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June 16, 2010
Cousin Chuck, Pam and family,
So sorry for your loss. I only knew Jeff through mom (Edie) and the other aunts and uncles. My prayers have always been there thru-out his struggles and his many joys in life. God's Blessings and my prayers are being sent your way for happy remembrances to keep Jeff near in your hearts
lovingly, cousin Pat (Gnahn) Wallrich
June 14, 2010
Dear Chuck, Pam and family,
Ward and I send our deepest regrets and sympathy for your loss. No words can console your grief and heartbreak over Jeff's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers and I'm sure Jeff is at peace now in God's arms.
With love, Marlene and Ward
kenneth leaf
June 10, 2010
My deepest sympathy to the Fuhrmann family.
I learned of Jeffs' passing just a few days ago. I have since had time to remember Jeff and the fantastic person He was. I am at a bit of a loss for words at the moment, but I will remember jeff as a very courageous guy with a great sense of humor. may He rest in peace!!
Kenny Leaf (sf, ca.)
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Donna Smith-Bednar
June 8, 2010
To the Fuhrman family I am soo sorry to hear about Jeff -- We lived in Chanhassen Jeff and I went to School together ins Chaska -- I would pick him up on the way to school ( only becasuse I had a car and drivers licence and he didn't want to ride the bus -- he will be missed -- Donna Smith(Bednar) Chaska Hight School Class of 1981
Shirley Valentine VanDenheuvel
June 5, 2010
Charles, Pam, Jennifer and Judd,
I am so glad I got to be a part of Jeff's send off. He was loved by so many people. He will be missed by all who knew him. Perhaps stars in the sky are openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy. God Bless you all.
Love, Shirley
Norm and Joan Undahl
June 5, 2010
Dear Friends, We are sending our thoughts and prayers to you. We are so glad that we were part of Jeff's first trips to Lake of the Woods. He found Heaven on Earth....now he is at peace.
Gary & Linda Rubey
June 5, 2010
Judd, sorry to hear about your brother, Jeff. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
June 5, 2010
Judd and Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you thru this time.
Kathy and Steve Olson
Jim and Karen Flattum
June 5, 2010
Dear Charles, Pam, Jennifer and Judd-
We are deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Jeff and are so sorry for your loss. I was fortunate to know Jeff for many years and to have him and all of you as part of my family. Jeff was one of my dearest friends and in many ways like a big brother to me as he was someone that I admired, respected and loved. We had so many good times as friends, room-mates and family. I will never forget his sparkling eyes, infectious laugh and love and zest for life. There are so many memories, too many to count, and Karen and I have and will often refer to the times we spent with our "little Freddy". We are so sorry to lose such a wonderful person and our hearts go out to you during this very difficult time. Please know that Jeff made a lasting impression on the lives he touched and that he will be deeply missed by so many. Love, Jim and Karen
Dana Rand
June 5, 2010
Jen, Pam, Chuck & Judd,
I was lucky enough to have Jeff as my first love. He was kind, protective & incredibly warm & sweet. He will be in my heart forever. I remember his blue eyes, that swagger & those intense hugs (Jen & I used to laugh that his hugs gave us bruises). It’s nice to hear that over the years, Jeff didn’t lose his humor, kindness or love of life. I can’t express the sadness I feel & the joy of all my memories of Jeff & the Fuhrmann family. I’m so sorry for your loss & I will miss Jeff forever.
Karen & Ed Ford
June 4, 2010
To Jeff's family & friends,
I was so sad to hear that Jeff is gone now. But I know he no longer has to struggle with his health issues and every day is a good day now. I mostly saw Jeff in the hospital where I worked, but I realize that it was never where he wanted to be. He wanted to be outdoors, enjoying life. God bless you in your sorrow.
Tony Workman
June 4, 2010
My Sympathy goes out to Judd, the Fuhrmann family, and all of his friends. I met Jeff through Jerry Gooley and was invited to the BFI fishing trip a couple of times. The one year that I fished with Jeff in his boat, I have never had as much fun fishing and laughing as I did that day. He had a smile and unforgettable laugh that I will always remember. Jeff has just gone ahead of us all to scout out the best fishing spots in Heaven. With great memories and Love.....
