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Jason Daniel Bertucci passed away on February 12, 2017. He was born in Santa Barbara, California on May 30, 1978. A memorial service will be held on Friday, February 17, 2017 at 10am, at Word of Life Church, 3811 N. Meridian, Wichita, KS. In lieu of flowers - memorials can be made in Jason's name to: Kauai Humane Society http://kauaihumane.org/donate/memorials-tributes/
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Toni Trevillian
May 30, 2024
Happy 46th Birthday Jason. Mom Loves and misses you very much. Wish I would have known how to bake your favorite birthday cake, but am thankful we had a professional baker who did. You were always so far ahead of all of us honey, we have now been working hard at catching up. Thank you for all you shared and taught me about the real world. We are learning how how far from the truth the world has been portrayed to be all our lives. I pray some of what you had hoped for will happen soon, and so far it appears it will.
Wish you were here to see it when it finally does. Until then,.... Love Mom
Toni Trevillian
February 13, 2021
Dear Jason, I miss you very much, every day. I am thankful you are in a glorious place, of which we can't begin to imagine.
I Love You very much.
Mom
Toni Trevillian
December 25, 2018
Merry Christmas Jason! I want you to know I miss you more this holday, today on Christmas day more than ever. I think of the Bronco, I only wish was under your tree. Christmas is now about waiting for it to be over. Please know you are loved and missed today and always. Hugs & Kisses! Love Always, Mom
Vanessa Bertucci
August 15, 2018
Hi Love, Year and a half. :( I understand its the blink of eye where you are at. Sure wish it was that way here on Earth. Been really missing you a lot lately. Not that I dont always, its just some days I need my Jasser really bad. Hope you are playing Bass, basketball, swimming in the ocean and enjoying everything heaven has to offer. You deserve it. Hope to be with you one day so we can do all those things together. I LOVE YOU Babe! Miss you Vernesser. XOXOXOXO
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Toni Trevillian
August 13, 2018
Dear Jason, it doesn't seem possible we have been without you here with us for a year and a half already. Mom misses you very much today and forever. You are truly the light of my life Jas, and always will be. I have many wonderful memories until we are reunited. I Love you very much,... really big! Love, Mom
Toni Trevillian
July 16, 2018
Dear Jason, almost a year and a half now, can seem like only yesterday since you left us for "paradise". I miss you so very much,... your laughter & humor, our long conversations, anticipating when I will see you next. Having you as my son is a blessing beyond my imagination. I Love you "Really Big" as always. Love, Mom
Toni Trevillian
June 12, 2018
Another month has passed,..... of Mom missing you every new day as much as the last. My love for you will always be as strong as always,..you have arrived now Jas, so enjoy! You are now experiencing the true paradise.
Love, Mom
Toni Trevillian
May 30, 2018
Happy 40th Birthday Jason! I want you to have anything and everything you want on this Birthday,.. but now you have everything you need. I send you hugs and kisses with my Love today and forever. I miss you you very much honey and today is one especially difficult day to be here without you. Know you are loved more than you ever imagined by Vanessa, Dad & I.Until we can be together to laugh & catch up.
Remember,.. Mom Loves You "Really Big" forever honey!
Toni Trevillian
May 15, 2018
Hi Honey,.... Just Mom checking in to say I miss & Love You very much every day. As you are in heaven now, God and the angels are enjoying you. I have wonderful memories of so many blessed times together,... so many moments and events bringing smiles and joy to my heart. I am a very blessed Mother to have you as my son. You are an incredible man I am very proud of. I only wish you could have been with us longer, but will be blessed when I am able to be with you again. I Love You, Mom
Toni Trevillian
April 12, 2018
Hi Jason. Another month has passed of mom missing you very much. I wished so much for you in the future. it is very hard knowing those hopes and dreams will now never be. Though you are there in the only perfect place now.I cherish all we shared together and am thankful for our close relationship. I Love you very much Jas.
