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Annie Stith
July 4, 2025
Ina
Another year without you.More milestones that we missed sharing with you.You are and will always be greatly missed from our lives.Love you
Vanessa
July 4, 2025
Hey Sis! Still missing you.
Vanessa
July 12, 2024
Yes, Trinity is a beautiful young lady. Im blessed to have her so close to me. I am sure you are proud. I miss you Ina-Marie. Annie thank you for keeping this on. It is truly a living legacy.
Annie
July 11, 2024
21 years you have been gone ! So many things I wish you could have experienced with Trinity . Love and miss you dearly.
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Stan Purdy
July 4, 2024
always in my heart and mind missing you so much getting old
Trinity
May 9, 2024
Mom,
I am just now finding this page. I don´t know where to start...I wish I had gotten a chance to meet you. I wish I could experience what it´s like to have a mother. There´s so much I missed out on. I feel like I´m lacking because you´re not here.
I´m 20 years old now, going to be 21 soon. With each birthday that passes, I need you more and more. I´m in college, at an HBCU like you. You should be here with me. You should be witnessing all of my milestones. I feel so different compared to others because I don´t have you. Seeing dad´s pain kills me...I don´t think I´m experiencing the same person as you did. You being gone changed everything, and it changed him forever. But he is the most incredible, loving father. He´s my superhero....the definition of a true father.
Growing up without you has been a challenge. I feel like I´m messed up in so many ways that I´m not even aware of. There´s so much I need to say. For a long time, I´ve felt a sense of emptiness...like there´s a piece of me that´s missing. I feel a void deep in my heart. My light doesn´t shine as bright because of your absence. I dream of a life where you were here, and everything is right.
I wish I got the chance to call you mom. I love you so much.
Love,
Your daughter
Ann
July 4, 2023
20 years ! Still missing you with every fiber of my soul.
Love you
STAN Purdy
July 4, 2023
20 years still not easy.GONE TOO SOON.THANK YOU FOR ANDRE & TRINITY.forever in my heart
STAN Purdy
July 8, 2022
missing you always and forever..thank you for 'ANDRE & TRINITY"..gone too soon
Barbara Robinson
July 8, 2022
Even though it's been 19 years I still miss you! Trinity has grown up to be such a beautiful young lady.
I was just thinking about the time when you and Vanessa came to visit me in Florida and we went to Club Amnesia Miami to see Buju Banton. We had such a good time...we couldn't stop singing and dancing! I will always cherish moments like this.
I miss making curry chicken with extra gravy for you, laughing at some good jokes and just being around you. You are always in my thoughts. Until we meet again my friend...
Love you forever,
Patsy
Vanessa
July 5, 2022
Trinity is beautiful
Vanessa
July 7, 2021
Missing you
Annie Stith
July 5, 2021
At times it seems like yesterday ,but 18 years have past. And you are still missed like it just happened. Love you!
PROFOUND Galloway
July 4, 2020
When I look at my 16yr old son, I think about how different our kids are, than we were at 17. I wish he could have met you, and be really close with Trinity. I miss laughing with you, singing with you, dreaming with you, all of it...
Vanessa
July 4, 2019
I miss you my sister-friend. I pray you continue to smile down on us. I cant believe its been 16 years. Your baby girl is beautiful and Andre is doing an awesome job! Love you!
ANNIE STITH
July 4, 2019
Sixteen years seems like only yesterday. Miss and love you.
Tanya Galloway
July 4, 2019
My forever friend. I've missed you over the years, and so wished you were still here. Sending love and light to your family. #collegefriends
Ronald Stith Sr,
April 3, 2016
I often wonder which is worst not being able to see you or talk to you...but at any cost......i will always love you.....
Love You Dad ,
Annie Stith
April 1, 2016
For Jaimie
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jaimie dockray
March 23, 2016
Andre -- Ina was one of my closest friends from elementary school through high school in Brookline. I recently learned of her passing and have been trying to figure out how to get in touch with you. If you receive this, please let me know how to reach you. I'm not on social media so I'm not always in the loop. But I want to connect with you if you don't mind. Jaimie Fried Dockray
Stan Purdy
May 7, 2015
missing you always .you kept us real
September 12, 2014
With a loving and caring heart of memories for a daughter that
was full of all that life had to offer . My dearest child I miss you
and love you. Rest in peace and wait on the Lord. Your father .....
Andre Rouse
September 11, 2014
Happy Anniversary Ina!
I always know when these days approach cause I can never sleep and I dont want to be around anyone. I miss you dearly.....Trinity & I are going out to dinner to celebrate YOU! Going to tell her all our 9/11 story in detail! I LOVE YOU! HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!
Tanya Galloway
August 29, 2014
Well, here I am, missing you still...wishing I coukd have at least been there to say goodbye...I hope to meet your daughter someday, I'm sure she's amazing. I met Andre when you guys came to D.C....well, I will be back...if anyone in her family reads this please contact me. My name is Tanya and she and I went to Virginia State University together, we were very close. [email protected]
Monique Austin
November 24, 2011
Hey Inamarie!
Well, here we are once again, our favorite time of year. I don't care how much time passes, I still reach for the phone to update you on the menu and the happenings in the house. The greens are fresh from the garden and are smelling so good. The turkey is going in around 6 and yes, Ma's potato salad is in the fridge.
This year is going to be a quiet one and I am so looking forward to it. This past year has been trying to say the least, but at each turn I felt your smile and could hear you telling me to ‘keep on keeping on'.
As busy as I've been I have been so lucky to be able to chat with Dre and getting cards from Trinity has truly been what has gotten me through.
