James Raines Obituary
This obituary was originally published in the Opelika-Auburn News.
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March 15, 2017
Oh, to have my family again!
Jon Rochelle
March 15, 2017
Dad...there are times when I feel like I cannot get through without you. I feel as if I have no one. You were my beacon...the wise one, the supporter, and the encourager. How am I supposed to navigate this life without you? You were my Daddy, and I was your "Sweetpea"!
If I could have one wish, it would be to walk with you holding my hand just one more time. On the beach, going into church, shopping in Bon Foods--anywhere with you! I so miss you, your sweet words, and your loving smile... I love you, and I need you!!
Jon Rochelle Raines
May 20, 2011
Missing you so much Dad!! Oh how I wish you were here to see the kids and all of their successes! Thank you for watching over all of us. We love you and cannot wait to join you! You and Uncle Tommy take care of the "moms" and please know that we are missing you all terribly!
Taylor Thomas
October 3, 2009
Da-Dahy,
It has been a long time since i have seen or heard you. I would love to say some things to you. I wish you were here to help me get through life as a teenager. We all miss you dearly. I never got to sing I Can Only Imagine with you. I love && miss you! Come visit me in my dreams sometime
Love Always,
Blossom (:
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Leigh Raines
August 25, 2009
I am more blessed than i deserve to be the daughter of Jim Raines. I will always be his "Little Person". I wish I could go back and tell him each day how much he means to me and that i love him so very much. My life won't ever be the same.
Caroline Milani
April 28, 2008
Dear Raines Family:
As I was signing up my daughter for her very first swim team I took a trip down memory lane remembering my first experiences with swim team on the Aquia Harbour Dolphins. Coach saw my potential and made me into a little champ which carried me through college. This was such sad news to stumble upon - I am so sorry for your loss.
I must tell you though that my summers at the pool - learning the proper strokes from coach, learning how to get an optimal tan from Jon; and learning some new moves off of the diving board from Robbie are some of the most cherished moments of my childhood. Coach and the rest of the Raines Family will always hold a special place in my heart.
Sincerely,
Caroline (Rossanda) Milani
Joe & Suzie Birdsall
December 9, 2007
Dear Mrs. Raines and Family,
My husband and I were just talking about Coach Raines recently, not aware of his passing. We are both greatly saddened to learn of it. My husband was explaining to our fourteen year old daughter how much school has changed since we both went to Woodbridge. Many of the stories he has retold over and over again revolve around Coach Raines. I believe that Coach Raines had a profound effect on my husband's life and for that I am eternally grateful. My husband and I both send our deepest sympathies to the whole Raines family for your loss. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Jonathan, Taylor, and Bailey Thomas
November 24, 2007
I love and miss you. I wish you would come back! I love you Da-Dahy
Taylor Thomas
November 8, 2007
This is Coach Raines granddaughter. Well life has changed without him here. I want you to think about how I feel. He was always coming to my softball games, and always there for me. Well I love you and miss you Da-Dahy
Matt Tamez
August 13, 2007
To the Raines family:
To often, we get caught up trying to determine where we are going with our lives and tend to forget where we've been. We all have experiences and people that have changes our lives and they should be cherished for what they bring to the fiber of who we are. Mr. Raines was someone who probably had the biggest impact on me as a student of Woodbridge Senior High. His "tough love" when he was my teacher was something that turned me around as a student and made me a better person and frankly gave me the inspiration to become a successful adult.
My friendship with the family over the years has meant more to me than anyone could possibly know. I haven't stayed in touch as much as I should have but I value the friendship just the same.
Mr. Raines may not be with us but he will never be gone. His legacy lives on in his wonderful family and the thousands of lives that he touched over the years.
Thank you Mr. Raines for being who you were and having a part in making me who I am today. You are a class act that will be missed.
Tammy Bateman Hutchinson
August 13, 2007
To The Raines family:
I just found out the news about your father. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May God bless you during this very difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Fred Albert Williams
July 17, 2007
Dear Mrs. Raines,
I am so sorry to hear about Mr. Raines. My thoughts go out to you and your family.
I had classes with both you and Coach my senior year at Woodbridge Senior High School. Nr. Raines taught me perseverance even though I struggled in math. The memories of his stern approach are vivid. But you could see in his eyes he cared very much. Heaven knows I was a very difficult student.
You were the reason I pursued a degree in English. He was the reason I pursued a career in Computer Science afterwards. A few years after after graduating from college, I went back and tackled calculus. (Please pardon the trite expression.)
It is difficult to express in words how he has touched our lives. I will remember his firm compassion.
Fred "Albert" Williams (WSHS - Class of 1983)
Susan Randall
July 12, 2007
For Mrs Raines, Jon, Robbie, Danny and Leigh,
Once upon a time ago I was known as little Susie Stanton. Now I am just Susan Randall. I still live in Stafford with my husband and three kids (ages 3,6,&9). The last time I saw Mr Raines was when I was still teaching at Brooke Point High and Robbie was coaching and Mr Raines happened to be there.
I am just learning the news as I have spent the last year grieving the loss of my stepdad on June 10th of 2006. I came looking for Mr Raines on the internet as I was having a full circle moment in my life. Two of my kids are on swim team and I was the timer. When my daughter (6) came swimming her first event, it hit me. This was what my parents did and I was her. How weird and exciting and sad that I am this old. Then I remembered the best coach I have ever had in life. He was tough but he got the best out of me. I tried one more year of swim team without him, but there was no discipline or structure and I did not enjoy. My mom tells the story of me being on the blocks looking nervous or not focused and Mr Raines would yell, "Susie" and point at me. She said the "look" put me where I needed to be and I would swim my heart out for him. No matter how I swam, he always had a hug or pat for me. My kids don't have a coach like mine. Although I have desire to coach again (I did the dance team for awhile) and maybe I could strive to coach a little more like Mr Raines.
