Hector Henry

Hector Henry obituary, Concord, NC

Hector Henry

Hector Henry Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 29, 2013.
Colonel (Ret.) Hector H. Henry, II, MD CONCORD - Hector Himel Henry, II, MD died on November 28, 2013, at CMC NorthEast. A Funeral Mass will be held at St. James the Greater Catholic Church in Concord on Monday, December 2nd at 11:00 AM The family will receive friends Sunday from 2:00 until 4:00 pm at Wilkinson Funeral Home. Dr. Hector Henry practiced adult and pediatric urology for over 40 years, provided thousands of free sports physicals for our youth and stood on the sidelines as the team doctor for the Concord High School Spiders for almost two decades. A urology professor at Duke for 33 years and at Wake Forest University for seven, Dr. Henry has the distinction of being the longest-serving member of the North Carolina Medical Board. He has had various administrative roles at healthcare institutions, including the Vice-President of Medical Affairs at CMC-NorthEast Medical Center. Over the past two decades, his peers continually elected him among the Best Doctors in the United States, North Carolina and Charlotte community. He has received recognition for projects in prostate health and, as State Surgeon, for innovations in healthcare delivery in rural and impoverished North Carolina communities. Colonel Henry (USAR) served our country for over 40 years as an officer, medical provider and commander. His responsibilities included command of 5000 troops, delivery of healthcare to 30,000 troops and 50,000 enemy POWs, serving as Task Force Commander for all medical units in the Operation Enduring Freedom Area. Internationally, he supported the development of health and medical policies throughout Europe, Asia and Africa. Colonel Henry received many medals including Joint Commendation and three Bronze Stars for achievements in combat. His combat deployments included Vietnam, Operation Desert Storm, the Second Gulf War and Operation Enduring Freedom. Councilman Henry served in various appointed and elected positions. He is currently serving his 17th year on Concord's City Council. A champion of children and an active philanthropist, Hector's leadership integrated the Boys and Girls club's sport programs. Prior to his leadership, female athletes had one option - cheerleading. Hector Henry II MD, MPH obtained his Doctor of Medicine with honors from Tulane University and his Bachelor of Science in Chemistry and Master of Public Health from UNC Chapel Hill. He completed his surgical internship at Charity Hospital, surgical and urological residencies at Ochsner Foundation Hospital and Clinic and Fellowship in Pediatric Urology at the Pediatric Urological Institute and Great Ormond Street Hospital in London, England. Dr. Henry was the son of the late Dr. Hector Himel and Yvonne Vincent Henry. He was preceded in death by his sister Janie. Hector is survived by his wife Marjorie Benbow, three sons - Hector III, Brannan and Parr of Concord and three grandchildren - Viktor, Danielle and 'Hector' IV., sisters - Yvonne, Yvette and Susan Combs. Memorials may be sent to Cabarrus Boys and Girls Club, PO Box 1405, Concord NC 28026. Condolences may be left at www.wilkinsonfuneralhome.com

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Parr V. Henry

November 29, 2015

Dear Colonel,

I cannot fathom how the past two years passed without you and I sharing our daily joke, neither can I believe the same length of time passed without us sharing a laugh. Thank you for everything, especially teaching me how to be Southern Gentleman, and all attributes associated therein, You were my Hero when I was 5-years-old, you are my Hero today, and you will always remain my Hero. Thank you for loving us all so much, and reminding me (either via a hastily written note, a text message, a phone call, in-person, or a combination of all aforementioned methods) everyday that you loved me. Of course, thank you for loving, and your initial reaction upon seeing and meeting Nicole. That was the best reaction. Ever!! I wish y'all had more time, and that our child would grow-up knowing you. He/she'll know everything about you, and your legacy, and I promise to show them the same love and teach them daily, as you did for me.

Thank for loving my 'puppy', - aka Giant Five, Big Noser, and myriad nicknames - Fiver so much, and treating, as well as thinking of him, as the first official granddog/grandkid.

I love you Colonel. I miss you everyday, and I hope I make you proud. Please keep Fiver company and y'all have fun running and playing in Heaven's oceans! And please, give him a kiss from his Poppa.

