Jay Emerson Decker

1942 - 2021

Jay Emerson Decker obituary, 1942-2021, Portland, OR

Jay Emerson Decker

1942 - 2021

Jay Decker Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jul. 9 to Jul. 11, 2021.
Jay Emerson Decker
July 18, 1942 - June 28, 2021
Jay 'Topper' Decker passed away at his home, surrounded by family, June 28, 2021.
Jay was born July 18, 1942 in Mason City, Iowa. A lifelong Hawkeye, Jay attended University of Iowa from which he graduated in 1965 with a degree in psychology. This phase of Jay's life was also marked by one of his fondest experiences, serving as a smokejumper in the rugged and remote backcountry of Washington and Oregon. Jay completed his rookie year at the North Cascades Smokejumper Base in 1963, before serving for the following two years at the newly opened Redmond Smokejumper Base.
In 1966, Jay began his tenure with the Portland Police Department, working his way up to the rank of sergeant before leaving the department in 1987. During this time, he also attended Portland State University where he received a master's degree in psychology and later met his future wife, Sue. The next several decades were marked by a number of entrepreneurial endeavors including owning and operating a hot dog stand, upholstery business, security company, and medical equipment repair service alongside close friends until his retirement in 2010.
During each of these pursuits, Jay always found time for the things he loved most. He was an avid hunter, world traveler, motorcycle enthusiast, and lover of dogs. For his 60th birthday, he completed Cycle Oregon XV, which took him on a seven-day bike trip from the Snake River to the Pacific Ocean. For his 77th birthday, he took his family on a once-in-a-lifetime (or in his case twice) river rafting trip along the Rogue River. Through all of his adventures, Jay would be the first to say that some of his happiest moments were spent sitting in the sunshine in his own backyard, enjoying good food and drinks with his loved ones.
Jay is survived by his wife, Sue; daughters, Kim and Britton; sister, Cheri; and six grandchildren, David, Cole, Griffin, Isabel, Decker, and Chase.
There will be a celebration of life later this summer. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the National Smokejumper Association, The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society, Ducks Unlimited, or the Cycle Oregon Fund.
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March 4, 2024

Ric Sullivan posted to the memorial.

August 2, 2023

Bill Oertel posted to the memorial.

July 19, 2023

John Gordon posted to the memorial.

Ric Sullivan

March 4, 2024

Great Guy, Met him many times when working at the old Decker Sports store. RIP

Bill Oertel

August 2, 2023

I´m a little late, but please accept my condolences on Jay´s passing. If this Jay Decker was a Jay, Jr. with a grandfather nicknamed Dud who owned a sporting goods store in Mason City, he was also a pretty good DN iceboat sailor on Clear Lake. We broke several booms and a couple of masts from having them a little tighter than our dad´s would have allowed. But we were fast!!! I´m Bill Oertel and I remember building our DN´s in the basement of Decker´s Sports then trying to figure out how we could get them up the steep steps and out of the store. Anyway, another story from the past. Again, sorry to hear and reply so late, but kind of lost track of Jay after Mason City. Hope this story brings you all a smile. Later, Bill

John Gordon

July 19, 2023

Jay and I were rookie smokejumpers in 1963. Always happy and ready to go!

Jim Dunn

January 5, 2022

Jay, always Topper to me, & I were roommates 59 years ago. The smile I see in the picture of the two of you takes me back to that era & the same smile, especially when mischievous activities may have been on the horizon. RIP Jay

Dave Bruce

January 5, 2022

Topper was one of the all-time great, fun loving guys I knew at Iowa. Many memories at the PSI lodge. Best to his family . DB

Jay Cleveland

January 2, 2022

I have the distinct pleasure to be able to call Topper my friend. I attended the University of Iowa with Jay and spent many hours, skiing, hanging together and taking adventurous trips. Jay will always have a special spot in my heart. With his good humor fellowship he will always my very dear friend.
JC

Kary Schlick

December 24, 2021

I loved this man, father of my best childhood friend Britton & her beautiful older sister Kim. Such happy memories I have because of your welcoming heart, fun loving spirit, & being a fabulous father who made our summer visits from CA to OR dreamy. 50 years later I can still dive backwards & love to play outdoors thanks to your influence. I still cherish the family you created. These summer break memories will always remind me of you Jay and warm my heart
May God Bless your family & feel your presence watching over them.
Very Respectfully, Kary

steve citron

November 7, 2021

I just discovered this terrible News. Jay was my partner on Police Dept for awhile as Community Relation Officers, a personal friend and godfather to my day, Shalon. I friendship is everlasting and I loved this fun loving, funny guy. I am broken over this.

Greg and Debbie York

August 23, 2021

You will be missed but never forgotten. Rest in peace dear Jay.

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Kathy and Rich Sabel

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Floyd & Lynda Wittman

July 18, 2021

We were so sorry to hear about Jay. A wonderful man, always a great smile for everyone. So many adventures, so many memories.
Thoughts to you Sue and the Girls. See ya later Topper!
XOXO

Cluster of 50 Memorial Trees

Jenise Adams

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Nancy Hennessey

July 14, 2021

So very sorry Sue, I can't imagine the sadness and loss you are feeling. My heart breaks for you, Jay was bigger than life, loved by many. Britton and Kim are in my thoughts too, they loved their dad so much. Our Christmas Even open house would not have been the same without you all. Laughing at the grandkids and sharing those special moments were the best. Memories are all we can leave and Jay left many.

John and Zola

July 13, 2021

Love Love Love you. So sorry to lose a wonderful friend. LOTS of fond memories! And fun times!

Jerry & Ann Kerr

July 13, 2021

Jay enjoyed life, family and friends more than anyone we've ever known! What a great example to the rest of us. We'll sure miss him.

Maryann Sullivan

July 12, 2021

Some of my very fondest memories will always be spending time with Jay, Sue and their many many friends. Jay, You changed the life for so many. You will be missed "Topper"
Save us a seat at your table where ever you are. Till we meet again.

Peter Deckers

July 11, 2021

My condolences to you Sue in the loss of the love of your life. I hope to be able to be a part of the celebration of his life this summer.

Carol Smith

July 11, 2021

I love you Uncle Topper!!!

Tanna & Bud Conger

July 11, 2021

Sue - we are so sorry to hear of the passing of Jay. Knowing him from his days with the Portland Police to reconnecting with him at Club Sport holds many memories. We would love to help celebrate his life and see you. Sending our love to you. Tanna

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