Jay Allen Nelson

Jay Allen Nelson obituary, Lake Oswego, OR

Jay Allen Nelson

Jay Nelson Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 22, 2024.
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of our beloved Jay A. Nelson, who left us on January 20th. He was a loving husband, a devoted father, and grandfather. His presence will be deeply missed, but his memory will forever remain in our hearts.

Born in Alameda California on May 23rd 1948, Jay lived a life filled with love, compassion, and selflessness. He touched the lives of many through his kind and caring nature. His love knew no bounds, and he was always there for those in need, offering a helping hand and a listening ear. He had a remarkable ability to make others feel valued and loved, offering words of encouragement and support whenever they were needed. His kindness touched the lives of many and left an indelible mark on all who knew him.

As a husband, Jay was a pillar of strength and unwavering support. He cherished his marriage and shared a deep bond with his wife, Patrizia. He was a loving father to his daughter Renee, and a doting grandfather to his two grandkids, Taryn and Peter. He embraced every moment spent with them, creating cherished memories that will be treasured for generations to come.

Jay was first a star athlete with a basketball scholarship until a spleen injury cancelled that career. He found his way to Oregon State University and with a doctorate in Microbiology/Virology in 1980, began his amazing journey in science. A postdoctoral fellowship at the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center and a faculty position at the Scripps Clinic and Research Foundation, were highlighted with publications specializing in the molecular pathogenesis of herpesviruses, retroviruses, and flaviviruses. In 2001, he helped establish and lead the Vaccine and Gene Therapy Institute (VGTI) in Portland, Oregon. He delighted in the seminal observations that were made in his laboratory: the myeloid lineage cell that served as the reservoir for Human Cytomegalovirus (HCMV), the identification of viral microRNAs that regulate the cell's secretory pathway for virus assembly and result in immune regulation and reactivation of latent virus infection. His work with humanized mice as models for virus pathogenesis and the CMV as a vaccine vector was groundbreaking. Under his leadership, VGTI became of model of international and national collaboration in science. He was the Director of the Pacific Northwest Regional Center of Excellence (PNWRCE) in biodefense and emerging infectious diseases, a large consortium of investigators with extensive expertise and basic and translational research capacity directed at a broad range of NIAID category A-C priority pathogens. He was an editor for Journal of Virology and Associate editor of PLOS Pathogens.

In his free time, Jay enjoyed fly fishing, playing Cribbage, and travelling. These activities brought him joy and allowed him to express his creativity and adventurous spirit. He approached life with enthusiasm and zest for living, inspiring those around him to embrace each day as a gift.

May we find solace in the memories we shared with Jay, and may his spirit guide us as we continue our journey through life, carrying his love and compassion in our heart.

Forever Loved and Deeply missed.

Patrizia, Renee, Taryn and Peter

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February 9, 2024

Maria S Salvato posted to the memorial.

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January 31, 2024

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Maria S Salvato

February 9, 2024

I moved back to the US from Cambridge England to join Mike Oldstone's Lab in 1985. In my first week, Jay made me feel welcome by inviting me on a fishing trip organized by he and his mate Lindsay Whitton. As a senior member of the lab his research summaries and collegial relations with his peers were exemplary. I inherited his office when he got his faculty job at the Oregon Health and Science University, and he remained an excellent collaborator with my husband, Dave Pauza. His friendship and strong belief in a meritocracy was greatly appreciated over the years.

Ling Jin

February 5, 2024

He is a supportive colleague.

Michael Buchmeier

January 31, 2024

My first experience working with Jay was when we were both young faculty members at Scripps Research Institute in the mid 1980's. Jay had recently completed his postdoc training at the Hutch in Seattle, and I had been at Scripps for 9 years in 1985, and we hit it off well. I was amazed at how good he was on the Basketball court in the Noon games. Jay brought a new basketball skillset to the group and was a valued colleague. I kept up close contact with Jay after his move to Portland, and we shared the experience of the NIH Biodefense program and other shared interests. Jay was an incredible mentor to his people and to other trainees. Those whom he trained were successful. He will be missed by all us.

