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J. Banks Guyton
1940 - 2015
J. Banks Guyton
1940 - 2015
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BORN
1940
DIED
2015
J. Banks Guyton Obituary
Banks is survived by his wife of 53 years, Harriet Cole Guyton, daughter, Lisa Kjome and husband Dave of Southport, North Carolina; son, John B. Guyton, Jr. and wife Tiffany of Elburn, Illinois; granddaughters, Ashley and Abby Kjome, Hayley, Tori, and Paige Guyton, and very special nephews, nieces, cousins, and in-laws.
Banks was a member of the Professional Golfers' Association of America for 49 years. He recently retired from Beau Rivage Golf & Resort in Wilmington, North Carolina.
The family will receive friends on Thursday, July 23, 2015, from 6:30 to 8:00pm at Peacock-Newnam & White Funeral Home in Southport. A graveside service will be held Saturday, July 25, 2015 at 11:00am at Mountain Rest Cemetery in Kings Mountain, North Carolina.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to Southport Christian School Growth Fund, 4457A Flagship Avenue, Southport, North Carolina 28461.
Online condolences may be made at www.peacocknewnamwhite.com.
Peacock - Newnam & White Funeral and Cremation Service, Southport.
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Parris Croom
August 15, 2016
Banks was a true friend. We all loved his demeanor and we'll all miss Banks.
My sincere condolences to Harriet and family.
God Bless you all
Alex Foscue
July 31, 2015
Banks was a good friend I enjoyed talking to him early mornings on the ferry to Ft Fisher and occasionally see him at Beau Rivage. Rest in peace Banks-we will miss you.
July 28, 2015
Harriet and family. I was saddened to hear of the passing of Banks. We meet many people in life, but few make a lasting impact. Banks was one of those that made everyone's life better. I learned many lessons from him, not only about golf, but life and people. A great man that always had time for you and loved to share his knowledge. I entered and exited his life several times due to geography, but was always welcomed back. It was like we never had a gap in the time we were separated, we just picked up where we left off. I will truly miss his great personality and enthusiasm for golf and life. May god bless you all during this time. The world is a better place if you knew Banks.
Joe Hovanski
Wilmington, NC
Cindy Townsend
July 28, 2015
I just heard that Banks passed away. I am so sorry for your loss. Banks always made me smile. May the Lord give peace and comfort to all of you. Harriet, may He especially bless you with strength, wisdom and security.
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July 27, 2015
Greetings! We are saddened by the loss of your Dad. He was a wonderful man who used his gifts to touch many, many lives. He was a gentleman who always had kind and encouraging words to share when you had the pleasure of being in his company.He and Harriet exemplified the best qualities of a loving relationship and a lasting marriage. He will be missed. Frank, Suzanne and Ella Vacirca, Amelia Island, Florida
Rich Mack
July 26, 2015
My sincere condolences to the Guyton family on the recent passing of Banks. Our Family has known Banks for many years. I'll be forever grateful for the positive influence he had on my 2 oldest sons; with his mentoring and encouragement while Head Pro at Echo Farms, they both fell in love with the game of golf and ended up in the business as successful Superintendents at terrific golf courses. Banks was a real gentleman and first class individual who will be missed greatly.
Judy Futrelle
July 26, 2015
Harriet
I was so saddened when they announced the death of Banks in church this morning. I know that you, your family, and many others will cherish his memory.
Allen Foster
July 26, 2015
I just received the sad news of Banks passing, I am so sorry, my sincere condolences to Harriet and family.
J.B. was my 1st 'pro' and the years with him were my best golf years. I will miss him-God Bless!
John Fineran
July 26, 2015
Dear Harriet, Lisa, John and family:
I am so sorry to hear of the recent passing of Banks, a wonderful husband, father, grandfather and friend to all of us who love the game of golf.
Banks was the first head professional at South Bend Country Club that I got to know as a golf writer and it truly saddened me when you all left to return to your true home. I spent a lot of time at the club covering events for the South Bend Tribune and also had the privilege to play the course many times. Banks and all of you made me feel just like I was a member, and the stories and laughter we shared were many and heartfelt. The best part, of course, was hearing Banks
Mark Meyer
July 25, 2015
I am terribly sorry for your family's loss. I was so lucky to get to know Banks over these last 8 years walking along as he watched his granddaughters play golf. What a fantastic granddad and man he was. My deepest condolences. He will be missed.