Stacy Wright/Carlson
June 4, 2010
Jeff and I grew up in the same great neighborhood and attended both Burwell and North Junior High together. He was just one of those amazing people that one is lucky enough to have grown up with and called a friend. I have so many memories of Jeff...His incredible good looks, terrific personality and wow what an athlete! Everyone wanted to be his friend and for good reason. I know, along with several others from the neighborhood are all so proud to have called him our friend and even though all our lives have gone in different directions the friendship and bond we had was very strong. Jeff will always be in our hearts and greatly missed. My deepest sympathy to his family and to all who loved him.
Scott Henry
June 4, 2010
To The Fuhrmann Family, I am so sorry for the passing of Jeff, What a true friend he was. And even though some yrs had passed between us we reconnected a few yrs ago and how happy I am. Jeff was alway there with a huge smile and his infactious laugh that made everyone smile. I can remember countless times laughing with tears in my eyes with him, I will never forget the Old Orange Sabb he had, he had called me at home and said he would cruz over to pick me, and that he did drove over picked me up and I jumped in his car and said what the heck is that.....he was the first guy with a car phone...kinda it was a old black handset from a house phone, he would drive around and pretend he was talking on the phone, I said WHAT THE, Oh ya Scotty chicks dig it, That was Jeff & off we went to cruz Hopkins. I will deeply miss him, And with Huge Regret I am unable to attend the service on Sat, My Very Best to you all, Kindest Regards, Scott
Bruce & Susie Carstens
June 4, 2010
To The Fuhrman family:
When Susie Carstens (Roger and Annie’s daughter) and I got together 37 years ago is when I met Jeff ( and many of the Stanton drive families) through my brother-in-law and one of Jeff's great friends Todd Johnson. Although we had not seen Jeff in quite awhile Todd and Annie kept us informed of what Jeff was up to. He accomplished many of his dreams through hard work and tenacity all while never complaining of his health issues. The blue eyes, the smiles and his ability to find the good in each and every person he met is an attribute to how he was raised by wonderful loving parents and his relationship with his siblings. When our daughter was born, Todd and Jeff were our standing Friday night baby sitters. The two of them slept over many times, as of course they were sound asleep when we came home. We never worried if she was in good hands with those two. Jeff’s love for life is an inspiration to many who have been afflicted with a chronic disease such as type 1 diabetes. Our own daughter was diagnosed with it 12 years ago. We understand his struggles and will always be inspired by his inner strength.
We are both better people for knowing Jeff. We pray that the hurt you feel today is softened by the notes and messages from his many friends over time. The Lord decided he needed more fishers of men in heaven, he is lucky to have him on his team.
God Bless,
Bruce and Susie Carstens
Todd Johnson
June 4, 2010
Dear Pam, Charles, Jennifer and Judd
Jeff has been a friend since we were five years old. I have never known anyone with so many natural gifts. Jeff and I played nearly every sport that was offered when we were growing up. Jeff was always the best overall player on the team as well as a great leader. Jeff taught me to enjoy today. Every night before my children go to bed I tell him a story of when I was a little kid I always mention the names of the kids we grew up with, recently my two-year-old son Teddy started asking for specific stories about Jeff I guess that's because Jeff was in so many stories he liked to hear. I hope my children have a friend like Jeff in their life. I can speak for the entire Johnson family we will all miss Jeff.
Love Todd
Matt Rand
June 4, 2010
Dear Fuhrmann Family,
I'm so sad to hear the news about Jeff. From the minute he arrived at Chaska High School we all knew he was a cool kid and would be liked by all. I have many fond memories of hanging out with Jeff. Concerts, grouse hunting in the old black truck, soccer as seniors when we were all learning this new game, and just trying to figure out what it meant to be a young man instead of a boy.
