James Phillip Huffstetler

James Phillip Huffstetler

James Huffstetler Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jan. 28 to Jan. 29, 2009.
James Phillip Huffstetler
Jim Huffstetler, 76, of Charlotte NC, passed away on January 25, 2009 from complications related to a heart attack.
He was born in Charlotte on February 1, 1932, the fifth of eight children of the late Charles H. and Lula G. Huffstetler. Jim graduated from Central High School in Charlotte, attended Charlotte College (where he played on the basketball team) and Oakridge Military Institute. After proudly serving in the U.S. Marine Corps for two years, Jim went back to college and graduated from Presbyterian College in Clinton, SC.
Jim began his business career in insurance with The Travelers Insurance Company in Charlotte. His career with The Travelers took Jim to Hartford, CT, St. Louis, MO, and Houston, TX, where he met his wife Mary Hale Lauhon. Together they moved to Oklahoma City, OK, where they started their family. Jim and his family returned to Charlotte in 1970 to take a position with the James J. Harris Insurance Company. In 1979, Jim participated in the creation of the Cameron M. Harris & Co. insurance agency, where he remained until retirement.
He had fond memories of friendships and life-guarding days at Myrtle Beach. He was an original member of the 'Society of Shaggers' (SOS) and attended their reunions at Ocean Drive, SC. Jim had served as a deacon and usher at Myers Park Presbyterian Church.
He is survived by Mary Lauhon Huffstetler, his wife of 47 years; his son, James P. Huffstetler Jr. and wife Patricia O'Reilly of Litchfield, CT; son, David L. Huffstetler and wife Laura Willer of Raleigh NC; and daughter, Heidi Harney and husband John M. Harney of Charlotte NC. He was blessed with five grandchildren, Dave and Edward Huffstetler, Mathews and Mary Cason Harney, and Buckley Huffstetler.
Jim is also survived by his sister Joyce Helms, his brother Charles Huffstetler, and wife Freda Huffstetler, brother Robert Huffstetler, sister Joan Ross, sister Anne Harrelson and husband Dr. Henry Harrelson, brother Daniel Huffstetler and wife Charlene Huffstetler, and numerous nieces and nephews.
Jim was preceded in death by his sister Helen Campbell and husband Dick Campbell, brother-in-law Rev. Jack Ross, brother-in-law Leland Helms, and sister-in-law Kitty Huffstetler.
A memorial service will be held at Myers Park Presbyterian Church, 2501 Oxford Place, Charlotte, NC 28207 on Thursday, January 29, 2009 at 2:00 p.m. The family will be receiving friends in the church's Providence Hall after the service.
In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be made to Myers Park Presbyterian Church - Community Outreach.
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June 3, 2009

Ken Dartley posted to the memorial.

January 29, 2009

Criss Williams posted to the memorial.

January 29, 2009

Sandra Barrett posted to the memorial.

Ken Dartley

June 3, 2009

Just heard of the passing of my old room-mate Jimbo. ( Houston days). That is when he met met Mary. I will always remember Jim and his three legged stool. Those were wonderful days

Criss Williams

January 29, 2009

Mrs. Huffstetler & Family:

I had the pleasure of working with Jim at Cameron M. Harris & Company. He was truly one of the finest "Southern Gentlemen" I ever met. He was admired, and respected by all of us who knew him. May your loving memories of this fine man sustain you throughout the days ahead.

Sandra Barrett

January 29, 2009

I worked with Jim at Cameron M. Harris & Co. He always had a smile on his face. I saw him, less than a year ago at a friends funeral and we caught up on things in the parking lot afterwards. He liked to tell stories "Remember When..." He will be missed....God Bless his family at this sad time.

Cynthia Patterson

January 29, 2009

We are very sorry to hear of Jim's passing. I enjoyed working with Him for many years at Cameron Harris. Tom and I know he will be greatly missed. Everyone in the Huffstetler family are in our thoughts and hopefully happy memories will help you all in this sad time.

Rob Cranford

January 29, 2009

Mrs. Huffstetler, it was my great priveledge to have known and worked with Jim. I first met him in the late 1970's when he joined CM Harris and I was bond manager at the old USF&G Company. I have fond memories of calling on contractor clients together. In the very competitive bond market, it is a tribute to Jim, that I never, never heard anyone ever make a disparaging remark about him, he was a true gentleman. God bless you and your family.

Lillian Chapman

January 28, 2009

Mary, I was so sorry to hear of Jim's death. Please know you and all your family are in our prayers.

Charles Doggett

January 28, 2009

Dear Mary and family: I was shocked to hear about Jim death. He was a wonderful husband, father and friend. I will always remember Jim as being one of the nicest persons I have ever met. He was a great joy to be around and a wonderful friend. I will be thinking of you and you will be in my prayers.

Helen and Bob Stern

January 28, 2009

We are so sorry for your loss. Our wishes for many happy memories to help you through your pain.

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