Karen Gafner
July 25, 2015
I am sorry for your loss. Banks touched my life 20 years ago. He gave me golf lessons, patience and faith. He was a kind,respectful and caring man. I will miss our yearly golf lesson.
God bless you all.
david esposito
July 24, 2015
I was very saddened to hear of the passing of my buddy "JB". I will always remember him as a kind, loyal, and caring friend. He was a "Pro" in both golf and life. I wish that I was in town to pay him a proper tribute. He will always be in my mind and heart. He will be missed dearly by many. My prayers are with Harriet and all of Banks' family. espo
July 24, 2015
Dear John and Family, We are sorry to hear of your father's death. It is always hard to lose a parent. May the many wonderful memories you have of him and your family sustain you at this time. We did not know him but if he raised you he must have been a great gentleman. Sincerely, Sue and Van Salmans
Terry Vereen
July 24, 2015
"So sorry for you lost and our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. Banks was a great golfer, mentor and a great friend."
Matt Brookshire
July 24, 2015
Harriet, Lisa, and Dave,
I was sad to learn of the passing of Banks. I worked for you all at South Bend Country Club when I was in high school. I remember Banks taking me to the range to hit balls and help me with my game. Following college, I worked in the golf business for about 13 years, first as an assistant and then for the Indiana Section. I feel very fortunate to have been mentored by Banks and later by George Thomas and his family.
Just wanted you to know I was thinking of your family in this time of loss, and that Banks had an impact on me and my love for the game of golf.
John Ryan
July 24, 2015
So sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you and your family at this saddest of times.
Gary Yoder
July 24, 2015
To Harriett and Family - What a sad day today to find out Banks has passed away. I am so thankful that I got to know him (and you Harriett) while working at The Golf Academy. He was so generous and always willing to help me with my golf swing. I loved to hear his funny stories of the days he played competitive golf. My Father who met Banks one time will occasionally ask me about him. That says a lot about the impression he left on everyone. I'm praying for you Harriett.
July 24, 2015
Betsy called us last night; they had just learned about Banks' passing. We are so very sorry. We haven't seen you for many years, but we remember some good times with you and our 4 grown kids. Please know that our thoughts are with all of you. Rob and Joan Lawrence
Jonathan Pokrzywinski
July 24, 2015
What a great man. A part of Banks will always be with me both personally and professionally. John, I am very sorry for you and your family's loss. He made a great impact here at CCD and will always be remembered for that slow southern drawl that brought a following.
July 24, 2015
Please accept my sincere condolences for your (our) loss. Banks was loved and admired by all who knew him. He will be missed by all of us.
My prayers are with all family members.
God be with you all.
Parris M. Croom
Peter Foley
July 24, 2015
My thoughts and prayers to the Guyton family . It was a absolute pleasure
to spend time with Banks at The Beau.
Peter Foley
Alan Hunter
July 24, 2015
My sincerest condolences.
Thomas Wagner
July 23, 2015
I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with the extended Guyton family at this time. Banks was a great ambassador for the game of golf. It was my pleasure to have known him.
Chris Tucker
July 23, 2015
Thoughts and prayers to the entire family. I was very fortunate to play many rounds of golf with Banks. He was a true gentleman and an amazing player. Banks will be sorely missed by all of our PGA members he mentored.
Daniel Dowless
July 23, 2015
My heart goes out to the family-played golf with Banks only a few times but always made my day to see him at Beau Rivage-the world won't be the same without ever shaking his hand again
Chuck Urwin
July 23, 2015
My sincerest condolences to your entire family. May fond memories of good times past, help you through this difficult time. Chuck Urwin P.G.A.L.M.
Judy Cook
July 23, 2015
Your family has my deepest sympathy. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that God will give you comfort and strength through these difficult times. Banks was always so kind to our family...he will be missed.
Gene Cole
July 23, 2015
So sorry to hear of you loss loved one. Our thoughts and prays are with you and the family. We will surly miss him at the Cole family reunions. Time goes by so fast before it is our time to go, but your family and friends will become your refuge with the Good Lords eyes upon you. love, Candace, Gene, Logan and Scarlett Cole.
jerry mcgraw
July 23, 2015
kj and family so sorry for your loss. He was a true gentleman of the game, and also just a gentleman. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Audrey (Yopp) Downing
July 23, 2015
Harriett, so sorry to hear about Banks. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
John Chaffin
July 23, 2015
Harriet, Lisa and Dave,
I just learned that Banks is now with Jesus. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Banks was a true gentleman, and I appreciate the times that I spent with him. May the Lord comfort you in your loss and enable you to grieve in a way which is healthy and honors Him. We do not grieve like those who have no hope. We will see Banks again. 1 Thess. 4:13-18.
