J. Douglas Duke

J. Douglas Duke obituary

J. Douglas Duke

J. Duke Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Mar. 15 to Mar. 16, 2010.

    J. Douglas Duke died March 14, 2010, leaving behind a professional legacy and personal commitment to family and friends that are impressive.
    After earning two national debate championships and teaching for 46 years, Doug Duke, debate coach at University of Central Oklahoma, retired in June 2006.
    A graduate of Stigler High School in 1957 and Northeastern State College in 1960, Duke taught high school for two years in Wichita, Kan. prior to taking a position as debate coach at Southeastern State College in Durant, Okla. in 1962. While there he met his wife Bobbie Chapman, and they were married in 1964.
    Douglas Duke came to UCO in 1968, right out of graduate school at the University of Houston.  During his 38 years at the University of Central Oklahoma, he traveled to more than 35 states and Montreal, Canada for debate competitions, taught a full load, and rarely missed a class, if he was not traveling for debate.  In addition to many other awards and recognitions, his accomplishments included the following:
1990 – Cross Examination Debate Association National Championship
1995 – CEDA Special Recognition Award
1995 – National Cross Examination Debate Association President
1995 – Pelham National NDT Debate Coach of the Year*
1996 – National Cross Examination Debate Association Brownlee Award by his peers*
1996 – Junior Debate National Championship
1996/1997 – Oklahoma Speech Communication and Theatre Association President
1998/1999 –
Oklahoma Speech Communication and Theatre Association President
    *The only person who has ever won both of these awards.
    He helped to mold communications curriculum for high school students by working with the OSTCA to develop a teaching guide for all high schools.  He traveled to New York City to help develop debate/communications activities in public housing areas, and he represented UCO at a national convention for the development of continuity and consistency with UCO's Assessment compliance program. These activities, however, were not his passion.
    In spite of all the public recognitions he was first and always a classroom teacher.  He related to the college-age students by staying in touch with their language, their music, their problems, their stress, and their relationships.
    Former students don't have to remember his name.  They just called him, 'Coach'.  But he had other nicknames through his career.  The Bear [sometimes 'grizzly' and sometimes 'teddy'], Papa Bear, Daddy Duke, Papa Duke, and of course, 'Coach'.
    His family provided his greatest joys.  He 'debated with' his wife Bobbie [who he called Young Wife] of 46 years. He planned and participated in all family activities and vacations with their children: Drew and Cheryl Duke of Edmond, and their three wonderful sons Spencer, Hunter, and Cooper; Kelley and Jeff Weis of Oklahoma City and his most recent joys of his life – 4-year-old twins Abby and Kelby; and Grant and Hope Duke of Gravette, Ark. and their cherished children Ella, Seth, and Michael Duke.
    We'll miss the security of having you in our lives – and your incredible humor, Grandy!
    Funeral services will be held 2 pm Tuesday March 16, 2010 at Matthews Funeral Home in Edmond, Okla.

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Doug Morris

March 23, 2010

i enjoyed meeting doug at the hope center. it is going to be hard on thursdays not seeing him there. my thoughts and prayers are with his wife bobbie and the family at this time. he always joked with me.

Greg James

March 16, 2010

Coach took me under his wing as a favor when I was between 6th and 7th grade. I did not know how lucky I was. He opened new vistas for me. Not just travel across the country, including trips to Nationals in HS and College, but a lifelong journey understanding critical thinking and the humor to be found in life. Coach was not just a Communications Professor, he was the ultimate Dad to a giant, extended family. Thank you for sharing him with us. All of us who were blessed by his wonderful heart, will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Anna Emamghoraishi

March 16, 2010

It was a joy having known Doug. I met him through HOPE Center and remained close even after I moved on to another job. He was a wonderful heart, ready to give always. He will be greatly missed.

Maribeth Moak

March 15, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. I can tell he was an extraordinary teacher, husband and father and will be deeply missed by your family and many others. My heart goes out to you and so do my prayers.

March 15, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers during this time of sorrow. He will be remembered by many. Fred & Linda Conwell

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