Ian Rubins Obituary
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May 19, 2020
RIP my old friend.
March 5, 2010
May Ian's family and friends find strength and hope in his good memory. He was a tremendous talent and may his presence endure.
sue
February 28, 2010
We all come hear to share our storys about Ian, And our thoughts go to his great family, Ian was a great dad, friend, Doctor, and a person. Lets not forget he always made time for us who needed his smile, .
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January 6, 2010
I am completely blown away by this. Dr. Rubins was an amazing man, fantastic surgeon and so professional. He will defiantely be missed.
Kate Salviski Lehnes
January 5, 2010
IMR:
As time move on, you are still in our hearts abd never forgotten. at least with your friends
Liza
January 16, 2009
I was so shocked and suprised to hear of the tragic death of Dr. Rubins. I am a former patient of his and he was very professional, patient and supportive in helping me through my procedure. My sincere condolence to his family.
Dawn Horton
October 8, 2008
Dear Jodi and family
Jodi I just learned about this and I am so sadden by the news. I know if Steve was still with us he would be devastated with the news. I know that you are a strong person and will be ok. You two were so nice to Steve and I. Please contact me.
jr
October 2, 2008
I loved him and i always will. I will never forget him. I know that he's there watching. I know he can hear me. And i know that he'll always be there in case i should need him. I'll see him later, i know.
sue
June 23, 2008
Ian:
The days are long- I want to pick up the phone to say hello.
Happy Fathers Day .
Your are a great dad.
I still miss you
jeff itzcovitch
June 7, 2008
Ian was my closest friend for many years and i think about him often.We were buddies and i have a very hard time letting go of him and the positive images i keep.We should all remember him for the wonderful friend he was and keep his spirit alive through our positive thoughts of Ian.i know i will.
joey garr
March 31, 2008
I was so sorry to hear about Ian.
With my deepest heartfelt sympathy to the family. May he rest in peace.
Joann Garfinkle
Stuart+Elayne Cohen
March 29, 2008
To the entire Rubins family,My heart was saddened by the loss of one of my favorite childhood friends.When I think back to the winters of digging each other out when we got our snowmobiles stuck,or drinking hot chocolat at mont laval after a good ride.I get teary eyed and long for the good old days.Guys, may your days forward be happy.Sorry for our loss.....Stu
Lisa Hinman (Erickson)
March 13, 2008
Rubins Family,
I was so shocked and suprised to hear of the tragic death of Dr. Rubins. I knew his family in the early part of his career. They were living in Wilton CT I was a babysitter/driver. What I mean by that is there were several times dr, Rubins would be out with his wife and he would get paged. I was at the house with his children. I think Jonathan was around 2 I think ,so that is how long it has been , anyways I would drive him to the hospital and wait for him and then take him home. I always knew he was a very talented doctor. I knew he would make it big I guess he did. I am just sorry I didn't keep in touch I became a nanny for a family and had no more time to babysit so I lost touch. To Ian's family I am so sorry for your loss and to the kids your dad was a wonderful man always try to remember that even with all the stories you have heard and still to come. He loved all of you.
Rest in Peace DOC.
Adele Tuchman
March 3, 2008
Dear Mrs. Rubins, Bonnie, Carol and Family's,
I have just head of the loss of Ian.
I was shocked and saddened to hear of your untimely loss of Ian. Words can not express how bad I feel and how greatly saddened I fell for you all, as the loss of Ian is a great one. May you all find comfort that he has fufilled all of g_d's tasks in a very short time and is now in a better place.
Natalie Segall
February 25, 2008
I was extremely sad to hear of Ian's death.
I have a very nice memory of a lovely afternoon by a pool spent talking with Ian about the beginning of life after W.L.H.S.
I extend my deepest condolences to his family.
Robyn Bloomfield
February 25, 2008
Condolences to the entire Rubins family on the sad passing of Ian.
I too have happy memories of fun at Western Laval High School.
Ian was a great kid, and from the many wonderful written tributes here, it seems he grew into a great man!!
May you be spared any more sorrow.
Robert Gergely
February 25, 2008
I am saddened by this tragic loss.
Ian was a very popular person at WLHS and no doubt has left us all with very fond memories.
My condolences go out to the entire Rubins family.
