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Pat & Mona Mitchell
February 24, 2015
The celebration of Jan's life was beautiful, meaningful, and full of spirit -- just like Jan's life. It is such a privilege to be part of this family and to have been part of that celebration. We were truly blessed to have Jan as part of our family. We have been thinking of you daily, and we will think of and miss Jan forever. God bless you all.
February 15, 2015
Jay, our deepest sympathy to you and your family on Jan's passing. She was a wonderful spiritual person who cared deeply for her family and friends, and for her country. We extend our thoughts and prayers to you all.
- Jim and Anita Oberwetter
February 14, 2015
Jay and family -- what a life together -- praying God's peace!
Barney Boeder
Rex Jobe
February 14, 2015
Jay, you and your family have my deepest sympathies. Jan was a delightful woman and will be missed. Rex Jobe
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Deb Scott
February 14, 2015
Jay, our family is deeply saddened by your loss and convey our deepest sympathies. I have been deeply moved by your tender, loving care for Jan and her for you during this very difficult season of life. Even in the midst of her illness God allowed her to have joy. Your collective deep spiritual roots in our faithful and loving Christ have shone through the clouds. I do not recall a moment when I heard Jan complaining during all if the years I knew her. She continuously exhibited a cheerful and loving countenance. She was blessed with a special gift of making others feel loved, included and special. I was the recipient on numerous occasions. The Daughters of the King will feel a huge hole but at the same time will be blessed with remembrances of her Christ-likeness. Thank you, Jay for sharing her with us. I Cor 2:9; Psalm 116:15
February 13, 2015
I feel so blessed that by joining Lake Highlands Republican Women I was lucky enough to become friends with Jan. Jan was intelligent, gracious, and giving. She always had a smile and sunny outlook! She touched so many people in our community as well as Texas and beyond while serving in Republican club leadership positions. She was a mentor to me and was such a knowledgeable parliamentarian! (I called her my "security blanket" when I was President of LHRW because I never worried about consulting Robert's Rules as long as Jan was there to guide us!) She will be long remembered and missed by all who knew her. My deepest sympathy to Jay and her family.
Sherrie Timmins, LHRW
Elaine Travis
February 13, 2015
Jan was kind, sweet and helpful to us all. She was a treasured member of our Lake Highlands Republican Club and we will miss her. Thank you, Jay, for keeping us informed of her illness so we could pray for her and send our good wishes. God be with you in this difficult time. I know your wonderful memories will comfort you.
Melinda Thomas
February 12, 2015
Judge Patterson and family,
My deepest sympathy for your loss. Mrs. Patterson was always so gracious and kind to me. She will be missed by so many people who's lives she's touched.
February 12, 2015
WITH DEEP SYMPATHY TO THE FAMILY.REV.20;12-13
John & Lisa Hendrik
February 12, 2015
You, Jay, and Jan were friends to us when John was a judge. Jan was a great friend to Sonny and I when she was on Plan commission. We had such laughs and so many good times. Her smile and good nature could light up a room. We have been in Gainesville for some years and I regret that we have not been close. However, I carry good memories of you both and am deeply sorry for the loss of a lovely lady.
Freda Diz
February 11, 2015
Dear Jan - Even with your medical problems and pain, I will always see, your sweet smile and devotion to GOD, the church, The DOK, Jay, your children, grandchildren, your entire family and friends. Thank you for sharing with me your love for Jay as a teenager and all the fun and loving times you had together your entire life. I love you and you will be greatly missed by everyone. May you rest in peace Dear Friend. Love Freda
Annette Ratliff
February 11, 2015
Jan was so welcoming to me when I was new to Republican Party activities. She took me by the hand and explained processes to me in such a patient way. Through all of these years she has always been available to share her calming wisdom and encouragement. Jan is a treasure and she will be missed by many beyond her family. Our hearts break with theirs for this earthly loss and pray that we carry on her legacy of kindness and nurturing spirit.
