happy know that he will be with OUR Lord Jesus Christ. He also won't have to wait for a tee time. Again it was a great pleasure know a fine man and great "Skipper". Being the moral office was one of the reason Salmon won the the Gold Anchor for re-enlistment. God Bless you all
IN HIM
EMCS(SS) RETIRED
John Maclaren, CDR USN(Ret)
October 6, 2005
Harry and my paths crossed numerous times during our careers. We were at Monterey together; we were in the missile business together; and, we were submariners. He was a man of great good humor with a passion for excellence, which showed clearly when he was trouncing me at the bridge table. My condolences to all the Yockey family.
Jim Hooker
September 7, 2005
Harry; a good friend and shipmate, a dedicated profrssional, always a loyal Tomahawker, he and I have always shared the view of pride in being part of the contribution on the team that fielded this great life saving weapon system to the U.S. Armed Services (Navy and Air Force). May God hold him close to his heart now that he has gone before us.
Pierce Newsom
August 28, 2005
I met Capt. Yockey in 1970-72 while serving aboard the USS Salmon(SS 573)of which he was her Skipper. I was aboard when he was instrumental in rescueing several Japanese Merchant Sailors when thier ship had sunk. He was always someone for me to look up to and try to pattern my career after.
My sympathies and condolences go out to his entire family. He will be missed.
Robert "Bob" Klementz
August 7, 2005
I first met Harry when I reported to the recently established Joint Cruise Missile Project Office (JCMPO) in March 1978. Harry was the Deputy Program Manager to Captain Ken Westal, Program Manager, TOMAHAWK Sea Launched Cruise Missile (SLCM). All reported to Rear Admiral Walter Locke, USN; JCMPO; in my opinion the "father of the TOMAHAWK Cruise Missile". All were fine Naval Officers and very good to work for. In speaking of Harry, he was a true believer in TOMAHAWK, well versed in its potential capabilites and forward thinking in its future applications for the defense of our nation. I must admit that for me, Harry was reserved and a little difficult to get to know at first. But once he got to know you and knew that you were also a dedicated team member, as most of the JCMPO team was, he was your steadfast and loyal friend. I often had the sense that the JCMPO TOMAHAWK Team, including all Navy and Air Force military and civilians working together as we did, could accomplish anything. It's not often that that any organization can achieve such a rare mix of talent and resolve - and Harry was a big part of that. Without any doubt.
Harry was a good friend to me and I learned from him. As is often said in the Navy - "may he always have fair winds and following seas" in his immortal life. God bless him and his family at this sad time.
Ralph Wege
July 27, 2005
I wish to express my condolences to Capt. Harry Yockey's family. This was a great man and commander who entrusted me to run the TOMAHAWK Qualification Test Program from beginning to missile deployment. His guidance and technical expertise kept the program on schedule through some tough times. Always approachable, his steady hand at the helm made possible one of the most important weapon systems that this country has in its arsenal. Rest in peace, Captain, you deserve it. I will always think about you.
nancy yockey bonar
July 26, 2005
Dear Brother,
I know you’re resting your oars under the sunny yardarm of your personal Captain’s ship.
Over the past year, I’ve been blessed to have had contacts with your USNA ’57 classmates; crew of the USS Salmon boat that you commanded; crews of the “greyhound” USS Saufley, the boats USS Sirago and USS Runner; colleagues from the Tomahawk Cruise Missile program, and even fun-loving members of Johnnie’s Gang. Truth be known, I’ve learned more about your distinguished military career and your active Christian faith in the last year than I ever knew.
Those who’ve signed your online guest book have described the character traits they most admired in you. Some have said that, as program manager for the Tomahawk Cruise Missile Weapons System, you left a legacy to our nation. And at your 1983 retirement party, you modestly spoke about this legacy: “The Tomahawk is for my children and their children’s children; for everyone’s children and grandchildren.”
May you enjoy the fair winds and following seas on eternal patrol. Your tag-along sister, Nancy.
Melvin Runzo
July 25, 2005
I was shocked to hear of Harry's passing away last year. I first met Harry when I become Deputy Director of Test and Evaluation for the Cruise Missile Project and then upon my promotion became Harry's Deputy for a short time prior to attending the Industrial College of the Armed Forces. I was teaching high school physics at Fairfax High School when I retired. I remember being in the faculty lunch room when they showed the Tomahawks hitting Bagdad. There was just bewilderment among the people watching the TV at what the missiles were doing. At that time I got tears in my eyes and thought of Harry and what he had done to make all that possible. The United States owes so much to you, Harry.
You will be missed tremendously. Thanks for all your guidance, dedication and just being a great person. God Bless You and may we meet again above.
Alfred "Al" Koster (Capt. USN, ret)
July 20, 2005
Harry Yockey -- Twice classmate (USNA and SUBSCOL108), fond friend, fellow diesel submariner, and true professional. You contributed so much to our Navy and Nation in command of the SALMON and in leading the Tomahawk cruise missile program, that you stand near the top in Class accomplishments over the years.