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Raquel A. Rodriguez

January 28, 2024

I first met Jay when OHSU was expanding the VGTI to Florida. As a lawyer, I helped OHSU through the process and continued to represent VGTI FLORIDA thereafter, with Jay as initial CEO and Scientific Director. Jay was one of the first people I met and we became fast friends.

It has been a joy to know Jay. As brilliant as he was, I will remember him most for his humility, kindness and compassion. When I faced a serious health issue years ago, Jay was there to listen and provide guidance and share his contacts. I still have the Immunology book he gave me.

My favorite memories of Jay are going with him and his beloved wife Patrizia to taste great wines and eat wonderful food in the Willamette Valley. I uploaded a photo of Jay and Patrizia on our visit to Archery Summit a dozen years ago. Whenever I drink a Willamette Pinot Noir, I will toast his memory.

My deepest condolences to Patrizia, Renee and all family and friends in this time of grief.

Rocky

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Raquel A. Rodriguez

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Raquel A. Rodriguez

January 28, 2024

I met Jay in 2008 as OHSU was working on expanding VGTI to Florida. I represented them through the process and beyond, with Jay as Scientific Director and CEO. We struck up an immediate friendship.

Knowing Jay has been a joy. His brilliance was exceeded only by his humility, kindness and humanity. He cared deeply for those he knew, and was always focused on doing the right thing.

My favorite memories of Jay are going with him and his beloved bride Patrizia to enjoy wines and a fine meal or two in the Willamette Valley. Here is a photo of Jay and Patrizia on our visit to Archery Summit a dozen years ago. Whenever I drink a glass of Willamette Pinot Noir, I will toast his life well lived.

Love and condolences to Patrizia, Renee and family.

Raquel Rodriguez

Lindsay Whitton

January 26, 2024

Way back when, as a junior faculty member at Scripps.,I got to know Jay well, and to like him even better. In 1989, my wife and I bought our first home in San Diego, and we were looking forward to move-in day. But a few days beforehand, my Dad (in Scotland) passed away, so I had to travel back there for a while. Jay immediately stepped in, and offered to help. So on move-in day, he was there, with other warm-hearted lab folks, and he basically did everything that I should have been doing. He was an excellent scientist but, more than that, he was a kind and decent man. My thoughts are with his family.

Dave Pauza

January 26, 2024

I met Jay in 1985 when he was working at Scripps and me at the Salk Institute. He was a tremendous help while I was starting research on HIV. Jay made several important discoveries about that virus, even as he became and remained a world expert in herpesviruses. Seems natural that a virologist would have an infectious personality, but Jay personified that description. He was indeed patient and helpful to many, but unrelenting in his commitment to scientific excellence and open exchange of information. He leaves behind an amazing record of achievement and a very sad group of friends who regret deeply the loss of this amazing person.

Hope Angel

January 25, 2024

I cherish countless wonderful memories of my time working alongside Jay at VGTI, evolving our working relationship into a genuine friendship with him and his wonderful wife, Patrizia. Jay possessed a heart of remarkable magnitude, particularly evident in his profound love for his cherished dogs. It was incredible to witness him seamlessly transition from discussing emerging viruses with unparalleled expertise to engaging in a spirited game of ball with Schatzi, and later, Studel, just outside our offices.

I can vividly picture him strolling in each morning from his parking spot, accompanied by his loyal companion. Jay, thank you for the laughter, unwavering support, the wealth of knowledge, and even the mentorship, despite my non-scientific background. Most importantly, thank you for generously sharing a piece of your heart. The impact of Jay's passing on his family and friends is deeply felt, and my heartfelt condolences go out to them, especially Patrizia. I consider myself fortunate to have had the privilege of knowing him.

Marco Vaccarone

January 25, 2024

Met Jay during some of his italian trips together with his beloved wife Patrizia. We spent very good time talking of basketball and life. I admired his empathy for all human beings as well as the true love and dedication to his life companion. I'll miss Jay's generous open heart and mind, my thought and prayers for Patrizia and Jay's family.

Amnon Altman

January 24, 2024

I fondly remember Jay from our times together at Scripps. While we were not close friends, I remember Jay as a kind, friendly and cheerful person who always had a smile on his face. So sorry to hear the sad news and offering my deepest condolences to his family.

Mac Brown

January 23, 2024

I´m so sorry for your loss. May he live in your hearts forever.

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