Mr. J. M. Stephens

Mr. J. M. Stephens obituary, Toccoa, GA

Mr. J. M. Stephens

J. Stephens Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 22, 2018.
Mr. J. M. Stephens, age 83, of Toccoa, passed away Sunday, April 22, 2018 at his home. Born March 25, 1935 in Colquitt, GA, he was a son of the late Benjamin Marion and Laura Lugenia Meades Stephens. He was a member of the Toccoa First United Methodist Church and was a United States Navy Veteran from 1953 - 1957. Mr. Stephens taught and coached at Dacula Highn School from 1962-1965, Assistant Principal at Jenkins High School in Savannah, GA from 1965-1966, was Principal of Stephens County High School from 1966 – 1980 and Stephens County School Superintendent from 1980 – 1992. Family members include his son and daughter-in-law, Barry Stephens and Cindy of Jefferson; his daughter and son-in-law, Sheryl Chastain and Rondal of Cleveland; grandchildren, Ashley Stephens of Jefferson, and Andrew Stephens and Victoria of Commerce; great-grandson, Cohen Stephens; sisters-in-law, Ann Stephens of Calhoun, GA and Barbara Stephens of Dallas, GA; and several nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his wife, Mary Ann Murphy Stephens; and brothers, Tom Stephens and Benjamin Stephens. Funeral services will be held at one o'clock Wednesday, April 25, 2018 from the Chapel of Whitlock Mortuary with Dr. John Brown and the Rev. Jerrell Beatty officiating. Burial will follow at Stephens Memorial Gardens. The following gentlemen will serve as pallbearers; Buddy Smith, James Payne, Jimmy Howard, Jim Bellamy, George Sanders, Stan McFarlin, and Ron Barker. The family will receive friends at the mortuary from 2pm – 4pm and 6pm – 8pm Tuesday, April 24, 2018. Flowers are optional. Those desiring may make memorial donations to Children's Healthcare of Atlanta. Condolences may be sent to the family at www.whitlockmortuary.net Whitlock Mortuary is in charge of the arrangements.

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December 12, 2019

Laura K. Payne posted to the memorial.

April 25, 2018

Sharon Looney posted to the memorial.

April 24, 2018

Doris James posted to the memorial.

Laura K. Payne

December 12, 2019

Mr. Stephens was both my neighbor, friend and both my parents' principal. I will never forget when I was a little girl and had a bad bike accident. Mr. Stephens rushed outside, picked me up in his big bear arms and carried me back home. He was such a wonderful man. As a kid, I would go visit him a lot and we'd always have so much fun. He was my friend and I loved him. We will never, ever forget you, Mr. Stephens! I'll see you when we all get to Heaven, because I *know* you're there!

Sharon Looney

April 25, 2018

Mr. Stephens was a great principal. He cared about his students and he was very fair. Very talented educator. Now he will be reunited with his wife Mary Ann. Rest in peace, Mr. Stephens.

Doris James

April 24, 2018

I'm so sorry to hear of Mr.Stephens passing. He was a good man and I had the honor of running into him several times later in life and talking with him. I know that God has a special place in Heaven for such a man who was as good a person as he was. My sympathy to his children. Doris Cheek James --class of 1970

Steve Rousey

April 24, 2018

RIP

Margaret (Peggy) Hornick-Ayers

April 24, 2018

Our thoughts and prayers for Mr. Stephens Family. An outstanding principal and loved his family!! Thankful for his influence on so many lives!!!

Patricia Johnson

April 24, 2018

My mother always called Mr. Stephens "the eye in the sky" as a reminder to us when we went to Stephens County High School. It was a reminder that he - as the Principal - was all seeing and all knowing and we'd better behave while under his care at school. I remember him as a kind and gentle, no-nonsense leader who certainly earned our respect. Mr. Stephens also attended our church; and I was fortunate to have also had him as a Sunday school teacher. Much love to Sheryl and Barry and family and I am so sorry for your loss.

Mike MCFARLIN

April 24, 2018

Your family is in my prayers.

Stoney & Judy Farmer

April 24, 2018

Sheryl and Rondal,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in the loss of your Dad. Mr. Stephens was a fine man....we first knew him as Principal at Stephens County High School in 1968 when Judy was a senior there. Our paths have crossed many times since then. Your Dad will be missed.
Thinking of you now and may God give you peace and comfort during this sad time.

Stoney and Judy Farmer

Joseph (Joe) Perry

April 24, 2018

Mr. Stephens was the most influential man in my life other than my father. His guidance and words of wisdom for a young high school student made all the difference. He earned the respect and admiration of a young man then and has kept it for all these years. I hope you will find comfort in the many stories, condolences, cards and words of sympathy you will be showered with over the next few days, weeks and years. A man such as your father had a hand in molding many and you will continue to hear from us in the years to come.

Savonda Turner

April 24, 2018

Sheryl and Barry, I am sorry for the loss of your father. Prayers for you and your family as you grieve. May you find comfort and peace in the memories. J M Stephens was a man who earned and commanded respect. He was candid and fair. I am glad he was a part of my high school years.

Betsy Bagby Wolff

April 24, 2018

I had so much respect for this man. Thank you, Mr. Stephens, for showing us the real meaning of leadership and authority. I am so glad you were my high school principal. Blessings to Barry and Sheryl.

Steve Aldridge

April 24, 2018

A great man ! He set the standard for what a principal should be. I was blessed to have him as my principal for 5 years

Teresa & Garry Lovell

April 23, 2018

We are thinking of your family & our prayers are with you. Sending you our sincere sympathy in the loss of your father. He will be greatly missed. God bless you and comfort you in this time & in the days to come.

Mack Poss

April 23, 2018

Mr. Stephens was the personification of a true professional as a principal and superintendent. He was always fair and very forthright in all the time I had the pleasure to work with him on his staff and then later in a business relationship. Young administrators and principals that will or would follow the example he set, will be very successful and significant in all their undertakings. I have the utmost respect for J M Stephens. I was honored to have the privilege to work with and for Mr. Stephens. Mack Poss

Sarah Clary

April 23, 2018

Mr. Stephens is now in God's hands. A great person to work for.

Cheryl Carroll-Burrell

April 23, 2018

Cheryl and family. We are saddened to learn if the passing of your father. He was a great man and was loved and respected by all who knew him. Our sincere love and prayers for all of you

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