Isaac Martin Rethy

Isaac Martin Rethy obituary, New York City, NY

Isaac Martin Rethy

Isaac Rethy Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Apr. 18 to Apr. 19, 2023.
Isaac Martin Rethy, 38, passed away in New York City on April 15, 2023. His passing was sudden and unexpected, following a cerebral hemorrhage. Isaac is survived by his wife Zara Rethy, son Aaron Enakhe Rethy, mother Sonja Rethy, sisters Leah Rethy and Alisa Rethy, parents-in-law John and Lily Ohiorhenuan, and brothers-in-law Dermot Delude-Dix, JJ Ohiorhenuan, and Mika Ohiorhenuan. He is preceded in death by his father, Robert Aaron Rethy.

Born in Cincinnati, Ohio on July 5, 1984, Isaac attended Walnut Hills High School, the University of Cincinnati, and Xavier University before obtaining his JD from Georgetown University Law Center. Following his graduation in 2009, he served as associate and then as Counsel at Simpson Thacher & Bartlett, LLP in New York City where he practiced commercial litigation and served as pro bono counsel on a series of cases with the ACLU of Mississippi.

Isaac was a devoted father and husband, a loving brother and son, and was a great support to his sisters and mother in the difficult times following his father's premature death. Isaac was a loved member of his wife's family who will always treasure his quiet and unique presence. Isaac was also a valued colleague and a kind and loyal friend. Isaac's untimely passing has deeply affected all who knew and loved him. Since his passing, many of Isaac's friends have said that their friendship with Isaac, and Isaac's example, were fundamental to the decisions they made and the directions they took in the progress of their own lives.

Funeral services will be held on April 23, 2023 in New York City. Isaac's family has requested that remembrances be made in the form of contributions to the Isaac Rethy Memorial Fund at the American Civil Liberties Union of Mississippi (https://www.aclu-ms.org/).

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June 4, 2025

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June 13, 2023

Jolene Williams posted to the memorial.

June 9, 2023

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Sheryl Thornberg

June 4, 2025

Oh dear Sonja and Family of Isaac, I just heard this news! I´m so sorry to hear this. Reading about Isaac tells me what a good man he was. I know as the years pass, you never stop missing him-a son, a husband, a father, a unique and special presence. Praying peace and healing as you travel on this new, unplanned journey without him. God be with you and may his memory be a blessing.
Sheryl

Jolene Williams

June 13, 2023

My sincere sorrow at the loss of Isaac.I never met him but have loved hearing the many stories (especially regarding his wife and son) and love shared by his Aunt Shirley Anderson.

John McDonald

June 9, 2023

I worked with Isaac on a case in Minneapolis that spanned a decade. He was such a Renaissance man and a true mensch. My deepest sympathies to family and friends.

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Caleb Edwards

April 28, 2023

Zara,
Sending our thoughts and prayers from Toronto for you and Aaron.

Caleb

Neddie Nather

April 26, 2023

Rest in Power Isaac.

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Joseph and Tembi Mugore

April 24, 2023

Our deepest condolences to the Ohiorhenuan and Rethy families on the tragic and sudden passing of Isaac. MHDSRIP.

Adrian Karas

April 23, 2023

I can't describe the amount of knowlege, wisdom & musical influence that I soaked up from Isaac through the years, especially when we were college roommates. I hope that I had 1% of the impact on him that he had on me. A talented self-studying scholar & musician who was extremely open-minded about new ideas & musical endeavors. From Classical to Metal & Punk, to Reggae & Hip-Hop he was the guy digging in the crates, bringing home stacks of CDs from the record store or bootleg stand. When he wasn't listening or playing music, he was having in-depth discussions about philosophy or his views on the world, which certainly influenced & enlightened all of his friends. But he was also humble in knowing that he didn't know quite everything, & still had more to learn. Even though he seemed always serious & introverted, he also had a unique sense of dry humor with an infectuous goofy laugh. I'll cherish the light-hearted memories of sitting around watching Matlock or the Simpsons, playing tennis, making music & watching him inhale Indian food. When he got accepted to Georgetown Law and then got hired as big-time attorney in Manhattan, I was super happy for him & made sure to visit whenever I could. Then, I was thrilled to hear that he had a serious girlfriend Zara, and I was honored to attend their amazing wedding in Santa Monica. Unfortunately I never got to witness him being a father during the pandemic, but I am thrilled that he became a family man. RIP brother I will miss you!

Cathryn Delude

April 22, 2023

To Issac´s family and friends, my sincerest condolences for your devastating loss. It is utterly heartbreaking that a young person so healthy, promising and committed as Isaac should be struck down seemingly out of the blue like this. Life has no rhyme or reason, it may be true, but still the sudden capriciousness of Isaac´s death is incomprehensible. May you all find comfort in sharing your loving memories of Isaac in the days, months and years to come.
With blessings,
Cathryn Delude (Dermot´s aunt)

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Covington & Burling

April 21, 2023

We are very saddened to hear of Isaac's passing. Our deepest condolences to his family, friends and colleagues from the Covington Insurance Practice Group.

Pamela George

April 21, 2023

My sincerest condolences to the Rethy family. I´m so sorry for your devastating loss, Zara. Praying that you will eventually find peace.

Judy schechter

April 19, 2023

Sonia, so very, very sorry for your tremendous loss. What a shock. Take care of you and your daughters and look to HaShem for comfort. Sonia, He is here. He is with you. Reach out and grab His hand and hold on tight.

Jacqueline Hinds

April 19, 2023

Deepest condolences to the Rethy family.

Tolu Orekoya, Accra, Ghana

April 19, 2023

"Bi ina ba ku, a f'eru b'oju, b'ogede ku, a fi omo ro'po...". Condolences to the family from a Nigerian family friend. E ku iroju. E ku idele. Ehin e a da o. Orun re.

BJ

April 19, 2023

My profound sympathies, especially to Zara, John,Lily, JJ and Mika...

Elizabeth Smallwood

April 18, 2023

My condolences to the family after this sudden and tragic passing of Isaac. I knew him in high school as a fellow "oddball" kid...he was kind and loved by so many. I am deeply saddened by this and hope for peace for his family.

Mikhail Harty

April 18, 2023

My sincere condolences to Isaac's family in particular his wife Zara and the rest of his family.

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