February 10, 2015
Jan was my roommate at our State Convention when I was a first time delegate. She was a font of information, and it was then that I learned of her great love for God, our country, her husband, and family. We shared many conversations, some deep and prophetic, and many light-hearted and uplifting ones as well. I will never forget those talks, and as the years went by, she was always a good friend to me. We have lost a wonderful lady, but God has gained a warrior for Him. Jay, my heart is with you, but you have been blessed by having her with you in this life and you will be together again in Heaven some day. I know she will be waiting with open arms and that great smile, and her love for you has never stopped. God bless you and your children and loved ones with whom she has left a lasting memory of the great woman she was.
Lynda Bauer. LHRW
Lynda Brandon
February 10, 2015
Jan was a very special lady. She shared her knowledge, smile an warmth with everyone . She will be greatly missed.
February 9, 2015
a lovely, loving ;lady with whom I was glad to be a "sister in Delta Gamma ".We enjoyed many events, bridge days, vision screening days, together. My sympathy to all of the family. carolyn salmon
Jane wetzel
February 8, 2015
Jan was an Inspiration to me. She was wonderful as a volunteer and never lost her spirit. Jane wetzel
February 7, 2015
Jay and family: I just learned of Jan's passing. Betsy and are in sorrow, we wish you all peace. Knox & Betsy Tyson, Salado, Texas
Betsy Blais
February 5, 2015
Jan was a teacher and she led by example. I will always remember her as joyful, courageous, happy, loving, gracious and kind to all. She was a special kind of Christian who loved the Lord. The Order of the Daughters of the King will truly miss her
.
Bill andLinda Russell
February 5, 2015
Jan was a courageous Christian lady, a sweet friend, and a dynamic leader that we loved and admired. There are so many treasured memories of the times we worked and served together. One event that vividly stands out was the Texas Federation of Republican Women State Convention in El Paso where Jan was honored for serving as president of that organization. Jan fought valiantly to overcome her illnesses with the encouragement of family and friends. We will dearly miss our precious Jan who was devoted to God, her family, and her country. May our Lord provide you with comfort, encouragement, and hope.
Your friends, Bill and Linda Russell
Connie Cook
February 4, 2015
Joy. That's a picture of Jan. I liked the way she said, "I love you." Like she meant it way down deep inside. When no one else would lead, she would; with grace. She showed me how to love difficult people. She made every friend feel special; that's why she had so many. I miss her. I look so, so forward to seeing her again.
Ernie & Connie Cook
February 4, 2015
We chose to ask Jan and Jay to be godparents to our youngest son because we knew no other couple who emulated the love of Christ more gracefully, to all they met. Jay continues to inspire us to let Jan go to her Reward while we celebrate the light she shed upon us while here.
Larry & Mary Ackels
February 4, 2015
Dear Jay, we are heartbroken to learn of the loss of your beloved wife, Jan. She never stopped fighting the good fight. May our Heavenly Father ease your grief and leave only the cherished memories of Jan's loving ways. And may the angels lead her into paradise. Your Friends, Larry & Mary Ackels and The Ackels Family.
Nancy Rynders
February 3, 2015
I knew Jan thru her involvement in the Lake Highlands Republican Women's Club. She was a tireless volunteer with a sunny disposition and a great friend to all of us. I will miss her but take comfort in knowing she is in God's presence.
Nancy Rynders
Chris Patterson
February 3, 2015
John Carona
February 3, 2015
Jan Patterson was a remarkable individual. Her kindness and joyful spirit serve as an inspiration to the rest of us. I will miss her, as will our entire community. Texas is a better place because Jan walked among us.