I want you to know that not one day goes by that I do not think of you, pick up the phone to call you or even laugh at one of the many, many good times we shared.
I miss you so much my friend, but I hold onto the fact that you are watching over me and that we will be together again one day.
I love and miss you more than words could ever express. Know that I hold onto our time and I thank you for always being there.
I love you!
Mo
Monique Austin
July 2, 2011
Eight years ago today I said goodbye to you. It was THE hardest thing I have ever done.
Like the Pastor said at your going home service ‘We don’t question God’, there are days when I wonder why you left us. There is not one day that goes by that I don’t reach for the phone or get ready to email you. I miss you SO much Ina.
So much has happened over these past eight years and I yearn to share them with you, but I know that you are watching over all of us.
Know that I give thanks daily that I had you in my life and that I am so thankful to have been able to call you my friend.
We WILL be together again and I am so looking forward to that day.
I love you my friend and that your legacy lives on. Thank you for loving me when I didnt even love myself...
Mo
Barbara Robinson
April 25, 2011
Happy Belated Birthday Stith!
Another year has passed and my heart still hurts. As time goes on the pain diminishes but it never goes away. Thank you for your friendship, kind words and touch the heart jokes (we had many of those).
Miss you and Love you always,
Patsy
RONALD STITH
April 17, 2011
My dearest and firstborn happy birthday, Inamarie I thank God for the gift of you and how God made you a gift to so many that you passed in life your father say thanks LOVE YOU FOREVER
Lisa Finn
April 16, 2011
Happy Birthday my sweet friend. miss you
Monique Austin
April 15, 2011
Happy Birthday Inamarie!!!
I thought today would be hard, but I met up with everyone at the Round Table and we laughed until we cried sharing memories of you. I had forgotten how much fun we all had together. It truly felt like you were there with us.
Although it’s still hard not having you here, just being with everyone made it better.
I love and miss you so much my friend, but I know that you are watching over all of us.
Until we’re together again,
Monique
Vanessa
December 25, 2010
Hi Ina, missing you this holiday season. Life is kicking my butt right now. Wish we could talk cause you always give it to me straight. Love & Miss u!
Monique Austin
December 25, 2010
Merry Christmas Inamarie!!!
I cant believe that its really here. I swear it was just yesterday I was baking you a ‘little something somethin’ for your ride home and handing you your Marshall’s giftcard.
If the past year has taught me anything, I realize that life cannot be taken for granted. I want you to know that I truly value every second that you were in my life. A true friend is there for you during the good and the bad, and through right and wrong. Lord knows I had my share of wrong, but you loved me anyway, and I could never thank you enough for being you.
Each day I thank God that you were in my life. Who knew two people would bond over homemade salad dressing? LOL!!!
As each year passes by my life changes and I still reach for the phone to call you and to hear that laugh. I have come to realize that people are in our lives for a reason and sometimes for a season. It doesn’t make it any easier that you are not here, but I can now look back and understand why I was blessed to have you in my life.
I know that you are watching down on me and that gives me such comfort. I hold onto the fact that one day we’ll be together.
Know that I love you more as each day passes and I thank God that we were friends.
Merry Christmas!
Love always,
Mo
Lisa Finn
November 26, 2010
Hi Ina, I saw Mo's loving message and feel the same. Life just is not the same with out you here physically. I feel you around me all the time,thank you for being there. I know when you are around because my mind will start talking to you. Thank you for continuing to visit me and remebering my gift. I remember the time that you asked me to come to your house to see if it was haunted, I think it was in Hyde Park and that crazy cat that went to the bathroom in your plants. lol... I am thankfull today for haviing you in my life for 14 years and the great memories..
Love you
Monique Austin
November 25, 2010
Hey Girlie!
I can’t believe it’s that time of year again already! Dad cut the collards and the kale from the garden and the house is smelling SO good right now.
This has been one crazy year, so many ups and downs and I still reach for the phone to call you. As much as I love this season, I dread the fact that you aren’t here for me to talk to, see that beautiful smile and just hear you say “Oh Bodie”…
Since it is officially Thanksgiving, I just want you to know that not one day goes by that I don’t give thanks for having you in my life. No matter what happened, you were always there and I love you and thank you for your love and friendship.
Missing you more than words could ever express. I love you Inamarie!
Mo
Monique Austin
July 2, 2010
Seven years ago today God called you home. People say that time makes the pain go away, but it doesnt.
Not a day goes by that I dont think about you, remember a laugh that we shared or any of the great times we shared.
Know that I am so greatful to have had you in my life. I miss you so much...
I love you Ina!
Mo
Monique Austin
June 28, 2010
Hi my friend,
I cannot believe that it is 7 years today that Trinity was born. One of the happiest days of my life also turned out to be one of the saddest as it was the last time I talked to you.
I got to see Trinity on my birthday and she is an AMAZING little lady. She is SO much like you it isnt even funny. Dre has done such a great job with her.
In my heart it feels like it was just yesterday that we were laughing and talking about life...
You are always in my heart and on my mind. I love you my friend.
Until we meet again.
Love,
Mo
Lisa Finn
April 21, 2010
Happy 40th my very missed friend...
I know that you had a great celebration up there but it is still very very hard not to have you here. You will forever and always be in my heart and on my back...lol since my tatoo was done for you as a constant reminder of your love and friendship that I was blessed to share with you over the years...
love always,blessings...Lisa
Monique Austin
April 14, 2010
Happy 40th my friend!
I never thought that we would not be celebrating this day together.
