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Janet BURN Obituary
May 23, 1957 - March 23, 2013
Janet has gone dancing into the ethos, after a valiant 18-year journey with cancer. Janet was a devoted public servant at both the municipal and federal levels, fulfilling her life's purpose as a champion of gender equality at Status of Women Canada for 10 years. Acknowledging her experience, CIDA appointed her to a two year Directorship of their South East Asia Gender Equity Program based in Singapore, for which she was recognized with the "World of Difference" Award from TIAW (The International Association for Women), being one of only 100 women worldwide to receive this award in 2011.
Janet was the loving wife of Chris Dunham, beloved daughter of Audrey and Ken Burn, dear sister of Holly (and Steve Crain), devoted aunt to Connor, Madalaine, Paul and Emily, sister-in-law to Jackie and Andrew Whiley, daughter-in-law to Dorothy Dunham, and a giving soul to her family and so many friends.
A Celebration of her life will be held Sat., April 6, 2013 at the First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa, 30 Cleary Avenue from 10-11 a.m., with reception to follow. Janet suggested wearing bright and lively clothing, and lots of purple!
Fulfilling Janet's wish, a memorial oak tree and commemorative bench are planned for placement in Playfair Park near her home. Contributions can be made to the "The Janet Burn Memorial Fund" c/o Nathalie O'Neil, 5A - 400 Laurier Ave East, Ottawa, ON, K1N 8Y2, or to a charitable fund of your choice, all in lieu of flowers.
The family extends their greatest appreciation to Dr. Vincent Young and his nursing staff at the Ottawa Regional Cancer Centre for their caring support on this journey, to Luba and the other nurses from Bayshore Home Health for whom we owe such a debt of gratitude for their continued care, and to Dr. Coulombe and Dr. Splinter with the Community Palliative Care Network for their compassion through Janet's final days.
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43 Entries
Shelley Hunter
August 29, 2013
Janet hired me as her summer student at the Status of Women Canada years ago. It was my first "real" job and I felt very thankful for the opportunity to have been mentored by her. She was generous in every sense of the word. I remember when I heared the news she was leaving SWC, and I had to hold back my tears. I also remember the rose she received every week, she was lucky to live with such romance in her life. I am very saddened to learn of her passing.
Jane Foy
April 17, 2013
My deepest sympathy and love to you Chris and all of Janet's wonderful family members and friends. I was blessed by Janet's friendship for 25 years. We did such great work together at Status of Women and, in 2000, Janet just 'happened' to be in Hanoi the very night I received my darling four-month-old daughter. And all those celebrations in between and since--at the old tennis club in Ottawa South and the big 5-0 birthday in Rockcliffe and not a single soul had a match to light the birthday cake! Any celebration with Janet, Chris, family and friends was the very best affirmation and enjoyment of what it is to be alive. For me, Janet embodied and radiated the Buddhist principle of loving kindness. Like so many have said, Janet had a sparkling light that only grew more clear and pure as she lived. I really do believe her spirit shines still.
May she rest in all our hearts and across the universe...
Jeff Lamb
April 11, 2013
As I think back to the extraordinary Celebration of Janet's Life that I was honoured to attend last Saturday, I continue to be amazed at how much life and joy she could bring to a large room full of people, even after she had passed from this physical world. I was a classmate and friend of Janet's from grades 1-13 and I was struck as I listened to the remembrances of those who spoke on Saturday that, as a kid, I just took for granted all of the special talents and warmth and thoughtfulness that Janet exuded because it had just always been there, throughout my years in school. I feel blessed by the fact that, after many years out of touch, Janet and I reconnected several years ago when she reached out and attended my father's funeral and that we had a chance to get together a number of times in Ottawa and down here in Mahone Bay and share some of our experiences from the intervening 30 or so years. Janet's interest in my adventures and her keen memory of the times we had shared years before both made it so easy to pick up right where we left off so many years before. I want to offer my sincere condolences and those of my wife Trudy to Chris and all of the Burn family.
...Deep Peace to You.
Colleen Goth
April 10, 2013
Knowing Janet in the early 1990s in Ottawa is one of the highlights of my time in Canada. She was kind, gentle and a beautiful person. We became friends instantly, we just clicked and she made a difference to me and to everyone she met. Colleen
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PR Chicks' brunch Jan. 28, 1996 (left to right: Yvette, Karen, Janet, Nicole & Jody)
Yvette Diepenbrock
April 9, 2013
Dear Chris and the extended Burn family,
We've been out of the country for a couple of weeks, so we were so sad to hear of Janet's passing.