Thank you dad. With all my love,

PVH

February 11, 2014

I will never forget this wonderful man and mentor. If only we had more leaders like him! He will be truly missed. Prayers to all to heal your hearts!
Elizabeth Naman (Mobile, Al)

Robin Daye

December 25, 2013

Just found out about this tonight. Dr. Henry was my son, Jacob's, kidney surgeon. He was an incredible man with a passion for children. He was scheduled to leave on a tour of Iraq in 2003 when Jacob needed emergency surgery to repair a kidney that was in danger of shutting down. He could have passed our case on to another surgeon, but only days away from leaving the States, he scheduled and performed the surgery for our then five year-old. I am forever grateful for his skill and compassion. It is well worth your time to read his short bio in his obituary. We are better for having known him. God speed, Dr. Henry. Prayers for his friends and family.

December 6, 2013

It is an honor that I went to ODonohue in Charlotte with Hector. May his soul rest in the peace of our Lord. May his family receive the grace of God through this lose.
Brownalee Sims Kurtz

LTC Loren Klemp

December 4, 2013

COL H. was my mentor, my hero and my friend. I will miss you sir, until we are reunited I salute you. My most humble condolances.

Rosemary Adams LeVoyer

December 4, 2013

I was born and grew up in Charlotte and went to school both in elementary and Charlotte Catholic High with Hector. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayer. God Bless you all.
Sincerely,
Rosemary Adams LeVoyer

COL Henry and I at Bagram Airfield, AFG. 2003

Lewis Somberg

December 3, 2013

Hector was my first BDE Commander in Afghanistan. A true friend and mentor...I am trying to follow in his boots. I would have followed him anywhere....he always lead from the front. I regret not having the chance to say goodbye...
I am sorry for your loss.
COL Lewis Somberg
CDR 801st CSH.
FT Sheridan IL

Nicholas Stratas

December 3, 2013

A real loyalist to country,medicine and loved ones.
Love always,

December 3, 2013

Dr. Henry's loss was a greater loss to me than my own father. I loved him so much.

Cindy Marze

Nancy Lewis

December 3, 2013

RIP Hector.

December 3, 2013

A great, great man. The toughness of a bull and the heart of a saint. He will be greatly missed.

Lee Green

December 2, 2013

Death can never take away the precious connection you have with your soulmate, your beshert. Such a love story can never end.

Wayne Von Seggen, PA-C

December 2, 2013

Hector was an inspiration to everyone who had the pleasure of meeting and working with him. We served together on the NC Medical Board for several years and although I eventually rotated off the board, Hector always sought to serve at the Governor's pleasure longer than anyone could dream of doing, and he did it expertly. His service as a PATRIOT, SOLDIER, LEADER, and SURGEON-PHYSICIAN, and his FRIENDSHIP will never be forgotten. My personal condolences to Marjorie and the Henry family.

Julie and Mike King

December 2, 2013

Heartfelt prayers and thoughts to you and the family. Rest in peace.

Andy & Lolita Gonzales

December 2, 2013

Marjorie,
We know that no words can help ease the pain and loss that you are feeling right now. You are in thought and prayer.
Andy & Lolita Gonzales

CRYSTAL BROWN

December 2, 2013

I HAD THE GREATEST PLEASURE TO WORK IN THE UROLOGY CLINIC WITH DR.HENRY.HE WAS VERY INFORMATIVE AND HE TOOK NO GUFF..FRINDLY,KIND. REST IN PEACE SIR.

Mary Bures

December 2, 2013

Marjorie, please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Hector's very special, caring and thoughtful ways will live on through the many lives he touched.
Mary

Hilary Davidson

December 2, 2013

Marjorie,
I am so sorry to hear the sad news. I will keep you in my prayers. Hilary

Randall Jones

December 2, 2013

I had the pleasure to serve with Col Henry and he was a great man, he never missed the chance to stop and talk with me when he saw he out. I admired his leadership and will greatly miss him. A true hero to everyone.

Jack Sommer

December 1, 2013

Marjorie, you and the entire Henry family have our deepest sympathy. What great service Hector performed for his country and community.