Not a day goes by that you are not on my mind and in my heart.
I love you and miss you.
Mo
Annie Stith
April 14, 2010
Happy 40th Birthday ! Love you
Your Mom
Monique
November 26, 2009
Hey Girlie!
Well, it's Thanksgiving Day and you know this is the time of year that I miss you the most. The cooking, the shopping, the music and of course Dad's egg nog!!
Family is here and the house is filled with people, laughter and of course good food. Yet, something is missing and that is you.
Know that I am always thinking of you and not a day goes by that I still dont reach for the phone just to hear that laugh.
I miss you and love you my friend! Thank you for being in my life!
Love always,
Mo
Vanessa
November 5, 2009
Hi Ina!
I was talking about you today and how this is our favorite time of the year. Girl, I am turning 40 in just a few weeks. It seems like just yesturday I turned 21....yeah right! I was telling my coworker what a beautiful woman you are. How you have such a wonderful husband and how well he does with Trinity in your absence. I miss and love you!
April 15, 2009
Hey Girl,
Once again I have to wish you Happy Birthday in this manner and it still hurts my heart for you not to be here with all of us who love and miss you. Thank you for letting me know when you are with me in spirt and that you are my forever friend no matter where we are. You need to blow out those candles before we have to call the fire dept. lol...love you, miss you, god bless
Love Allways Lisa
Vanessa
April 15, 2009
Hi Ina,
Happy Birthday! I miss you today as much as the day I left Boston and the day you left us for a better place.
Thank you InaMarie's mom for keeping this Guest Book going, it has been such a great way to keep her alive in all of us.
God Bless!
Monique Austin
April 14, 2009
Happy Birthday Inamarie!
I cannot believe that its almost 6 years that you have been gone. Time flies, but it doesnt always heal.
Work has kept me so busy I feel such a disconnect with my "old life" and the people in it. I am making a promise to you today that I am no longer going to make excuses, I have to get back on track.
Know that I miss you with all my heart and not a day goes by that I dont think of you.
I love you and cannot wait until we are together again.
Love,
Mo
Lisa Finn
November 29, 2008
Hey Girl,
My heart still ackes for the laughter and talks we had. I feel blessed that such a beautiful angel is watching over all of those you loved so much. I am so very thankful for the time we had while you were here with us. My life would not have been the same, if we had not become friends.
When I feel a small glimmer of hope in my heart on a tough day that is when I know that you have just left me in body but not spirit.
Thank you very much for blessing us with your daughter Trinity. I know I should see her more and I am sorry for that, When I get to talk to her on the phone, I can't help but smile and laugh at her, she is such a character just like yourself.
Lots of love to you during the start of another holiday season in which I miss you even more.
Forever Friends, love always
Lisa
Monique Austin
November 26, 2008
Hey girl. This time of year is SO hard for me, I really miss you. I thought time would lessen the pain but it hasnt and I havent figured out how to deal with it.
Know that I love you and I miss you more than words could ever express.
Mo
Vanessa
October 9, 2008
Hi Ina, You are on my mind more often as the weather turns cold and I get ready to plan for the Holidays. That was always such a great time for us. I miss you Girl!
Barbara Robinson
April 17, 2008
Happy Belated Birthday Stith,
As usual, I can never remember your birthday. I miss you so much. Since you and Sharon have passed away I am afraid to get too close to anyone for fear of losing them also. I have not been good with calling Dre and Trinity but I will try to do better. I am always thinking about you and I love you very much.
Love, Patsy
Vanessa
April 15, 2008
Love and Miss U! Happy B-Day Ina!
Lisa Finn
April 15, 2008
Hey Girl, Happy Birthday....I miss your smiling face and laughter so much. Your daughter is so much like you, I know you are smiling down on Dre and Trinity with so much pride. It has not been any easier these past years to be with out you. Love you so much and miss you. Know blow out those candles before we have to call the fire dept. lol
Monique Austin
April 14, 2008
Happy Birthday Inamarie!!!!!!!!!!!!
I cannot tell you how much I miss you. This past year has been SO hard. I have gone through so many changes and not being able to call you or email you to talk about things has literally broken my heart. They say that grieving gets easier but let me tell you, they are liars. I honestly feel like my right arm has been cut off.
Work has kept me so busy that I haven’t been able to spend the time with Trinity that I want to. There are times when I really want to give up but when those times come, I swear I hear your voice telling me not to give up.
I never thought that I would be at this point in my life without my best friend. There are good things that are happening too and not having you here to be a part of them is unbearable.
But, it’s your day and as much as I miss you I know that I have to “keep on keepin’ on”. I miss you my friend. Know that not a day goes by that I don’t think about you and miss you dearly. I cant wait until the day that we are reunited.
Know that I don’t look at this day with sadness but I find it bittersweet. Until we are together again, I miss you my friend.
Love,
Monique
Monique Austin
July 2, 2007
Hey Inamarie,
I can’t believe that 4 years ago today you left us. Time does not make things better… There is not a day that goes by that I don’t yearn to pick up the phone and call you. I miss you more than words could ever express.
I am grateful for the time we had together and I will never, ever forget you.
I am looking forward to telling your “mini me” all about her wonderful mother.
I miss you girlie and I love you dearly.
Love,
Mo
Barbara (Patsy) Robinson
April 16, 2007
Happy Belated Birthday Stith,
You know I can never remember your birthday until it passes. I still think about you every day and the good ole' days we use to share. I show Tiffany your pictures and I tell her about you. Every time she sees your picture she tells me that you are Trinity's mommy and she asks when is she going to see you. I can only tell you her she will see you one day, at 2 years old that is all she understands. Miss you like crazy and love you forever.