I will wear a bit of purple every day this week in Janet's honour.
Long ago (almost 30 years ago) there were four young women (Yvette, Nicole, Karen and Janet) who worked for the four Ottawa-Carleton school boards in public relations. We collaborated on a project to increase awareness about school bus safety. We enjoyed ourselves so much that we started getting together regularly, first to discuss work, and then just for fun.
We changed jobs, but the group continued to meet. Janet and Karen dropped out, but we added newcomers who had taken over our original positions (Barb MacDonald and Jody Ciufo). And sometimes the whole group got together again just to stay in touch.
We called ourselves the "PR Chicks" because we were young and smart. Then one day we realized that we weren't that young anymore, so we started calling ourselves the "Divas" in keeping with our maturity. The next time we get together the remaining "Divas" will raise a glass in Janet's memory; we feel blessed to have known her.
Yvette Diepenbrock
Terentiuk Family
April 8, 2013
What a shock to hear of Janet's passing. Our thoughts are with all the family at this very difficult time. The Terentiuk Family (Walter, Gwen, Anne (Rounding)and Carol (Pihlainen)
April 7, 2013
Dear Ken, Audrey and Holly
The news of Janet's passing brought back memories from the 1970s when I lived next door to your family. I remember the young girls from next door with the happy faces and girlish laughter as they lived their busy lives, always supported by their mom and dad. I can see still see Janet skipping down the sidewalk in her wedding dress on a beautiful summer day. I cannot claim to knowing Janet but I feel I do know of the love and dedication of her good parents and my heartfelt sympathy goes out to them at this sorrowful time in their lives. I express this on behalf of Michael, Andrew and Barbara, as well. Your family will be in my prayers in the coming weeks and months.
Sincerely, Gloria McHugh (Falsetto)
Peter Furesz
April 6, 2013
Dearest Janet...although we hadn't known each other during our Ridgemont HS days, it wasn't too many years later that you came into my life, dancing, smiling, always bubbly and full of contageous laughter! From jazz dancing to pop-ups to latin dancing in Winterpeg, you will always hold such a warm spot in my heart! Thank you for sharing...you will always be with me.
Dina Vargas
April 6, 2013
I met Janet on a few occasions and was once invited with my husband Peter Furesz to her beautiful home for dinner. She was one of those persons you meet once and remember forever. Her beautiful easy smile and sparkling eyes engaged me immediately. She seemed delicate but full of passion at the same time, like someone who had decided to drink the juice of life. She looked at my eyes when talking with such a sense of being present all the time. I remember we spent a New Year's Eve with her and Chris in Winnipeg (photo attached). She was so bubbly and enthusiastic, curious and amazed at everything, like she was seeing the world by first time. She danced in her beautiful coloured Asian jacket with such joy, an image that will never fade from my memory. When I fell sick, she thoughtfully prepared and sent me abroad a set of 3 wellbeing CDs, something nobody closer has done. She cared and shared, because she knew the painful path. She has left so much warmth in my heart, so I thank her for having shared herself so honestly and kindly with me. She will deeply live in me until my turn comes and we reunite as one, where there are no shadows, pains or sickness. My heart is with Chris, parents, siblings, relatives and friends.
BFF's among the leaves
Betty Clarke
April 6, 2013
Dear Janet: We have celebrated your life today dear sweet Janet. You would have been so proud of your friends, Holly, Chris, your mum and dad and all who love you. The tributes, songs, dance and prayers brought joy to all of us. We are blessed for having known you. I love you and will cherish you forever. Love, Betty
Kevin Hurst
April 5, 2013
Dear Ken, Audrey, Holly, Chris and family,
We were deeply saddened to hear of Jani's passing. She fought a long,courageous battle against such a terrible disease. May the precious memories you hold of Jani give you strength and comfort in the days ahead. You are in our thoughts, especially on this Saturday as friends and family gather to reflect on Jani's life.
Love, Kevin, Natasha and Emerson Hurst.