I am so sad for your loss. Your family has touched so many family lives with coaching and friendship. I miss you all. Jon was always so mature and Robbie was such a rascal and Danny was so tenderhearted and Leigh cracked me up all the time. Mrs Raines was like the mother hen for us all. I hope you are all doing well and I even hope you remember me. You all are such a special family and I will never forget my most favorite coach ever.
Lots of love,
Susan
Joan Taylor
June 10, 2007
Greta, James, Dani, Jon, Robbie, Danny, Leigh and your families, it is so hard even after Jim has been gone for over a year to express in words how truly sorry I am that he is gone. The love that each of us has for Jim and the wonderful memories we carry will be a big part of our lives forever. Knowing that he is in a place that is filled with God's love is comforting but doesn't help with the void that is left with him not being a part of our lives any more. He always was a vibrant part of each of his kid’s lives. Never too busy to listen and help each of you. I know how hard it has been on Thom & I, yet I know it cannot compare to your loss. We love you all very much and remember you all in our prayers. There are so many times that his memories come flooding back. Our memories of Christmas times together and the occasional road trips for sporting events and very special field trips to Auburn are a comfort to us. Each of you know how special you were to him, please when times are tough know that the last thing he would want any of you to do is suffer on his account. He was a concerned and loving husband, a very involved loving dad and each of his Grand Children held a very special place in his heart and mind. He made sure that each of you knew how special you were to him. Honor him by living your lives to the fullest and knowing that he is watching over you from heaven. My Love and Sympathy for each of you Aunt Joan, Manassas Park, VA
Thom Taylor
March 8, 2007
Jim
It's that time of year again. The ACC tournament start today 3/8/07. We should be making the turn about now and getting something to eat. As usual I'm down 3 with 9 to play. Then we'll head to my house and watch the games. I do now and will always miss you.
Love Ya Big Guy Thom
Terry McCullars
December 24, 2006
To Mrs.Raines and Family: James, Dani, Danny, and Rob,
For the short time that I was able to know Mr. Raines I found with him and endowed endeavor that I will for him and His loving wife, Mrs. Raines, always try to adhere to, that being to love his Daughter, Leigh, whom I love so much and promise to always provide for. He told me once that he hopes I can do as he has wished he has always done and that was make her as she was raised and that being said will be done. My wishes to your family is that this will be done, because all that is done is being seen. I miss Mr. Raines and the family and hope that we can stay as close as the times we have had before. We love you and are here for you.
Lori (Eagle) Hawks
July 11, 2006
Dear Mrs. Raines, Jon and Family,
My how the time has flown by since our days at Woodbridge. I can see from all of the guestbook entries that you and Mr. Raines have kept busy touching the lives that have crossed your paths. This is no surprise to me!! There are certain people that you meet in life who's impact lasts a lifetime. I believe this to be true of your family and Mr. Raines. As sad as it is to have lost Mr. Raines, I am so comforted in knowing that he is in Heaven singing praises to our Heavenly Father with his beautiful voice. I would have loved to hear it.
I am continuing to pray that your family is comforted and strengthened by the outpouring of sympathy from your friends, past and present. God bless you all!!
Love,
Lori (Eagle) Hawks (Class of 1984)
Bonnie and Tommy Crowley
June 28, 2006
Dear Raines Family~
Your husband, father, and grandfather was a wonderful man. He talked often about his family and what you meant to him. You were his #1 joy!
His second joy was his students and athletes. Each Wednesday night at choir practice he would share a funny story, a story of courage or victory. We would laugh with him, be sad with him and be excited about the victories he had with his precious students. He was such a grand part of our choir! Choir is not quite as funny without our Coach!
Tommy and I often watched him from the congregation on Sunday morning. He listened intently to the pastor, chuckled at his jokes and said Amen when he felt the desire to! He always had a smile on his face!
I will miss him calling me "Twinkles". It was such an endearing name - and I knew he meant it every time he said it. He was an encourager to me and I often thought of him when I was selecting my offeratory. What would Coach enjoy today? I will continue to think of him as I sit down to play.
He would want you to push on - using the words he spoke to you as guidance. He would not want you to be sad for him - as he is in the Heavenly Choir. He would want you to be happy for him and live your lives the way he lived his - with honor, courage, and a faith in his Heavenly Father. May God place His arms around you and protect you in the days to come as you seek His will for your lives.
What a great man, husband,father and grandfather!
We miss him so.
Stephanie Pritt and Family
June 27, 2006
dear Mrs. Raines and Family:
Please accept our deepest sympathy in the passing of Coach Raines. We all have such fond memories of him and your family through WSHS. We have lost both of our parents in the last 4 years, we feel your grief. Please take care and our thoughts are with you.
Terry (Hosier) Karchner
June 25, 2006
Dear Raines Family,
I just learned of the terrible loss your family has endured, and I wanted to extend my deepest condolences to you all. May you find some comfort in the stories you share and your memories of your beloved husband, father and grandfather. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers throughout this difficult time.
Leah (Snediker) Fox
June 21, 2006
Dear Danny and the Raines family,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad. May you find comfort in the love of your family and friends. You are all in my prayers that you may recover from the pain and find joy again in your memories of him.
Thom Taylor
June 17, 2006
Greta, Jon, Robbie, Danny & Leigh
I don’t know where to start because there is so much I need to say. First I never really thought of Jim as a brother-in-law but more like a BROTHER.
It started with me in my troubled teen years when Jim & Greta took me in and saved me from myself. I thought at the time these two know how tough love works. Jim was the one to hand out whatever punishment I needed for things (we know what I did) that I just always seemed to do wrong. I really enjoyed the time I lived with the two of you and although I was punished some, it was always fair and done with love. I can fondly remember Jim, George Clarke and me setting on the front steps of 4 Purvis Drive and listing to Washington Senators Baseball games. Greta, you always came to the door and checked to make sure my homework was done.