Monique Austin
April 14, 2007
Happy Birthday Inamarie!!!!
I am missing you like crazy. You know there are so many good things going on right now and I just want to pick up the phone and share them with my best friend. But, I know you are watching from above and smiling.
We had company today and they asked about the significance of the Asti and 2 glasses. You have and always will be a class act my friend.
I didn’t want this day to go by without me writing to you and letting you know how much I miss you and love you.
Until we’re together again, I love you girlie!
Mo
Monique Austin
November 23, 2006
Happy Thanksgiving Inamarie!
I cannot believe it’s that time of year again. You know this time of year was our favorite: good food, good friends, good jokes and good drinks.
I think of you so often and I have so much to be thankful for. Your friendship means the world to me. Know that you are always on my mind and in my heart.
I love you.
Mo
Vanessa
November 22, 2006
Hi Ina
You are heavy on my mind with the holidays coming around. We love the Holidays! I thought I would send this out to wish you and all those missing you during this time a Happy Holiday. Love and Miss U! V
Andre Rouse
October 24, 2006
Hi Sweety!
Gator turned 40 today! The family had a party for me this past weekend & it was wonderful. I'm going to spend the day with Trinity & you know i've got to get my carwash & the free meal because it was our tradition and I plan to continue this with our daughter.
We love and miss you!
Bernadette Fernandes
September 18, 2006
Hey Ina,
A long time has passed since I have written, but that doesn't mean I don't think about you or talk about you. Precious talks about you too. Her and Raven love Trini and are happy whenever we get a chance to go see her. Her birthday was the last time and we had a wonderful time. She is so beautiful Ina and Dre is such a wonderful dad. You are both my inspiration that there is true love in this world. Uncle Stan of course was cutting up as usual and you know me and Mo had to cut up with him too. My sistergirl Sonia was there with us as well. Girl there is so much to tell you, but sometimes it is hard to sit and write to you because even though I crack up thinking about all the good times we had, it hurts because physically a part of us is missing. Girl remember the time at Packs and Mo told me about Chessy? Me and Mo were talking about that the other day and remembered you came back to the table with my favorite (we won't tell anyone) and say here you go Bern. You know I was devastated about my CAT!!!!! WE laugh so hard about that now. Well my dear I have to go now, I am going to try and write again soon. Love ya and miss ya.
Bern, oh PS Your mom and grandma are the best.
Andre Rouse
September 15, 2006
Trinity and I would like to THANK all family & friends for the love & support.
Reading all the beautiful words that have been written has made me remember the 1st time I saw Ina...in Dr Powell's creative writing class. She sat in the front row with big frown on her face and I said to her "smile it cant be that bad". Ina dropped the class that day. The next time I saw her was my very 1st time at Packy'. Her hair was really long & I did not recognize her but she knew my name?
The next time I saw Ina was in Dr Horton's class and from there on she was a permanent fixture in my life.
I realize we were destined for each other because she was my soul mate. It was faith that our paths crossed over & over & over again.
This will be a story that I'll be proud to tell Trinity because I know we were meant to be together.
Once again, we would like to THANK everyone for all the love & support.
Leatha (lil girl) Fisher
September 12, 2006
Hey sis,
Just wanted to say hello, its been so long but I think of you often and of course all the jokes we shared. Everytime I look at pictures they always put a smile on my face. Each picture you were smiling most likely cuz we made a joke or said something goofy like we do. Trini poo is getting big and making me feel older, might have to loose the name lil girl at least by the time I'm 40 if thats okay wit you, Cinda, and Mo...lol
Your always in my heart, love you and miss you much. Until we share some more jokes guess what? "I got the armor oil to shine up the stains"....lol
Love ,
Leatha
lisa finn
September 12, 2006
Hello my friend,
Its hard to say Happy Anniversary when the feelings of heartbreak and loss are always in all our hearts.
But in my heart you know I do wish you love and peace.
When looking a Trinity and how she has grown and what a beautiful person she is, it is still hard to believe your not here to share the love. But Andre is doing a great job of teaching her your love and kindness.
When Trinity came to my house she saw the picture of you on my frig (you standing sideways pregnant carrying her) she said You got mama,she had the biggest smile on her face and she looked just like you, and at that moment I knew you were there with us....I love and miss you my friend, keep watching over us, as I know you are. God Bless
Love Lisa
Andre Rouse
September 11, 2006
Happy Anniversary!
Words cannot express how much I MISS AND LOVE YOU! Trinity asks about you all the time. I cannot believe its been over 3 years...I now remember how unfufilled my life was before we met but I'm happy that you were able to teach me how to LOVE!
until we meet again...your loving husband!
Monique Austin
September 11, 2006
Happy Anniversary Inamarie!!!
It’s unreal how much time has gone by. It seems like it was just yesterday that we went shopping for your wedding gown…
As the world mourns the events of September 11, 2001, I am still mourning the loss of my best friend. There is not a day that goes by that I don’t think about you. You mean the world to me Ina and I just want you to know that.
I know that you have been watching over me the past few months with the move, Ma being hospitalized, the new job-as always you were right there when I needed you most.
Know that I carry you with me always.
I love you my friend,
Mo
LISA FINN
April 14, 2006
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY FRIEND...WE REALLY MISS YOU....
Monique Aust in
April 14, 2006
Happy Birthday Inamarie!!!
I cannot believe it’s that time once again. Words cannot express how much I miss you.