Jack

December 1, 2013

known to him as "smith.betty" , marjorie and family my thoughts and prayers be with you. "He always had your back" if you maintained honor and dignity to your patients. He will be missed.

Betty L.Smth FNP- VA

Kelly Chopus

December 1, 2013

Marjorie and family-

My thoughts are with you. I am so very sorry for your loss.

John

November 30, 2013

With deepest sympathy to the family during your time of grief...God is for you a refuge and strength, A help that is there to be found during difficult times...May God provide you with peace and comfort to endure the days ahead.

November 30, 2013

Marjorie,
I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Cindy Moss

Cory Brouwer

November 30, 2013

So sorry to hear the news. Marjorie and family, our prayers will be with you in this time of loss.

November 30, 2013

Marjorie, so shocked and sorry. Patsy and I will drive over Sunday afternoon. Bryant

Ginny Jochems

November 30, 2013

A hero is gone- yet not without first serving his community and country at full capacity in numerous ways.
I first met Hector, the Doctor- one who eventually operated on all 4 of my children. My kids loved him and his kind, caring and witty demeanor. A family friendship began way back then and endures today.
Hector loved his country and the US Army he served. He stayed in shape- way beyond what others his age did, so that he would be ready when called again to serve. As he retired from private practice he continued to serve veterans and traveled great distances to help them at VA Medical Centers.
Hector was a great father and he loved his grandchildren. He served Concord and the State of North Carolina in many ways and often at the expense of his loved ones. He was a giving, loving and strong person who leaves an indelible mark on our community. We are a better place because of folks like Hector Henry. He was my friend and I admired him and his commitment to service. He was an excellent physician for my kids an admirable role model for all. Our condolences to the family. We will all miss him.

George Long

November 30, 2013

Marjorie,

Didn't know Hector as well as I would have liked but admired him for his generosity, honesty and competitive spirit, and as my brother military officer. We played racquetball several times over the years when I visited my brother Tom in Concord.
I share your grief and trust God will bring you solace.

George E. Long
Colonel, USAF Ret.

Pat Arndt

November 30, 2013

We will miss you. Marjorie and family, my heartfelt sympathy to you. Marjorie, your love for one another was inspiring and heartfelt. Rest in peace Hector.

Pat Arndt

November 30, 2013

We will miss you. Marjorie and family, my heartfelt sympathy to you. Marjorie, your love for one another was inspiring and heartfelt. Rest in peace Hector.

November 29, 2013

WE WERE GOOD FRIENDS AT CATHOLIC HIGH IN CHARLOTTE, BUT UNFORTUNATELY I HAVE NOT SEEN HIM FOR MANY YEARS.I AM VERY SAD TO HEAR 0F HIS PASSING. HIS FAMILY ARE ALL IN MY PRAYERS. JIMMY CRATES

Mara Dressler

November 29, 2013

Marjorie, I am so sad to learn of Hector's death. It came as a shock to me. Hector was an inspiration to us all. I will see him running in the neighborhood. You know you will always be his princess. He loved you so.
Just know that I am thinking of you and the family at this most difficult time.

November 29, 2013

Thinking of you and your family during this time and in the days to come. So sorry for your loss. Your new neighbors, Craig and Laura

Lorita Cagle

November 29, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of your lost. I work with his sister Yvette and she is such a sweet lady. My mother worked with him at the hospital when it was known as Cabarrus Memorial Hospital.I will be praying for your family.

COL Robert Blok

November 29, 2013

"We few, we happy few, we band of brothers." Shakespeare, Henry V

RIP Hector; soldier, father, husband, doctor, friend,....... and my brother.
ATW!

Meredith Stallings

November 29, 2013

Dr. Henry operated on me when he came to Concord. He was a Godsend. A very loving, compassionate man. When he knew there was nothing more he could do for me, he sent me to Duke Hospital Urologist. I am so very upset and saddened at hearing of his passing, but i know he is rejoicing and no longer in pain in Heaven with Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. I will always remember him and cherish all that he did for me as my Doctor. I will miss him terribly.

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