As I got into playing more organized baseball, I’ll never forget Jim’s kindness of giving me his glove he had used in college. It was a real nice glove and the last one I ever used. Greta I am so glad I gave that glove to you earlier this year. Cherish it always.
Greta, I often think of the best Christmas present I ever received. You told me the box had dishes in it for Mom and I was so happy that I was the only one to know what it was. To my surprise on Christmas morning I was told to open the box and there was my burgundy and white drum you gave me after having to work extra shifts to pay for it. I still remember how excited I was. That started my drumming career.
I fondly remember our travels to first watching Jim coach and then watching Jon and Leigh cheer and Rob and Danny play football and basketbal you four will never know the pride I had of watching you all perform. I just wanted to tell everybody in the stands that either this is my niece or this is my nephew. I am still very proud to call you my nieces and nephews.
And who could ever forget our Christmas Eves together, getting the kids to bed and then Jim and myself hitting the bricks for that last minute shopping and Greta and Joan staying at the house getting things ready for the four of us to work on most of the night to get ready for Christmas morning. I know some mornings Joan and I would just leave your house before the kids got up to come down stairs. Then no matter how tired we were we would meet on the 26th of December (bright and early) to start next years shopping.
Jim and I played a lot of golf together and I always enjoyed playing with him because of his good game and what he was able to teach me to help with my game.
Jim, I will miss you but I will always be here for Greta and the kids. She will know all she has to do is call. I would never pretend to replace you but I will fill in where and when I am needed.
Greta, Jon, Robbie, Danny and Leigh
I love you all and you will always be in my prayers
Your Brother and Uncle Thom
gina natale
June 17, 2006
Dear Mrs. Raines and family, I cannot even begin to know what you are feeling as of now. I have had such a diificult time accepting this horrible horrible misfortune myself, that I cannot begin to know what loss you all must feel. I am so so sorry and love you all so much. I keep you in my thoghts and prayers constantly. I have really realized that it doesn't matter on the distance or the time away from the people in your life that have made such an impact in some way, never ever leaves you no matter what. The impression that Mr. Raines had left on me at the early age of 12 or 13 yrs. old has never distinguished, it has only grown stronger and deeper over the years. I looked forward so much to catch up with Jon a couple years ago at her reunion and every time I came back to visit when living in L.A. I made sure to go see Mrs. Raines at the school where my own mother worked also. I am beginning to realize that I had always had such a deep and strong bond connected to all of you that I will never let go, I have always been so excited to catch up with any and all of you when I could and now I wish so badly I could of been there for you now. There are just some people in this world that you meet for the first time that leave an imprint on your heart and soul that never goes away...I hope you Mrs. Raines know and believe that you and Mr. Raines have done that for me, I will never forget the times spent at the aquia harbor house and the love and care shown to me and my sisters at such an early age and such an important stage of our childhood. I definetly learned and saw the love and admiration and respect for family in your house as I had learned from my own family. I will always feel the strong bonds we built back long ago and will use them to pass on to teach to my own son...you are a very special family and I will treasure my memories I have with you forever, and continue to live by what I have been so fortunate to witness by being around such loving and caring people...I miss you all and especially have an aching feeling of loss and void in my heart and soul for the loss of Mr. Raines, He was and always will be in my memory one of the most extraordinary people I have ever met...the way he lived, loved and took care of his family and family of friends is not to be forgotten ever, but definetly carried on and passed down through each generation, his legacy will continue to live in all of us that truly loved him...I love you very much and am definetly keeping you in my thoughts through this very tough weekend especially, I wanted to make sure you received my thoughts and prayers now more than ever, I love you all..please take care...love gina natale.
Pat Thornton
June 16, 2006
Interactions with Coach Raines were always through the "Family Plan" and I can't think of a greater way to teach by example. We will always be grateful for Coach - and the whole Raines crew - for putting so much pride into the LAMP sports program and so much love into our kids. He made us all better people. Our hearts break with your loss.
Tara Byrd
June 15, 2006
To the Raines Family,
Rob and I are so sorry to hear about the passing of Coach, it is truly a shocking occurance. I am sorry that we could not make it to the funeral. Coach was a truly amazing man, I'll never forget all the times that he would call Rob "curly" when he had his head shaved. You all are in my prayers during the months ahead as you continue to heal from this. We both love you all very much.
Mary Roy
June 15, 2006
Mrs.Raines I just learned of your husbands death and want to send my deepest sorrow to you and your family. I will always remember all of you from WSHS. May God continue to be with in in this sad time
Gregory Covington
June 14, 2006
To the Raines Family:
We are so sorry for your loss.
Lisa (Lemay) Stephens
June 14, 2006
Dear Raines Family-I just heard about the passing of your loving father and husband. My whole family knew Mr. Raines-he coached one of my uncles at Garfield back in the day. I just want you to know that we are thinking of you guys and saying our prayers for you. Take care of each other during this time. Jon, if you ever need anything just give us a call-Love Lisa (Lemay) Stephens and family
Michael Myers
June 13, 2006
Dear Mrs. Raines, Jon, Leigh, Robbie, and Danny:
Dawn and I send our condolences for your tremendous loss. We pray that God gives your family strength to get through this extremely tough time.
Mr. Raines was a tremedous role model to me during my impressionable years. He was a great teacher, coach, and father.
I will always remember the year I coached against him in little league baseball. He took a team that should have finished last and coached them to first place by making them believe with hard work anything is possible.
God bless each of you!
Michael and Dawn Myers
Cathy Sherwin Gaydos
June 12, 2006
Dear Raines Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. I was hoping it wasn't true. I taught Math with Jim at OP and have great memories of him! When I was a "rookie", I told him one day I was gettng ready to teach conic sections to an Algebra III class. He said "Rookie, let me show you how I teach it". From then on, it became my absolute favorite subject to teach. He had such enthusiasm for the subject and a true love of teaching that really shone. I admired his passion for teaching and for always having the best interest of the kids at heart. I think of your family every year at Christmas when I hang my wreath you made Mrs. Raines, and I think of you especially now in your time of grief. I am so sorry for your loss.
