Henrietta J. Sih

Henrietta J. Sih obituary, Newark, CA

Henrietta J. Sih

Henrietta Sih Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 1, 2023.
Henrietta Jan-han Sih, passed away peacefully on June 4, 2023. She was 82 years old.

Born in Shanghai, China in 1940, she and her family immigrated to Taiwan in the 1940's. She eventually moved to Sydney, Australia in her teens where she graduated from the Dover Heights School for Girls and from Sydney University where she earned her BA in Accounting. After marrying, she moved to Brooklyn, NY where she worked in the accounting department of Columbia Records in Manhattan. Her family relocated twice: to Lexington, Massachusetts, then to Los Altos, California. She then lived in Newark, California until her death.

Henrietta was an active community member throughout her life. While residing in New England, she and her family were active members of the Greater Boston Chinese Cultural Association (GBCCA). Upon moving to Los Altos in 1977, she immersed herself in the public education system, serving the local PTAs at all of her children's schools. She deepened her commitment to education as a founder of the Los Altos Schools Foundation in 1982 (now know as The Los Altos Educational Foundation). Later, she built a vibrant independent tax and estate advisory, serving clients in the East Bay and Silicon Valley of California. Active and sharp, she didn't retire until well into her 70's.

She is survived by: Dorothy (Michael & Audrey), Louise (Robert, Giacomo & Aurelia) and Jennifer (Jason, Kai, Haley, Hannah & Juliana).

A private celebration of life will be held at Christ Episcopal Church in Los Altos, CA on August 5, 2023.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to a charity of the donor's choice, to the Polycystic Kidney Foundation (www.pkdcure.com) or to Mission Hospice of San Mateo (www.missionhospice.org).

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February 24, 2025

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May 29, 2024

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May 29, 2024

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Martin Lee

February 24, 2025

I had a chance to visit Henretta's Tree at Better Place Forest on Sunday. It is such a peaceful and serene place to remember fond memories of my friend and neighbor. Peace be with you all.

May 29, 2024

God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

May 29, 2024

God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Yauwu Tang

August 5, 2023

I am deeply saddened to hear about the passing of our beloved sister-in-law,

Henrietta. I knew her through my wife Claudia 56 years ago. My heart goes out to all of us who knew and loved her, especially Claudia.

Henrietta's presence in our lives was a true blessing. She embraced her roles as the oldest child, eldest sister, aunt, and grand aunt with boundless love and unwavering dedication. Her caring nature and genuine passion for each of us left an indelible mark on our hearts.

Throughout the years, Henrietta's love and support extended beyond her family. She selflessly assumed full responsibility for taking care of their father when he was in California, offering love and guidance to all her sisters, their children, and grandchildren. Her role as godmother at our daughter's baptism was a cherished moment filled with love and joy.

Henrietta's impact was not limited to family; she touched the lives of many through her community service, especially with the Greater Boston Chinese Cultural Association.

Her commitment to helping others and making a difference was truly inspiring.
In her professional life, Henrietta excelled as an accountant, helping numerous clients and friends with her expertise and care. She took great pride in assisting with tax issues and was known for her prowess in navigating the complexities of the tax return form. The fact that her memorial service address is 1040 Boarde Road holds a very special and symbolic significance, given her pride in helping others through the intricacies of tax matters.
Henrietta was a pillar of strength, love, and kindness, and her presence will be deeply missed. May we find comfort in the cherished memories we hold of her, and may her legacy of love and compassion continue to shine brightly in our lives. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.

Danny Hsueh

August 5, 2023

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August 5, 2023

This is uncle Danny...I had a great phone conversation with late last year. We chated for about 30 minutes. I had a chance visiting her Sidney's house in 2014. I pomised her of sending some pictures there, for which I did early this year. We also talked about our great grandpa, who was one of the famous leaders of Taiping Heavenly Kingdom. Attached are 2 photos of Sidney: The street she lived and the front of the house, with my wife and the current owner, plus a book that we shared and discussed. R.I.P. , your soft, sweet voice will stay in my memory forever. Love

Ling Tang Lin

August 3, 2023

Dear Henrietta, I miss your tenderness, thoughtfulness, sincerity, hard working, etc. You will be in my fondest memory! I look forward to meeting you again in Haven!

Martin Lee and family

August 2, 2023

So glad to have Henrietta as our neighbor and friend for so many years. She was such a lovely person always thinking about others besides herself. She will be dearly missed. Peace be with you all.

Beatrice C. Lee

August 2, 2023

I will miss her and her kindness very much. Being pretty close friend to the whole family.....her father,mother and sisters for many,many years in Mass.. I took care of her parents at the GBCCA senior center in Boston many,many years as an elderly service social worker with Dept. Of Public Welfare in Comm. of Mass. I used to take them on day trips with others in those years. What talented family! I even have kept a wonderful hand written poem by her father on 1996 that Henriatta had specially framed for me and still hanging on my living room wall....my mother in Sunnyvale and her father were living in the same assistant living for a while .Wish I had some her mother's wonderful Chinese paiiiintings....I am sure that the family had collected a lot.....I went to Newalk,California many times as Henriatta's house guest ,but always felt guilty that she had always driven me around for fun and dinners.....then I found out that our two family sought of related somewhat
(all coming from Su-Zhou hometown) I am really happy that I had done that.

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