After all of this time I still pick up the phone to call you whether it’s to tell you something funny that just happened or just to hear your voice. I guess that I will just never accept the fact that you are gone.
So much is going on that I can barely keep up, I try my best to focus on the task at hand but things just seem to be a blur.
Know that I miss you terribly and that my life will never be the same.
I love you my friend and cannot wait until I see your smiling face again.
All my love,
Mo
Monique Austin
January 6, 2006
Happy New Year my friend! I just saw the video to H-Town-you know the one-took me back to 1993 when we thought we were invincible...
I cannot believe another year is here and you’re not. It's so unfair, but as the pastor said, I cannot question God.
Last Friday I got the chance to spend a few hours with Dre and Trinity and I cannot tell you how amazing your child is…not that any child of yours would be any less :) Dre is doing such a wonderful job with her. She is SO like you it’s almost scary. She looks like you, acts like you and it STUBBORN like you. Seeing her brings such emotion, I cant even begin to describe it.
The holidays were rough. I broke down, but I cant tell you how many calls and emails I got from people from your life that were just checking on me. You touched SO many people and I want to thank you for bringing them into my world.
2006 is here and its just so hard knowing that I cant pick up the phone and chat with my best friend. I want you to know that despite my “moments” that I am holding it together. My one resolution for this New Year is to spend more time with your “mini me” so that she gets to know her auntie even more. You gave me so much that I couldn’t repay it in two lifetimes…but I want you to know that each and every promise I made to you I will keep.
I love you girlie-and that will never change. I miss you terribly but I know that you are watching over me and will never leave me. Oh, and thanks for my early Christmas present-as always you were right on time.
Make sure to save me that seat at the round table; I will be there soon enough with you.
I love you Inamarie.
Mo
PS, I made sure that Dre got some of Dad's infamous eggnog-you know what I'm talkin' about :)
Lisa Finn
December 27, 2005
Hello my Friend
I spoke with Andre' and Trinity on Christmas Eve...
It took everything in me not to cry when she got on the phone and said Hi Auntie Lisa.
We had a little conversation on her just getting up from a nap,
when asking her what she was going to do now that she was done with her nap, she said "PLAY", I asked "play with what?" and she said with excitement "TOYS?", like that was a silly question LMAO...
We talked about Santa Claus coming, then I told her I loved her and Merry Christmas and she said it back to me.
I was so excited and sad all at the same time, but kept it together so I could continue talking to Dre'...
BUT let me tell you I bragged about her to everyone who would listen for the next two days. I can't wait to see her on New Years Eve day.
I miss you very much and nothings the same with out you.
Thank you for leaving us such a wonderful part of you in every way, that bright and beautiful little girl.
God Bless you, rest my dear friend. Dre is doing a wonderful job.
Lots of Love Lisa
Andre Rouse
December 23, 2005
It's our 3rd Christmas without you and its been pretty hard this time of year but I'm able to remember all the good times we've had together.
I thank God that I met you in Professor Powell's creative writing class that you eventually dropped. I did not see you until a couple of monthts later in Packy's but I did not recognize you because your hair was long and I had been drinking BUT YOU KNEW MY NAME and that freaked me out because I had never been to Packy's. The next time I saw Ina was the next semester in Doctor Horton's class and she offered me a ride home after class and that's how our journey began.
I'll be able to tell Trinity some really funny stories about our lives together and how you were able to teach me how to genuinely love another.
Until we meet again, your loving husband.
Monique Austin
December 13, 2005
Ina,
The past two days have been horrible. I am an emotional wreck and just not myself. I miss you so much and the holidays just make it that much harder.
I miss your smile, your laugh-simply, I miss my best friend. Through all of this I hear your voice telling me to “keep on keepin’ on” and I am going to do just that. I’ve got things to do and simply it has to get done. Thank you for being you.
Please know that I love you and I miss you more than anything I can write could describe. Be sure to save a seat for me at that round table where you are holding court.
Know that you are forever in my heart, my thoughts and that I love you. The egg nog is coming and there will be (as always) a toast to you, your love for life, your love for your family and friends and your devotion to all that love you.
I want you to know that Dre is doing a WONDERFUL job with Trinity. She is looking so much like you that I have to step back when I see her. She is turning into a wonderful, smart and beautiful little girl. Regardless of what has happened, you are here through her.
You are and always will be my best friend-thank you for everything. Oh and we will talk about that other “issue” :)
I love you Ina and look forward to the day when we meet again.
Merry Christmas my friend. I love you.
Mo
Andre Rouse
December 6, 2005
Trinity and I would like to thank everyone for their love and support. The holidays are very tough but my little girl is growing into a little lady and her MOM would be proud.
Once again, I would like to thank everyone for their continued support and love.
VANESSA
December 6, 2005
Hi Ina,
I guess its the holidays that have me thinking about you everyday. It was such a big deal for us each year. You know how we love to shop. A gift for her, a gift for me, a gift for him, a gift for me. And the parties were the bomb! Now I am in a different phase of life, loving it, but missing you! Wishing you could be here!
Love V
Patsy Robinson
October 3, 2005
Hey Stith,
I was thinking about you today. I miss you so much. Life is not the same with you not around. I was thinking about when we were Conways regulars. Remember when I went through my "I am a dancehall queen" phase and I use to get on the 2'X 2' dancefloor with my little shorts and dance while looking at myself in the mirror? What in the hell was I thinking? You were Miss Social Butterfly (as usual). Those were the good old days that could never be replaced.
I have not spoken to Andre in a while and I did not go up to Boston this year but I will definitely go up next year.
