James Michael Carl

James Michael Carl

James Carl Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 14, 2025.
James Michael Carl

James Michael Carl, 91, passed away peacefully on August 12, 2025, after a short illness, surrounded by his family.

Born on June 4, 1934, in Oswego, New York, Jim was the youngest of nine children of Anna and Delos Miller Carl. He remained in his hometown through college, attending SUNY Oswego, where he was an active member of the Psi Phi fraternity.

Following his graduation, Jim served his country in the U.S. Army, stationed in Southeast Asia. After his service, he moved to Long Island, New York, where he began his teaching career and met the love of his life, Susan W. Hart. Jim went on to earn his master's degree and Doctorate of Education from Hofstra University. He dedicated more than 30 years to teaching in the Middle Country School District before retiring in 1988.

Jim's professional life extended beyond education. He was also a dedicated Realtor, continuing to help clients buy and sell homes well into his 90th year.

In retirement, Jim and Sue relocated to Wilmington, North Carolina, where he opened Lox, Stock, and Bagels, the city's first bagel shop. When he wasn't working, he enjoyed golfing and traveling the world. In 2010, they settled in Estero, Florida, where they have lived ever since.

Jim is survived by his beloved wife of 66 years, Susan; his five children, Pamela Routi (Mike), Karen Johnson (Corby), Kevin Carl, Elizabeth Egan (James), and James P. Carl; his six grandchildren, Callie Richardson, Ted Routi, Alex Routi, Dean Routi, Jamie Johnson, and Robby Carl; and his two great-grandchildren, Braelyn and Salara Richardson.

Known for his warmth, humor, and generosity, Jim never met a stranger. He delighted in socializing and entertaining, and will be fondly remembered for his famous annual Kite Party at his West Meadow Beach home. His spirit touched all who knew him, and his loss will be felt deeply.

A celebration of Jim's life will be held at a later date.

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Chris & Brian Haessig

August 20, 2025

We are so sorry to hear the news of Uncle Jimmy´s passing. He will be remembered fondly by everyone who was lucky enough to spend time with him. We will cherish our Saratoga memories. Uncle Jimmy was one of a kind; genuine, funny and definitely the life of the party. He will be missed and his stories and the wonderful memories he made, remain.
I am sharing a picture from 2014 when he flew up to Oswego to be Alex´s sponsor for his confirmation. That was so special not only to Alex, but to all of us.
Rest in perfect peace, uncle Jimmy.

Alex Haessig

August 18, 2025

Going to miss Uncle Jimmy. It was always a highlight to see him and get to hear all of his jokes and stories. I´ll always be grateful for the time we did spend together and for how much fun we´d have in Saratoga.

David Carl

August 17, 2025

My uncle Jim was the kind of person I looked up to. Everyone´s favorite uncle. He and aunt Sue brought so much love, happiness, and fun to our lives every time we got together. The memories we share are one of the best gifts anyone could give. I will always celebrate his life. If there´s truly a heaven the gates will be wide open for Jim. I will miss my uncle deeply.

Maureen Kayser, loving niece

August 16, 2025

I was so blessed to have had an uncle like my uncle Jim. He was my absolute favorite, and I loved him very much. My Mom, my brothers, and myself are so grateful to have spent time with him and my aunt Sue every summer for the past many years. Precious memories I will hold in my heart forever. Uncle Jim was the kindest, most loving and generous man that I have ever known, next to my father (his brother). You could talk to him for hours, and listen to his many stories and sound advice for even longer. He was so intelligent and interesting, and a man of many talents. Every minute spent with him was a joy. He will be sorely missed by so many people. But he will never be forgotten. God bless you and rest in peace my wonderful dear uncle. I will miss you so.

Karen Johnson

August 15, 2025

Best Dad Ever! Love you!

Jim and Sue Stephens

August 14, 2025

Sue, we just heard of Jim's passing from Jay. We are so sorry to hear this. He was one of my favorite people in Porters Neck with a heart as big as could be; a nicer man would be hard to find. God bless Jim.

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