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James Cairo Obituary
James worked as Senior Vice President of Commercial Lending at the Commercial National Bank of Berwyn, IL. His contributions were recognized with the key to the city of Berwyn, a testament to his dedication and impact in the community. He was also a proud veteran of the United States Army.
He is survived by his 3 loving children, his son James (Jamie) Cairo, his daughter, Christina Cairo, and son Michael (Karen)Cairo. His legacy also lives on through his five precious grandchildren Nicholas, Jacob, Madison, Kaitlyn and Sarah Cairo.
He is also survived by his adoring brother Anthony "Choochie" and his wife Kitty Cairo, three nieces: Sue (John) Kiesewetter, Patty Novak and Karen (Scott) Taylor two nephews Anthony Jr. (Jean) Cairo, and Michael (Patrice) Cairo and numerous great nieces and nephews.
He was a devoted Chicago Cubs and Bear fan. James found happiness in the simple pleasures of golfing, playing cards and going to the casino with his brother. He had a way of lighting up any room he entered, with an infectious smile that made everyone feel at ease. His presence made you feel like the most important person in the room, always radiating kindness and warmth. He will be truly missed!
Memorial Donations can be made in his name to:
Let's Talk Dementia, 19990 Barletta Lane #813, Estero, FL 3928. Or online at www.letstalkdementia.org
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Diane Driscoll ( Lioce )
August 7, 2025
My 1st car loan was approved by Jim when he worked at Commercial National Bank. Being a single, divorced, but employed young mom with a 1 1/2 yr old was hard & no big bank would approve a loan due to no past credit history. But Jim took a leap of faith & approved my loan. I never defaulted & paid it all back. Because of him, I never had to wait for a bus in the pouring rain or freezing winters, with my child. He had a big heart. He told me that sometimes he just needs to follow his gut instincts about people. I've never forgotten him. RIP, dear Jim.
Sharee Petit
August 1, 2025
On behalf of Rich Bejlovec, we just learned of Jimmy's passing and are sending our deepest condolences. My parents and I have very fond memories of the pool parties, pig roasts, and softball games, along with many other shenanigans! My dad always looked forward to the skiing trips, golf outings and visits to Jim's house in Palm Beach Gardens. He sure was one of a kind and we send peace and love to Jim's family.
Sharee Petit
and from my Mom MaryJean, she said she has very fond memories of many good times and she and Jim shared a saying - "If you have one, I'll have one"
Cheers Jim
Peter & Nancy Venice
July 27, 2025
Jim was a great friend and golf partner for over 40 years in Downers Grove, Palm Beach Gardens and the Florida Gulf Coast. Always the life of the party - and there were many - pool parties & volleyball games, 4th of July, Bears games. He was a devoted dad and granddad who also cherished the friendship we shared. Rest in peace, Jim . Peter & Nancy Venice
Sally & Fred Boland
July 27, 2025
Jim was such a great friend to us. We had soooooooo much fun with him
Wish we had known sooner. Our best wishes to the family
Sent with love Fred and Sally Boland, Downers Grove, IL
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Jeff Lichtenstein
July 16, 2025
Jim was a wonderful man and I had the pleasure of meeting him through his brother, Tony. Very sad to hear of his passing.
Lori
July 3, 2025
Jim, Christina and Michael (and families)
I´m so sorry to hear of your dad´s passing. I hope his years in Florida was all he wanted them to be.
I know he looked forward to spending time with his brother.
Jim was so proud of all of you, talked endlessly about you and I´m sure he loved his grandchildren the same way.
I worked with Jim 20 years at the bank.
Prayers for all of you.
Lori
Lisa Gamblin
June 19, 2025
Sending love and prayers during this difficult time. Jim and Lisa Gamblin
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