Love and Kisses and we see each other again.
Patsy
Monique Austin
September 11, 2005
Happy Anniversary Inamarie!!!!!
I cant believe how much time has gone by and how much our lives have changed. Not a minute goes by that I don’t think of you. I am so thankful for your friendship, love and support.
I miss you more than words could ever express. I still reach for the phone to call you and I guess it will be a long time before I stop doing that.
Please know that you are loved and always in my heart. I’ll be seeing you.
Love,
Mo
Andre Rouse
August 25, 2005
Thinking of you always and thank you for leaving all the spiritual books as they've been a big help. Always prepared & that's why I LOVE YOU!
UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN, YOUR LOVING HUSBAND!
LISA Finn
July 13, 2005
Hey Girl....how's it going up there, we all still miss you more then our hearts can express.
Dre' threw a great birthday party for Trinity. We had a great celebration and kept it up beat for Dre' and Trinity....
She is so much like you that it feels that your still right here with us. Trinity is going to be a fashion queen just like her mom, she got so many clothes that Dre' will have to change her 3 times a day to wear them all. I'm sure you loved that, after all you loved to look your best in every way.
You need to get in touch with that crazy cat...my Nephew (Dom) thought that he could talk to her and make her a good cat again, because she misses you...I know I won't mess with her again. that darn Nala.
Dom saw your Mom upset, so he wanted to let 2 balloons go, one red,one yellow to include you in Trinity's party...I'm sure you got them....rest in peace my dear friend...I love and miss you...
Andre & Trinity Rouse
June 29, 2005
Dear Sweetie,
Yesterday was Trinity's 2nd Birthday! She's growing into quite the young lady. She has your SPIRIT! It's been a struggle without you physically in our lives but I feel like we're making some progress thanks to our family and friends.
We love and miss you.
Bernadette Fernandes
June 29, 2005
Hey Ina,
Happy birthday to our Trinity!!!!! Sorry I didn't get to write yesterday, you know how it gets here. I can't wait to see Trini, Dre and Ashley on Saturday. I can't believe it has been two years. We all miss you so much. I know you are watching over us and laughing at us each day. Miss you.
Bernie-Mac AKA The Quiet Storm
Monique Austin
June 28, 2005
Hey Ina,
Today is Trinity's second birthday. I cannot believe that two years have passed.
I got to spend some time with her a few weeks ago and she is more and more like you as time goes by. Looking at her face, I see so much of you, especially her smile.
I am trying to focus on the good right now because this time is tough for all of us that know and love you.
We'll all be together on Saturday to celebrate Trinity's birthday. And yes, the pan of peas and rice will be there :)!
I miss you dearly my friend.
I love you,
Mo
LISA FINN
May 10, 2005
Hello my "Friend"
Happy Belated Mothers Day.....I miss you very much. I'm sure you would be a very special and wonderful mom...because I got to share a part of your life with you and know what an extrodinary friend you were. We all miss that beautiful smile and sense of humor.
love you
Lisa
Monique Austin
May 7, 2005
Hey Inamarie,
Two years ago today we had your baby shower. Looking back, I remember how positively beautiful you were. Everyone was joking how effortless you made pregnancy look.
Today like every day I reflect on the wonderful times we shared together. I miss you so much.
I have so much I want to share with you. Simply put, I miss my best friend.
School has taken up so much of my time that I haven’t spent time with Trinity like I have wanted to. I have my last class on Tuesday and I plan on spending as much time as possible with your beautiful daughter.
Happy Mother’s Day my friend! I love you and I miss you more with each passing day.
Love,
Mo
Vanessa
May 3, 2005
Hi Ina,
Mother's Day is coming and you are heavy on my mind. I am saying a pray for your mom because we never believe we are going to out live our children. I am so sorry you are not in Trinity's everyday life. I am sorry you are missing what being a mom is all about. We looked forward to motherhood for you and our children growing up and sharing those special moments. Motherhood is truely awesome! And from what I have seen on my visits and heard when I am on the telephone with Andre, Ms Trinity is an awesome child. I am wishing you a Happy Mother's Day as you watch over your family. I miss you InaMarie!
Andre Rouse
April 22, 2005
Happy Belated Birthday Sweetie!
Thinking of you ALWAYS!
Your loving husband!
Monique Austin
April 14, 2005
Happy Birthday Inamarie!!!
It’s hard to believe that this is the second birthday that you are not here.
I promised myself that I would reflect only on the good today. We shared SO many laughs and good times that I just want to spend today looking back and reliving those times.
I plan to have a grape crush in your honor later tonight :)
I love you girlie!!!!
Mo
Lisa Finn
April 14, 2005
Hey Chicky
"HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY FOREVER FRIEND." I miss you more and more..I know you would have laughed at this saying, I can see your smiling face now and can hear your laugh. so heres to you on your special day,
I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon and all the less important ones just never go away. And the real pains in the rear are permanent.
Monique Austin
April 4, 2005
Hey Ina,
I’m sorry it’s been so long since I’ve written. There is so much going on I don’t even know where to begin. My aunt died today and my heart is breaking. It seems at every turn I am losing people I love. I’m trying to stay strong but I can only take so much. Just when it seems like I have it together, something happens and I feel like I’m coming apart.
School is winding down and I am doing my best to make good on the promise I made to you. I am putting everything I have into this thesis and getting ready to walk across that stage in a couple of months. I keep reflecting to graduation of 2001, it was one of the best days of my life-how many people get to graduate with their best friend? It was truly a day that I will carry with me forever.
