Jeffrey Toney obituary, 1965-2019, Shrewsbury, MA

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Jeffrey Toney

1965 - 2019

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September 8, 2019

I'm so shocked to just be learning of Jeff's passing. We were co-workers and friends in the 90's. He came to our house many times and had Thanksgiving with us one year. I even pierced his ear one time, he'd never let me live that story down! I moved away to Boston and then to NYC and we lost touch for a while, but FB connected us briefly. What a beautiful, gentle, giving, funny man. I'm so deeply saddened by this news. May he rest in peace...only the good die young.
Kim Jackson

Charles Brace

April 16, 2019

There are few people you come across in your lifetime that mark you in ways that you will always remember. Jeffrey Toney was one of these personalities. In the time that I knew him, he was always a professional, he had the strength and conviction of a lion matched only by his caring heart. He loved to laugh and took the time to see the good in people and offer help where others might walk away, in short he cared. I could work another 28 years and still not be a tenth of what he was to so many... The world had gotten a lot smaller without you Jeffrey, but I know for certain, heaven has gotten a new soul and rejoices in your welcoming home. Rest well...

Carole Baldwin

April 16, 2019

He was one of our adopted sons, as our son , Jeff Baldwin's best friends while living in Worcester. Such a gentle giant. Rest well, "son". Harry and Carole Baldwin

Candace Sutherland

April 15, 2019

In loving memory of a wonderful person. Sorry for your loss.

Stephanie Johnson

April 15, 2019

A wonderful cousin and thinking of the family, wishing everyone hope in the midst of sorrow, comfort in the midst of pain from the windy city.

Jimmy Cozzolino

April 14, 2019

To Jeff's Family,
I went High School with Jeff,he was truly a great person,and will be missed by everyone that was fortunate enough to have met him,he would always go out of his way to say hello with his big smile.R.I.P. My Friend

Frank & Karen Watkins

April 14, 2019

Our deepest condolences may loving memories bring you peace, comfort, and strength.

Hazel

April 14, 2019

There are no Words that could be said to understand or ease ones pain in the loss of a love one.
To the Jeff Toney Family just a few words to Comfort you as you Mourn the loss or the separation from Jeff at this time.
In death we know there is certainly the very real pain and sorrow of physical separation. But it is equally true that our loved ones remain with us. They do not go off to some dark and distant place. They simple continue into eternal life. We do not see them because we are still in the darkness of this world. But their spiritual eyes, filled with light from heaven, are always aware of us as they wait for the day when we shall share their perfect joy in heaven .
Jeff and all of us were born for Heaven and we end this life of tears to begin our life of endless happiness. May these words help you through this sad and sorrow time and give you the strength of hope and peace.
I will miss Jeff dearly for whenever I walked through the doors at the Worcester Police Department and was greeted by Jeff it was always my Teddy bear hug and he would just lift me off the ground and squeeze so hard before letting go. He was genuine.
May Jeff forever Rest in peace.
God's Blessings

Hazel

Shannon and Justin Krivi

April 14, 2019

A great man and friend with a huge heart and smile! He will forever be missed. Our thoughts and prayers to the Toney and Reed family.

Patricia Price

April 14, 2019

Our condolences and prayers are with you during your time of need.
Wendell and Patricia Price

Jo-Ann & Peter Medeiros

April 14, 2019

We are so sorry to hear of Jeffrey's passing , our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Bret and Jacqui LaFrance

April 14, 2019

All the best to Jefferys family, Crystal, Erin, Brad and all of Jeffs many good friends today. Jacqui and I are sharing happy Big Toe stories this morning and will have a moment of silence in remembrance for him here in DC. He touched us with his kindness, he was a good, good man.

Respectfully

Jacqui and Bret LaFrance

Peaceful Passage Arrangement

a loved one

Sent Flowers

Don & Louise Gould

April 13, 2019

Sorry we cant be there but please know that you are in our prayers

Nancy D'Agostino

April 12, 2019

Dearest Nellie and family, I am so sorry for the loss of your son Jeff.
My son Rick wanted me to tell you that he has such great memories of Lincoln Village and so many fishing trips with him and Richard Slovick, he said that he was a great friend always smiling, so easy to talk to.
You will be in my prayers always, God will help you and your family thru this journey.
Your friend Nancy D'Agostino

38 years a friend: Forever an angel.

Lori Carter

April 12, 2019

Joanne Foty

April 12, 2019

Sending thoughts & prayers to the family. I have many GREAT memories of Jeff from our school days.
So sorry for your loss.....

Sharon Hazard-Johnson

April 12, 2019

My Cousin Jeffrey... A man who has served! So sorry to hear of your leaving. Way too soon. Sending Prayers that God will Bless and rest your Spirit and give your family strength through fond memories of you. God Bless You Cousin!