Personally, your example encouraged me to try documenting diesel submariner contributions. I sent you my first monograph,"Vanishing Diesel Submariners,"in April 2004, and I continue to expand that effort. I thank you for identifying the need to recognize the excellence of a near-forgotten generation.
Bob Lynch & Paul Schwab
July 19, 2005
For the Yockey Family:
As members of the original team from General Dynamics working on the Tomahawk Cruise Missile Program, Capt. Harry Yockey was a professional and respected member of the Gov't team.
Capt. Yockey was responsible for very important elements of the program. While he put GD through its paces, he always resolved the issue with a good sense of humor.
Bob Lynch & Paul Schwab
Ed & Avis Williams
July 6, 2005
Harry Yocky - Always a gentlemen and ready with a laugh, never a unkind word, and always ready to lend a hand. He carried an air of authority, but never imposed it on his friends. We in Johnnie's Gang miss him as we do Johnnie. I'm sure they are currently plotting the next show.
Bob Holsapple
June 30, 2005
For the Yockey Family:
Harry Yockey was one of the original seven who served with the Tomahawk Cruise Missile Program. When I arrived in January 1976, both he and Walter Locke instilled in me the importance of this new weapon system to our country's arsenal.
In the early days, when things were not going well with the program, Harry's understanding gave us the strength to continue to push the system forward in the wake of serious negativism from many factions of the military and the Congress.
Harry played a very significant role in the development of the Tomahawk System, which was later dubbed by two Presidents as,"The nation's weapon of choice." Harry will be remembered.
Bob Lowe
June 28, 2005
All that has been said about Harry reinforces what everyone knew...that Harry's life reflected the best qualities of an officer and a gentleman, family man, and friend. I can only speak from the perspective of a friend and through the eyes of Johnnie who always regarded him as one of her favorite people. In whatever activity Johnnie's Gang was involved, Harry could be counted on to offer his time, talents (not the most graceful dancer on stage but he knew his lines and knew where his mark was), and encouragement. I am sure Johnnie was happy to welcome him to her new Gang in Heaven.
Bill Parkin
June 26, 2005
Harry Yockey and I served together in the Joint Cruise Missiles Project from which the Navy’s Tomahawk Missile evolved. We had a close working relationship in the Tomahawk office and he also became a close friend. At the Tomahawk office he was all business and was highly respected for his submarine knowledge and also for his management skills.
After work hours he was very social and a joy to party with. He introduced me to Johnny’s Gang and he and I performed in many of the musical skits that Johnnie Lowe dreamed up for her summer shows. In the winter the Gang went skiing together overseas where he was very adept on the ski slopes. When the group went white-water rafting he cooked many of the meals and was especially good at hand-cranking his homemade ice cream.
He was a gourmet chef and even published his own cookbook with his favorite and special recipes. He enjoyed Mongolian Barbeque and several times when he and Jackie were in town we would meet in Washington’s Chinatown to enjoy this favorite dish.
I especially enjoyed many times in his apartment with Harry playing the piano and a group singing behind him. He often asked me to sing Danny Boy while he played the accompaniment. Another passion of his was duplicate bridge. He held several awards and had attained a high standard in the duplicate bridge community. I remember at one time he was setting up a facility which people could rent to play the game.
When ever I was in the Norfolk area, Harry and Jackie insisted I stay at their house in Virginia Beach, and I would go to a broadcast of the “700 Club” where Jackie would have a seat for me in the very front row so I could be seen in the broadcast. When several religious broadcasters went together to do a rally and broadcast from the steps of Congress, I was Harry’s guest in the main broadcast control trailer.
His love of God and Jesus the Christ, his love of life, his love of his family and Jackie, and the love and joy he showed when he was with his friends will forever be remembered by all who knew him. I count myself as one of those fortunate to have known and loved him.
Bill
William L Parkin
Donald R. and Bonnie L. Graham
June 10, 2005
Don was reacquainted with Harry and I met him at a Saufley reunion. What a unique and pleasant gentleman. He will be missed at the upcoming reunions. We hope Jackie will be able to attend a reunion now and then just to let us know how she is getting along.
Love hugs and prayers
Gene Klein
June 4, 2005
Captain Yockey will long be remembered for his devotion,technical expertise, and leadership in supporting the Tomahawk Cruise Missile Program. We at Williams International had the privilage of working with Harry in the development and deployment of the cruise missile engine program. A Patriot to be sure and one that will be long remembered.
nancy yockey bonar
May 27, 2005
Regarding below message. Eric Zager, reporter at WHAS TV, Louisville, interviewed Capt. Yockey in March 2003 about his achievements with the Tomahawk Cruise Missile. At the time, Tomahawks were targeting Iraq.
Eric Zager
May 26, 2005
I'm sorry to hear that Capt. Yockey passed away. I have to tell you that I meet hundreds if not thousands of people every year. Many of them I can't recall.
Harry, on the other hand, is someone I will always remember. He was extremely gracious and very informative.It was an honor getting to put together a story based on some of his achievements. I learned a lot in a very short period of time from Mr. Yockey.
If you have ever wondered how much impact one person can have, the yardstick is before you. I met Harry just once but I will forever remember him.