I miss you terribly Ina. Don’t ever doubt that a day goes by that I don’t think about you and give thanks for having you in my life. I hold onto the fact that you are in a better place knowing that you’re watching over me.
I love you, rest in peace my friend.
Mo
Lisa Finn
February 17, 2005
This says it All
Time passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Love waxes and wanes.
Hearts break.
Careers end.
Jobs come and go.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Men don't call when they say they will.
BUT..........
Girlfrien ds are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you.
A girlfriend is never farther away
than needing her can reach.
When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it for yourself, your girlfriends will be on the valley's rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you,intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley's end.
Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you. Or come in and carry you out.
Daughters, Daughter-in-laws, sisters, sisters-in-law, mother, mother-in-law, aunties, nieces, cousins, extended family, and friends you bless all our lives!
The world is not the same without you, and neither am I.
When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much I would need and miss you.
Every day, we need each other still.
I'm passing this on to the women who help make our lives work.
Andre & Trinity Rouse
February 14, 2005
Happy Valentine's Day,
We love and miss you dearly!
Monique Austin
January 30, 2005
Hey my friend,
It’s Sunday afternoon and I just finished watching one of our all time favorite movies-that’s right, Eric Roberts in Last Mafia Marriage. I must have reached for the phone a dozen times to call you.
Your not being here still cuts me deeply. Words cannot express how much I miss my friend. There is so much that I want to tell you, so much on my mind and in my heart. Let me just simply say I miss you and I love you. My comfort lies in knowing that one day we’ll be together again.
Well, I’m going to go finish cooking dinner and cleaning the house. I’ll be talking to you…
Mo
Cinda
January 9, 2005
Hey Sista Gurl,
It's Sunday morning and I figured I'd write a line before I get in the kitchen and get dinner started. It's been awhile since I've written in this book but you know that you are always with me. Another year and you know what that means to me (moving 100 miles per hour and skipping a few meals). I can hear you now
"How do you forget to eat?"
Ms. Trinny is fine, she is so beautiful and full of energy just like her momma. That girl cracks me up, a mirror of you in every way. Alot is going on right now which I'm sure you are well aware. For me, the pain of your leaving us turns to anger more than anything. I know that there is a reason for everything but this is one I can't figure out. I'll just have to trust that God makes no mistakes and thank him for Ms. Trinny. I miss you Girlie and love you much.
LISA FINN
January 7, 2005
Hey Chicky,
Just popping in to say I miss you and love you very much.
Another Holiday season has passed with you by God's side but it has not become any easier.
Your story hit the news on Jan 3rd and it was very difficult for everyone.
Dre' did a great job with Christmas presents and put a lot of thought into them,which brought wonderful smiles and memories to your friends.
You know how strong he really is and that he will be fine.
Thanks for being there for all of us and giving us a beautiful reminder of you... "TRINITY"...
LOVE LISA
ANN-MARGARERT FINN
January 7, 2005
Lisa, can you copy this and put it in Ina's guest book. Tell Andre it is from me to him.
"I wish for you..."
Comfort on difficult days,
Smiles when sadness intrudes,
Rainbows to follow the clouds,
Laughter to kiss your lips,
Sunsets to warm your heart
Gentle hugs when spirits sag,
Friendships to brighten your being,
Beauty for your eyes to see,
Confidence for when you doubt,
Faith so that you can believe,
Courage to know yourself,
Patience to accept the truth,
And love to complete your life.
God Bless you!
I asked the Lord to bless you
As I prayed for you today
To guide you and protect you
As you go along your way....
His love is always with you
His promises are true
No matter what the tribulation
You know He will see us through
So, when the road you're traveling on
Seems difficult at best
Give your problems to the Lord
And God will do the rest.
Monique Austin
January 4, 2005
Hey Ina,
It’s a New Year and all I am feeling is old pain. Your story has hit the press and I feel like I am reliving June 2003 all over again. I miss you SO much and hearing your name on the news or reading it the paper makes me realize that you are no longer here.
Dre gave me a picture of me, you and Bernie-I don’t even remember taking it, but we all had big smiles (what else is new?) and it’s obvious that we were truly enjoying ourselves. It’s those times with you that I miss most, whether it was hitting the mall, going for lunch or just hanging out-you were and always will be my rock.
Just know that I am thinking of you all the time and missing you even more. My prayers and love are with Dre and the rest of your family.
Save me a seat at the roundtable girl!
I love you,
Mo
Vanessa
January 4, 2005
Hey Girl,
It is now 2005 and the time is flying by. Patsy sent me pictures of Tiffany (so cute) and Andre sent me a photo of us that put me in tears. I dont know when I am going to realize that you are no longer on earth with us. I do know that you are in a better place, doing all the things you like and watching over us. I look at us in the picture and it is like we just took it. I miss and love you so much Ina Marie.
Elizabeth G
January 4, 2005
Hi Ina,
We never met in person, but I knew of you thru our friend Monique. During your pregnancy, I heard stories of you weekly, gushed over pictures of you growing more radiantly pregnant and as time grew near, I was about as excited as any of your lifelong friends - anticipating the arrival of your first child. All that I knew of you, you were the epitome of what "mother" means.
In the 2 weeks before you delivered, I checked in w/ Moni daily “is the baby here yet!?!” excited for you as if I've known you all my life. Then that day came. I got a text message from Moni...I was so elated to know that Trinity had been born and your family was complete, I cried tears of happiness, imagining the joy you would experience together. But then I learned you were in a coma - my heart was crushed and I cried for you, Andre, Trinity, Moni and all the other friends whose lives you have touched so deeply.