Jeff <br />I will always miss that smile and your great hugs!<br />RIP<br />My Friend.

Stephanie Charron

April 12, 2019

Darlene Guinette

April 11, 2019

Nellie and Family: so sorry for your loss, so so hard, you are in our Thoughts and Prayers forever. Love Always Jacki Guinette and Family...

"Jeffrina"

April 11, 2019

Bri & Jarrod Stiles

April 11, 2019

"A giant of a man with a personality to match; He had a soft heart and a broad smile." This is how we knew Jeff and how we'll always remember him. I'll never forget about the times we joked about naming our baby Jeffrina. Or how every friendly embrace swept me off my feet (literally). We have many, many fond memories and inside jokes to cherish. Gosh he'll be missed. Our deepest condolences to the entire Toney and Reed family and their closest friends.

Sharon B

April 11, 2019

Dear Nellie & Family, My heart is filled with sadness at your loss of Jeff; please know that loving thoughts are with you. We never lose the people we love, even to death; they continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. Hold tight to your memories of Jeff and may his love and strength always be with you.

I worked with Nellie at UMass for many years.

Jim and Donna Polechronis

April 11, 2019

Crystal and the Toney family,
We were saddened to hear of Jeff's passing. Had the pleasure of playing golf with Jeff in the Northboro league. Always a gentleman and a pleasant person. May his memory be forever eternal.

Jim and Donna Polechronis

April 11, 2019

Crystal and the Toney family,
We were saddened to hear of Jeff's passing. Had the pleasure of playing golf with Jeff in the Nortboro league. Always a gentleman and a pleasant person. May his memory be forever eternal.

Paul Ford

April 10, 2019

Nellie although I can't find the words to say how sad I am with the death of Jeffery, you and the kids know how much I love you all.

Uncle Pete.

Donna Ruel

April 10, 2019

Deepest condolences ,I was so sad to hear about Jeff I've known him for about 25 years and never saw him without that huge smile .Such a great guy..Thoughts and prayers to all.

Vanessa Jones

April 10, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Nancy Steuterman

April 10, 2019

Nellie - I have no words my friend--you are in my heart. Love Nancy, Paul, Patrick and Brian

Santa Jeff

WPD

April 10, 2019

Happy Birthday Jeff!

WPD

April 10, 2019

Chris Cashman

April 10, 2019

Five days of staring at a screen not knowing what to write about someone known for more than half my life. Although we lost touch for a while, Jeff made a decade seem like a day. I consider it a privilege to have known Jeff and have spent some time in his world.

To Crystal, and the Toney family, I cannot begin to express my condolences enough.

You will be deeply missed my brother, by me and the entire Cashman family.

April 10, 2019

To all the friends and family of Jeff, My deepest sympathy. He was a big man with a personality to match, with that genuine smile! He will be sorely missed.

RIP, Jeff. We appreciate all your service.

Carrie Bombard

Beth Porcaro Grady

April 10, 2019

Dearest Nellie and Family:

I was so sorry to hear of Jeffrey's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Beth Porcaro Grady

Lisa Sullivan

April 10, 2019

Jeff you will be missed. Loved working out and seeing you at the gym. A heart of gold and always an Angel watching over others. You have large wings and now can watch over us all. With a heavy heart you are a dear friend I will miss.

Gladys RODRIGUEZ-PARKER

April 10, 2019

Thank you for your service, job well done albeit gone home too soon. Rest in Peace now!

Brown Eagle/Big Toe

Service Division

April 10, 2019

Ann St. Onge

April 10, 2019

To the Friends and Family of Jeff,
My deepest sympathy for your loss. Our trips to Washington will never be the same.
Rest In Peace my brother.
Ann E. St. Onge
(WPD Ret)

Tonya Smith Byrd

April 9, 2019

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Carol Pearson-LaCour

April 9, 2019

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. Peace Be with You

Paul Orczyk

April 9, 2019

Jeff was a very special person and was loved and respected by all who knew him. My sincerest condolences to Jeff's family. I'm at a loss for the right words; Jeff, you were much too young brother, you were one of the finest to wear the badge of the Worcester Police Department and your presence will be sorely missed. The definition of a true gentleman.

Retired Sergeant P. Orczyk

Robin Tucker

April 9, 2019

To the family, Jeffery, will always hold a special place in my heart. His warm smile and his big bear hugs will be forever missed. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Love & Blessings,
Robin Tucker & Family

Jacqueline and Delroy Harris

April 9, 2019

Nellie and Charlie, May the memories of Jeffery comfort you and your family during this time of tremendous grief. We love you.

Heartfelt Condolences Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

David J. Anderson, Jr

Sent Flowers

Sherri Sweet-Chabre

April 9, 2019

My sincere condolences to the Toney family!