Michael Okyen
June 11, 2006
Dear Raines Family,
As many of you know, I was hoping to speak at the service last week, but did not get the chance. While this was a disappointment, I knew that it was what He wanted, so I didn't stress over it. Still, I wanted to share what I had planned to say, though infinitely inadequate to summarize Coach Jim Raines.
I was one of the lucky ones. I was one of the few people who had the honor of knowing Coach Jim Raines as a teacher and basketball coach. I received word that he had passed on Friday, about 12 hours after he had gone Home. I later found out that he had died of a heart attack while watching the NBA playoffs. This was ironic to me, because it is Coach that I blame for my new-found distaste for professional basketball. I had been an avid NBA fan for my entire life. When May and June rolled around, I was always up watching the playoffs, regardless of schoolwork or loss of sleep. But Coach wasn't too big on the NBA. In fact, whenever you did something out of line on the basketball court, you were often compared to a spoiled professional basketball player. This was why I found it so ironic that he had passed away watching the game that night, because so much of what that game stood for, was exactly what Coach stood against. It's really an interesting contrast when you break it down. First, the NBA players love to be in the spotlight, to have the glory. This was never Coach, he didn't give a "rat's behind" about anyone applauding him or giving him recognition for anything. Next, professional players are always after more money and trying to get the biggest deal for themselves. Not Coach. On a literal level, he obviously wasn't out for money in anything, considering that he was a teacher his whole life. But much more than this, Coach always gave for others' sakes. At the end of his two seasons at LAMP, he gave each senior a watch that he had specially designed for LAMP, which I am sure was costly and came directly out of his pocket. He never wanted the best for himself, but I guarantee you, if someone didn't give the ones the loved the best, he'd be all over the "blankety blank blankin" person like "stink on poop." There is one similarity there though, Coach Raines knew how to get a deal. We never paid close to full price on basketball shoes, and hotel rooms were always relatively cheap. Third, the NBA mentality- work hard, but make sure you're keeping yourself safe. Coach Raines' mentality- "go go go" all out every single time, in every single activity, regardless of how big or small a task it was, and never quit. He always told us that if we were in a touch situation, to "grit out teeth, tell the pain to shut up", and "put your guts into it." And he didn't just preach it, he lived it. He got up every day and drove 45 minutes to work, then stayed until 6 every day during the season for practice, was still at his grandkids games, and took a large part if raising those kids. All while being one of the top 2 math teachers I have ever had. Finally, in the NBA, players care about their teammates, but if they left for another team at some point, then they are often no longer important. If you were ever on Coach's team, you were always important. He loved us endlessly, and the love was returned. If you needed proof, then one could have just looked around the sanctuary and seen that of the 20 players who had played for him over the last 2 years, all but 3 were present, all on 2 days notice, with the 3 players absent all extremely regretfully so because of important prior engagements. Also, many members of the faculty made the trip, and countless numbers of students were also in attendance. Like all basketball teams, there were disagreements with Coach, but that just means that the players on the team "still have a pulse," and in the end we realized that he was often right. While there were occasional disagreements about basketball, there was never a question about his love. And he did it all with the love of Jesus Christ permeating his every action.
Many people may think to Robert Frost's poem "The Road Not Taken" and say that Coach Raines did take the road less traveled, but that doesn't quite seem to fit in my opinion. For this implies that he took a rode that had been taken before. I don't believe anyone could have done things quite like Coach, and I doubt that any one of us would be able to take his path either. But I believe we are all better for crossing his path, and that we will all do well to remember what we learned in our short time of intertwining. I really believe that Coach Jim Raines can be inadequately summed up in the words of Ralph Waldo Emerson:
"Do not go where the path may lead; go instead where there is no path and leave a trail."
Coach Raines has left a trail across the hearts of all who knew him. We love him, always and forever our Coach.
Love,
Michael Louis Okyen
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George Pridmore
June 11, 2006
Greta,
"Coach" was my buddy, friend and mentor. I will never forget the hugs I received each time we met. They were so sincere and I loved every one of them.
Coach taught me how to sing tenor and always encouraged me to hit the high notes. I would say 'Coach, I can't make that high note'. And he would say 'follow me, Buddy, and I know we can hit it together.' Guess what!! We hit every one of them. I loved Coach like a brother and I look forward to singing next to him and reaching the high notes in God's choir.
Love, George
Betty Mountjoy
June 9, 2006
Dearest Greta, News that Jim is gone brought back so many memories of our days at Melrose and your and Jim's courtship. We sure did have a good time. Please know that you and all of your family are in our prayers and throughts. Love, Will and Betty
Jennifer Senior
June 9, 2006
I did not have the honor of knowing Mr. Raines, however, I spent a great deal of time with Mrs. Raines throughout my high school years. I remember how fondly she often spoke of her husband and family. I'm saddened by your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of grief.
Pat & Bob Blevins
June 9, 2006
Dear Mrs. Raines, Jon, Leigh, Robbie and Danny: I was shocked to hear of Mr. Raines' death. I know you were a very close and loving family. You will always miss him. May God grant you comfort and peace in these many days and months to come. We will pray for your family.
Love, Bob & Pat Blevins
Woodbridge, VA
Gregg Fields
June 9, 2006
To the Raines Family,
I wanted to express my condolences and heartfelt sympathy to your family. May God bless you and comfort you.