Laurie Steeris
February 20, 2008
I was saddened to hear of Ian's passing. I would like to extend my condolences to his immediate family.
sue
February 20, 2008
IMR:
I pray you'll be our eyes,and watch over us. and help us to be wise in time when we dont know lets be our prayer,when we lose our way please lead us to a place, to guide us with your grace to a place well be safe. when stars go out each night you are eternal star when shadows fill our day We dream a world without violence a world of justice and faith. We ask that life will be kind to us.So watch from above we hope that each soul you find is another soul to love. Its the faith you light in us I feel it will save us. We all need a place so guide us with your grace give us hope faith, so we can be safe..
Cal Rosen
February 18, 2008
It was a shock to hear of your loss. Ian left a positive impact on the lives of so many. I have very fond memories of our time together at Western Laval. May the entire Rubins family have no more sorrow.
Donna and John
February 14, 2008
To the Rubins family,
My deepest sympathy to you all during this time of tremendous loss. I was a patient of Dr. Rubins from 6/06-5/07. I am forever grateful to him for the beautiful work that he did. He was indeed a terrific surgeon and a very caring doctor. I am deeply saddened by his departure from this earth. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you grieve his intimely death. May time and all the good memories that you have of him, heal the pain that you feel at this moment.
Mary Jane Michael
February 12, 2008
To the Rubins family/I am so sorry for your tremendous loss. Your father was a lovely man. I am a nurse who worked with him. Remember his love for you always.
Annike Spijkers
February 11, 2008
To the Rubins family,
It was today, that I heard of Dr. Rubins' passing and I'm schocked. I met Dr. Rubins as a patient several years ago and I have nothing but the highest regards for him. He was an awesome surgeon and a very caring human being and as such I recommended him to others when the subject of plastic surgery would come up in conversation. I'm sure he made a difference in the lives of many of his patients.
I hope he will be remembered for all the good work he did, his great skills as a surgeon and his loving character. That is how I will remember him.
The Geddies
February 10, 2008
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
phillip Dahan, MD., FACS., FRCS.
February 10, 2008
Dear Rubins Family:
We recently heard the about Ian's passing from a patient who knew him. I remember Ian growing up in Chomedy, going to the Y, hanging out with Ricky Pearl and my brother Stewart, and Med School at McGill. Ian was an excellent, well respected plastic surgeon and a great guy. He always appeared happy and enjoyed life. As a plastic surgeon I know how proud and content he felt when he helped so many patients. I will miss our conversations about fast cars, surgical procedures and the good times at conferences. He loved his children so much. Ian will surely be missed by so many. G-d bless him and his family.
Dr. Phillip Dahan
Sharyn Katsof
February 9, 2008
Dear Bonnie & family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Ian was my salvation at McGill during my undergraduate degree in Physiology. The lifts downtown from Chomedey in his black Trans Am were always appreciated but even more valuable was his great sense of humor and easy going attitude that got me through the most boring classes. I am sure he was a wonderful Doctor. What a loss. May your family be spared further sorrows.
ron & maureen kula
February 7, 2008
Dear Rubins family
Our heartfelt sympathies go out to all of the Rubins family. We have such fond memories growing up in chomedey with Ian and Carol.
sincerely
Ronnie & Maureen Kula
C. M.
February 6, 2008
Dr. Ian Rubins brought a very special gift to the world in addition to his charm and infectious zest - his incredible talent. I was privileged to learn many things at his side and was often the recipient of his generosity. (Thank you, Ian.) That he was so loved by his patients is an enduring tribute to his skill and caring.
We are all diminished by his loss. It is sad that life is so fragile and that its nearness to danger can escape our reach.
My deepest sympathy to his family. I hope his children will always be touched by his love.
Sally Terrell
February 6, 2008
To the family of Dr. Ian Rubins,
I learned of Ian's death by accident when I returned to New York recently for a family service. Since then I have found myself thinking of him on several occasions, and so have come upon this guest book.
It has been over 7 years. A lifetime ago.
I met Ian after my Cancer diagnosis, during a surreal search for a plastic surgeon. He reached out his hand, and my husband and I grabbed it.
He was kind, casual in his manner, generous with his time, and talented in his field.
I will always remember the time he saw me laying in a bed in Greenwich Hospital, hobbled into my room on crutches, and sat with me while I came out of my anesthesia fog.
He was a wonderful Doctor. I will always be grateful to him. Please allow me to extend my sympathy to you during this extremely sad and difficult time.
Sally Terrell
Daniel Marelli, MD
February 6, 2008
I remember Ian for his positive energy during our pre med days. He was always devoted to his family. During our training he was equally devoted to his patients. G-D bless his family. I am sorry for their loss.