I remember thinking...maybe if they lay Trinity on your chest, maybe you'll wake up. When Moni told me they laid Trinity on your chest, a tear rolled down your face, but you didn’t wake up - I pretty much lost it. Ina, I never knew you in life - but I know how you LIVED - incredibly full of life and exuberance in that your BEING touched so many and continues to touch so many.
It's been 17 months now, no one is quite the same. I live vicariously thru Moni, keeping up with Trinity’s growth. Pictures of Trinity, her angelic face and her liquid brown eyes, so much like yours I have seen other photos - make my own eyes fill with tears and my heart constrict w/ sadness over the immeasurable loss.
Ina, I didn't know you personally in this life, but I definitely feel a part of YOU that remains here. When you passed away, I was walking on the beach and I felt your spirit out there in the air, around us. I can still feel your energy out there, just glowing and comforting Andre & your family/friends left behind. I (reading Andre's comments) BELIEVE you two will be together again in the afterlife.
Since you've been in the news the last couple of days, it's been real difficult, feels like June 29 over again. Surely it will bring some closure for Andre & your other beloved family/friends to get thru this phase. Life will never again be the same; your loss will always be felt. I've told Moni "go ahead & grieve" just go with it and experience sadness to the fullest. Let the tears fall, wallow in it, howl like a baby. Just FEEL it and let it out. Ina will be there to comfort you."
Ina, I just wanted to say hello - a girl you barely knew, and let you know how much your life has touched mine, though we never met. You are missed and remembered.
Andre Rouse
January 3, 2005
This was Trinity's 2nd Christmas and she really enjoyed herself. She's truly blessed and I want to thank everyone for their SUPPORT!
Nothing will ever be the same in my life because physically you're not here. I love you with all my heart and that will never change. I'm trying to remain strong but each day it seems as if a part of me diminishes.
There are times when I go to sleep and pray by morning that I'll be with YOU but I know I must BE HERE for Trinity.
It is always my intention to stay positive when I make an entry into the guest book but I always seem to change course and talk about how much I miss and love you.
Until we meet again, your loving husband.
Monique Austin
December 15, 2004
Hey Inamarie,
I cannot believe that Christmas is a little over a week away. I have no decorations up and am just not in the holiday spirit at all. Things are just so chaotic and not having you here
makes it so much more difficult.
Work and school are so hectic that I have no ‘me time’. Isn’t it ironic, I used to tell you all the time to slow down and make time for yourself and look at me? I’m not sleeping (but what else is new) and I am just worn out.
Words cannot express how much I miss you. I miss your smile, I miss your laugh but mostly I miss your friendship.
Classes are over today and next week is the exam period. I’m taking the week between Christmas and New Year’s off. I need that time to sleep late, clean my house and just do nothing. I’m hoping to spend some time with Trinity while I’m off. She is such a joy and is looking more and more like you as the days go by.
Well my darling friend, I am getting ready to head off to my last class.
You are always in my heart. I love you girlie. See you at the Roundtable.
Mo
LISA FINN
November 30, 2004
Hey my beutiful friend...as you can see everyone is feeling the same and missing you like crazy. I don't know if your getting any rest up there, due to us all calling your name so much..you know chicky its because we love you and miss you more and more each day...its even harder to see the pain that Dre' is experiencing and not deserving of...He is doing a great with Trinity as you know, I'm sure your smiling down on him with pride and all your love,Please give him a sign that everthing will be ok and to hang in there and bless him with your grace and peace...We all love both of you not only as freinds but as a family..Bless us all until me meet again...love Lisa
Monique Austin
November 29, 2004
Hi my friend,
Well, Thanksgiving is over and it wasn’t easy. People say time heals all wounds, but I don’t find that to be the case. With the holiday season here, I am missing you more and more with each passing day.
Not a day goes by that I don’t reach for the phone to call you. This is supposed to be a happy time but I am filled with sadness.
I don’t understand and I doubt I ever will why you were taken. Of everyone I know, you were so full of life…
I have been so busy with work and school that I’ve been neglecting myself and I haven’t spent time with Andre and Trinity like I should. But you know you’re girl-my heart is in the right place and since the semester is winding down, I will be able to do so much more.
I love you girl and I cannot wait for us to be together again.
Save me a seat at the roundtable.
I love you and miss you more than words could ever express.
Mo
Bernadette Fernandes
November 29, 2004
Hey Girl,
Thanksgiving has come and gone and it was a hard one. I started thinking about you and broke out into tears and then hysterical laughter cause I remember how we shared the secret on doctoring up the stove top stuffing if we didn't feel like making the real stuff. I thought about you and my Ma both. I was her cornbread stuffing that I made on Thanksgiving. I miss you so much. I miss you, me Mo and Cinda just chillin. I miss being able to see your warm smile. A smile that could make anyway forget they had a bad day. No one feels more pain than Dre. You two were truly the perfect match. I know it hurts Dre and for the life of you,you can't figure it out but hold on. Ina would want that and she is smiling on you right now and happy that you are a good father and will always be the love her life.
Love you both dearly,
Bernie-Mac(AKA The Quiet Storm)
Vanessa
November 26, 2004
I am sitting here the day after Thanksgiving having just read Andre's entry wondering what could be done to make him feel better. I pray that he have peace. You are a blessing for all of us who knew you. I am thinking about all the meals that we shared at our homes(God knows we love to eat!). I am praying for peace for Andre and that you are sitting in Glory watching over all of us! Your Loving Friend "V"
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