1993 - 2023
1993 - 2023
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1993
2023
Mr. Javarius Doneil Desmore, affectionately known as “Var”, departed this life suddenly on March 14, 2023, in Petersburg, VA. He was preceded in death by his grandparents, SFC Nathaniel Sr.,and Evelyn Desmore; uncles, Tyrone, Jerome, Victor, and Nathaniel "Jr." Desmore, Barry and Lamont DeWitt; aunt,Glenda Desmore; and his brother, Jakari Shaw. Javarius attended Petersburg Public Schools.
Var was a devoted father, son, brother, uncle, cousin, and friend to many. He was a die-hard Dallas Cowboys and LA Lakers fan. Although he was a man of few words, you could always count on having great times of laughter. Var was known for leaving you with one of his famous quotes like, “You can’t rush greatness.” He was a protector of everyone he loved and would always lend a helping hand to anyone in need. He loved his family to life and always told them he loved them every time he saw them!
Javarius leaves to cherish his memory, the love of his life, his son, Jordyn Lewis; devoted mother, Lenita Desmore; father, Michael Beverly; devoted sister, Jamine Shands; devoted nieces, Makenzie Williams, Sevyn and Savvy Shaw; a host of devoted aunts, Jewell Jones (Howard), Tonya Desmore Friend (Arnold), Natalie Desmore, Bonita DeWitt, Anita Hayes, Joy Gregory, Joanne Jones, Patricia Washington-Thomas, Bridgette Perkins, and Kenya Williams; devoted uncles, Milton Desmore (Paulette), John Walker, James DeWitt, and Keith Beverly. Var had a fond affection for his devoted cousins, Tierra, Joya Nachelle, Trey, Courtney, Tyre, Brianna, Jennasia, Cherelle, Isaiah, Jada, Azaria, Kahlil, Latasha, Nikita, Vatura, David, Timothy, Montez, and Perry Graves. Var had many devoted friends, among them Whitney Greene, Terice Smothers, Shanise Singletary, Craig Tucker, Jr., Jaquan Good, Raquan Williams, Tommy Lias, Quan Taylor and Tylik King; and a host of other relatives and friends too many to name.
Services will be held 1:00 P.M., Friday, March 24, 2023, at Metropolitan Baptist Church, 1021 Halifax Street, Petersburg, VA, the Rev. Lamont A. Hobbs, Pastor and Pastor Arnold Friend, Jr., eulogist. The interment to follow at Dinwiddie Memorial Park.
J.M. Wilkerson Funeral Establishment, Inc., 102 South Avenue, Petersburg, VA, (804) 732-8911, watch the funeral services live online at www.jmwilkersonsince1874.com.
Arianna McCray
March 26, 2023
Sending my love, prayers, and condolences to the Desmore and Friend family. May God comfort and protect you all through this time and beyond.
Wyouka Hawkins
March 26, 2023
My deepest condolences
Crystal Whitaker
March 24, 2023
So sorry for the lose he was very much love
Crystal Tidwell
March 24, 2023
Condolences to the Desmore family! You have my many blessingsI remember taken Var out with me on my birthday when he was a baby, but that’s a whole other story!!! My prayers for Nita and just know everything is going to okay take care and I love you all
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Brian Cermack
March 24, 2023
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today always hold to God's unchanging hand.
Alonzo Graves
March 24, 2023
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Mimi Washington
March 24, 2023
To my sister ❤ Nita! I'm so sorry for the loss of your son! I pray that God gives you and your family strength to make it especially through today and the days n years to come ! Love you girl!
Patricia Washington-Thomas
March 23, 2023
Auntie will always love you! RIP Var! To my sister friend Lenita sending strength to you. I love you!
Michael JonesMayfield
March 22, 2023
My deepest condolences. May God continue to cover the family and loved ones. Rest In Peace
Veronica Augusto
March 22, 2023
Sending my prayers, love, strength, healing and peace. God uplift there spirits keep them strong. Know you are watching over them
William & Dorothy Walker
March 21, 2023
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Contina Spencer
March 21, 2023
Nita. My prayers are with you and your family. There are no words. May God keep you wrapped in his arms and hold on to God's unchanging hands. I love you.
Cheryl Strodder
March 21, 2023
Lenita, my love and prayers and condolences to you and all the family.
Katrina Morgan
March 20, 2023
SENDING LENITA & YOUR FAMILY OUR LOVE & CONDOLENCES....AMEN
Arkell Graves
March 20, 2023
Lenita, I’m praying for comfort and sending my deepest condolences for you and the rest of your son’s family.