It is clear that "the Coach" touched the lives of many. I personally knew him as both a coach and teacher. As a Geometry teacher, I remember he used to throw the chalk at the board when it would break in his hand as he was writing. He would say, "that ones no good, I need another" . He was more than a teacher or coach, he was a teacher of life. He caught me (and others who will remain nameless)doing something we shouldnt in school one day and he said "Fields you have got to make a decision right here and right now!, are you going to be a leader? or are you going to be a follower?". I remember it as if he were standing here saying it right now. He scared me straight and I have him to thank.
He will truly be missed, however blessed by Grace. Thanks Coach.
Maude Young Coggin
June 9, 2006
My thoughts are with you and your family as you mourn the loss of a devoted husband, father, and grandfather. May God grant you peace and comfort.
Donna (Perry) Santone
June 9, 2006
Greta & children,
Although we have lost touch over the past years, I have often thought of you. I remember how kind, patient and loving Jim was. I always loved his special smile and sense of humor. May God be with you all guiding you through this difficult time.
Chris Courtney
June 8, 2006
Greta and The Family:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Jim "the Fox" was a special person in so many peoples lives. He was truly a Great Educator, a Great Coach but most of all a Great Father who loved his family.
Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Chris and Donna Courtney
Carolyn Hoskins Coffman
June 8, 2006
I was a classmate of Red's during high school days at Beaver. He enjoyed sports, had a great sense of humor, and was a lot of fun. From reading the other entries, I can see he kept those qualities throughout his life, and through his teaching, coaching, and churchwork, touched the lives of many many people.
My deepest sympathy to you, Greta, and your family. Red will be remembered and missed by those of us who knew him.
Sam Cannon (WSHS '85)
June 8, 2006
Raines Family:
"Landing gear down Orville!!" That's what I would hear at least once a class. I had the propensity to lean back in my chair constantly much to his displeasure. He would say Orville Wright was successful in contributing to society but that unless I kept "all fours on the floor" I wasn't going to contribute a thing!
He is special because he is remembered by so many. Celebrate his life as it was intended to be celebrated.
Debi Everett (Natale)
June 8, 2006
Oh my God, this is one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. Mrs. Raines, Jon and the whole Raines family....The news of Mr. Raines literally had taken my breath away. He was like a second father to me. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. It just doesn't seem fair that a man so loved, admired, and respected could be taken away from us so soon and so suddenly. But God has a plan for us all, and now more than ever we need to believe in him, and know that Mr. Raines is still watching over us. Because of his wisdom and his laughter, he will always be a part of every life he touched...Mrs. Raines, I want to thank you for everything you did for me during those important, sometimes hard, "growing up" years. I only hope my children are fortunate enough to have the same positive loving role models in their lives, as you and Mr. Raines were for Jon, Conig, Michelle, and me. Jon, please know I am only a phone call away, and that I very much feel your pain. You all are in my heart and prayers. Please be strong for each other and know that Mr. Raines would not want tears, but laughter and happiness when remembering him. He was such a good man.....
Judy O'Toole Pons
June 8, 2006
Dear Raines Family,
I am very sorry for your loss and am remembering you all in my prayers.
Julia O'Toole Pons (Judy) BHS'57
BHS '57
Linda Perry (Baker)
June 8, 2006
Dear Greta and Kids,
I am so sorry to here about Jim. He was a terrific man I remember how good he was to all of us when we were younger. He has a special place to be in now. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless all of you.
Linda & Donnie Baker (Perry)
Qualyn White
June 8, 2006
To the Raines Family:
I did not have the honor of having Coach Raines as a teacher, but I did witness the great work that he has done with the basketball team. During my senior year, the 2004-2005 season, I was at every game and it was an absolute joy to see him at work. I pray that you all find comfort in knowing that he is in a much better place. I also pray that God is with you during this trying time in your life. Coach was a good man and he has truly left a lasting impression on this world.
Retha Coleman
June 7, 2006
Greta, so sorry to hear about Jim, We will be praying for you and your family. may God grace confort you and yours in your time of sorrow. Love aunt Retha and Doug
Shelby & Rick (Perry) Black
June 7, 2006
Greta and kids - I am very sorry to hear of Jim's passing. I have very fond memories of him from when I was younger, he was always good to me and I could talk to him about anything or nothing and still got that "Raines" smile. May God be with all of you at this time. And know God definitely has a good place in his home for Jim. Love to you all.....
Michael Scharf
June 7, 2006
Mrs. Raines and family,
With deepest sympathy, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Coach. It's been a few years now, but the memories of Coach from junior high and high school seem like yesterday. My parents (Mary Jane and Pete) also send their regards during this difficult time. God bless you and your family
Jeannine Turner
June 7, 2006
Dear Greta,
I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing, and I know that you and the children are experiencing a loss that seems inconsolable now. May the "peace that passeth all understanding" be granted you.
I remember with great fondness teaching with you two in the early days at Gar-Field in the Sixties. We were young and full of fun and foolishness! You all became new parents, and we all shared in your joy as each new Raines was born. I am sure that they continue to be a blessing to you as you navigate these unsure waters. Please, give them my love. Tell Danny that his senior English teacher still thinks of him with great respect.
As for "Foxy"... he is simply one step ahead of us in the full and certain knowledge of the Resurrection. I know that all the saints are laughing with him and getting used to their new nicknames. Meanwhile, know that you and the children are much in the thoughts and prayers of the hundreds of souls whom he has affected. I am among them.
Love to you all,
Tudgy
Roger Dallek
June 7, 2006
To The Raines Family.....from a long time Raines Family admirer: The sad news came as a shock to me. I have many, many fond memories of Jim....and Greta and all four children. In the past I spoke with other math teachers from the old Gar-Field H.S. and they told me that Jim was the best of the best. Please accept my deepest condolences.
Roger Dallek
Principal
Gar-Field H.S.
Fred McKonly
June 7, 2006
To Coach's Family,
I was saddened to hear of the passing on of coach. The impact that he & the rest of the coaching staff at Gar-Field had on me was monumental. It propelled me into a 30 year coaching stint. I'll never forget that ride in the Chevey II down to visit a college in W. VA. God Bless.