Eric Zager
Reporter WHAS-Television
Gary "Wink" Winkelman MMCM(SS) Ret
May 16, 2005
Capt Yockey was my 1st CO as a new
non-qual in Submarines on Salmon from 2/72-10/72. Truly a Fair, Wise
and Consistent Leader that was always friendly to all the crew. My Condolences & Prayers are with you. MAY THE GOOD LORD COMFORT AND BLESS YOU TILL THE DAY WE'RE ALL RAISED UP WITH OUR LORD AND SAVIOUR, CHRIST JESUS!
Florian Sullivan
May 14, 2005
We received notification this morning and our heart felt sympathy goes out to the Captain Yockey's family.
Just a few things to remember. The Five Japaneese survivors he picked up out of the at that time raging south China Sea. The smile on his face when he saw a man in shorts slide down a palm tree leaving a lot of skin on the tree. I remember him saying, I know that had to hurt.
Frank Duffy
May 11, 2005
As a Plebe in the 3rd Company at the Naval Academy, I considered First Classman Harry to be surely a man who was a leader. Years later, as Navigator for Harry in USS Salmon ( SS 573 ) , that consideration was verified.
Virgil (Red) Mill
May 11, 2005
Captain Yockey was the first (and best) of three Captains that I served with on the USS Salmon. He was a man that always seemed to be in total control. I read all the entries in this guest book and from those entries, it is obvious that the Skipper plotted his course for life and will certainly have a place at the Lords table when his rest is ended.
Leslie (aka Tex) Andrus
May 11, 2005
Served with Capt. Yockey as IC2 (SS) until Dec. 71. Was part of Elec. Div. Presently, retired as LCDR, here in SD.
Rear Admiral Walter M. Locke
May 4, 2005
Written Message, June 29, 2004
Dear Jackie,
Our hearts are joined with you this day as your community of worship and our nation pay final honors to Harry.
He was a great man and a patriot in every sense of the word; professional in work, yet always with a smile that warmed our hearts and made the job ahead lighter.
May you be comforted in the knowledge that you helped prepare him for his final journey with Our Lord.
Walter M. Locke (and Rosemary)
Rear Admiral, U.S. Navy (Ret.)
Colonel Alan Chase ,USAF Ret
April 25, 2005
My heartfelt condolences to Harry's family.
I was the Air Force Program Director of the Air Force Air Launched Cruise Missile Program and as such was Harry's counterpart and compadre in arms in the Joint Cruise Missile Office.
I remember Harry with fondness and affection. We shared many of the same technical problems and solutions and he always was available to work thru the issues with humor and with superb technical expertise.
" Oh I have slipped the surly bonds of earth
And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings
Sunward I've climbed and joined the tumbling mirth
Of sun-split clouds and done a hundred things
You have not dreamed of-wheeled and soared and swung
High in the sunlit silence
..... Put out my hand and touched the face of God"
John Gillespie Magee, Jr
Pilot Officer RCAF
jim murray
April 12, 2005
To add to the below message:
I was on board the Salmon SS573 when Capt. Yockey was the commanding officer. Having served under two other commanders, I can honestly say that Capt. Yockey was the best and the most respected by the crew.
The SS below is for Silent Service and I was a guartermaster. I continue to reside in San Diego, living in Rancho Bernardo.
Ed Speiden
April 5, 2005
My condolences to Harry's family for their great loss. I have very fond memories of Harry. He was my boss in the Tomahawk Project for several years. He was an excellent boss, always a calm, easygoing manner with complete competence, even when some of the test shots looked like they were getting away from us. We all did our best for him. Great ones like Harry don't come along often enough. Thanks, Harry, for the experiences and the memories.
Oliver Shearer
March 26, 2005
I first met Harry when I reported to USS Runner (SS-476) in Norfolk, VA
as Commanding Officer. Harry was Runner's Executive Officer and we quickly
formed a close friendship lasting over the years. He was an outstanding XO
and I had utmost trust in him. We worked hard in port and at sea and played
hard ashore. The other wardroom officers and crew adored him. He was a
superior ship handler as well as cosumate member of the fire control party
as we either shot torpedoes or laid mines. Our wives became close and
lasting friends and the two of them provided strong guiding hands to the
much younger wives of the wardroom officers as well as the enlisted crew
wives. Harry was an avid golfer and bridge player and did well in anything
he undertook. It was a dark day for me when he left Runner to work on the
staff of Commander Submarine Force U.S. Atlantic Fleet in Norfolk.
Harry stopped by and visited Mary Dee and me twice when I was stationed
in Hawaii -- once on his way to command Salmon and later on his way to join
the Seventh Fleet Staff in the Philippines. In the mid 1970's while working
in the Pentagon I saw and talked to Harry frequently when he was the Deputy
Director of the Tomahawk Cruise Missile Project in the Naval Air Systems
Command in Arlington, VA. After he retired from the USN we corresponded
almost every year via Christmas cards.
Oliver V. Shearer Captain, USN (Ret). Former CO of USS Runner (SS-476
Gary Christenson RM3 (ss)
March 25, 2005
My deepest sympathy to the family for your loss. I was proud to serve on Runner under his direction in late 60's . God Bless.
