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Weeks Parker
February 28, 2022
James Dudley Pendleton was a member of my USO Club, 12 piece Glen Miller-style orchestra that played at the Ray Avenue USO Club in Fayetteville, North Caroline over radio station WFLB every Saturday night. We also played at the Main Post Officer's Club at nearby Fort Bragg when it was managed by world-famous song writer Leroy Anderson. While my orchestra played for a dance at the University of North Carolina, we were honored to play for band leader and movie star Kay Kyser who once lived in Rocky Mount. As soon as my orchestra members were aware that Kay Kyser was in the dance hall, they suddenly began to sound like a Hollywood orchestra. It really provoked me to think that my orchestra could have sounded that good before Kay stepped into the dance hall. Dudley Pendleton was my friend, and he gave me an autographed copy of his marvelous book entitled " Missing Pieces" where he wrote about playing in my orchestra when he was a student at Fayetteville high school. Dudley and I had some wonderful times playing in my orchestra that was a part of "The Big Band Era."
Beatriz Rosado
January 28, 2010
I will never forget your father!You are in my prayers.
Manuel Rosado
January 24, 2010
I first met Jim just over 20 years ago when he was dating my mother and like most teens I thought I knew everything, but he always took the time to talk to me as one man to another. Later when I first moved to Richmond he opened his home to me for my first year there and I'll always have fond memories of that home on the hill overlooking Robious Road.
Intellectually we all know that no one lives forever, but it does not lessen the shock or the sadness when someone you love passes.
God bless you, Jim. I am a better person for having known you. Thank you.
Kay Dardoufas
January 11, 2010
I have fond memories of early days in Richmond when our children played together in the back yard. It was wonderful to listen to lieder singing and to discuss good books. Love to you, Catharine and girls.
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Richard Moss
January 4, 2010
I am sorry to hear of your loss.
Was he related to the James Dudley Pendleton who lived in the house called Pendhurst in Powhatan Co, near Fine Creek Mill, around 1900. If so, and anyone is interested, I have a book with a chapter written by the wife of that James Dudley Pendleton, Clara Rock Pendleton, my great-great aunt, describing her encounter with the yankees during of the Civil War. If anyone wishes a copy, I can send it.
Book is "Personal Sketches and Reminiscences" by B. J Kinnier (Clara Pendleton's sister).
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Betty Monroe(Cook)
January 1, 2010
What fun it is to remember singing with Dudley in Aunt Norma's living room
Lois Creamer
January 1, 2010
What a wonderful life Jim led! My condolences to you, Caroline, Catherine and Family.
December 31, 2009
So sorry for your loss. Elva Mapp, Ebony and RJ Jeffries.
Tom Stewart
December 31, 2009
A great Wildcat and Sigma Chi as well as a good friend.
Geoffrey Bennett Speer
December 31, 2009
One of the most passionate and insightful professors that I had the pleasure of studying with at VCU; I often marvelled at the intensity with which he loved literature and his career, but, by reading his obituary in today's newspaper, I learned how intensely he lived and loved his life, as well.
Thanks for everything, sir. You will be long remembered.
Neill and Victoria Clegg
December 31, 2009
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
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