Kelly (Lynn) Gaitten
June 7, 2006
Dear Raines Family, I was so sorry and shocked to hear that our larger than life Coach and beloved teacher has left this world. He had a huge impact on me for the short time we had. He changed my life with his knowledge and wisdom and humor.
Years later, when I tap my brain- I realize that things I didn't think had gotten through are there (his laugh on me)!
God Bless him for the man he was.
Sending you all my Love - missing him will be hardest part.
Lillian Orlich
June 7, 2006
My deepest sympathy to the Raines fanily. I worked with "Red" Raines at OP. We had some intense conversations in the mailroom in the AM prior to school day but we always ended on a postive note. Coach Raines knew what he believed and he believed it strongly. I am so very sorry that he is gone.
Ms. "O" from OP
Rick Henry
June 6, 2006
Raines family,
May you find some comfort in knowing that your Dad touched so many in such a person way while he was with us. I'm so sorry about your loss. You have been in my thoughts and prayers since hearing the sad news. Jon, you know I'm only a phone call/email away. God bless all of you.
Doug Crowe
June 6, 2006
Dear Raines family,
Life is about touching and impacting others, and please know that Mr. Raines did just that to everyone he came in contact with, including me.
In 1983 I couldn't get the hang of geometry to save myself, and still can't today, so not much has changed. However, Mr. Raines met me at WSHS before school at 6:30am for several weeks to try and help me with some extra teaching because he said "you will get it if I can help it." I was even worse at math that early in the morning, but he made it fun, and I looked forward to seeing him each morning.
He had a great sense of humor and I never did "get it" with geometry. I assure you it was not from a lack of trying on his part. For me, as a 15 year old, the one on one time with him was special, and he was a special person. Teaching is a great profession, and he was a pro. I'm sure you guys will hear from loads of kids that he impacted over the years, and please know that he will be missed.
Doug Crowe
WSHS 1985
Matthew McClellan
June 6, 2006
Jon, my prayers are with you and your family. You remain in my thoughts.
Rob Reale
June 6, 2006
To the Raines family,
We were sorry to hear about the passing of Mr. Raines and wanted to let you all know our thoughts and prayers are with all of the family. He was a great coach and teacher. My parents, John and Eleanor, send their prayers as well.
Sincerely,
Rob and Cherish Reale
Adrienne Montanari
June 6, 2006
Mrs. Raines,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. When my Mom informed me of this I felt awful. I know my Mom and you have been close friends for many years and she is also deeply saddened by this. Know that this family loves you and is thinking of you. Always remember that no one understands your pain like God. I miss you and hope one day I can see you soon. Love Always, Adrienne
Donna Welborn Barefoot
June 6, 2006
Dear Raines Family:
I have been in disbelief ever since I heard of Mr. Raines passing. He had such an influence on so many people and students throughout the years. It was ALWAYS apparent to me that he was a Christian husband and father first, no matter what else was going on. His influence in my life, along with Mrs. Raines', will be lifelong. Thank you for sharing him with all of us. May God bless your family and I will continue to keep you in my prayers.
Donna Welborn Barefoot
WSHS Class of '83
GARY KENNEY
June 6, 2006
DEAR RAINES FAMILY,
I'M SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOSS OF NOT JUST A HUSBAND,FATHER,AND GRANDFATHER BUT GREAT ROLE MODEL FOR ALL WHO KNEW HIM. I'M GLAD THAT I GOT MEET HIM AND LEARN A LITTLE ABOUT HOW WE ALL NEED TO ENJOY LIFE EVERYDAY. I NEVER SAW HIM WHEN HE WASN'T SMILING -THANKS COACH. ALL OF YOU ARE DEAR TO MY FAMILY AND EACH OF YOU HAVE QUALITIES THAT ARE UNIQUE AND SPECIAL. YOU KNOW THAT THE BIBLE SAYS THAT YOUR NAME IS MORE VALUABLE THAN GOLD AND BELIEVE YOU ME THE NAME RAINES IS ONE OF THE FINEST EVER. COACH RAINES' FAMILY SHOULD HOLD THEIR CHEST OUT AND BE PROUD OF WHERE THEIR DAD HAS BROUGHT THEM BUT MOST OF ALL WHERE THEY'RE GOING. I'M PRAYING THAT GOD WILL BE YOUR COMFORTER AND SUSTAINER IN ALL THE DAYS TO COME.
PLEASE KNOW THAT I LOVE ALL OF YOU BUT YOU DANNY ARE VERY CLOSE TO MY HEART AND I PRAY FOR YOU OFTEN. GOD HAS HIS HAND ON YOU AND IS WATCHING OVER YOU.
GARY KENNEY
Pat & Wayne Williams
June 6, 2006
Greta, Wayne and I are so sorry to hear about Jim's death. He certainly impacted Michele and Paul's life throughout high school and beyond. We have very fond memories of the times we were together after high school football games and other events that brought our lives together. Our prays are with you. Take Care
Pam Kenney
June 6, 2006
Ms. Greta and family,
Words cannot express the effect "Coach" had on all of our lives. He will be sorely missed in the choir and in our church. Heaven's choir has gained a great tenor. It must be a great comfort to you to know the impact he had on so many lives. We will miss him but I look forward to singing with him again. You and your family are special to me. Let me know if I can do anything for you in the days ahead.
Love you,
Pam
Michele Williams Michelow
June 6, 2006
To the Whole Raines Clan:
I love you all so very very much and I loved that funny man!!!