Anthony hastoglis
March 25, 2005
Harry and my paths crossed three times. First we were at the Naval Academy together, then we served on two of the same submarines. I had a tour on the Norfolk based submarine Sirago between his two tours there and he relieved me many years later in San Diego as Commanding Officer of the fine submarine USS Salmon (SS573). I can stil recall the many positive mentions made of him by crew members on Sirago. I also remember being impressed during the relieving process on Salmon with his professional submarine knowledge and his readiness to take command.
Wm. (Rocky) Rauckhorst
March 23, 2005
As live goes on one always remembers the good times and also wonders what happen to all your friends. I will remember Capt. Yockey.
Bill Peerenboom
March 17, 2005
My sincere condolences to Harry's family. He was a friend and classmate at the Naval Academy, but our navy careers diverged when Harry went to the Submarine Force and presumably saw me only through his periscope.
We will miss him! Fair winds and following seas.
Crew USS Sirago
March 14, 2005
PO mail received Fall, 2004
(Sub USS Sirago set sail in 1945 from Portsmouth, N.H., and ended her run in 1973 in Chesapeake, Va. Capt. Harry Y. Yockey was an officer on board from 1959-1962 and 1966-1967.)
"LET THERE BE LIGHT...ON ETERNAL PATROL." Our deepest sympathy to the family of Capt. Harry Yockey from former crew members, USS Sirago. Dave Glasser and Crew
"LOST HARBOR"
There is a point of no return,
where ships may ride at anchor for a little space.
And then, some starless night, the cable slips,
leaving an eddy at the moorings place ...
Gulls veer no longer.
SAILOR, REST YOUR OAR.
No tangled wreckage will be washed ashore.
With our deepest and most heartfelt condolences.
The Crew of the USS Sirago
Diane Raison
March 14, 2005
June 27, 2004 -- I signed the guest book; however, no message shows. Here's another go at it:
We are still in shock here that someone as strong as Merwin always seemed to be could be ill and gone so quickly.
Jane, Charlotte and I have been "going down memory lane," remembering our families closeness in Dover. The picnics at the dam and along the Sugarcreek, dinners at home and the incredible kindness that "the editor" Harry Yockey showed to our father in his later years. We had some good times growing up and they helped shape our lives.
Merwin will be missed, but not forgotten. I send my deepest sympathies to all.
Love,
Diane "Dee Dee" Duvall Raison
Richard Martin
March 14, 2005
Memories for Capt. Yockey's family --
My daughter and grandson went with me to the 2003 USS Saufley reunion in Myrtle Beach, N.C. Lucky for us, we met Harry and he made a lasting impression that I can still remember today.
Harry drove us up the coast to visit the battleship, "North Carolina," and explained in detail the workings of all of the many departments we walked through that day.
He also loved music and talked about the movie, "Chicago," while playing the music for us on the car radio. He took many pictures of us, then sent them to my daughter when he them developed.
We were in Louisville last year for the Saufley reunion and spoke to him after dinner. We heard that he was not feeling well, but wanted to attend anyway. I know he enjoyed himself and it was great seeing him again. We both served on the Saufley, home port Key West, in '57 and '58.
With sympathy to his family,
Richard "Dick" Martin
Shipmate
Historian,
USS Saufley Association
patti folkerth
March 13, 2005
June 21, 2004, hand-written note
Although anticipated, I know that you and your brother's family are in pain from your loss. The San Diego services sound like an honorable closure for your family. Please pass along my wish for peace and comfort to all.
Patti
judy martin
March 13, 2005
June 23, 2004 e-mail
I was surprised to read Capt. Yockey's obituary in today's New Phiadelphia Times-Reporter. I met Harry Merwin when he visited his editor dad (my boss) at the newspaper and remember that he brought his children to see the presses run. His dad was so proud of him!
Although sorrow is a personal and private thing that no one else can truly share, please know that my thoughts are with you and all of his family. It's my since hope that time will bring comfort to all of their hearts.
Judy Martin
nancy fitzgerald
March 13, 2005
June 17,2004
I do not have computer access so can't sign the online guest book. Perhaps you can sign it for for me?
I'm so glad that your brother was able to come home to be with loved ones. Dying is the most pain-filled task for a loving family member to go through. Hope it's a comfort knowing his wife, children and you were there to help him walk to the other side.
The grief will lessen as time goes by. Remember -- he is happy, joyous and free.
Nancy Fitzgerald
St. Anthony's Womens Group
marie gore
March 13, 2005
June 23, 2004
Do hope that the knowledge of your brother -- and husband, father, uncle -- living in so many loving memories will help make your loss less difficult to bear. I know that he is at peace.
Marie
david and anita meeker
March 13, 2005
July 15, 2004
Nancy, I remember that on the 1999 day you retired your brother phoned during the office party to wish you well.
Please share this with your family, including his wife and his children.
As a special rememberance, Capt. Harry Yockey has been enrolled in the Claretian Perpetual Mass League and will share in the prayers and good works of the Claretian Missionaries. This includes daily rememberance in the Masses said throughout the world, including those at the National Shrine of Saint Jude.