Love, Mom
Vanessa Bertucci
February 12, 2018
Dear Love,
It's been one year. One full revolution around the sun without you by my side. I wonder how many more until we are reunited. I want you to know how much I miss you, how much I love you, how proud I am of you. Please hear these words, I say them almost daily. I wish I had better words to express my feelings, but you were the great poet of the family. You touched so many of us, you made us laugh, you made us think, you made us know how deep love can be for another person. Love never dies. I know this because I feel your love even now. It has to be true, because where there is deep grief, there is deep love. And i don't think I have ever grieved so much. I send my kisses & hugs to the heavens and hope you get them all. I LOVE YOU JASON! Happy One year Angelversary. Your Vernesser.
Toni Trevillian
February 12, 2018
Your light is protected now,.. never to dim unable to blow out,.... being constantly protected by God,.... with Angels about you,.... enjoy my son. Love, Mom
Toni Treillian
February 12, 2018
Dear Jason, Today, the 1 year anniversary of your journey to your "Ultimate Paradise", Heaven. Your peace and comfort there are how mom has any relief without you.Time has changed for us here now,... some days seem like it was only yesterday we spoke and laughed together,.... while others feel as though it has been even longer than a year. I long to hear your voice and laughter,... look into your big "baby blues", hear you play your bass. Time for us now is about waiting,.. waiting to be with you again. Always remember I miss and Love you every minute of every day. Sending hugs and kisses to my Baby. Love, Mom
Vanessa Bertucci
January 12, 2018
Eleven. What can I say on your 11 month Angelversary that I haven't said in the last entries. I feel sadness, loneliness, and anger still. Time is supposed to heal wounds, and although I do not cry everyday any longer, I think of you first thing in the morning, through my days, and each night. Not sure how I can do this without you by my side Jas. I know you are in God's Kingdom and in perfect health. peace and beauty. In that I find comfort. One day I will meet you there. Until then, see you in my dreams, and know I Love you forever! Big Big Hugs and Kisses to you my love. Miss you. Ness
Toni Trevillian
December 12, 2017
My dear Jason, we find ourselves in December on the 12th, missing you now for 10 months with Christmas approaching. I will be with Vanessa as we share together in celebrating our love for you and with you. Being there in your home with you both, will be the meaning of Christmas for me this year. As you are now at peace, may God bless us here with his grace of peace. Your laughter and conversations I hold dearly. I Love You so much Jas, and miss you every moment. Love, Mom
Vanessa Bertucci
December 11, 2017
Hello Love. Last months message did not post for some reason. I'm so sorry. It's 10 months since you went to be with God. It's December and it is especially difficult this time of year to rejoice. I breathe in, I breathe out, put one foot in front of the other. I long for the day we reunite on the other side. I miss your laugh, your teasing, your smile, just everything about you. You are my Love light and Music and I miss all of our fun times. Know I will Love you forever. One day Love, One day.
your
Vernesser
Toni Trevillian
November 12, 2017
Hello Jason, Today is an especially difficult day for mom, being without you now for 9 mos.,.. and reflecting back to waiting the same 9 mos. for you to be born. I couldn't have asked for a sweeter, more gently, kind loving child and son. Who by the way, grew up to be the same man, he was as a child. I could not be prouder of you Jason, nor could I Love you more than I always have, and do now. Now I can only look forward to being with you again. I Love You!!!, and will miss you every moment until we are together again.
Mom
Kat Bertucci
October 22, 2017
Jason,
You were a sweet, innocent and loving soul. I loved you. And feel the pain of your loss almost every day and share the pain of the rest of your family.
I have not been one to post as I know how private you were. Social media was not your thing. Not mine either.
You feel all of us. You see us every day and know how we miss you.
I know I talk to you. And hey it is just me.. your later in life step Mom. I loved you and miss all the love that you gave to all of us.
