Kathleen Howe Obituary
A native of Maryland, she lived in Gaithersburg before moving to Newport News in 2008. After graduating from Maryland University, Kathleen worked as a Senior Grants Management Specialist for the National Institutes of Health in Bethesda, Md. She was a kind and gentle person, who had a positive outlook and found good in everyone. She will be missed not only by her family, but also by her many close friends, who gave her strength and encouragement during her illness.
She leaves behind to cherish her memories her parents, Marie and John Howe, who reside at The Mennowood; sister, Sylvia Berry and nephew, Hank Berry of Newport News; brother, John Howe Jr.; sister-in-law, Patricia; niece, Julia; nephew, Jake of Tucson, Ariz.; and an aunt, Margaret Aspell, who resides at The Hidenwood in Newport News.
At the request of her family, memorial services will be private.
Peninsula Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.
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Paul Hnarakis
June 19, 2024
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Dianna Jessee
May 13, 2021
Wow, was just thinking about Kathleen the other day! Kathleen was one of my favorites while working with her at the National Institutes of Health. She was the kindest and most thoughtful in so many ways. She was a very conscientious worker and she was meticulous to the finest of details. I learned so much from her. She was definitely a part of the good old days. Wish she was here to reminisce. Truly loved her! Thank you for this opportunity.
Mary Ellen Michel
June 2, 2009
To Kathleen and her family,
I never saw Kathleen sad or depressed, through tough times at work and in her life, she was always a sunny, vibrant person. We talked about cats, and shared cartoons and cards through email and in person. She will live in my memories as a smiling, brave, caring, and wonderful person.
George Tucker
May 28, 2009
To Kathleen,
A wonderful and thoughful person. It took my breath away to hear of your passing. You will always be in my thoughts. I will cherish our friendship as long as I have life. You cared and it was noticed. You alway have such kind words for everyone. You will surely be missed.
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Margye Solomon
May 27, 2009
May 27, 2009
Mr. & Mrs. Howe, John & Sylvia,
I received John's email last week. It has taken me this long to respond, maybe because I needed time to process the news. Kathleen was my "older sister". She invited me into your family when I was only 19 years old. She "loaned" me her parents when mine were so far away, took care of me when I was sick, and, took me into her home.
Kathleen and I talked on the phone soon after her diagnosis for a couple of hours. We laughed and cried and reminisced. I heard about the entire family just as if we were having a family reunion of sorts.
I will miss my friend, my sister.
Margye Reeves Solomon
Dwight Mowery
May 26, 2009
To Family & Friends of Kathleen,
Kathleen was one of the sweatest people I have met. I will remember her fondly from my days at the NINDS. She will be missed by all who knew her. My deepest sympathies to family and friends.
Dwight Mowery
Patty Howe
May 23, 2009
Dearest Kathy,
I can't believe I will never talk to you again. I always enjoyed calling you and talking about what ever popped into our heads! You were a very special person and I really miss you! The kids are very excited to take over the care of your cats. They have it all planned out who is going to bond with who. You were always great with animals. You were right about Sylvia getting Tassey. They adore each other and they have you to thank for that. Thank you for being such a great sister n' law. I love you and will miss you very much!
Patty
Jake Howe
May 23, 2009
Dear Aunt Kathy,
You were one of the nicest people on earth. I was very lucky to have you as my Aunt and Godmother. I miss and love you more than the toungue can tell. Molly and Oliver will be here on Monday 5/25/09. I can't wait to have them join our family! I will miss you always, Love Jake
Julia Howe
May 23, 2009
Dear Aunt Kathy,
I have always looked up to you and you were a great inspiration to everyone I know. I promise to take care of your beloved cat Oliver. I will miss you very much.
Love, Julia Howe (neice)
Margaret and George Mumford
May 20, 2009
Dear Sylvia and Hank,
Our deepest sympathies on the loss of your Sister and Aunt. We will keep you in our prayers. Miss you both a lot.
Marion Shackford
May 20, 2009
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Howe,
I was so saddened to hear about the loss of your daughter. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Marion Shackford
Executive Director
Mennowood Retirement Community
Dianna Jessee
May 20, 2009
Dearest Kathleen—You were an inspiration to us all. Among your many positive qualities, you taught us most how to be kind, gentle and giving to all of mankind…the greatest asset of all. I am a better human being because of you. Many thanks dear friend…rest peacefully. Love, Dianna Jessee
Sheila Simmons
May 20, 2009
Kathleen is with our Heavenly Father now and no longer suffering. She is in a better place than most. I worked with Kathleen at the NIH for a number of years. May God Bless the family during this time of bereavement.
(Ken) King P Bond Jr
May 20, 2009
Kathleen will always be one of my fond memories here at the NIH. Kathleen and I worked together for years and I also had the opportunity to serve as her Section Chief. She was one of the kindest and compassionate people you could ever know. Always willing to give a helping hand and lend a leaning ear. She will definitely be missed me. I use to kid her about her New York flair, she never lost that. My sympathy goes out to the family. Ken Bond
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