I am devastated right along with you! I was so glad that I was able to come down and help celebrate the man that was larger than life to me. Wild Horses couldn't have kept me away. In the years to come I look forward to all the stories we will continue to tell and there is no doubt that his legacy will live on. He touched so many hearts and had such an impact on so many lives, including Paul and I both. He was a GREAT teacher, he was a GREAT Coach, he was a GREAT father and he was a GREAT friend. I was touched by the outpouring of love from the folks in Alabama. I could tell that he was doing in Alabama exactly what he did in Va Schools for 20+ years...he was positively impacting teenagers by the way he taught and coached. I saw it when all of those teenagers from his school showed up for the service. It spoke volumes. It warmed my heart and I know it warmed yours. I am so sad that Paul and I will never be called "Senor or Sled" again. At least not by him and it wouldn't be the same by anybody else! Remember, he is in Heaven playing hoops, football and golf without back or knee pain. His light will shine on all of those he loved forever. He'll always be in my heart. Danny, he'll always be helping you call plays at your games! Trust me on that one. His laugh was contagious and when I need a bright spot in my day, I'll think of that. Please hang in there and if there is ANYTHING I can do for your lovely family, please let me know!
I love you guys, you are and always have been, family to me!
Amy Galyen (Mountjoy)
June 6, 2006
Mrs. Raines, Jon, Robbie, Danny, and Leigh:
I can only imagine how you all are feeling at this time. I so enjoyed spending time together when were were young. I just wanted you to know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Remember all of the good times.
Nancy Willis
June 6, 2006
Mrs. Raines and family, I am so sorry about Coach Raines. I will keep you and the family in my prayers. I'm one of the Farmville family, they are wonderful in the time of need. My Condolences to all of you. I will miss him very much, he was a wonderful choir member and solosist.
Richard & Jan Lovelace
June 6, 2006
Greta & Family,
We only knew Coach Raines for a short while but will miss seeing him in the choir at Farmville. May the prayers of all that love your family keep you strong during the coming days. God is awesome and he does provide.
Lisa Coniglio
June 6, 2006
Mrs. Raines, Jon, Robbie, Danny and Leigh...
When I listened to my voice mail message from Michele I seriously thought I either didn't hear it correctly or Michele had just somehow mistakenly said the wrong name. When I called her back....I WAS SHOCKED and very sorry to hear that in fact it was Mr. Raines. I am very sorry for your loss. I, as well as my entire family sends their love and prayers.
Jon: I am always only a phone call away. BE STRONG our class PREZ....many of the class of 84 has you in our thoughts.
Love and prayers to you and all your family. Lisa "Conig"
Marie Byrd
June 6, 2006
Dear Precious Family. You are all so special to me. God put you all in my life at different times and on different occasions. I met sweet Danny at a concert at Liberty Baptist Church many years ago and we have shared so much over the years. He has always been such an encouragement to me. Through him I have become acquainted with the rest of you. My sweet and special Cranberry was always there to say a kind word to me just when I needed it. I will miss him greatly I thank God for all of you and I pray that His special touch will be on you. May He bless you all.
A Cheerleading Coach????
Michele Williams Michelow
June 6, 2006
Ralph Teague
June 6, 2006
Dear Raines Family;
Please accept our deepest condolences at "Coach's"
passing. As I told Danny, Jim was sure of his salvation and the happiest I ever saw him was when his grandchildren walked to the front of the Church several weeks ago on a Sunday night. God bless you and we will be here for you.
Ralph & Judy Teague
Jessica and the boys
June 5, 2006
To My Family in Alabama,
I can't imagine how very difficult this time must be. It's sad to know that I will probably never be called "Clarence" again. We will all miss him very much. Please know that you are in our prayers here in NOVA. We love you so much.
Ed & Barbara Zelek
June 5, 2006
Greta
Our deepest sympathy and love. We have many fond memories of when your family attended Calvary. May God bless each of you.
Den Boyd
June 5, 2006
I hated to hear about the loss of your loved one. My deepest sympathy is extended to all the family. I had the privilege of knowing "Red" when he was at Emory & Henry College. We were fraternity brothers in the Sigma Iota Fraternity. God blessed him with a number of talents, as evidenced by his singing in a popular college quartet and playing first string quarterback on the college football team. I will treasure many fond memories of him. May God comfort you during this time of sorrow.
Josephine Volzer
June 5, 2006
Dear Greta, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers at this difficult time. May all the wonderful memories that you have of your life together sustain you and your family.
Carol Carpenter
June 5, 2006
Greta,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I have great memories of teaching with you and Jim. May your faith sustain you during this difficult time.
Love,
Emily (Bales) Watson
June 5, 2006
Mrs. Raines,
I am so very sorry to hear about your husband! My husband and I are praying for you and your family!!
"Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows." II Cor. 1:3-5
Kim Bell
June 5, 2006
Mr. Raines was one of my most favorite teachers and people. He had an awesome sense of humor, concrete morals and refreshing openness. To the Raines family, I know he lived a good life and loved you all above everything. Remember all the good times and all the laughter and know he will be loved and respected for the Southern gentleman he was.
Steve Dials
June 5, 2006
Greta & children,
I was so sorry to hear the news of "the Fox." I have many fond memories of our coaching days together at Woodbridge. May God keep you during this time of sorrow and I will certainly hold you up in prayer.
Sue Miller
June 5, 2006
Greta, I am so sorry to learn of your immeasurable loss. I will offer prayers for Jim and prayers for you and your family. Sincerely, Sue Miller (Scortia) WSHS
Evelyn Harrison
June 5, 2006
Sis, Jon, Robbie, Danny and Leigh;
Jim was your rock. He is up there now with his mom and ours. He will continue to be that rock and watch over each of you, keeping you safe and help to make you stronger.
There are no words that can make this time of grief any easier for you, but knowing how much he loved you all will give you the stength to make it through this time.
You are all in our thoughts and prayers. WE LOVE YOU.