You were and are an incredibly talented man. I know you are living all those talents above and beyond. We are just not there to share that and appreciate it, but we will again, and there will be no end. We will all rejoice in your eternal presence. We may have to wait, but we will start where we left off and never have skipped a beat.
You are alive every day in our hearts and you know it.
As us, you are in wait if when we see eachother again in the perfect world that you see before you.
And I know you are there.
Love you and look forward to seeing you again when Our Lord has destined.
Katā¤
Vanessa Bertucci
October 17, 2017
Hello my Love, Sorry this is late, but you know because you were with me on my trip. I just Love you so much and miss you so much. It still feels unreal. I know you are with me, your mom and your dad. I see the signs and feel your presence. Please continue to visit. We all need your spirit to survive the loneliness. You are a gift that can never be replaced. I look forward to the day we meet again. ALL my Love is yours. Vernesser
Jennifr Smith
October 14, 2017
Hoping all of you are finding some peace day by day. Some days you barely hold on. Some days you just get by. Some days you are okay. Remember that no matter how difficult the days can be that Jason's spirit is there next to you. There are no words that will heal the heartache you feel. Just knowing that others are there for you is sometimes your only outlet. So, I want you all to know that I am always praying for each and every one of you.
Matthew 5:4 Blessed are those that mourn, for they shall be comforted.
October 13, 2017
Aloha my son...I miss more with each passing day but a smile comes across me knowing you are at peace playing and writing music with best now. I know someday we'll be united again and that gives me the hope to get through these days. There is not a turn I make or thing I do that reminds me of you, that breast care free attitude and smile. I love you dearly and until me see again Love Dad
Toni Trevillian
October 12, 2017
Hi Honey! I Love and miss You so Much. Today is the 8th month without you here with us. Life without you will never be the same, though our love will never change. We will continue to enjoy you here on earth, until we are together again. Love every day and Always,...Mom
Toni Trevillian
September 12, 2017
As today represents the 7th month without you, I am very proud of the man you have become, and as a musician and accomplished poet. I miss you very much,.. your sense of humor and laughter, your smile. I awaite seeing and being with you again Jason. I know you are at peace now in heaven. I Love You always "Really Big" Jas! Love Mom
Vanessa Bertucci
September 11, 2017
Hi Love, Tomorrow its seven months. I want you to know how very much I Love you, how very proud I am of the man you were on earth, and how very proud of the Angel you now are. Love, Light and Music, Big Hugs and Lots of Kisses. Your Vernesser. Miss you so very much.
August 13, 2017
i love you so much, my friend. you inspire me to keep creating art and pushing for bigger & better.
Vanessa Bertucci
August 12, 2017
Half a year. How can it already be 6 months. It feels like 6 hours and yet like a lifetime. Somedays I think it will be okay and other days i feel like I can not make it without you. I know you see me I know you hear my prayers. Please know I love you and love never dies. I will see you again on the other side. I LOVE AND MISS your handsome face and your silly sense of humor. You always did bring me Love, Light and Music. Happy Angelversary Love. Ness
Toni Trevillian
August 12, 2017
Today, 6 months after you left us, I am comforted knowing you are in heaven. I am sad, and will forever miss and Love you every day, more than you could imagine. We will continue to celebrate your life, the Love and happiness your brought us, as we keep you close in our hearts. Love, Mom
Vanessa Bertucci
July 12, 2017
Love, you have been an Angel now for five months. I miss you so very much. You were my Angel on Earth, now I ask you to watch over me, your mom and dad and your fur kids. There are no words to express my sadness at your passing. I rejoice in knowing you are in heaven and all is well with your soul. I LOVE YOU JASON! Ness
Toni Trevillian
July 12, 2017
Today marks five months of the loss of or beloved Jason, my son. loved and missed deeply by his family.
Toni Trevillian
June 12, 2017
As today marks four months without you Jason. I miss you very much every day, and I Love you as always "Really Big".