Paulette Jackson
March 20, 2023
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Darlene Burge
March 20, 2023
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Yolanda Jackson
March 20, 2023
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Wilbert Robb
March 20, 2023
Rest in paradise little brother
Chauntae Pollard
March 20, 2023
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending my condolences to all of the family and praying for your strength.
Pamela Nicholas
March 20, 2023
My deepest condolences goes out to you and your family. I’m continuing to pray for you all. Lenita you will forever be in my prayers. I feel your pain. God bless and keep you.
Regina Hall
March 20, 2023
Praying God’s peace and strength upon the Desmore family
Tanginika Marsh
March 20, 2023
My deepest condolences. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Lynn Jones
March 20, 2023
So very sorry for your loss
Keeping you and your family in my prayers
Dorcus Wiggins
March 19, 2023
To the Desmore Family, I extend sincere condolences in the loss of your loved one. Javarius was my student in first grade at Stuart School (now Pleasant Lane). He was a joy to have in class. Sometimes he reminded me of a little old man as he walked across the room. I believe it was his mom who said he was just like his grandpa. It is my hope that the love of family and friends and fond memories of Javarius will comfort you at this time. May God bless each of you and keep you in His care.
Mary Blanding
March 19, 2023
Lenita, I am so sorry for your loss. You are dear to my heart and you are in my thoughts and prayers. i am here for you and your family.
Darmisha Dean
March 19, 2023
My dude Var . gone miss what up Darmisha. Always a gentle man very respectful . Love always ❤
Shaunielle
March 19, 2023
Lenita, I am truly at a loss for words. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mosby Family
March 19, 2023
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Tonya Hawkins
March 19, 2023
God bless
Sharay g
March 18, 2023
R.I.P
Ace & Veronica Montgomery
March 18, 2023
Sending our sincere condolences to you and your family Lenita.
terice smothers
March 18, 2023
There is so much I can say about you but what stood out the most was the love you had for your family and the ones in your circle. I still can’t bring myself to say you’re gone. A good person gone too soon. My prayers and deepest condolences go to momma Nita and the Desmore family
Melinda E Parham
March 17, 2023
I am so sorry you are on this journey once again but as before, The Lord will guide you through. My thoughts and prayers are for you and your family. Melinda (Juanessa's mom)
Cherita Hicks
March 17, 2023
My prayers and my deepest condolences are with the Desmore Family. Praying that the Love and Peace of GOD gives you comfort as you grieve the Loss of your Loved One.
LaShandra Anderson
March 17, 2023
My deepest condolences Var was a great person all around funny helpful a wonderful friend he will be greatly missed ❤❤❤
Bertha (Cookie) Bland
March 16, 2023
To the entire family, I'm so sorry for your loss and pain. Sending heartfelt condolences and prayers to you all.
Mary Miles Nelson
March 16, 2023
I pray that God will give each of you the strength that you need doing this time of sorrow Remember that Earth has no sorrow that Heaven can not heal.
Miss seeing you waving at me with a smile every time that you see me take your rest baby boy
Carlos Johnson
March 16, 2023
Carlos Johnson
March 16, 2023
Carlos Johnson
March 16, 2023
Hey Nita. This news hit me hard because I met him when he was young. This good brother had a strong heart and he loved his family. I want to send condolences to you and the family and wish you peace and comfort. Take care and stay faithful. Love.
Debira Parker Hinton
March 15, 2023
Nita, and the Desmore family. My heart was saddened at this news.
We don't see each other often but I love you all. You are in my prayers. May God strength be with you.
Bonita DeWitt
March 15, 2023
All my sympathy to Nita, Michael, Jasmine and Jordyn and the rest of the family. I will miss you, my nephew, I will miss you calling to say “I am just checking on you Auntie”. I cannot believe that you are gone. Gone 2 Soon. RIP Baby. You are loved!!!
TIERRA DESMORE
March 15, 2023
To my first baby brother, I miss you already. Thank you for all the love you gave me when I needed it the most. I’ll never forget the love, loyalty, and respect you had for me. Aunt Nita, I’ll always love and support you. Thank you for giving birth to one of my most favorite people on Earth. I love you forever Var.
Chevy KoKe
March 15, 2023
Var was one of the best guys ive ever had as a friend. nobody loved their family and friends more than Var. love you cuddy forever
Monica Harris
March 15, 2023
My Condolences to the Family & Friends. Praying for you.
Monica Vannoy
March 15, 2023
This is just heartbreaking news, Nephew. I was so sad to hear about your passing. This is totally unbelieveable! To the Desmore family I love you and I'm praying for you all. To my sis Nita, I can't imagine what you are feeling but you already know I'm here for you for whatever you need. Love you and thanks for sharing Var with me.
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