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Ric Sullivan
March 4, 2024
Great Guy, Met him many times when working at the old Decker Sports store. RIP
Bill Oertel
August 2, 2023
I´m a little late, but please accept my condolences on Jay´s passing. If this Jay Decker was a Jay, Jr. with a grandfather nicknamed Dud who owned a sporting goods store in Mason City, he was also a pretty good DN iceboat sailor on Clear Lake. We broke several booms and a couple of masts from having them a little tighter than our dad´s would have allowed. But we were fast!!! I´m Bill Oertel and I remember building our DN´s in the basement of Decker´s Sports then trying to figure out how we could get them up the steep steps and out of the store. Anyway, another story from the past. Again, sorry to hear and reply so late, but kind of lost track of Jay after Mason City. Hope this story brings you all a smile. Later, Bill
John Gordon
July 19, 2023
Jay and I were rookie smokejumpers in 1963. Always happy and ready to go!
Jim Dunn
January 5, 2022
Jay, always Topper to me, & I were roommates 59 years ago. The smile I see in the picture of the two of you takes me back to that era & the same smile, especially when mischievous activities may have been on the horizon. RIP Jay
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Dave Bruce
January 5, 2022
Topper was one of the all-time great, fun loving guys I knew at Iowa. Many memories at the PSI lodge. Best to his family . DB
Jay Cleveland
January 2, 2022
I have the distinct pleasure to be able to call Topper my friend. I attended the University of Iowa with Jay and spent many hours, skiing, hanging together and taking adventurous trips. Jay will always have a special spot in my heart. With his good humor fellowship he will always my very dear friend.
JC
Kary Schlick
December 24, 2021
I loved this man, father of my best childhood friend Britton & her beautiful older sister Kim. Such happy memories I have because of your welcoming heart, fun loving spirit, & being a fabulous father who made our summer visits from CA to OR dreamy. 50 years later I can still dive backwards & love to play outdoors thanks to your influence. I still cherish the family you created. These summer break memories will always remind me of you Jay and warm my heart
May God Bless your family & feel your presence watching over them.
Very Respectfully, Kary
steve citron
November 7, 2021
I just discovered this terrible News. Jay was my partner on Police Dept for awhile as Community Relation Officers, a personal friend and godfather to my day, Shalon. I friendship is everlasting and I loved this fun loving, funny guy. I am broken over this.
Greg and Debbie York
August 23, 2021
You will be missed but never forgotten. Rest in peace dear Jay.
Floyd & Lynda Wittman
July 18, 2021
We were so sorry to hear about Jay. A wonderful man, always a great smile for everyone. So many adventures, so many memories.
Thoughts to you Sue and the Girls. See ya later Topper!
XOXO
Nancy Hennessey
July 14, 2021
So very sorry Sue, I can't imagine the sadness and loss you are feeling. My heart breaks for you, Jay was bigger than life, loved by many. Britton and Kim are in my thoughts too, they loved their dad so much. Our Christmas Even open house would not have been the same without you all. Laughing at the grandkids and sharing those special moments were the best. Memories are all we can leave and Jay left many.
John and Zola
July 13, 2021
Love Love Love you. So sorry to lose a wonderful friend. LOTS of fond memories! And fun times!
Jerry & Ann Kerr
July 13, 2021
Jay enjoyed life, family and friends more than anyone we've ever known! What a great example to the rest of us. We'll sure miss him.
Maryann Sullivan
July 12, 2021
Some of my very fondest memories will always be spending time with Jay, Sue and their many many friends. Jay, You changed the life for so many. You will be missed "Topper"
Save us a seat at your table where ever you are. Till we meet again.
Peter Deckers
July 11, 2021
My condolences to you Sue in the loss of the love of your life. I hope to be able to be a part of the celebration of his life this summer.
Carol Smith
July 11, 2021
I love you Uncle Topper!!!
Tanna & Bud Conger
July 11, 2021
Sue - we are so sorry to hear of the passing of Jay. Knowing him from his days with the Portland Police to reconnecting with him at Club Sport holds many memories. We would love to help celebrate his life and see you. Sending our love to you. Tanna
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