Ivy Schwartz
February 6, 2008
Dear Bonnie & Family,
My deepest condolences to you on your tragic loss. Although it has been MANY years, I remember our childhood friendship with great fondness. May the good memories sustain you during this difficult time.
Florence Rosenthal
February 5, 2008
My condolences to Ian's family. So sorry to hear of your loss.
Stewart Dahan
February 5, 2008
I would like to share a memory of Ian. I remember Ian driving his black Trans Am with the heavy clutch singing Van Halen songs as loud as he could.He loved David Lee Roth.My deepest sympathy to Ian's family and his children.
Jamie Krauss
February 5, 2008
Ian was so much more then just a surgeon to me and my family, (although when he was wearing his surgeon hat for us, he sure did a beautiful job). He was a friend, a supporter, a listener, a helper, an advice-giver, and a warm smile on a cold day. He radiated something luminescent, a wonderful intangible energy that immediately drew you to him and put you at ease in his presence. He helped me so much in so many different ways, and was really a strong presence in mine and my family's life, stronger perhaps then I even realized until that light went out and a dim hollow sits in it's place. I've been so sad over the past couple weeks, but have spoken to him out loud when I say my prayers, and feel very strongly that where ever he is, he's heard my thoughts and appreciates them along with the incredible outpouring of support and prayers constantly that have come and continue to come from his community. He will be missed, he was loved, and his mark was made in a proud and positive way that will never be forgotten. My love and empathy to the family, my heart is with you.
God Bless,
Jamie Krauss
Cathy DeRose
February 4, 2008
My deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Ian. He was a great surgeon and friend and loved by many. I am so sorry he is gone. I pray for all to find strength in the memories he has left behind. May he rest in peace.
Arleen Khatibi
February 3, 2008
Ian Rubins was a talented surgeon and a nice guy. It was an honor and a pleasure to work with him. My sincerest sympathies to all his friends and family.
Howard Weintraub
February 2, 2008
I have only recently reconnected with Carole, and now to have learned of her and her family's loss of a brother, son and father is a harsh reminder of how finite our time can be.
I remember Ian as an extremely bright person, with a terrific sense of humour, and genuine charisma.
It has been many, many years since I've seen him, but the names and notes in this guestbook are a testament to the place he has in our collective memories.
My sincere condolences to Carole, Bonnie, Mrs. Rubins, his wife and children.
Cathy Caplan Winterstern
February 1, 2008
I was shocked to hear of the sudden passing of Ian. We shared many happy times together with all the gang in Chomedey. My sincere condolences to his family.
Tal Sarid
February 1, 2008
I was saddened to hear about your lose.
It has been a long time, but somethings stay with us forever.
My deepest condolences.
friend
February 1, 2008
IMR- We will always have you in our hearts. We will miss you and your laughs.john mayer music and TRIPS to Vermont, and to love life.
thats what you mean to me.
I will miss you xoxoxoxoxo
Skip Stern
February 1, 2008
My family and I offer our deepest sympathies to Jodi, Roni, Jacyln and Jonathan.
We will always remember Ian as he was in Port Washington –- as a happy-go-lucky guy, who cared very deeply for his family, friends, and even strangers. I remember vividly a story of Ian helping a complete stranger, who was having a heart attack outside a restaurant, who just happened to be one of our neighbors. He was always a fun guy too, and of course, a prankster of primal order.
We all remember fondly the fun times we had snowmobiling in Vermont, hanging out at your homes in Connecticut, but most of all, the years we shared in Port Washington when the kids were little.
Best always,
monica troy
January 31, 2008
my deepest sympathys
NATALIE[FOR MONA] GARBUZ
January 31, 2008
DEAR JODI;OUR FAMIY WAS VERY SADDENED TO HEAR OF IAN'SUNTIMELY DEATH.....WE KNOW IF MONA WERE HERE SHE WOULD BE A SOURCE OF COMFORT TO YOU..........MAY YOUR GOOD MEMORIES SUSTAIN ALL OF YOU.THE GARBUZ FAMILY
Elan Azar
January 31, 2008
It is with great sorrow that I heard of Ian's passing. I have wonderful memories of our teenage years in Chomedey and good times together. Ian will surely be remembered as a kind soul, gifted in many ways. Mrs. Rubins, Carole, Bonnie, Jodi and especially Roni, Jaclyn and Jonathan, I hope that the pain and sorrow will soon be eased by all the good memories of Ian's life.
