James "Jim" Vegher

Such a loss to the family of humanity.

Rereading Jim´s obituary is a good reminder that we must persevere and do all we can to promote a better life for people everywhere. His dedication continues to be inspirational.

Hello John,

Just saw this online. I am so sorry for your loss. I was Jim´s neighbor in SB back in the 70´s. We reconnected on FB in 2020. He was sick at that time but he spoke so passionately about you and your longtime relationship. Hope this old old photo makes you smile. Jim was an amazing guy for sure.

One of the nicest people I´ve ever met on this earth. A guiding light for all of us.

It's been two years and I think of Jim often. He loved life, loved fun, and I loved him. R.I.P. Jim

I am inspired when I think of Jim.

We still think of Jim often. Best wishes to John and others in Jim´s life.

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Dearest John, I am saddened by the news that Jim has died. He was always a spark of light from the twinkle in his eyes to the way he radiated joy when he entered a room. I'm not sure if/when you'll see this message but wanted to add my condolences to the many lovely words that have been shared. They are a testament to how much both of you have contributed to making the world a better place. I have many pictures of our time at Good Sam, but am sharing a special one I have of you and Jim celebrating his 50th birthday. You are both such a class act - Sending love, light, and good vibrations to you.

I can't believe a year has allready gone bye. Take care John and please hi.to his brother and sisters for me when you see or talk to them. Yours Ross Buddy Chenoweth.

So very sorry to read this..I knew Jim was very sick but I just now found this site,
All my love to John and Mary
Martha Effinger

We are so saddened to learn of Jim´s passing. He and John were our neighbors in Providence, RI and the two of them radiated such love and a sense of real community.

My indelible memory of Jim was formed the first time he welcomed my wife, Lynn, and I into their home. The loving smile and wide eyes struck me first then I saw the entire living room with his teddy bear collection. Such a congruence of wonderfulness!

He will be missed by all who knew him and his work will be missed by many who did not know him.

Condolences to John, family and friends.

I am heartbroken to hear about Jim`s passing. I am saddened to think that this kind-hearted, compassionate, generous soul with his infectious smile and great sense of humor will no longer live among us. I could never have asked for a better neighbor and friend and I will always cherish our times together in Providence, our send-off party when Jim and John returned to Portland and our fabulous visit to see you both in 2016. We did not have to talk or see each other often to feel the love. I am so grateful for our friendship. A better model for how to live a full and compassionate life cannot be found. My heart is with John, the love of Jim`s life and, through tears, I tip my martini glass to both of you with whom I have had the honor of an enduring friendship.

Jim was so alive. His contribution to others was so beautiful. It showed how loving and giving he was of himself and his abundance. His enjoyment of life and sparkle in his eye was so endearing. You have truly touched my heart.

Jim was so alive. His contribution to others was so beautiful. It showed how loving and giving he was of himself and his abundance. His enjoyment of life and sparkle in his eye was so endearing. You have truly touched my heart.

Jim left his mark on this world in his good works, his shining example of joyful labor and most of all, the abiding and exuberant love he spread so generously among family, friends and community. May sweet memories comfort all who loved him.

Jim was one of the loveliest persons I have ever met. I cherish many memories of Jim and also John and their good work for our community. I will truly miss Jim and want to convey my condolences to John and all family. You are in my thoughts and wishes. Love to you.

What a wonderful life! May his soul rest easy and may you, John, be blessed with peace.

John we wish you peace and comfort as you grieve, please except our deepest condolences for your loss. Knowing you have many wonderful memories to cherish forever.
We have you in our thoughts and prayers
Sending love your way
Bob & Perina Chenoweth

We were sad to read of Jim's passing, John. We did not know that you had moved back to Portland. We have fond memories of Jim's great sense of humor and his willingness to learn and grow. During these difficult days ahead, lean on family and friends to support you.
With affection, Louise and Michael

I served as the Programs Director at Equity Foundation for nearly seven years. This is the foundation that Jim and John founded. I valued both my interactions with Jim and the vision he had. The mission of Equity Foundation at that time was simple: "To promote the dignity and worth of all people in Oregon." I saw first hand how Jim's vision touched so many people in this state. What an honor to be a part of it! Thank you, Jim, for bestowing that vision and affecting so many lives. You will be missed.

Dearest John,
I was so, so sad to learn that your beloved Jim has passed. I will never forget the many hours that he and I spent discussing the importance of promoting LGBTQ youth and marriage equality in your several beautiful homes in Providence. Jim was one-of-a-kind... emphasis, kind. The work that you did together to restore beautiful homes, create safe and welcoming spaces for LGBTQ youth, and campaign with us for marriage equality-- I will never forget these precious gifts, and I thank you both for sharing so generously of yourselves with all of us. I will always treasure the time that I spent with Jim, and his abundant and humble wisdom. I wish you peace and comfort as you grieve, and some sustenance in knowing that Jim will forever serve as an inspiration in the hearts and minds of all whose lives he touched. I know that mine is one of them.
Sending much love,
Kelly (Providence, RI)

Two of my favorite people. You both did so much good in this crazy world. A lesson for all of us. He will be thought of often and may you John cherish your memories with him.

Dear John, I am very sorry for your loss. I enjoyed talking to Jim off and on for the last six years or so. Stay strong and keep your friends around you for strength and support. Yours Truly. Ross

I met Jim when I was hired as a Medical Laboratory Technician at the Good Samaritan Immediate Care Center near Washington Square. I believe this was the first urgent care that Good Sam. started. Both Jim and John Grigsby were very involved in making the clinic a success. I remember Jim as an exceptionally approachable and caring person. That smile says it all. The world needs so many more people like him. His loss is felt deeply.

May you be at peace, dear Jim. I will miss your gentle smile, kindness, generosity and vision. I loved our talks - even when we were in a big event space full of people, you always gave your full care and attention. You've left a legacy of loving kindness.
John - I'm sending love your way and wishing that you find comfort in sweet memories of your beloved.

So many happy fun times we had together with Jim. He was so kind, loving and giving and the heart and soul of our group. He will be greatly missed and forever loved.

As a child I had the pleasure of being his neighbor and will always remember him as a kind and generous man. My sympathies to his loved ones.

You and Jim lead an amazing life together ....how lucky we were to have known you both . There were many laughs and conversations, and above all , love .Please know you´re in my thoughts at this sad time.

John, what wonderful memories you're left with in the 45 years you had together. Cherish them and may they comfort you at this time.

Jim, you were a friend through high school until the end. You are gone but will never be forgotten. I'll cherish our friendship forever.

John, Our hearts are with you and the family.

My condolences, John. Jim was such a quality person. I am so glad you found each other.

John, my deepest sympathy to you for the loss of Jim even though I know he will be with you always. Be at Peace.

We are so sorry for your loss. Jim was a great man. Hugs to you John in your time if loss.

Memories of love from family

I only met Jim once but instantly adored him. My thoughts are with you most of all John, but prayers for all the people's lives he touched so dearly.