Mom
Vanessa Bertucci
June 11, 2017
Happy four month Angelversary. I LOVE and MISS you very much Lovey. XOXOXOXO
Toni Trevillian
May 31, 2017
Happy 39th Birthday my dear son Jason. Yes this is the day after,... mom is aware! (A private joke).I hope you have or will receive my special message I sent to you yesterday. I miss you so much honey,... my best friend, confidant, and best son ever. I Love You "Really Big", today and always. Love, Ma Toni
Dad
May 30, 2017
Happy Birthday my Son....
You have given us 39 memorable years and I can't thank you enough.
You will continue to grow in me each day.
Thank you for everything you have given me; you will never be forgotten.
Happy Birthday my #1 son!I love you and miss you much.
Love Dad
Vanessa Bertucci
May 29, 2017
Happy Birthday my Love. I miss you so much. Love you always
Ness
May 11, 2017
Jason, Its been 3 months now that Heaven got the gift i had for 10 years. I hope they know how blessed they are. I miss you so much Love. Your adoring wife. Vernesser
Vanessa Bertucci
April 12, 2017
Happy 2nd month Angelversary Love! I miss you dearly but happy you are in Heaven where Angels like you belong. Much Love Jasser. Look forward to the day we reunite.
Your wife
Vanessa
Toni Trevillian
April 1, 2017
Today on the Anniversary of Jason and Vanessa's wedding an marriage,... my hope is for our family to celebrate their cherished Love, with her in their personal way. Vanessa is beyond being a very special gift and daughter to me, who I love very much. Love, Mom
Toni Trevillian
March 12, 2017
My Son,.... Jason,...let us celebrate his life today on this 1 month Anniversary,..... his Love for his wife Vanessa, who has been our "Angel", his music,...his poetry, his humor,... his gentle spirit,.... his innocence,...
I Love You Jason,.....Mom
Vanessa Bertucci
March 5, 2017
Jason, you were the man who brought me love, light and music. You are the love of my life and always will be. I Love you so very much sweet husband. Your adoring wife, Vanessa
Jason and Vanessa,.... Destined by God,..... with a special Love they will share forever
Toni Trevillian
March 3, 2017
Jason has always been the light of my life,... and always will be.
C B
February 27, 2017
When we're awestruck from the blows life swings at us, we can allow the Bible to be like a calm voice in our ears as it corrects us, encourages us, and reassures us of God's love. John 3:16.
Carol Giusto
February 20, 2017
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Carol
C Spence
February 20, 2017
Prayers and condolences to all who were blessed to know you. Your father loved you and we love your father. Although we never got the chance to meet, we loved you through him. I pray for serenity and healing for your entire family. Gone much too soon. Rest in paradise.
Jimmy Newstetter
February 19, 2017
I got your message, Joe. I'm very lucky to have gotten to know JJ in my life. email me at [email protected] if you have a moment. Thank you for everything your family has ever done for me <3
Bob and Mela Kuslo
February 18, 2017
All our thoughts are with you.
Bernadette D'Amore
February 18, 2017
Our Prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time..please take heart that your beloved is now in True Paradise...Hugs,Jack and Betnadette.
Jason-Joe-Vito-Angelo Leaving Ustica 2002
Vito Ailara
February 18, 2017
Joe
I advised our family in Ustica. Vito responded.
Caro Angelo
Mi spiace molto per la scomparsa di tuo nipote Jason. Lo ricordiamo con simpatia e effetto.
Condoglianze anche da parte della mis famiglia
Vito
Dear Angelo
I am very sorry for the death of your Nephew Jason. We remember him with warmth and affection.