Love,
Dave and Anita Meeker
Richard B. Smith
February 27, 2005
I did not know "Harry" as "Harry" I knew him as "Captain Yockey" and having now read the eight full pages of comments on this man that I only knew for seven or eight months, I now know why I have thought about him so many times in the last thrity plus years! Harry was Commanding Officer of the United States Ship Salmon (SS-573) In the U.S. Navy command is a privilege that only a select few will know! Captain Yockey was obviously comfortable in that position from day One! Harry was a "man for all seasons" but at his best with the youngest sailors onboard,he always made learning the boat and the ways of the sea fun. I think the finest compliment I ever had was when he shook my hand hand and smiled as he said "It's good to have sailors for friends" If I had to mention his one unfailing tendency it would be that he always lifted up the other person. As I now say "fair winds and following seas" to my shipmate I assure Jackie, Nancy, Mike and the other family members that you are not alone in your grief, may god bless us all, and the whole world without exception. Richard B. Smith
Todd Stickler
February 27, 2005
You will be missed Harry. You guys did a great job w/ Voice of Jerusalem. i get it on Sky Angel.
Thank You for you hard work, it's very much appreciated.
in Christ,
Todd Stickler
Edwardsburg,Michigan
Danuta Pfeiffer
January 28, 2005
I knew Harry through Jackie's eyes. Love reflected on her like the sun glancing off a full moon. Jackie glowed around Harry, (and he glowed around her!) I can only pour out my love to you, Jackie, a pittance in the deep well of grief you must feel losing the partner to your soul. But you can never lose that glow!
Perry Schjolin
January 8, 2005
I only met Harry once at High Adventure in Simi Valley. I immediately noticed his single-minded focus to the task at hand. As we shared ideas on new technology, I remembered thinking to myself how I would enjoy working with him.
That oppportunity never came, but he made an impression on me just the same.
Blessings to Jackie and the family. We'll see him soon.
Tonya Carney
December 4, 2004
Oh how I loved Harry! He was like having a dad in California. Then he and my beloved Jackie moved to where my parents are...KY! How I miss them so much.
I will never forget staying the night with them and hearing beautiful music being played on the piano in the middle of the night. It was wonderful. Harry thought he was going to wake me....I thought I was in Heaven!
I'll never forget the time we all dressed up in our Captain and military duds for a radio show. Harry was always a servant and so fun to be around.
I love you Harry! I'll see you again!
Edwin Stumpf
October 20, 2004
Dear Jackie;
I was blessed by knowing Harry and counted him as a dear Christian Brother. I'm sorry for you that he went home at this time, but that is what we are all working toward and I know that the Lord will comfort you at this time.
God Bless you.
Ed Stumpf
Richard Pettigrew
October 6, 2004
We'll miss you, Harry.
Dick Pettigrew
Karen & Terry Kelly
September 13, 2004
Dearest Jackie,
I just tonight found out through Anne Regel that Harry is Home.
Although Terry and I only have only met you and Harry 3 times, we were so immediately impressed with the quality and Christian character that shone through you both. Our love and prayers to you and your family.
In Him, Karen & Terry Kelly
Star Roberts
September 4, 2004
Jackie,
I have not heard from High Adventure for years. As I was sitting here tonight I thought I would try to find all of you.
To find our dear Harry has gone home.
I went to Israel the first time with the 700 club this is where I met you and Harry. He was so kind and easy to talk to. I had told him I saw a bright star the night before. Well about 12:30 am I got a phone call he wanted me to meet him out on the deck we were at the
the sea of gal. When I got there he showed me mars. And explained why it was shinning so bright and we talked about the wisemen following the star to see Jesus.
He will be miss. I feel a real sadness in my heart.
Star Roberts
Edwin Biggers
August 21, 2004
I'm sorry that we were not able to get together the last day you were in Simi Valley and I just happened to be visiting there that day.You were an inspiration to me as my plebe summer roommate. I don't know that I would have made it through that summer without your support. My prayers are with your family and I know that you have been a blessing to many others as well as to me.
Don Fisher
August 7, 2004
Classmate, companymate, and roomate for a Myrtle Beach golf outing a few years ago! A charming, thoughtful companion. We owe Harry a special debt for making us all more secure via Tomahawk.
Susan Williams
August 5, 2004
I will miss you Harry.
Sue
yates williams
August 5, 2004
We had some good times in Mertle
Beach at the bridge tourney. Will miss u Harry.
Charlie Duke
July 29, 2004
Jackie: Dotty and I send our prayers and sympathy.
david yates
July 29, 2004
Jackie: I want you to know that seeing you and Harry together was always a blessing to me....you gave a uniquely strong visible message of what a marriage is to be...God will reward both of you in eternity for all you have done for His kingdom...Harry is already receiving his reward.....we will see him again....what a promise!...I pray you will see joy during this time...you are a great blessing to many.....in God's love...