Joe and Wanda DePasquale

April 9, 2019

Dear Nellie, our deepest sympathy to you and your family for the loss of your son. Please know that you are in our thoughts, prayers, and in our hearts during this very sad time.

Dell & Martha Oliver

April 9, 2019

Dear Nellie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Deepest sympathy

Rose monteiro

April 9, 2019

To Nellie and the Toney family .Our deepest and sincere condolences for Jeff.He was such a sweet and friendly guy.Always a smile and a hug when we saw him....May he R I P ..You will all be in our thoughts and prayers... Tony and Rose Monteiro

BEVERLY Ann Spring

April 9, 2019

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Anthony Petrone

April 9, 2019

To the Toney family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Jeff was a such a good warm hearted, soft spoken man. As many of my brother & sisters have stated, Jeff was a gentle giant who's presences lit up the room. He was a true professional who loved his job and those he worked with.

We know through our faith we all will be united one day, so may our lord Jesus bless all you during these difficult times. Rest easy brother .

Cecile Lewis

April 9, 2019

Nellie and family,

My deepest sympathies and prayers to all of you during this difficult time. May God watch over each of you and help you through your healing process. Thank you to your son for serving on the Worcester Police Department. His call has ended!

With prayers and sympathy,

Cecile Lewis
(previously worked at UMass for many years)

Kristen R

April 9, 2019

My condolences to the family and thank you for your service, sir.

Linda Doherty

April 9, 2019

Dear Nellie...what words can be said to ease the deep sorrow and heartache that a Mom suffers at the loss of a child?

Your Jeff appears to have left his mark on his life's work - you must be so proud of the legacy he leaves behind.

Please know that you are very much in my thoughts at this tragic time.

Your former colleague at UMass.

April 8, 2019

To The Toney Family,
Our Condolences to your family for the loss of Jeffrey Toney...

May he RIP
The Bonczyk Family.

Leo Collard

April 8, 2019

My deepest condolences to Crystal and her family and all of the Toney family. Jeff was a gentle giant. Always with a smile, a handshake, a hug, a friendly hello. May Jeff always live on and never be forgotten by all those he touched in this world. He will be greatly missed.

Joseph Palermo

April 8, 2019

Dear Nellie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Deepest sympathy
Joe Palermo

Priscilla Pettway

April 8, 2019

Nellie and Family,

May I send my deepest sympathy at this time and say that my thoughts have been with you since I heard of Jeffrey's passing. I admired him greatly and he was one of the finest men in Blue that I knew.

Sincerely,

Sandra Alafberg

April 8, 2019

Nellie and family. Love you all Blessings to extended family and friends. Jeffrey will be missed. RIP JefferyPrayers to all.

Anthony & Debra Maddox

April 8, 2019

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Leah Hazard-Robinson

April 8, 2019

To Nellie and family I offer my deepest and sincere condolence for your precious Jeff. Hold tight to the love and dear memories you have for him. R.I.P. Jeff as you watch over your beloved family.

Abdulbabatunde Marvin Pearson

April 8, 2019

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you

Alvin Toney

April 8, 2019

Nellie We are sorry for your loss. Jeff we will miss you cousin. You Worcester Cop You (one of their best).
From
Your Cousin Alvin ( Mass State Police -Retired) and Family

Donald & Sandra Rutherford

April 8, 2019

Our hearts break for Nellie and the Toney family. Our deepest sympathy for your loss.

Brenda Jenkins

April 8, 2019

Nellie and Family, Jeff was a kind hearted respectful young man, always greeted me with a hug. Truly going to miss seeing him in the community. I am praying for your family, asking our Loed and Savior to wrap his arms around you all.

Jocelyn Ekeh-Black

April 8, 2019

Nelly, my deepest condolences to you and your family ! My continued prayers for your peace and comfort through our Lord and savior Jesus Christ!

Willistine Lucas-Sherard

April 8, 2019

Sincere Condolences to the Toney Family! With much love ❤ from Wilson,NC! Ms. Willistine Lucas Sherard and Family! RIP my brother! Thank you for your services!

Bern Krafsig

April 8, 2019

Jeff,
It's going to be really tough for everyone not seeing you Thursday nights. Be at peace.

Bern K

Milton Muller

April 8, 2019

A man is not judged by how much he loves. He is judged by how much he is loved by others.
Jeff, your infectious smile and sense of humor will be missed. You go from us now knowing you were loved. I will miss you my friend.
Crystal, may God be with you in this time of sorrow.