Glee Huebner
February 3, 2015
We send our deepest sympathy to Jay and family. Jan contributed to all our lives in more ways than can be mentioned in this short message. She will be dearly missed by all of us. Glee and Ray Huebner
Beverly Brock
February 3, 2015
Jan did so much for me. I am deeply grieved at her passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God's presence cover and comfort you, Beverly Brock
Beverly Brock
February 3, 2015
Jan did so much for me and taught me so many things. I am deeply grieved at her passing. Jay you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God's presence cover and comfort you.
Deborah Brown - LHRW
February 3, 2015
Jan touched the lives of all she knew! It would take about a dozen people to fill her many roles in the community. She made the world a better place by her presence. Our prayers are with you and your family.
February 2, 2015
My sincere condolences to the bereaved family at this most difficult time. May you be comforted by reflecting on the many wonderful memories that you can cherish forever.
February 2, 2015
Please accept our deepest sympathies for your loss; our prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Judge Staci Williams and the current staff of
the 101st District Court
Elizabeth Cookman Pletcher
February 2, 2015
In 1961 there was a wedding. Four children gained another Father, and another four children gained another Mother. More than that, eight children each gained four brand new siblings, and from this special marriage, a rich history of love, fellowship and wonderful adventures grew. And indeed, in church together - we took up the entire pew, as one can well imagine.
Janet was a new "big sister" when I was eleven years old. Over the many years I came to know Janet as a strong woman who lived her faith; I would call it "faith in action," and something to be emulated.
She was also always a girl at heart, with an impish joy in the simple things, a love of laughter, and a delight in others' happiness. There was a definite "twinkle" there.
Her greatest happiness of all was her family, and her life with her true love and soulmate Jay, and their children Betsy & Jamie and their families.
In one of our last conversations, we spoke of how she was feeling. She said she was so glad to be at home with Jay, and that she was so content because of the people her children are; she said her (and Jay's) most peaceful comfort of all was knowing of the strong, deep Christian faith of their children.
Barb & Wes Trunko
February 2, 2015
Dear Jay,
Our condolences to you and all of your family. What a blessing and treat it was for us to spend such a wonderful time with you and Jan at our 50th SHHS reunion. The both of you will be in our prayers.
February 2, 2015
Dear Jay and Family,
I as so sorry for your loss. It is our loss also. What a kind and smart and genuine woman.
Susan Rankin (Dallas, Texas)
McCarthy
February 2, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. May the Most High God comfort you as you mourn the loss of your loved one. (Psalm 83:18)
February 2, 2015
One of my chief blessings in this life is the privilege of knowing Jan. A pleasant and encouraging word always accompanied her welcomed smile. She is a rare gem that will be missed but never forgotten!
Chris Reed-Brown, DVAP
Michele Brantley
February 1, 2015
Betsy, your mom was also my other mother thru high school and on to college. I recall the great times we all had with dinners and such. What a welcoming woman was, who had a smile in her heart. It doesn't surprise me that she was helping others even thru her illnes. May you all find His continuing peace as you experience many first without her this coming year.
Mary Lee Miller
February 1, 2015
The Dallas Day Delta Gamma sisters will miss Jan. May God bless your family.
Mildred Frick
February 1, 2015
Dear Betsy, Jamie and Jay:
When Dad married Mimi, I was 8, and Janet became my eldest sister. I've been reviewing memory snippets, which have been fleeting across my mind since our great loss. Jan and Jay's wedding in California with all it's excitement. I was young and not in the planning, but all so wonderful - such a beautiful bride!
My visit by train from Oceanside to Janet and baby Betsy, while Jay was serving his country in Vietnam. A special time. The many visits that followed through the years at Dad and Mimi's, especially marking special occasions i.e. weddings; and Jay and Jan's surprise visit to my home in Connecticut, when my Chihauhau, Tootsie, jumped on Jan's back!
It was a great comfort to have Janet and Jay come to Charlie's funeral in 2013. We know Janet is now with our Heavenly Father, and this is key to helping us all cope.
My love goes out to each of you.