David Yates
Tamara (Tammy) Walker
July 29, 2004
My life was changed the day I met Harry back in 1977. My life was ehanced over the years of our friendship and I always depended on him to give me guidance. We went thru marriages, children, jobs, relocations and life changes together and were there for one another from the beginning - from a distance and over the email mostly in the past years - he was special to me and I think of him often, the times at TOMAHAWK, and the joy he finally found with God and his family. Love always.
Lluvia Vasquez
July 28, 2004
I can't help but smile when I remember Uncle Harry. We shared too many wonderful memories to name them all. Some of my favorites are; driving together cross-country ("Ready on the right!"), singing around the piano, sneaking sandwiches into the movie theater, listening to the many stories from his past, and eating many fine meals together. God may have taken Uncle Harry from us for now, but not for eternity. We'll see the Captain again soon in Heaven!
Walt Meukow
July 28, 2004
Classmate, Battalion Mate, Friend. Prep the P-Rade ground for the rest of us. Meanwhile, condolences to the family and we will all miss him.
Meg Lynch
July 28, 2004
Jackie and I were compadres at The 700 Club in Virginia Beach and I have known her for almost thiry years. But, I never met Harry until I arrived in Virginia Beach to be in the wedding although I heard alot about him over the phone.
But oh, how handsome he looked in his uniform! And he was so wonderful to Jackie...that is what I was watching the most...to see if my sweet friend was marrying a man that would treat her as she deserved.
And of course, as it turned out, Jackie couldn't have found a better man anywhere...although she found him at the bridge table!
Over the phone soon after his death, Jackie told me that she felt Harry had been the most perfect expression of God's love toward her all wrapped up in one. He had such a twinkle in his eye and a delight towards life which just made him wonderful to be with.
I guess I shouldn't have worried about Jackie as she had that 6th sense (the Holy Spirit) as to the great character of Harry Yockey.
Sue Brey
July 27, 2004
Somehow my original entry into the guest book was not submitted correctly....my computer savy is definitely lacking! However, my heart, thought and prayers are with Jackie and her family. I met Harry on my first visit to Israel...his smile and his grace was so effective...his helping hand when walking through some tough walking areas was a God send...his love for God and for Jackie was so evident...he gave his all with a smile to whoever God directed him...Harry's presence blessed our journey...his wit enhanced it! Thank you Lord for sharing your "man" with so many people.
Gail Casteen
July 26, 2004
This note is for Jackie,
I only met Harry once... very briefly... This I know... He was a remarakably wonderful gentleman to have so completely won your heart... You have always been one of my heroes, and he MUST have known his life would be full and exciting with you at his side. My prayers and love are with you...
Anne Regel
July 26, 2004
He will always be known as
THE CAPTAIN!!
How does one even begin to express in words the sadness and loss that we felt as we left San Diego after attending Harry’s magnificent “Send Off To Heaven” ?
Jim and I both feel such gratitude to the Lord for allowing us to be a part of Harry and Jackie’s life for so many years. The many happy times that we spent with Harry will be a memory that will last “long into eternity”!!
During my many visits to the Yockey home, I remember so well sitting at the table with great anticipation as Harry presented his latest gourmet delight accompanied with “that smile” and enthusiasm! After enjoying one of his delectable meals we would then go into the living room where he would play his beloved piano. He was GOOD!
The Holy Spirit was so very evident in Harry’s life. I can still picture him during the many services that we attended together around the country with his hands unashamedly raised toward his Savior in praise and adoration.
I will remember the infamous “little smile” that always accompanied the numerous funny stories and jokes that he told so well.
His enthusiasm, kindness and servant's heart were his Signature. I look forward to the time when I can hear Jesus say to Harry, “Well done, my good and faithful servant.”
Mary Ann Bridges
July 25, 2004
I was honored to get to know Harry at the High Adventure ministries seminars in California and Virginia. He was such a servant, driving us to fun and interesting places in California.
In April, 2003, we were in Hollywood. I spent some personal time with him, talking about a personal situation my family had. He gave me great advice and opinions and gave me great peace.
Harry was a Christian and a great man of God. That is the most important thing!
My prayers are with Jackie, a dear friend and lady of God, and his children. We miss him; but he is in a better pleace. Someday we will meet him in heaven.
Ken Holtel
July 25, 2004
Harry. Fair winds and following seas from one old salt to another. We shall meet again.
Harry and Jackie enjoying Breakfast in Jerusalem
July 25, 2004
Harry and Jackie near the Dead Sea
Pat J Herlan
July 25, 2004
I knew Harry for only a short time. We met while he accompanied Jackie on the 2001 High Adventure trip to Israel. It was my joy and pleasure to have known him personally while traveling for those 2 weeks. We were a small group and very close knit 'family' enjoying one another, the beautiful countryside and historical sights, and the magnificent presence of our Lord in the Holy Land. I have since learned of Harry's many accomplishments and attributes through discussions with Jackie, her sisters Kathy and Margie, and other High Adventure Ministry friends and fellow committed Christians. My thoughts and comforting prayers are now with Jackie and Harry's family members while enduring their loss. I know Harry is in the comfort and joy of our Lord's presence. With much Love in Christ Jesus, Pat J. Herlan
Eleanor & Pete Boyne
July 24, 2004
Never a shipmate but something more-USNA classmate, fellow submariner, neighbors in Montery where children played together, car-pooled and all those things Navy neighbors do. We crossed paths many times as part of the DBF Force. Big loss but in good Hands.