Evelyn, Jimmy and family
Joe Potente
June 5, 2006
Dear Greta, My deepest sympathy is with you and your family at this difficult time. Jimmy was a blessed soul and will be loved and remembered by so many. All my prayers are with you, Love, Joe Potente
Ann Ragsdale
June 5, 2006
Dear Greta,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know Jim influenced so many lives and he will be missed because he was truly a wonderful human being with a marvelous sense of humor and compassion for his fellow man.
My love and thoughts to you and your family.
Sincerely,
Ann Ragsdale
Tom Gill
June 5, 2006
Dear Mrs. Raines I was sorry to hear of your loss. Red touched so many peoples lives and it was always easy to see that his family was very important to him. Our prayers are with you.
Respectfully, Tom and Jane Gill
Barbara Jackson
June 5, 2006
Greta and family,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You both are such an integral part of the WSHS family and history. I hope you can find solace in many happy memories and from the love of those you hold dear. Wishing you peace and much comfort,
Barbara Jackson
Bill Looney
June 5, 2006
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Brittni Jones
June 5, 2006
To the Raines Family:
On Friday, June 2, 2006, a couple of hours before learning of Mr. Raines's passing, I was sharing with a co-worker how wonderful and brilliant my pre-calculus teacher was. His passion for teaching and coaching was absolutely incredible and reflected his passion for life. Although I'm deeply saddened to see him go, I know that God is in control and that Mr. Raines is smiling down on us. I'm praying daily that God strengthens and comforts you all. God bless and keep you!
Lenore Vickrey
June 4, 2006
My son went to LAMP High School for academic reasons, never dreaming he'd get to play basketball. But Coach Raines liked his determination and gave him that chance, and it was our privilege to have him as Samuel's coach for the past two years. We loved to watch him on the court, sometimes throwing down his towel in frustration, or pacing the sidelines, hands on hips, letting the officials know what he thought about a questionable call. His team loved him, and he loved them. I was always amazed at how he could drive from Auburn to Montgomery every day, then have the energy to drive the team bus on all the away games as well. This was after teaching all day, in addition to coaching. He was an amazing man, and his death leaves a huge void in the LAMP family. After hearing the tributes at his memorial service today, I realized how many more lives he had touched in Virginia. Thank you, Raines family, for sharing your wonderful husband, father and grandfather with us!
Don Davis
June 4, 2006
I would like to express my condolences to the family of James (Red) Raines. Let all the good times and memories that you have had together help you through this difficult time.
Red was a classmate, teammate and friend of mine in Beaver High School, class of '56. Red was a wonderful person, optimistic and full of fun, who could always make you smile. He will be sorely missed.
Kind regards,
Karyn Earle Riddle
June 4, 2006
Dear Raines Family,
I am so sad to hear about the passing of Mr. Raines. I was fortunate to have him as teacher years ago. He is the reason that I became a math teacher. His passion for teaching and students was genuine. He will be deeply missed.
Bill Murphy
June 4, 2006
Mrs Raines & family,
I'm very sorry for your loss, I have a lot of great memories of Coach at Garfield. As a teacher and my basketball coach, he was a great influence in my life.
Bill (PoolHall) Murphy, GF "66"
Bob and Julie Bailess
June 4, 2006
Greta and family,
I am so sorry to hear about Foxxy. He was a dear friend and will be missed. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time.
Michael D. Todd
June 4, 2006
To Mrs. Raines and Family:
This was quite a shock to my son and I. Mr. Raines taught my son, Anthony, Geometry this past school year while he was a ninth grader. I considered Mr. Raines one of the best High School Geometry teachers I have ever seen. My son never came to me with a question or a complaint concerning the level of academics presented to him during his 9th grade geometry lessons... I sincerely appreciate Mr. Raines' thorough teaching methods and I appreciate all he has done to further my son's education. He will be greatly missed by the parents as well as, I am sure, all of LAMP High School and its alumni. Rest in peace Mr. Raines.
Shandrea Sellers
June 4, 2006
To the Raines Family,
Mr. Raines was my pre-cal teacher during the 2004-2005 school year and it was in the classroom where he demonstrated his love for the students. His constant effort to ensure my success is what I will always remember. He not only taught us pre-cal, but in each lesson there was an underlying principle he made sure we understood. I love him for everything he gave me and he will be deeply missed. I pray your strength during this time of sorrow. I know how much he loved you all.
Bruce Benson
June 4, 2006
Danny, Leigh, Rob and Jon, and Mrs. Raines,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Bruce and Lori Benson
WSHS '87
Susan and Larry Hilton
June 4, 2006
Jim Raines was a special man--teacher, coach, husband and father. Our hearts ache for your loss. May God give you comfort and peace as you lean on Him and each other as you grieve and adjust to life without him. Love, Susan and Larry
Elizabeth Catron
June 4, 2006
Greta, My dear, What a difficult time for you! My deepest sympathy and most sincere prayers. He was such a fine man. Take strength in the fact that your marriage was so strong. Love, Betty Catron
Kimberly Anderson-Rudisill
June 4, 2006
Jon and All the Raines Family, Our deepest sympathy and hope for sunnier days ahead. You are in our prayers, Kim (Anderson) Rudisill and family
Goldie (Haywood) Gutmann
June 4, 2006
Dear Greta & family,
I can't think of my Gar-Field High School days without fondly thinking of you and Jim. He was such an inspiration to so many of us and his passing will leave a hole in many hearts. My love to you and yours.
Cliff Conway
June 4, 2006
I am so sorry to here of your loss, Coach Raines was a special person. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Bill & Kay Flynn
June 4, 2006
Mrs. Raines & Family –
Coach Raines was a breath of fresh air. My kids were fortunate to have experienced Coach Raines’ personality, humor and intensity as a math teacher and a coach at Osbourn Park HS. He was a stand up guy you could count on and we held him in the highest regard. We have missed him since he left Virginia but he will remain a bright spot in our memory. Our deepest sympathies to you and your family.
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