Mark Bronson
July 23, 2015
John,
Jami and I would like to express our condolences on the loss of your father. I hope you and your family find comfort in your faith and memories of him.
John Wollney
July 23, 2015
John, I only met your father briefly but was immediately impressed by his warmth and sincerity. You must have wonderful memories Please accept our condolences. Diane and John
Pat Canning
July 23, 2015
John, so sorry to hear of the loss of your dad. It's clear from viewing the photo gallery that family was very important to him as was his love of the game of golf.
Chrissie Jaje
July 23, 2015
Dearest Harriet, I am sad to learn of the passing of your dearest beloved Banks. You may not remember me but I met you and Banks (while tagging along with our mutual friends) Herman and Lori Williams. We initially met at the coast for what turned out to be a spectacular golf outing weekend celebrating Lori's bday in 2001. ( I was part of the Herman's Hackers Foursome). We then celebrated Herman's bday in Raleigh (at the old Steak N Ale House) and who can forget my stopping in every now and then (back in the day) at the Golf Academy. I will always recall Banks having this great sense of humor, a matter of fact personality with a pinch of humor and what a gentleman he was! I remember when I first met him, I thought he was Herman's father (as the two of them look so much alike) and I know Herman did look up to him. Many will miss him dearly.
I know your heart aches in this great loss and your eyes will fill with tears but know that you brought the best out of Banks and visa-versa. I have no doubt it is hard to have your best friend not there anymore. May you find comfort in your closest friends. Thinking of you and Hugs from afar
Chrissie Jaje
Charlie Roberts
July 23, 2015
From one PGA Professional to another, Golf is a Game of a Lifetime. See ya on the Backside J.
Debbie and Steve Boheler
July 23, 2015
I heard a lot about Banks growing up days!! My dad Jim Guyton always enjoyed sharing about Banks, Dewitt and himself
He loved Banks!! They were first cousins! May God comfort your family during this time!
I am sure Banks is united in heaven with those who went before him!!
mark drons
July 23, 2015
To the Guyton Family; So sorry to hear about your loss. JB was a wonderful man and a great friend, he will certainly be missed. Barb and I will keep you in our prayers.
Love TP
George Cotchett
July 23, 2015
Harriett, so sorry to hear about Banks. He and I always talked golf. A true southern gentleman. I know he is up their playing on those perfect fairways and greens. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
George Cotchett
Jean Wells
July 22, 2015
So sorry to learn of Banks death. Harriett my prayers are with you and your family. Jean Hardy Wells
Jane and Don Croom
July 22, 2015
Harriet and Family. Don and I are so sad and sorry to hear about Banks. You and him were friends since 7th grade. We will always have fond memories of him. God Bless you and your kids and you will remain in our prayers.
Gary Burke
July 22, 2015
A true gentleman, a pleasure to have known him, utmost respect for him and his golf instruction and we will miss him each time we visit Beau Rivage,
Gary and Michelle Burke, Lindsay, Ontario, Canada
hugh primrose
July 22, 2015
To the Guyton family; I am very sorry about the loss of Mr. Guyton. He was a wonderful person.
Jim & Nancy Schrichte
July 22, 2015
The world has lost a fine Gentleman! So proud to have known him! Always a pleasure to be around. He will be greatly missed at Beau Rivage. Love and Condalences to his Family, Jim & Nancy Schrichte
Sam Layton
July 22, 2015
Saddened to hear of Bank's passing.
He was a wonderful person and good
friend. My prayers and condolences to Harriet and all of the family.
July 22, 2015
I am proud that I can call Banks "friend'. he was and is a fine man. Condolences to the entire family from myself and wife Margie. John J J Jones
July 22, 2015
Banks was a fine man and a pro's pro. I looked forward to seeing him on the early ferry from Southport. He will be missed. Reid Schronce
Steve Walker
July 22, 2015
Banks was one of my best friends. He took my grandson under his wing and taught him the game of golf. Banks, you will be remembered forever. Hit them straight and down the middle in golfing heaven.
Tracey Florence
July 22, 2015
Banks was wonderful to us at Beau Rivage, inspiring on and off the course. Our heartfelt condolences to his family and friends.
July 22, 2015
Banks was a great friend to me and my family. He will be missed.
Bob Hayes, Jr.
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