James W. Cotter

James W. Cotter

James Cotter Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Dec. 25, 2008 to Jan. 2, 2009.
James W. Cotter
Clinton
James William Cotter, 59, of Clinton and White Lake, died at home on Wednesday, December 24, after a long illness. He was born in Buffalo, December 7, 1949, the son of Ray W. and Sophia Vaughan Cotter. Educated in Amherst, NY schools, he graduated from the University of Michigan in 1972 with a degree in Natural Resources. Upon graduation, he joined the Peace Corps and worked for three years in Malacatancito, Guatemala developing reforestation projects, an experience which inspired a lifelong love of travel, the Spanish language and Latin-American culture. In November 1976, he married Sarah Fisher in Utica, and has resided in this area ever since. For 15 years, he worked at the Oneida County Boiler Works as Vice-President of sales. He later worked as a manufacturer's representative for Octopus Equipment and Steam Plant Systems, providing pollution control equipment to the power industries. He took great pleasure in the relationships he developed with his customers across the state. Jim was a member of the Deansboro United Church of Christ and long served as Moderator. He loved all sports because he loved to play, and coached AYSO soccer for many years. He was proud of his unbroken string of Boilermaker Races, given up only when he was too sick to run. He was most content when 'playing in the dirt', and left many lasting monuments of beauty in landscaping and garden projects, especially at his beloved camp on White Lake. He leaves as well the lasting beauty of his floral watercolors which he loved to share with his many friends. But what Jim will be remembered for most are the marks he left on the hearts of all who knew him, for one couldn't be with him without feeling the power of his optimism, thoughtfulness and grace. For us who knew and loved him, a bright light has gone out. Besides his mother, Sophia, of Hampstead, NC, Jim is survived by his beloved wife, Sarah; his sons, Brendan V. Cotter, of Liverpool, William K. Cotter, of New York City, and Gavin M. Cotter, of Boston; his sisters, Cathy Cotter and husband, Frank White, of Hampstead, NC, and Barbara Cotter, of San Jose, CA; and his brother, Ray Jr. and wife, Sandra Cotter, of Seattle, WA. He was predeceased by his father and brother, Clifford. The family requests that in lieu of flowers, contributions be made in Jim's name to the Deansboro United Church of Christ or the PAACT (Patient Advocates for Advanced Cancer Treatments) at PO Box 141695, Grand Rapids, MI 49514. A Memorial Service celebrating his life will be held on Saturday, January 3 at 2 p.m. at Westminster Church, 714 Washington St., Utica. There are no calling hours. Arrangements are under the direction of Surridge & Roberts Funeral Home, 470 French Rd., Utica. Messages of sympathy at www.surridgeandroberts.com.
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December 19, 2024

Barbara Cotter Walsh posted to the memorial.

December 19, 2023

Barbara Cotter Walsh posted to the memorial.

December 19, 2022

Barbara Cotter Walsh posted to the memorial.

Barbara Cotter Walsh

December 19, 2024

16 years have passed since Jim left this earth. Still hurts.
Love you my brother. Rest in peace.

Barbara Cotter Walsh

December 19, 2023

Another year has gone by. I miss him.

Barbara Cotter Walsh

December 19, 2022

This time of year my thoughts are with Jim more than ever and now our Mom has now joined him in heaven on 12/18/22.

Barbara Cotter Walsh

December 21, 2021

2021 - Another year passes and it still hurts like yesterday.

Barb Cotter Walsh

December 19, 2020

I miss him everyday.

Karen Hitzelberger Kious

January 4, 2009

Sally and Family,
My deepest sympathies to all of you. I only met Jim a couple of times, but our visit to the Boonville Fair was a memorable one. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Fondly,
Karen

The Cossette Family (Mary & Amanda)

January 3, 2009

Our sympathies are with you during this difficult time.

Carol Ruppel

January 2, 2009

Dear Sarah, Brendan, William and Gavin,

I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. The Cotters have been important people in my life since 1977 when they were first married. The best New Year's Eve I spent was with them in their first Clinton house. And Brendan was the first baby to come into my life.

Jim was a poet and artist and a wonderful friend. We all benefitted from his acquaintance.

Sincerely,
Carol Ruppel

Joanne Hirshfield

January 2, 2009

Dear Sarah and family,
We are so very saddened to hear of Jim's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Joanne and Stuart Hirshfield

The Baker/Price Family

January 2, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Judy Foy

January 2, 2009

Dear Sarah & boys,
I'm reading these entries and remembering Jim ... realizing, again, what sincerity with kindness can create. Thank you to him and to you, for keeping strong the bonds you have to Ann Arbor so that I could know Jim's story of grace, and the love he leaves us with.