Milly Cookman Frick
Anne D'Eufemia Meziere
February 1, 2015
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Steve Bartlett
February 1, 2015
Jay, Gail and I are so sorry to hear of Jan's passing, but we celebrate her "life well-lived". Jan was such a special person throughout my political life. I literally couldn't have done it without her. I am sad that Gail and I haven't seen you in too long a time. Hope to correct that this year.
Steve and Gail Bartlett
Amy Wooten
February 1, 2015
I will miss Jan so much. She was unmatched in her kindness and thoughtfulness. Her faith in God and hope in Jesus was so constant and a part of everything she did and said. She led our DOK chapter with gentleness and efficiency. Truly a saint.
Judy Evans
February 1, 2015
To Jay and all of Jan's family. What a positive Christian legacy she leaves
with all of us who were fortunate to be her friends. She is now at home,
but those of us ho remain will deeply miss her sense of humor and positive spirit. God be with all of you and all who prayed for her in this difficult time.
Judy Michaels Evans
Dave Patterson
February 1, 2015
My younger brother, Scott, and I have known Jan nearly all of our lives. I got to know her best in 1995 when we shared caretaking duty for my folks, Jim and Naomi Patterson. Jan was tireless and devoted. Mom and Dad loved her like a daughter and she was always deserving of their love. She was more like a sister to me than sister-in-law. It is sad to lose her, but her faith was so much a part of her, there is no doubt about where she is now.
February 1, 2015
Met Jan through Delta Gamma & as a fellow Episcopalian. Shared some fun times with her at bridge. Most important was the courage and faith she has shown during her illness. Her trust in God will always inspire me. ITB Marion Luecke
Bill Melton
February 1, 2015
Jay and Family-
Sincere condolences on Jan's passing.
Jan was a leader in all that she undertook and made a
difference in our lives! She will be missed.
May the Good Lord Bless Jan and the
Family.
Pamela McManus Stiehler
February 1, 2015
Our condolences. Mrs. Patterson was so kind when I clerked for Judge Patterson during law school, and at social events over the years. I remember she had a quick, bright smile, and remembered everything about you, which always made me
feel warm and welcome. She will be missed.
Christina Yampanis
February 1, 2015
Our beloved Jan...we have lost a true patriot...a tireless worker for good government. Our thoughts and prayers are with Judge Patterson and the family.
Christina Tina Yampanis
Joanne Tonietti De Cecchis
February 1, 2015
Jay, our condolences to you and the family from the SHHS Class of '61. Fortunately we were able to see you both at our 50th Reunion from Sleepy Hollow and enjoy your presence.
Joanne Tonietti De Cecchis Class of 1961.
Howard Rothman
February 1, 2015
I am saddened to hear this news.
Jan was a special person in High School.
I remember the great times we had in math class and her close friend Lucille.
David & Ruth Kelton
February 1, 2015
Our family was saddened to hear of the passing of Jan Patterson. She was such a bright light and always kind. We know she was a wonderful wife, mother, a genteel lady and a good friend. The Patterson family is in our prayers in this time of such a great loss.
Jay Patterson
February 1, 2015
Jan is in Paradise with Christ and her suffering and pain have ended. She was always a wonderful blessing to us all. She is still loved by many. Thank you, Lord, that we had her with us as long as we did.
Jan Horne
January 31, 2015
Jan was very instrumental in my involvement in the Republican Party. I admired and respected her and learned a lot from her. She will be dearly missed. Judge Patterson, I am so sorry. I know there will be a hole in your heart. Know prayers will be said for you. Jan
Brian Marks
January 31, 2015
I had the pleasure of knowing Judge and Mrs Paterson over the years. My condolences.
Roger and Patti Clapp
January 31, 2015
Our prayers are with your family.
Diane Shrull
January 31, 2015
I'm so very sorry to hear about loss. She was always such a sweet lady and faithful to attend soccer matches in lots of kinds of weather for her grandkids. God bless you all in this time of deep sorrow.
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