I'll never forget coming home from college and my Mother telling me my younger sister had a new boyfriend. It was Jeff. As the overly protective older brother I have to say I wasn't too happy to hear this. I shouldn't have been that surprised as all the girls always loved Jeff. Eventually Jeff shifted from "high school buddy" to "sister's boyfriend" which was a little strange at times. Of course he was still the same Jeff. Always smiling, laughing, having fun, and sharing his latest adventure with us.
The last time I bumped into Jeff it was at the Sportsman's Show a few years ago. He was with Chuck and Judd and I was with my Dad and my two boys. We had a great visit and again he was smiling, laughing, and telling us some great fishing stories. His life was far too short but clearly it was a life well lived. My family's thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Flip Seifert
June 4, 2010
Chuck, Pam, Judd and Jennie
I am so sorry for your loss. Jeff was one that could light up a room with his presence. He was also one to fill up a boat with laughter and the fish. As you know, I have know Jeff my entire life. Jeff was like a second older brother who then became a dear friend. He taught me to appreciate a day on the water and time in the woods. I have had my best days of fishin with Jeff (even on the days we didn't catch anything). These memories will not be forgotten. We will all miss him greatly. My deepest condolences to the Fuhrmanns and all the people Jeffery touched.
I will miss you friend....
Susan (Bohn) Dahm
June 3, 2010
June 03, 2010
Dear Fuhrmann Family,
You probably don't remember me but I met Jeff in 1985. We became friends and roommates living in South Mpls on Dupont Ave, Lake & James and when we were at SCSU. He was the funniest and most handsome man I have ever met. After one of our camping trips to the Boundry Waters, Jeff gave me a beautiful framed photo of the two of us. We both looked so young and happy. He was such a thoughtful man. Regretfully, we lost touch but I have thought about him so often. It sounds like Jeff continued to be as amazing I remembered. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Cheryl Stanton
June 3, 2010
Jeff was my first true love. He set the bar high. Too many great memories to recount. I was thinking of him the moment I received word of his death -- Jeff had a funny sense of humor that way. The kindest boyfriend I girl could have and a wonderful family. My prayers are with you Fuhrmanns. Jeff is free at last and no doubt smiling down on you with those twinkling eyes.
Ray and Pat Tuholski
June 3, 2010
Dear Pam,Chuck,Jennie,and Judd,
We are so very sorry to hear of your great loss. We are sending our love, prayers,thoughts,and our deepest sympathy to you all.
Fondly,Ray and Pat
J.P. Seifert
June 3, 2010
Dear Pam, Chuck, Judd & Jennifer,
As you know, Jeff and I have been friends for nearly 40 years. We met in third grade at Burwell Elementary School.
Anyone who knew Jeff well, discovered a guy with a heart of gold who was thoughtful, kind and generous. What's more, Jeff was my pillar of strength and led by example. He taught me that it's important to drink life in, and to be present every moment. He really was a young man to have so fully comprehended and incorporated this lesson into his own life.
I will always think of Jeff as my best friend and brother. Tears have been shed, and I imagine many more will come. I am praying we all will be comforted.
Peter Reis
June 3, 2010
Jeff was a lion of a guy...smart, funny
and a gifted athlete. He was one of the fastest runners at Burwell for sure. I remember many laughs together as we worked our way through grade school and tried to figure out life.
My condolences to Jeff's family and
loved ones...I know he will be missed
immensely.
Peter Reis
Susan Hanna Struck
June 3, 2010
Pam, Chuck, Jennie and Judd,
My sincerest sympathies to all of you. When Jeff started school at Chaska High, he swaggered in on his first day wearing cool jeans, clogs and a hip, blue surgical scrub shirt, sparkling blue eyes, that dimpled chin and that strong jaw...uff-da...The girls were swooning! Then we got to know him and realized that his wicked-good sense of humor, adventurous spirit and sweet sincerity made him beautiful inside, too. All of us Chan kids hung out at Lake Ann together, went to concerts, and Jeff was part of our group if he wasn't on a road trip somewhere, or skiing in Colorado or fishing in Alaska. When we went to our Jr. Prom, Jeff and his date doubled with me and my date. On the ride home afterward, my date and I were in a car accident and Jeff was first on the scene, helping us stay calm and then driving us all back to your place for breakfast. We didn't talk much, but Jeff manned-up and calmly told you what had just happened. I always felt safe when Jeff was around. Every time we'd see each other, before we'd even say Hi, I'd say to him, "Be careful what you wish for..", and he'd say, "For you will SURELY get it, my dear!", and we'd laugh..so, Jeff, I wish your family and friends strength, health, happiness, wonderful memories and laughter for all the days of their lives - You've certainly inspired me, and for that I'm forever grateful to you.