Lu Ann S.
January 30, 2008
To the Family of Dr. Rubins:
I would like to offer my condolences at the untimely loss of Dr. Ian Rubins. I was a patient of his and remember well the personal care and professional skills he bestowed upon me as well as the ever-present smile upon his face and his fondness for collecting fine writing instruments.
In this time of great sadness and sorrow, we can try and take comfort knowing that he is at rest, in a better place - free of pain and suffering.
Let his children remember him as a loving, devoted father; let his colleagues and staff remember him as a dedicated, highly skilled professional; and let his patients remember him as a caring, compassionate surgeon, who gave them hope (and beauty) when they needed it most.
May God hold him near and provide comfort to all those who loved him.
Rest in peace - Dr. Ian Rubins
Mindy & Johnny Goldstein
January 29, 2008
Dear Bonnie and family,
We are very saddened to hear of the loss of your brother.
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Sincerely,
Eric Puritt
January 29, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about your tragic loss. I have very fond memories of our childhood in Chomedey.
Chiquita
January 29, 2008
To The Family of Dr. Ian Rubins-
"Sometimes the Lord calms the storm; sometimes He lets the storm rage and calms his child"....And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus...Phil. 4:7
May the peace of God be with you in your time of loss. I am heart broken, for Dr. Rubins was a beautiful spirit. It was a year and a half ago that he rushed back to his office to stitch up my daughter's lip after an accident. He is the reason she will not spend her life feeling self-conscious about her appearance. He brought hope to us with a smile on his face, and peformed his skills such that they appeared effortless. What a gift he was to mankind....God bless you Dr. Rubins...I will miss you and remember you always. I can see your smiling face. May we meet again in heaven.
Chiquita
Brian Buchler
January 29, 2008
I know Ian as a kid growing up in Montreal.
Super friendly guy, friends with everybody, making everybody laugh.
Very sad.
Lynda Veto
January 29, 2008
With fond childhood memories, profound respect for Ian's professional and familial accomplishments and prayers for strength....
Judi Stone
January 29, 2008
Dear Bonnie, Carole, and Mrs. Rubin,
I am so very sorry to hear of Ian's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jodi Weber
January 29, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you all. May you find comfort in wonderful memory.
Bonnie Schwartz
January 28, 2008
Carole and Bonnie,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.
tovi and tibor and family varga
January 28, 2008
To Elanor and Family,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts go out to you and your family at this time and the days ahead. Be strong and let all the good memories take over.You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Moe & Estelle Seltzer
January 28, 2008
Eleanor, Bonnie & Carole,
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. Our deepest sympathy to all of you.
Michael Crystal
January 28, 2008
The last time I saw Ian was in New Orleans. Jodi Ian my wife, Tracey and I had a great evening together. Ian's infectious laugh and love of life lit up the riverboat casino that night. Between the laughs and reminiscences Ian took time to provide some professional guidance to my wife who was just setting out in the medical profession. We will always cherish that evening. Ian you blessed so many with your brief presence in this life,may you rest in peace.
Bruce Seltzer/ Carole Lowry
January 28, 2008
To Eleanor, Bonnie & Carole,
We were shocked when we heard the tragic news. Our deepest sympathies to all of you on the passing of Ian. Our thoughts & prayers are with all of you in this time of grief.
Friend and neighbor forever.
Nancy Breitman
January 28, 2008
Dear Ellie, Carole, Bonnie and Jodi,
We're shocked and saddened by the tragic loss of Ian. I remember him best as a young kid, always very sweet with a huge smile. Even as a young child, he had a very special quality about him. Jodi, I'm sure you don't remember this, but I have a very clear memory being on the ISS ski bus with you one Saturday morning when we were 14.
I remember you running up to me frantically, saying, "Is that Ian Rubins on the bus?! How do I look, is my hair OK?!"
We're so sorry for your unbelievable loss.
Hal
January 28, 2008
To Eleanor, Bonnie, Carole, but most of all Ian...
My heart is broken with sadness from your terrible loss and suffering.
Many years have passed since we've seen each other or have spoken. But I've never forgotten any of you, my freinds.
Ian, we parted 'friends' long ago and now is the time to tell you that it was in part due to my falling apart to my addictions. You and everyone around me were pushed away while I slowly sank into darkness. For this I'm terrible sorry, and hoped someday we'd cross paths and I could tell you all. My memories of you have always been of the survivor and of success...