Jennifer Bancej
April 4, 2013
Jani was such an amazing, inspirational person. She will be missed, but we will all carry a piece of her with us and find inspiration in her. I have so many fond family memories of spending time with Jani, Holly and family. Highlights include ghost stories at Nana's house when I was very young and our movie and pizza nights. As an adult I have enjoyed sharing my creative side with Jani and she has always given me good advice to help in difficult times. I love you so much Jani. You will be missed but never forgotten.
Jenn Lalonde Bancej
Valerie Sames Talamantes
April 4, 2013
Dearest Janet,
"You - you alone will have the stars as no one else has them...".
I knew that we had met before and I know that we will meet again. You will have the teapot warmed and I will bring you purple tulips...x
April 4, 2013
Dear Ken and Audrey, Our hearts go out to you, our dear friends of many years, and to all your family. Dave and I will always remember sitting on our porch with you, Jani and Chris one beautiful day here on Tancook. We know it has been a long struggle that has made all of you so strong. Please know that we love you and that you will be in our thoughts on Saturday. Dave and Martha Farrar
April 3, 2013
Dear Ken and Audrey,
Please accept my sincerest condolences to you and your family upon hearing of the loss of your dear daughter. I think I only met her once or twice, but she impressed me as a very bright, kind and talented person. Now that I have read the obit I realize even more the dedication of her life and the depth of her loss. I heard the news along with many of Ken's Calligraphy Society friends and we are all very sad to hear this news. Yet the there is some comfort in knowing her good works in life will live on.
Roberta Huebener, Ottawa Ontario
Luna Circle at Brigid's Well
Lucy Wurtz
April 2, 2013
I will greatly miss Jani and the wonderful times we had together during her many trips to California and in our travels. Your flame will continue to burn long after you are gone. Thank you for inspirational and courageous life!
Linda Hurst
April 2, 2013
Dear Aunt Audrey,Uncle Ken,Holly and Chris,
Janet was a vibrant, bubbly young lady, when she gave a hug, love surrounded you with such intensity. Janet had the capacity to brighten a room with her presence. Her focus was always on the other person, not herself. We remember with happiness her summer visits to Mahone Bay. It was wonderful sharing her joy and love of the beach, collecting seashells, watching the shore birds and feeling the warmth of sand between our toes, sharing a meal together and thought provoking conversation. Janet embodied all that is good in the world not only for her family and friends but through her work with the Status of Women for gender equality. Our Janet has left a legacy of love and we have so many precious memories. We are so pround of all she accomplished, it was a privilege to know her.
With much love Janet dear, Aunt Jean and cousin Linda.
The Aussie contingent with Janet and Chris
Peter Hawkes
April 2, 2013
I first meet my cousin Janet in 1976 on a visit to Canada. Uncle Ken, Aunt Audrey, Janet and Holly made be most welcome and help this trouble youth sort himself out. I will be forever grateful for their support. I will always remember Janet from her visits to Australia as a loving , intelligent person with a melting moments smile. Jani, you will be greatly missed.
Barbara Jack
April 1, 2013
My condolences to Chris and the Burns family. It is such a sad time for all of you. I am so sorry I never had the pleasure of meeting Janet. Such a beautiful and accomplished person.
Peter E. Thompson
April 1, 2013
While I had not been in touch with my cousin Janet for many years, I always admired her intelligence, spirit, and her exceptional talents. She was truly an amazing person!
Barry, Louise, Rocco, and Janet
Barry Babcock
April 1, 2013
I am saddened to learn that such a fine person as Janet Burn has departed this life. I will always remember her smiling face and positive attitude about everything. She will be greatly missed by all those who knew her. I met and studied with Janet at St. Patrick's College / Carleton University during the 1970's. Our circle of mutual friends that attended St. Pat's will attend the service to honour and celebrate her life. I also worked at the Ottawa Public School Board as a teacher.
Clara Wicke
March 30, 2013
Our condolences go to Chris, a devoted husband and true partner. We are all diminished by her loss. She will be in our prayers, and though we will miss her smile, her spirit is fully alive forever.
Jean Dix
March 30, 2013
It was quiet a shockto hear of Janet's passing. She was a wonderful person, so kind and careing. I'm thinking of you Chris at this sad time. We miss her from our family. God Bless.
