Jacob Wade Lavender

Jacob Wade Lavender obituary, Georgetown, MA

Jacob Wade Lavender

Jacob Wade Lavender Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 10, 2017.
GEORGETOWN – Mr. Jacob Wade Lavender, 23, of Georgetown died unexpectedly, Sunday, September 10, 2017. Born in Newburyport, he was the son of Suzanne (Butler) Lavender and Brian P. Lavender. He was raised and educated in Plaistow, N.H. and Groveland and was a graduate of Pentucket Regional High School. A young man with a huge heart and personality, Jacob was a loving and devoted son, brother, grandson nephew and cousin. His presence would light up any room. He made friends easily and once you were a friend of Jacobs you were his friend for life. He was blessed with many talents and he expressed himself using those talents. A gifted artist his creations were always inspired by his essence. He had a deep passion for music and loved to introduce people to new artists and groups of which he was fond. He made an enormous impact on those lucky enough to call him family or friend. He will be remembered for his boisterous laugh, his kind and giving heart, his ability to find the good in everything and his love for his mother and father. He was strong and fought valiantly through many battles in his short life. Although he is gone from our sight, his spirit will always be with us and live on in the hearts and minds of his loved ones. Jacob is survived by his loving mother, Suzanne (Butler) Lavender of Georgetown, his devoted father, Brian Lavender and his wife Tracey of Georgetown, his dear sister, Emily L. Lavender of Georgetown, his brother, Bradley Jones of Georgetown, his caring maternal grandmother, Marjory Butler of Georgetown, his dedicated paternal grandparents, Martha J. Small of Georgetown and Donald Lavender and his companion Hope Nicoll of Beverly and many aunts, uncles, cousins and dear friends. ARRANGEMENTS: His funeral will be held from the Driscoll Funeral Home 309 South Main St., Bradford, Monday, Sept. 18th at 10 A.M. followed by his funeral Mass in Sacred Hearts Church, Main St., Bradford at 11 A.M. Relatives and friends invited. Burial is private. Visiting hours Sunday, Sept. 17th from 2 to 5 P.M. In lieu of flowers, expressions of sympathy may be made in Jacob's memory to the Jacob Lavender Memorial Fund, C/O TD Bank 280 Main St., Groveland, MA 01834 or to your local TD Bank branch. To share a memory or offer a condolence, please visit www.driscollcares.com

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July 4, 2019

Wade Lavender posted to the memorial.

September 24, 2017

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September 19, 2017

Aidan posted to the memorial.

Wade Lavender

July 4, 2019

Hey Big fella , big shout out to a bro , forever young !

September 24, 2017

Aidan

September 19, 2017

I wasn't born a Lavender, but they will always be my family. Brain, Sue, Emily, Grams and Tracey, I know there is noting I can say or do to fully ease your pain but I want you to know that I will ALWAYS be there for you, only a phone call away. Bruce, Lisa, Mark, and Ashley there isn't anything in this world I wouldn't do for you guys and I love you. But you all already know that. And to the rest of the family who doesn't know me as well, Lee Anne, Donna, Eric, Jen, the NC crew, and everybody else thank you for helping me through this.

I would also like to thank the Driscoll Funeral Home. You did a great job at taking care of us.

Lisa and Dan Coito a nd Reynolds

September 18, 2017

God bless the Lavender family and friends. Another young life taken way too soon. Fly high with the angels Jacob.God Bless.

Bunker,Kathy,Greg,Kyle Bean

September 18, 2017

Brian and Family, we are very sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that our deepest thoughts and care are with you and yours. Hold tight to all the good times shared together,that can never be taken away.

Katie Valley-Bourdeau

September 17, 2017

Sending you hugs and prayers!
John, the kids and I love you and are holding you in our thoughts
Love, Katie, John, Courtney, Kevin, Laura, Samantha and Toby.

Cyndi and Sean Demers

September 17, 2017

Brian and Tracy, my heart hurts for you. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Michael Willis

September 17, 2017

We are very sorry for your families loss.

Junie Murphy

September 15, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. May the love and strength of your friends and family help each other throughout the days ahead.

Carla Hamm

September 15, 2017

My heart is breaking for both of you. Sending you and your family all my love and sympathy.

Tracy A Lane

September 15, 2017

As with most, lost for words. Heart broken for all of you. Sending love & prayers Tracy, Mykel, Myles, Paige & Perry Lane

Jim Gagnon

September 14, 2017

Sue, I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss.

Sue Lavender

September 14, 2017

This does not seem real. I keep hoping I will awaken from this nightmare..Love, Momma

Kathy

September 14, 2017

I'm so sorry for your loss Brian....

karla scott

September 14, 2017

Sue, Brian and Emily,

There are no words...you are all in my thoughts and prayers

Janice L'Italien

September 14, 2017

Brian, Tracey and extended family.....I am at a loss for words. I loved Jake like he was one of my own. I will never forget him. His smile, his humor, his laugh. He will be missed by so many. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. Let your sweet memories of him get you through this. May his sweet soul rest in peace.

Renee Youden

September 14, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss. I am at a loss for words. Prayers for all of you to find some peace.

Audrey Parr

September 14, 2017

Dear Brian, Tracey, and family - I just heard about Jake's unexpected passing. I cannot express in words how sorry I am for your loss. You are in my heart and thoughts during this unimaginable and saddest of times.

Michael Galvin

September 14, 2017

Suzanne, Emily, & Brian,

I am so sorry for your loss! I have not seen Jacob in some time. He was a handsome young man. You are all in my prayers.

Michael Galvin

Patti Marciano Murby

September 14, 2017

Sue and family....I am so, so sorry for your family's loss. I can't even image what you are all going through. Keep all the wonderful memories close to your hearts to carry you through all the days ahead. Our thoughts, prayers, and hugs are with all of you.

Kathy Lombard

September 13, 2017

Brian, Tracey and family, my heart breaks for you all. I can't imagine the pain of this loss. You all are in my thoughts and prayers

Barbara Rich

September 13, 2017

Brian, I'm am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

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