You were my first & best friend and we spent our childhood, teenage years and more together, playing, growing & learning...
I've always loved you.
I've always known who you are.
I know now that you have found your peace.
Hal
Sharon Wiener
January 28, 2008
Dear Jodi and family: so very sorry to hear this news of Ian's untimely passing...thinking of you today and sending my deepest condolences....
Judy Wassermuhl
January 28, 2008
Dear Carole and Family I just want to express my sadness at learning of the passing of Ian. Please Know that my thoughts are with you and your family. Respectfully, Judy Wassermuhl Schneider
Geoff Baker
January 28, 2008
To Eleanor, Bonnie and Carole,
I was very saddened to hear about Ian. He always took the time to be talkative and nice to myself and the younger kids on the street growing up. He had a kind heart. That's the lasting memory I'll always have of him. So sorry for what you're going through. Stay strong.
Chris M
January 28, 2008
Such a shame to lose someone so blessed. Ian not only touched the lives of his clients, but also his friends. I had the privilege of knowing Ian on a personal level. We met several years ago when he came into my showroom. I sell private theaters and high end AV gear. Anyone who knew Ian knew he loved his toys. I remember immediately thinking our relationship would be more than just seller/client. He was the kind of guy you wanted to be around and you enjoyed spending time with. I always made it a point to check on him often. Ian could be impulsive at times and went out one day and got a brand new Ducati motorcycle. With such an important career, a motorcycle should have been the last thing he would get on. So I bought it from him thinking, hopefully, he got that out of his system. What did he do? Bought another, faster motorcycle so he had something to ride together with me. That was Ian. Such a cool and crazy guy! I will miss him as I'm sure so many others here in Connecticut will. See ya buddy.
Patti Lenkov
January 28, 2008
My deepest condolences to the family of Ian Rubins. I have such wonderful childhood memories of Ian, I am truly saddened by his loss.
Dr. Richard (Ricky) Pearl
January 28, 2008
It was with great sadness I learned of Ian's passing. I will remember all of his great accomplishments , all of the people he has helped in his lifetime and his great smile and laugh.There was so much good in what he brought to the table. Dear Rubins family ,I am so sorry for your loss.OOOxxx
Harriet and Norm Weinstein
January 27, 2008
To Eleanor and family,
Norm and I want to offer you our condolences at this tragic time.
You may not remember me. I am the daughter of Jean and the late Reuben Horovitch.
Audrey Seltzer
January 27, 2008
I was so sorry to hear about Ian. May he rest in peace and may your families find comfort and peace in the days to come. With my deepest sympathy. Audrey
Eric Rubin
January 27, 2008
Dear Alvin,
I was so sorry to hear of this sudden loss. My thoughts are with you.
Elizabeth
January 27, 2008
I just want to express my sadness at learning of Dr. Rubin's passing. He treated my daughter in 2002 with skill and kindness.
Kathy Hunter
January 27, 2008
Sorry to hear about your loss. You will be in my thoughts.
Shelley Gasoi Scherer
January 27, 2008
Dear Carole and Family
I was so saddend to hear about Ian. Please know that my thoughts are with you. May your memories be a source of strength to you.
Shelley Gasoi Scherer
Mark Weiss
January 27, 2008
bsd lhv
to all Ians' family and friends
and to the gang who knew him from western laval high school circa mid 1970's on souvenir of which i was one whom merited shared classes w ian zl , gr 10 math with a mr goddard......
.... ian, hal and a slew of others with,and myself...
ian had /has a huge, kindest warm heart,
his close circle of friends as well.
that is how i will always remember Ian.
i send my profoundest condolences to all
Beverly & Martin Yaffy
January 27, 2008
Thoughts are with you at this sad time. Our deepest sympathy.
Audrey Achtman
January 26, 2008
It is with deep sadness that I learned of Ian's death. My thoughts are with you.
Audrey
Marilyn Baker
January 26, 2008
My deepest sympathies to all the family. I can only wish you strength to cope with each passing day.
Respectfully
stu & elayne cohen
January 26, 2008
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Barbara Tolensky
January 26, 2008
Dear Alvin & Eileen,
So sorry to hear of the sudden loss of your son-in-law. Our thoughts are with you
Barbie & Irwin Tolensky
Stephen Carter Allen Selby
January 26, 2008
To Elenaor and family
We were very saddened to hear of Ian's passing. May your days of sorrow turn to joy when you think of all the good times you had together.
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