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Judd Serotta
June 9, 2025
I just learned that Ilana passed. This is heartbreaking news. I came to know Ilana through the American Jewish Committee, where she was a dynamo. She and I had many conversations about my special needs son, and her love and compassion were transcendent. May her memory continue to be a blessing to those who knew her, and may her family be comforted with the mourners of Zion.
Tony Marriott
May 30, 2025
Bob, I just learned of Lani´s passing, and I was so very sorry to hear the news. Though I never had the chance to meet her, I remember how devoted you were during the time of your move and how often you spoke of her with such affection. Wishing you comfort and healing in the months ahead.
- Tony Marriott
Chuck Leavens
April 1, 2025
G-d bless you Lani. You will always have a piece of my heart. Chuck Leavens
Deborah Day
March 16, 2025
Sending much warmth and comfort to her family. She was loved well by all of you !
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Ken Macdonald (Woodstock neighbor)
March 9, 2025
I remember the years of growing up in the Green Acres area of Tonawanda, NY and seeing Lani walking to school, like the rest of us kids. That curly haired, short kid with a big smile could move those legs as she was eager to get to her classroom at Green Acres Elementary School. As a 5th grader, I recall she always had added to her arms not only books but also a musical instrument. She was noted as a smart kid, talented in music, and full of positive vibe. She enjoyed life. I think everyone liked Lani because of her joyful persona! To her family, and friends... I send my deepest condolences. This world is now one less of the light she beamed from her happiness of being in it. Gods blessings and grace be with her and with the family and friends she left behind.
Naomi (née Bolinsky)
March 9, 2025
In the 1960´s as a child I was a guest many afternoons in the beautiful home of the sweet, smart, lovely Krop family. The girls ages mirrored the ages of 3 of us 4 Bolinsky children. We attended public schools together.
I am so sorry to hear about Lani´s illness. My sincerest sympathies to her beloved husband and loving sisters. We will all meet in the World to Come.
Naomi
Stephen Criden
March 8, 2025
I attended the same high school as Llani. It was there we shared a common bond of our Jewish faith and love of music. She was a dear friend and we re-connected via facebook years later. I´m so glad that we found each other on facebook and that the short time we shared was as meaningful as I´m sure it was for her too.
My condolences go out to her husband and her family. She will surely be missed. May her memory be a blessing to all that knew her.
Judy Johnson
March 7, 2025
As a curly haired, bright, bubbly little girl, Lani came into my second grade class at Green Acres School. How honored I was to be included in the celebration of her Bat Mitzvah seven years later. I was so proud of her as she sang her portion of the Torah, I cried. Although we lost track over the years, I always wondered what she did with her life. WOW! Everything good, joyful and giving.! What a blessing Lani was to me and everyone around her. Rest in peace my beautiful, bubbly little girl. May your memory be for a blessing. Mrs. Judy Sullivan Johnson
Gretchen Knapp
March 7, 2025
I am shocked by the passing of my childhood friend, Lani. I knew her from school and admired her musical proficiency in school orchestra. She was so talented! Her father was my family optometrist. What a rich life - she will be greatly missed. May memories of her be a comfort to family and friends.
Kevin Borth
March 6, 2025
My very deepest sympathies to the Krop family on the untimely loss of Lani. The Krop family were our neighbors on Lynbrook Ave in Tonawanda,NY, and they were the best neighboring family one could ask for. Lani was always full of fun and rarely seen without a smile on her face. She was just a great person to be around. May she rest in peace. Kevin Borth and Family
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