All my love,
June 2, 2010
Dearest Family: How very sorry we are to learn of your loss. What wonderful tributes appear on this website. Jeff was indeed a special person-just like both of his parents. Sending our love, thoughts, prayers, and deepest sympathy to your entire family. Most sincerely, Charles and Patti Swanson. (Hallock, MN)
Kristy (Stevens) Wiley
June 2, 2010
Chuck, Pam, Jeni, and Judd ("Bink"),
It's been such a long time since I've seen all of you. My parents have given me updates over the years. I was so saddened to hear the news. My 10-year old daughter was recently diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes, so we are finding out what a challenging thing it can be to manage.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sarah Noma
June 2, 2010
I had the privilege of working with Jeff as a Minneapolis teacher. He was a wonderful co-worker. One of my favorite memories of Jeff is that he would walk past my classroom every morning and serenade me with a silly song. He will be missed by all who knew him.
Lynn Schwartz
June 2, 2010
To The Fuhrmann Family, my condolences go out to you. Jeff was a part of our family for many years. Having gone through my own family losses my heart goes out to you. Prayers to you all.
Lynn Schwartz
Patty Thon/Ewalt
June 2, 2010
Jeff was such a sincere person he will be missed by everyone he knew. Thoughts and prayers to family and friends.
Marie Medvec
June 2, 2010
I worked on Jeff's team at Lyndale School. He was the best company at our early morning coffee gatherings. We always started the day laughing when he was around. I am sorry for your loss! I hope your wonderful memories and his great spirit will leave you with peace. He was so brave.
Kimberly Seifert Breen
June 2, 2010
Dearest Fuhrmann Family,
I shall never forget Jeff's piercing, brilliant, blue eyes! They were legendary and movie star quality. Naturally, he had the personality and presence to match. He was such a bright and funny guy; on numerous occasions he joined my brother JP in verbally and mercilessly teasing me...with incredible humor and timing. I remember "laughing my head off" with the Jeff & JP duo.
I am sending my thoughts and prayers to you all. I am especially praying that you will be comforted during this period of tremendous loss. He will be missed by us all.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Kimberly
Trinia and Tim Griffith
June 2, 2010
Pam, Chuck, and Judd: Tim and I are very blessed to know you and Jeff. I remember Lake of the Woods like it was yesterday, yet it'll be ten years in August. Jeff was kind enough to bring us North and never once did he complain about his health. We will miss Jeff and hope that you cherish the times you had together. Thank you for letting us be a part of them. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Lynn Orinstien/Johnson
June 2, 2010
Jeff will be greatly missed by all of us from the old neighborhood. We all had so much in those carefree days of our youth. Skateboarding,the tree fort,ball games and night games and hockey...so many memories. So happy we took the time to have our own little neighborhood reunion and catch up a few years back. Never dreamed it would be the last time we'd see him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and all those who loved him.
Mark Susz
June 2, 2010
I had the pleasure to fish with Jeff awhile back, what an angler....I know he will be catching and releasing above. My deepest condolences to the entire Fuhrmann Family
Jon Ragnow
June 2, 2010
Charles, Pam and family
I am so sorry for your loss and for all that knew Jeff. Although we had not stayed in touch on a regular basis some of my foundest memories and adventures were with Jeff growing up. My trip out west with Jeff in the old old pick up was a highlight that I often think back on.