Tom Belezarian (WPD ret

April 8, 2019

RIP Big guy.
You were one of the best. Prayers going out to the family

Fran Benoit

April 8, 2019

My condolences old friend

Len Johnson

April 7, 2019

My condolences to the Toney family, Jeff was always smiling He will be missed, RIP Jeff

Michael Robidoux

April 7, 2019

God Bless, Jeff will be missed by many
Growing up on Lincoln St, I met him in Lincoln village he was a security guard
Always a gentleman rest easy my friend.....god bless WPD

Ronald Benoit

April 7, 2019

My sincere condolences to the family of Jeff, both blood and blue. A great and humble guy as well as a great cop who was taken to soon. Rest in peace Jeff.

Ron Benoit (retired Shrewsbury P.D.)

Norma J Skeene

April 7, 2019

To the Family and Friends, my sincere condolences. I pray the good Lord will comfort you during this time of sorrow. Peace and Blessings to you. Jeff RIP

Ann Berry

April 7, 2019

RIP Jeff, God gained an amazing angel. Lots of great memories back in Lincoln Village my friend. Prayers to the entire Toney family during this difficult time. ❤

Mildred Peace Egale McCowan

April 7, 2019

My heart is truly sadden my brother in blue. Thanking you for your service to the City of Worcester. Thank you for chosen the unselfish deviation to protect the community of Worcester.
I send you Prayer and Smoke that is escorting your Spirit to sit at the the Drum of the Creator.
Prayers of Condolences to your family

Kenny Troy

April 7, 2019

Nellie and family. I am so sorry for the loss of Jeff. May he forever rest in our hearts and memories, and know that our Lord now has him in his arms.

April 7, 2019

Nellie and family. I am sorry about the lost of your son. May he rest in peace in the arms of our Lord.

Lynn Valois

April 7, 2019

Jeff you are such a special person, one who has touched many lives by your gentle and kind ways. God has gained another angel....I know several of our friends were waiting in God's house to greet you. Rest in peace my friend, you will always be remembered.

April 7, 2019

Nellie: My deep condolence for your loss. May Jeff rest in peace and the comfort of the Lord. Ernie Dew

Chad Arcouette

April 7, 2019

Jeff I will miss you. You were a good friend and a great golf partner. I will remember our time together..full of fun and a lot of laughs. You will be greatly missed I hope someday we will meet again.

Fran Whitenett

April 7, 2019

Jeff you will b truly missed you and I went to grammar school togather and weve talked over the years may you Rest In Peace

Jennifer Quinn

April 7, 2019

Jeff you will be deeply missed Im so sorry to the Toney family I havent seen Jeff in sometime but will always remember the good times !! Rip Jeff

April 7, 2019

To the Toney family Im so sorry for your loss Jeff will be deeply missed its been along time since Ive seen him but I remember the good ole days Jeff was always a great person again so sorry RIP Jeff

Nick

April 6, 2019

Jeff, you will be sorely missed. RIP big guy!

Trina, Ed, Lana Parsons

April 6, 2019

So sorry for your loss Crystal, we love you so much. Jeff will be missed so much.

Annie St. Onge

April 6, 2019

Our hearts are broken. Rest in peace my friend. W.P.D.

Chery Charest

April 6, 2019

My deepest sympathies to Crystal and to the Toney Family. I will never forget Jeff's warm smile, kiss on the cheek, big hug and that I love you every time we saw and left each other. For 20 years I was lucky enough to call Jeff my friend. He was truly a gentleman and one of Worcester's finest. I love you my dear friend and thank you for being you! Rest In Peace ❤❤ you will be missed but never forgotten!!

Lynn Rochefort

April 6, 2019

Rest in peace Jeff. You will be missed. S

Ryan Schwab

April 6, 2019

My condolences to Crystal, her family, and Jeffs family. Jeff will be greatly missed.

Brian Benedict

April 6, 2019

Jeff we went to the academy together and worked last half together for many years. You were a great cop and a better friend. I love you brother you will be missed tremendously. Rest easy big man.

Caroline Kittredge

April 6, 2019

Crystal, Im so sorry for your loss..thoughts and prayers to you and the family. May he Rest in Peace

Cheryl DiBenedetto

April 6, 2019

So, so sorry for your loss, sending strength and prayers to the whole family. God now has an amazing angel. Jeff, we shared so many great memories, we will and already do miss you so much. Such a beautiful person inside and out! RIP my friend

Eternal Friendship Remembrance Bouquet - VASE INCLUDED

Cheryl DiBenedetto

Sent Flowers

Timothy Schwab

April 6, 2019

Great neighbor and an even better man.

Exceedingly generous, Jeff was always happy to lend a helping hand without expecting anything in return. His jovial spirit and fun parties really brightened the neighborhood. He will be missed dearly.

Worcester Telegram & Gazette

Posted events

April 5, 2019

Apr

14

Calling hours

3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Mercadante Funeral Home & Chapel - Worcester

370 Plantation Street, Worcester, MA 01605

Apr

15

Funeral service

10:00 a.m.

Belmont AME Zion Church

55 Illinois St., Worcester, MA

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