God bless you,
Judy

Katie Upcraft

January 1, 2009

Gavin,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Kimberly (Stanton) Coleman

December 31, 2008

I still cannot believe Uncle Jim has passed. Uncle Jim has always been a strong man. I have always admired his strength and perseverance. I can remember at Cotter reunions he would stay up late while I was obsessing about completing the family puzzle. He would always ask me about my life. Now I realize how trivial the matters may truly have been to him, but he always treated with the utmost importance. So many of the things he did when I was a kid that I never understood the true meaning until much later in life. I hope that my marriage can be as strong, loving and enduring as Jim & Sarah’s. I miss him dearly! I wish I could be there to show my love and support to all the Cotters, but alas I most try and write it down for you all. I love you all, miss you all and know that with the collective Cotter strength we will all persevere just as Jim.

Subhankar Ghose

December 31, 2008

Dear Sally, Heard the sad news of Jim's passing from Brant. Please accept my sincere condolences. Hope God will give you and the boys the strength to overcome this loss. Mona

Mary, Valerie, Jaclyn Slocum

December 30, 2008

Sarah and Boys
It was with great sadness for the girls and me to hear of Jim's passing. He will be remembered by us as a great husband and dad. Especially the wonderful smile and attitude he had. May God Bless.

John Branston

December 30, 2008

Jim was a good friend at Michigan when we lived in the Sig Ep fraternity house for two years. I'm sorry for your loss.

Courtney Eisenhut

December 30, 2008

Cotter Family- I would like to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Mark Craft

December 30, 2008

I'm so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. He was such a great person who will be dearly missed.

Frank Perretta

December 29, 2008

Dear Sarah, I am deeply saddened to read on line of Jim's death. I am sure that everyone who knew him, liked him. I always enjoyed V'ball with him and running into him in the grocery store always perked up my day. Gail and I are traveling or I would have told you this in person.

Cindy Young

December 28, 2008

Dear Sarah and family, I am a friend of Barb's. I was lucky to have caught up with you in the Adirondacks awhile back. I am saddened by the news of Jim's passing. As you know better than anyone, he was a wonderful, articulate, generous soul. A real gentle man. I pray for peace for your family and a time when only happy memories surround you.I love you Barb.

Jo Ann Freer

December 28, 2008

Dear Sarah, I was so sorry to hear of Jim's death. He was such a delight and you are a very dear person. Please know that I will be thinking of you and sending prayers to you and your family. Love and caring for now.

Susan Sigsbee

December 28, 2008

Hi Sarah & family , Though I haven't had the chance to know all of you ...I would like to say I am sorry for your loss! I have had the pleasure of meeting Gavin..
Gavin... this is Cpl. John's Mom.. I am sending you a hug !! to help you get thru this tough time.. I am sure John has said hello to him!! I'll be seeing you around .. take care & God bless! at this tough time..

Marilyn Santucci

December 27, 2008

Our hearts are broken at the passing of Jim. His memory is so strong in our minds and hearts; he will be remembered by our family as a wonderful, sweet man who always made time to laugh with us. He treated us and our children with love and caring, meeting each one at their level. Juliana will always remember the jokes she and Jim exchanged, even at her young age.
Jim literally brought music, joy and dancing into our lives. His life will forever be an inspiration to us to live life to the fullest, and to take
time to love. Jim, we will miss you so much.

Love, Marilyn & Tony Santucci

John C. Lowe

December 27, 2008

I'm a friend of Jim's sister Barbara. We worked together in San Jose. Barb video taped a number of the Cotter Family Reunions and had me edit them into programs.

I felt that I got to know Jim, and the rest of the family, through seeing and hearing him on tape. The Cotters are a close knit family and Jim was a gracious and fun loving guy.

I will always remember his humor when he explained to Barbara all about "square stems".

Be at peace, Jim.

donna (McMoil) Switzer

December 27, 2008

I was saddened to hear of Jim's passing. We are first cousins, and spent many happy times together in our childhood. I was glad to see him again a few years ago at a family reunion - he was very personable, and a wonderful father.

Barbara Cotter

December 27, 2008

I wonder now how I will go on in my life without my brother Jim. I have to draw from what he taught me. He looked at the bright side of everything no matter what. He was dealt a lousy hand but made the absolute best of it. He brought joy to everyone with his great personality. When you were down, he picked you up. I love him so much.

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