Harry in the Mess - Kitchen, that is
Stephen Karikas
July 24, 2004
How I knew Harry - a few remembrances:
On my first foreign outing with the Johnnie's Gang ski group, I was roomed with Harry. Harry was infamous for his loud snoring and I, as a novice JG Ski Group member was given the privilege of hearing his night music. The first night I learned what some people had only hinted at. I tried to stuff my ears with toilet paper, but it only helped a little. The air in the room was extremely dry and I thought that adding some humidity might soften Harry's stentorian tones. I wet down all the many white towels I found and hung them up throughout the bedroom. It did help. Next morning, however, seeing all the brilliant white in the place, I heard Harry saying in a half-sleepy state - "What the heck, where am I - did I die and go to heaven?"
I believe we were in Garmisch where Harry bought a brand new ski cap. He liked that cap very much. One day he came back from the slopes and lamented the fact that he had lost it. He had looked for it but could not find it. It just so happened that I was in the lift house filming the skiers schussing down the hill when Harry happened by. I took some shots of him coming down the slope. Later, when I had the film developed and was cutting and pasting the scenes together, I noticed that his fanny pack, which he modishly wore up front, had come open and an object flew out. It was the cap. When Harry saw the movie he was greatly surprised how close to the end of his run he had lost it and he regretted not looking for it there. He really liked that cap.
One summer we sailed out of Annapolis down the Chesapeake to St. Michaels where we had made arrangements for an overnight berth for the yacht. We were to meet Rex and Donna Miller there. The day was beautiful and we had a grand time sailing on the majestic waters of the Bay. When we got to St. Michaels, Harry, the sea dog, took the wheel. He was going to take us in all the way. When we got near the docks, he asked us to position ourselves at various points to help in the docking. The opening of the T-shaped facility loomed before us and Harry ably steered us in. I had already spotted Rex and Donna and the young lad who was there to help in the entry maneuver. I was waving to the folks on-shore, ready to throw the docking line, when I heard the engine roar and felt the boat lurch forward; we were aimed at the expensive yachts in the back berths. Harry had pushed the throttle forward instead of reversing the propellers. Everyone held their breath. We were about to crash. Instead, thinking quickly, Harry killed the engine and, turning, put the yacht into a side slip, slowing our forward motion. We gently sidled up to a parked yacht whose owner had raced up from below and stood there expecting the worst, buck naked. When we got to three inches of his boat, I reached out, shook his had and said, "hi, nice to meet you." Harry then got us back to our slip and deftly eased her in. Donna and Rex looked greatly relieved. The dock boy commented, "I think I bit through my tongue."
Nancy LeBow
July 24, 2004
I met Harry in the mid-80s at one of Tom Stafford’s Sophisticates parties in Fairfax, Virginia. He told me he had a daughter Suki (Yockey) and a son Teri (Yockey). Harry had such a good mind and always had some clever thing to say.
Harry was involved with Johnnie’s Gang and got me involved. I learned to tap dance in my 40s, took up skiing and white water rafting. Johnnie Morgan Lowe (now deceased) ran the Gang and always needed help with her parties and events. You found yourself being volunteered when you didn’t know you WANTED to volunteer. Harry was a willing helper and loved being involved. No matter what job Johnnie gave him, he did it with enthusiasm.
Johnnie held a yearly charitable benefit, and Harry was always involved when Johnnie could rope him in to help. One year Johnnie held a Wine and Cheese benefit for Children’s Hospital on the Pentagon concourse. She had lined up at least 20 Washington, DC area singles clubs to man the many tables. She had entertainment staged throughout the concourse. It was such a big event and so stressful that Johnnie lost her voice. When the event was over, I helped Harry move the remaining wine out to his car. The first load didn’t quite make it because the handle of the hand-truck wasn’t firmly attached. When Harry tried to roll it down some steps, the handle came off and all those bottles of wine bounced down the steps and most broke. You either laugh or cry; so we laughed and cleaned it all up. The Pentagon has not seen anything like that event before or since, and there is one set of stairs that probably still smells like wine.
There was nothing that Harry wouldn’t take on and with enthusiasm! He was always so much fun, and if things got boring, he would create ways to have a good time. Harry was good dancer, played the piano enthusiastically, was a great bridge player, loved to ski and loved to cook. When the Gang went white water rafting, Harry would volunteer to cook at least one of the meals and would get anyone who wasn’t rafting involved. He was sort of like a pied piper with kids. They’d all flock around and he would have them run errands and help prepare the meal. My friend Ron Doherty remembers that he always wore his USN baseball cap.
Harry lived life to the fullest. He told me once that if he hadn’t gone into the Navy, he would have been a truck driver. I can imagine him now talking on his CB radio entertaining all the other truck drivers.
It is well documented that Harry made a terrific contribution to the Navy and especially to the Tomahawk Cruise Missile program. But the measure of the man wasn’t in the all the important things that Harry did; it was all the little things he did. He listened and treated every man, woman and child with respect. He was well loved and respected by all who knew him.