Also condolences from my family
Vito
Robin Lopez
February 18, 2017
Aloha Oe Jason
Jenny Smith
February 18, 2017
Jason was lucky to have had all of you in his life. After meeting all of you through this unexpected tragedy, I know he was blessed in so many ways. His soul continues to be kind and gentle. His talents are being used elsewhere. His love for all of you is just "Under the Radar". It is there...but not seen in the physical sense. Words will never heal the pain you feel. Find peace in knowing that the sorrow you are feeling is the price your paying to have had Jason in your life. And in knowing this is only a temporary separation. My prayers are with you Vanessa, Toni, Joe, and Kat. Remember the good times. Yesterday, we created a couple more.
Three Americano's having a Gelato, Ustica 2002
Angelo Bertucci
February 17, 2017
Joe, Vanessa and family
My prayers are with you. My memory of Jason is of the time we spent together touring Italy in 2002 and ending with a visit to Ustica, our family's home island. We were known as the "Three Americanos".
Angelo Bertucci, Beaverton, Oregon
Love this shot
Jimmy Newstetter
February 17, 2017
Jimmy Newstetter
February 17, 2017
Jason is one of my best friends and greatest inspirations. I will keep creating art in his memory. <3
Paula Bertucci
February 17, 2017
You are in our hearts forevermore.. Your sweet smile is a blessing to always remember...with love.
Cheryl Schoolfield
February 17, 2017
Toni, So very sorry for your loss. Having lost a daughter at the same age, I can empathize completely. A parent never expects to go before their child, but it is comforting to know that they could not be in a better place than where they are. You are and always have been in our daily prayers. Tell Venessa we are praying for comfort for her also. Love you, Darrel and Cheryl
David Dickerson
February 16, 2017
Prayers for the family, so sorry for your loss.
Daniel Fort
February 16, 2017
I am so very sorry for you loss. I met Jason through Joe and he was such an awesome guy to talk to. Low key and always smiling. May God grant him peace and give you and yours strength through this time!
Daniel Fort-Kauai
Louise & Tod Eckhouse
February 16, 2017
Toni, Vanessa and family,
Words cannot express our deep sadness for all of you. At times like this you have to lean on your faith and try to accept that God has a bigger purpose for us. May God give you His peace that passes all understanding, and may all the love and prayers that surround
you give you strength.
Trusting in His care,
Heidi Piccolo
February 16, 2017
Dear Vanessa and Toni,
you are both in our hearts and prayers. God promises to be near the broken hearted; i pray that you both will feel His presence very close during this time of sorrow, and that your hearts and minds will be filled with His peace that passes all understanding.
In Christ's love always,
Heidi, Diego and Pascual
Aubrey Shrum
February 16, 2017
Thinking of you everyday and wishing there was something I could do to take away your pain. Sending you many prayers, Vanessa!!
Jennifer Martling
February 16, 2017
Vanessa,
When you go outside and look up at the night sky, do not be sad. Rather...think of the stars as porch lights welcoming your loved one home. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Krista & Jeff Ryan
February 16, 2017
Sending prayers to you and your family.
Alicia Hunsberger
February 15, 2017
Vanessa I am praying for you and your family and hope that with God's grace he will help bring peace to your heart and soul.
Brian & Alicia Rubadue
February 15, 2017
Vanessa, Joe, and Katalina, Our hearts break with you, you are all in our hearts and prayers that God's love will carry you through this time of grief. All our love, Brian and Alicia Rubadue
Our fist time together at Secrets beach Kaua May 2007. Much Love sweetheart
Vanessa Bertuci
February 15, 2017
February 15, 2017
Vanessa,
No words can begin to take away your hurt. Please know that you are loved by so many and being thought of often. I pray that God will give you peace & help you through these difficult times.
Jessie
February 15, 2017
Our condolences are with the family in this time of sorrow.
Our prayers & wishes of strength are with the parents &
Vanessa. May God be with all of you in the days ahead.
Much Love To All of You. The Kerschen Family
Randy & MonaLisa Boyer
February 14, 2017
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort......
Thoughts and Prayers from Aloha Roofing Supply.
February 14, 2017
May God's loving kindness and comfort help you and your family through this very sad time Psalms 29;11
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