Lois Warlick-Jarvie
June 2, 2010
To Chuck and Pam,
I was so sorry to hear of about the loss of your son, and have been thinking about you constantly. You have my deepest sympathy and you are in my prayers.
June 2, 2010
There are very few people I explicitly remember the first time I met them. I do remember the first time I met Jeff, it was a summer day over forty years ago in front of what was to be the Fuhrmann home on the most memorable Stanton Drive. Strange kid I thought, all he wants to do is bounce that super ball! Needless to say Jeff did became a friend for life. Although our lives went different directions we always made the time to keep in touch. I will always cherish the memories of sneaking off to go fishing just before a baseball game and of mowing the Fuhrmann lawn with mowers at different heights so we could go play. Pam, Charles, Jennifer and Judd, my thoughts and prayers are with you, I will miss Jeff immensely.
Steve Swanson
Second Place, 1999 BFI
Debra Kellerman
June 2, 2010
Jeff was one of the first guides we met when we moved to the Angle in 1995 when we purchased Angle Inn Lodge on Oak Island. Through him we met his parents, sister and brother. Although he moved from the area many years ago, he always came back to visit and/or take part in our chicken buffet on Saturday nights. Always good to see him, catch up with him and his teaching career, his latest "big" fish stories, and his enthusiasm for the area. Never one to dwell on his health issues, he embraced life, lived it to the fullest, thrilled in introducing youth and friends to fishing at the Angle, and was a good friend to many. Our condolences to the Fuhrmann family as they grieve their loss.
Paul Simonette
June 2, 2010
I had not seen Jeff for over 20 years and a year ago he moved near me and we got together. In the last year we hit it off and bonded. We packed a lot of things into a year.
Took him his parents house on lake of the woods,Wild game, Twins game,My girls Gymnastics meet, His cabin on Strawberry lake,Movie Theater, Corvette country rides,snomobiling etc. etc On his last day we Planted a garden and planned to go fishing in the a.m. His last day was a good one.
He didn't make it fishing. The lord had other plans. But he was there 'cause we caught the heck out of 'em....
Paul
Rhonda Raleigh
June 2, 2010
Jeff's spirit and drive were an inspiration to many. He was a wonderful and caring man. The students he taught were blessed to have had him as a teacher, and the rest of us were blessed to have had him in our lives. Wherever we go we will always think of Jeff and know he is off fishing somewhere. All my love to the Fuhrmann family.
Jeff Hickenbottom
June 2, 2010
Jeff Fuhrmann was a very good friend of mine, we slept over at each others houses back in the second or third grade. He was the first person I knew that had diabetes and I always thought he was so tough because he had to have a shot every day. I have very fond memories of Jeff. We were great friends back at Burwell Elementary School. May you rest in peace Jeff
Carol Brekken
June 2, 2010
My sincere sympathy to Jeff's whole family.He was a great teacher at Lyndale.He was encouraging to all of his students to always do their best work through the years.
Jeff's smile and sense of humor will be missed by all who knew him.
Praying for comfort during this time.
Carol Brekken
Andrew Groskreutz
June 2, 2010
My deepest condolences to the Fuhrmann family.
Patti Radermacher
June 2, 2010
I was hoping to see Jeff again at our high school friend Natalie Nelson's sons graduation this month. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends.
Patti
Jen Kuhnley
June 2, 2010
I had the pleasure of caring for Jeff while he was on dialysis a few years ago. He was such a kind and caring person. I am so sorry for your loss.
Jen
DaVita Dialysis
Chris Sarkinen
June 2, 2010
What a wonderful and kind hearted man. I met Jeff when I was student teachinng in Minneapolis. He aunt Kari was my supervising teacher. We struck up a fishing conversation and eighteen years later we are still buds. I am proud to call him friend. Jeff faught hard to live each day. In spite of illness, he took on a beautiful home that needed TLC and a puppy at the same time. What some thought was taking on too much, Jeff plowed through. He called it living. Jeff has left his mark on so many of us.
I'll miss him so <
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