My deepest sympathy to his family.
Lisa Ladd
July 23, 2004
I am so thankful to have had the opportunity to get to know Harry and Jackie in these beautiful Smokie Mountains. I was honored to have the opportunity to serve them while they were here in these Mountains. I will never forget that beautiful smile that Harry displayed and that sweet loving spirit that he had. But i know where that sweet spirit came from and it was from our Lord God Almighty who reigns forever and ever. I can see you now Harry on the other side of the Beautiful sunset forever smiling at us all. I look forward to seeing you soon. Thanks so much for sharing in your Faith with us all. Your sister in Christ, Lisa Ladd
David Kithcart
July 23, 2004
We rejoice in the precious memories Jackie is now being comforted with from her short time with her husband Harry. We also trust in the work of the Holy Spirit and His ability to comfort Jackie. And finally, we look forward to eternity when those who love His appearing will be together forever with Him in a place where all tears will be wiped away.
Andy Freeman
July 23, 2004
I met Harry through my friendship with his loving bride, Jackie. If ever there was a pair, these two were the winning cards to hold in friendship.
I was always impressed by Harry's character and strength. He knew how to make me laugh and feel at ease. He also patiently brought my golf game to a tolerable level for those ahead of and behind my foursome.
Most of all, I admired Harry's gentle faith and relationship with the Lord. I am thankful for His prayers and wisdom during the years I knew him.
Our loss is Heaven's gain.
Dr. Norm Mintle
July 23, 2004
We danced at your wedding, Harry and Jackie. And now you're dancing in heaven waiting for us all. What a great blessing to know The Captain in this life, and be assured of an eternal cruise together.
Our greatest love to Jackie and family.
blessings,
Norm and Linda Mintle
Molly Young
July 22, 2004
I'm so thankful Harry came into the life of my dear friend, Jackie Mitchum. He was a true example of a loving, dedicated Christian husband who adored Jackie. I'm glad he had a steady, secure relationship with his Saviour, Jesus Christ.
Ron and Jackie Hill
July 22, 2004
Harry Yockey was a man of great faith and our hero. He met the challange of of his God and his country with dignity. We are grateful to have know him through High Adventure Ministries.A blessing to us all.
Harry Gimber
July 21, 2004
Diesel Boat days are gone, but not forgotten. Harry, you sailed the best and will not be forgotten either. Smooth Sailing Classmate
Harry Gimber
Captain USN (Ret)
David Isquith
July 21, 2004
As our class thins with time, it is unfortunate that the best seem to be promoted to the great beyond first.
Jean (Dixon) Rice
July 20, 2004
Our deepest condolences for the loss of my cousin Harry. He served his country, and mankind, well. He will be sorely missed.
Robert Christenson
July 19, 2004
Classmate, friend, fellow diesel submariner; we'll miss you, Harry.
Chris Christenson, '57
7th Company
Fritz Warren
July 19, 2004
I knew Harry Merwin Yockey for some 52 years. We were both enlisted members of the armed forces (Harry was Navy, I was a Marine)when we entered the Naval Prep School at Bainbridge Maryland, where we prepared ourselves for the Naval Academy.
Harry was always a great friend! His attitude was positive about virtually everything. He and Marna had three terrific children all of whom my wife - Barbara - and I got to know from childhood. They were a wonderful family and we were pleased to be known as their friends.
Harry was a professional at everything he tackled in his life. His contributions to the Cruise Missle Program are well documented.
Barbara and I offer our condolences to his loving wife - Jackie - and to his sister - Nancy - and his three children -Cheryl, Mark and Brian.
May he rest in peace and be there to greet us as we follow the path that he has travelled.
Fritz & Barbara Warren
Tony Crowell (24)
July 19, 2004
Harry was a fine naval officer, a gentleman and a much admired classmate. He will be missed.
Urban Lamay
July 18, 2004
My fondest memories of Harry are from our days at PG school when he and Pete Blair would literally drag me out of my study cubicle to join them and Bob Saracco in several hands of bridge. Seriously, my life is richer for having shared a good part of it with him.
Fred Howe
July 18, 2004
Harry Yockey was the most continuously positive personality I ever met. From the time we were Batt football teammates at USNA through the time of our civilian employment following retirement from active duty, Harry just absolutely never equivocated about anything, ever. He was a great friend and a man you could count on no matter the circumstances. We will not see his like again. RIP.
Jim Paulk
July 18, 2004
We'll miss Harry, he was one of the best.
Joe Byrnes
July 18, 2004
Harry and I served four years together in the 1st Battalion at the U.S. Naval Academy and I had great respect for him. May God bless him and his family.
Bill Smollen
July 18, 2004
Harry was a great classmate at the Naval Academy.
Our deepest regards to the family.
Cleve Loman
July 18, 2004
I've known Harry since 1954. We have served and worked together, been in each other's weddings, played golf together and shared many good and memorable moments.
Harry was a great friend and classmate and I will miss him very much. My thoughts and prayers go out to his entire family.
May God Bless them all.
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