Fraser Likely
March 30, 2013
To this day, I can't go by an old inner city Ottawa Board of Education school without thinking of Janet. It's those signs out front, and the consensus-building role Janet played, so early in her career, in creating the old Board's integrated identity. Thoughts of those symbolic signs always lead to thoughts of Janet's smile. That smile always preceded a warm and lovely person. She was an inspiration to those of us who worked with her, from city government to the board of education to the federal government.
Irene Leger
March 30, 2013
My condolences to Chris, to Janet's family and her circle of friends. I worked with Janet at Status of Women Canada. She was an inspiration to us all. I will always remember her warmth and positive energy.
Caroline, Graham, Hugh, Mia
March 29, 2013
Janet befriended us 25 years ago when we moved to Ottawa. We experienced many of life's joys and sorrows with her over the years. Our thoughts are with Chris, their families and her many close friends at this time. Janet shared her spirit generously with so many people. We feel blessed to have had such a caring, perceptive and joyful friend. Bon voyage, Janet, we will miss you.
DENYSE BAIZANA
March 29, 2013
I was sadden to hear of Janet's passing.
May she wear her wings Like her Unforgetable warm, friendly smile she had shared with us...Our Heaven has gained a Beautiful women/guardian angel to overlook her family & friends..
Cat Wheeler
March 29, 2013
Janet was a clear and joyful spirit. Her humour and integrity were a beacon for all and her friendship a privilege I will always treasure. Godspeed, dear friend.
Heather Lalonde
March 29, 2013
My dear cousin Jani. You will be always be with us. We have such wonderful memories of times spent together. You have always been and will continue to be an inspiration to all who were lucky enough to have you in their lives. Dance with the angels and share a cup of tea with your Aunt Eleanor.
March 29, 2013
Janet was a bright light in all our lives, it was a sweet privilege to have known her and danced with her. Blessings to her family
marlene campbell
March 29, 2013
I remember Janet as a beautiful little girl, living in the house behind us, and I followed her history as she did such incredible work. She was truly a gift to this world. I have deep satisfaction in knowing that her life will be remembered and celebrated in my church, First Unitarian. I cherish my memories of Janet. Marlene (Bender) Campbell
March 29, 2013
Your love, laughter, and smile will always be remembered. Such a light in this world. Sending my love to all family members. I'll certainly be wearing purple on April 6th in your honour.
Lynn
Jim McNabb
March 29, 2013
Janet was married for several years to my nephew and I will always look upon her with much love as my niece. Condolences to her family and close friends.
Gregory Sreblowski
March 29, 2013
I worked with janet in early 80's at city hall, she was an exceptionally talented person of immense character, a pleasure and honor to work with.
Alison Arnot
March 28, 2013
I am so sad to learn of Janet's untimely death. She was my friend and classmate from grades 1-13 and a someone special whom I sought to emulate. We had lost touch in recent years but I have never forgotten her. My condolences to her family at this difficult time.
Dorothy Dunham
March 28, 2013
Hugs and condolences to Chris, the Burn family and her friends, worldwide;as we face life without Janet,my dear,sweet,spunky daughter-in-love.She remains a role model for us all!
March 28, 2013
Our thoughts and deepest prayers go out to you, Chris, as well as to Janet's family. Those of us who have had the opportunity to work with and befriend Janet know that her positive energy, great sense of humour and caring for others made her a very special lady. She always found a way to see the bright side of things and we always laughed. You will be dearly missed Janet. All our love, Daniel, Karina, Chechito and Diego Arsenault (currently in Accra, Ghana)
Susan Britton
March 28, 2013
Janet will remain in our hearts forever.
Dorothy (Rose) Shipley
March 28, 2013
Thinking of you Chris at this sorrowful time and remembering a life well lived.
With love, cousin Dorothy Shipley
March 28, 2013
Our dear, sweet Janet (aka Auntie Jani) will be dearly missed by her family in Manitoba. Hugs from all of us to the Burn and Dunham families.
Love,
Aunt Hazell
March 28, 2013
I worked with Janet at Status of Women Canada about 15 years ago. I remember her beautiful smile and spunkiness! I am sad that she has left us and offer my deepest condolences to her family.
Pierre Pagé
March 28, 2013
Janet was a very gifted person. I worked with Janet many years ago at City Hall. She was an extremely intelligent, caring and kind person. My sympathy to her family.
roger britton
March 28, 2013
Janet touched so many lives with her upbeat positive attitude....
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